₦airaland Forum

I will advise you leave the country

I am a professional; in the top decile of Nigerian earners and yet I am planning my own exit from the country

Some things are bigger than just looking at the surface
Over the course of my career; I have seen the purchasing power of our supposed earnings diminish in value overtime

Case in point; in times past; there is. Lot you could do as an ABO grade banker then
Try am today make we see how far

Decent schools are gradually getting out of reach
Poor people are getting more and more around us
The list goes on and on

Anyways it's your choice to make
Being a have in the midst of many have nots around me is messing me up and I have to leave

nedekid:
My brother, na God save person.
Never as a married man, have a "relationship" with any woman, especially to the extent of poking raw.
As a family man, better to have 10 side chicks or even go meet olosho. Poke with protection and waka. No attachments. Give money or whatever.
But to say you have 1 steady gf leads to desaster.
Those our parents and friends that have second families, kids outside etc, do you think they planned it? No.
Na small small e de start.

I'm not a fan of extra marital playing sha

nedekid:
All is still mistake sha.
When you plan fling, but persin throat hook there.
My paddy sef, it was God that saved him when one hooked him for close to 5 years.

Wow
5 yrs?

SultanOfPuna:
Yoruba men love Igbo women so much
They fantasize about fine Igbo Angels. Igbo girls beauty is extraordinary.

No be juju...
Her husband see better fine Igbo woman wey Sabi cook sweet food come get sweet pussy join.

Yoruba women need to level up
No be juju.. igbo women are goddesses

Another yeye comment

AuschwitzPrefec:
Heebo women are meant strictly for recreational purposes only.

Another ret@rded comment

Omoawoke2:
Igbo women are easy to get, na them dey do olosho pass. It doesn’t matter if the man looks like an ape, or has 20 wives and old enough to be their grandfather. As long as there is money, they will spread their legs to collect.
Most side chicks are always igbos because hardly will you find a well trained Omoluabi yoruba girl agree to become a side chick to a married man

Be deceiving yourself there
Female nature is female nature
When they see a rich man
They lose all sensibilities

No ethnic group is a saint in this respect

MrFly:
there are many ways to kill a bird. we need a coup in Nigeria but our army na shit. bunch of corrupt officials

We don't need any coup

Jman06:
FYI, I'm Igbo but the long-throatedness of our ladies is nauseating to say the least.

It's more of individual character and choices
Than the ethnic group

Jman06:
That serves the long-throated Igbo lady right!

I love the way she is being humiliated in this matter. After all the years of training as a lawyer she ended up being a sidechick to a married man instead of making a name for herself in the law profession.

Shame!!!

You just had to add the "Igbo lady" suffix to your post.

Mountbatten:
Simp Pro Max

And how is that your problems

Basiljoe:
Doesn't change the fact, she'll do it again.

She may
She may not
That one is under probability

Basiljoe:
"If your wife bangs another guy and you take her back, you're the cuckold, and you rewarded her for it. You've just confirmed for her hindbrain that she married an optionless Beta and a lifetime of self-affirming rationalizations about masculinity wont change that fact." - RM

Another small pikin talk

Did it occur to you that maybe the husband forgave because he did not want his kids to grow up in a broken down situation?.

In real life men forgive their wives ALL THE TIME (especially if the act is not common knowledge) for the sake of their kids a d to keep appearances.


What if I told you that in the last place I worked (a big organisation)....
The wife of the owner of the company (someone you prolly know on the screen). Cheated and the husband codedly forgave her and life continues

It's on the net I hear people say they no go forgive their spouse for careless waka

Adaisback:
don't mind him. He doesn't know that today's wives are more crazier than side chicks

He has no ideaaaa

gfelo:
Me and you who be small pikin now, after heavy nacking in the night some women wont have strength to do daily activities the next day, may be you have not nack a woman to that extend b4.

I no call you small pikin

I talk say the talk na small pikin talk
There is a difference

That said
Like I said; no matter how much you pulverize a woman
She will be okay

gfelo:
Men cheat to reserve their wives kpekus, you cont imagine men to nack their wife like the nack side chick's, I think men cheating should be given consideration.

Small pikin talk

No matter how you rough handle "kpekus"
It will always snap back

This is an organ that human heads pass through
That's what you wanna use a six inches rod to "scatter"?

DodadaKoKigbe:
Igbos supporting coups since the first coup in Nigeria by Igbos.

See the mo.ron

sarkinbauchi:
Andrew Livers salt marriages.
From one party to another.
They're probably Peter Obi's disciples

What does this have to do with Peter Obi now?

Make una get sense for once naw

UnfairLife7:
Those osu pigs are known to be business oriented people. Na your people go suffer pass. Your people are on queue at Emeka shop begging him to rice for them on credit. The fact that Yoruba man is the president will not make your life or those of your brothers better.

Your last statement is what most people don't get....


E go clear for eye soon

Beremx:
if she didn't make the decision because of Nigeria, why then did she mention only Nigeria for their reason to pay the players directly?
Helinues, stop exhibiting daftness with emotions on nairaland

Don't mind him/her

helinues:
Yeah, the decision was made specifically because of Nigeria. News that came out before the world.

This op is soaked with concentrated hatred for his own country

Go and sleep abeg

It's not considered normal.....

BOSSkesh:
All this court stuff is just formality
Obi and atiku both know they can never win
So they are both looking for back door entrance into aso rock

What is this one saying now ?

Offpointng:
Nigerians should not give NLC the opportunity to plunge this country into anarchy like what we've got in the SE. 1 trillion has been saved from Fuel subsidy, why not let us give Tinubu time to manifest bfr protest will be considered??

We can't afford to put this country into a state of anarchy and shift it into being stagnant like what is currently happening in the SE. Yoruba Ronu, Hausa Tunani and let's leave these enemies of state who wants sit at home nationwide by all means with their protest

What is this one saying ?

tsdarkside:
lets make something very clear....jubilatin coupits in niger and others will have consequencies for ecowas....

dont forget nigerian military that is the strongest in west africa....
go temptin nigerian military with coup is a very bad idea....

you igbos should thread very carefuly what you are wishin for....

"You Igbos"

Another mo.ron

Godwin4444:
so because Yoruba man is in power u igbos want coup again right?

When u repeat d mistake of 1960 n u are dealt with u will start tagging nfa

Igbos who once called our country a blessed country before election are now wishing us bad cos they lost election

When they were shouting “e go shock u” before election many of us didn’t know d meaning until they lost election n immediately started wishing bad on us

True true e shock me ooo

Imagine many of them saying Russia should team up with Niger n finish Nigeria

This is a silly talk
"Because Yoruba man is in power"

As much as we are against coup in Nigeria; s it will be counter productive; painting it as a Yoruba man vs Igbo man thing is mischievous and silly

mrvitalis:
Blame leaders who can't obey simple rule of law

Coup only happens when the president is unpopular and refuse to step aside simple

U can't use coup to remove a popular president

True that

You know this country is destined for DOON the moment every single topic always degenerate into ethnic mudslinging

lordchiz:
With 250k dollars?
Haba ogaa.....Na you go even employ white guys out there!
Even u fit run restaurant matters with better employees.....Barbing saloon there Na better money....buy one uber ride there.....change go remain!.....
Still dey run your remote job!
Guy u will be made for life even out there.....
U no go remember say u come from Nigeria!
Very useless Nigeria!
When I dey sleep ..I see Japa....wen I dey eat , I still see Japa....even if I dey toilet, my thinking is Japa.....Japa is all I care!
Nothing but Japa!
I repeat, Nothing but Japa oooooooo....
I just collected my passport for a start....
Make I begin find money small small so I fit leave!

That's cool
But please please and please

Just focus on stacking up paper
Opening a dorm acct to be saving to protect from devaluation

Stay focused and avoid agents by all means

IbeOkehie:
Truth is most Nigerians like to be rich in an environment where there's lots of poor & desperate people, whereas Anglo-Saxons tend to be expansive in their definition of the good life.

What the anti-Japa team is trying to say is that with $3K per month they can inflict a copious dose of physical & psychological sadism on other humans with whom they interact in Nigeria. That's the typical Nigerian mindset, they love to INFLICT suffering on others and watch the results. Why else is Nigeria in perpetual crisis?

Good Luck to Nigerians!

Well said once again

IbeOkehie:
I'd rather be a restaurant cook in the Anglo-West than live in Nigeria on $3K/month...that is not a big salary in the global scheme of things but in Nigeria it ALSO comes with a big load of TROUBLE. No more than 0.05% of Nigerian workers earn that amount. That means the OP is going to be miserable from the desperate & aggressive BEGGING and attempts of FRAUD that will be directed at him everyday...worst of all from close relatives and friends. I know I've discussed this in my earlier commentary.

Middle class earners can testify to the abuse they get on Nigerian roads everyday, especially in Lagos. Ever been driving and some ruffians will just bang on your car and curse you for no reason? It happens a lot in Nigeria. It's the rage of poverty. It diminishes your quality of life.

And what kind of place can you rent for 2 million/yr in a big city in Nigeria? Again, for the same quality, you can get it cheaper in any Anglo-Saxon country!

Storing grains as an investment for ROI? Why would anyone want to dabble in all that just to assure financial stability? And INFLATION will still wipe out the gains. And you didn't say anything about the new National Commodity Board..... Hope you know government policy will be to stop excessive profits just like they did to fuel marketers with subsidy?

Then there's news just hitting the wires this morning that MONEY SUPPLY in Nigeria set an all time record in June, this past month. I hope we all know what that means for the future?

In short, Nigeria is too RISKY, the risk premium is too high. Nobody ever lost anything betting against Nigeria.

Good Luck to Nigerians!

Well said

grandstar:
You're definitely correct about the lot of many first generation nigerian families in the UK.

However, their children who were born in the UK are far more likely to succeed. Many look down on the jobs their parents grabbed with both hands.

EXACTLY 💯

The kids are British/Americans/Canadians and are better positioned to succeed out there than their counterparts who did coconut heads and had their kids in Nigeria

It's the FACT

maasoap:
The way Nigerians at home glorify this japa of a thing, even those in abroad dare not give them contrary advice to think twice before leaping. 90% of Nigerian youth population is obsessed with japa.

When the country is being wrecked by fools in power

Will u blame them for running away ?