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chioma134:

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This was exactly the same thing going through my head, the type of people calling themselves Born again these days is shocking.
This is what Christianity has become, it has been very diluted.
Someone that should bury her head in shame and cry out for forgiveness, someone still keeping in contact with the same person she committed emotional adultery with is still proud to seat on the throne of advise.

I bet she is a "women leader" in church teaching young women.
Such a terrible and sad thing to read, that a wife and a mother can become so loose as to make themselves vulnerable to this point highlights how weak this person is spiritually.

As a born again person, your spiritual antenna ought to be able to spot these kind of things from a yard away.

Reminds me of a particular white girl in my church, I knew she loved me and I always avoided her, we were put in a group together and she eventually got my phone number, that was when the stalking began. But having a pre-knowledge of her intentions I already knew how to handle it.

By the way I am single, so I wonder when married people who claim to be christians and have loving families behave like goats on heat without self control.

It is a shame... spits

This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.

My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.

I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.

He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.

Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.

I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings.

If Jesus didn't condemn the adulterous woman then who am I to condemn you. Even though you didn't go physical with him, it's still wrong. We are human. I'm glad you realised on time to set boundary. Otherwise, you would've destroyed your marriage. Your husband should be your best friend and not the other way round.

Nigeria don finally cast. You are battling with insecurity and yet you have money to throw around probably for your political gain. Well, I don't blame the governor. I blame the gullible masses for allowing these politicians use them and catch cruise.

Zamfara Sate Governor, Bello Mohammed Matawalle, has distributed 260 cars including Cadillac to the traditional rulers in the state.

The distribution was done by the Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Sa’ad Abubakar III, at Government House, Gusau on Wednesday.

The Sultan expressed gratitude to Matawalle for his interest in the welfare of the traditional institution, which he said still remains the thread that holds society together.



He also called on the beneficiaries of the gesture to continue supporting the administration of Governor Matawalle by rendering their best in ending the challenges facing the people.



Matawalle said the gesture was done in recognition of the status of the traditional institution as the custodians of religion and culture and vehicle of cohesion and peace in societies.

“It is in view of the high esteem with which my administration regards our traditional leaders and institutions that we decided to procure brand new cars, Cadillac 2019 Model, for 17 Emirs, 13 Senior District Heads and 230 District Heads across the State," the Governor said.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/4/governor-matawalle-buys-brand-new-expensive-cars-cadillac-for-260-zamfara-traditional-rulers.html

Smokeysacks:
Do we have staffs of MOUAU and ABU on this platform ..pls if d are here let them help us confirm if the have been paid 4 march...thanks

I've not seen anything. The few friends I called said the same thing.

kay0195:
Alerts have started coming in MOUAU, ABU ecobank, gtb, microfinance

But still go find side hustles ooo cos we aren't guaranteed next month yet. Ngige dey on our matter and from d look of things ssanu might likely extend their strike aswell

I guess the alert was for non teaching staff. Some academic staff from MOUAU are yet to be paid. Let's still be hopeful. Thanks for the news.

otokx:
This will make the strike stronger and lead to a faster resolution hopefully.

I hope so.

Yenefer:
maybe what? Nobody knows what da fck is going on, but whatever it's SSANU and NAAT worked for 27 days. That arrogant IPOB terrorists ngege or ngige or whatever the fck his name, is hell bend on destroying Buhari's government. Fcking lowlife cocaine addict

May be SSANU, NASU, NAAT and ASUU will not be paid for the month of March. If you take your time to go through the link, you should know that the Minister was referring to all the unions.

Yenefer:
including SSANU

From the link I shared earlier, may be.

Smokeysacks:
Has fg enforced no work no pay?

May be.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/fed-govt-invokes-no-work-no-pay-as-unions-ground-varsities/amp/

The Federal Government has restated its threat not to pay any of its employees on strike or absent from duty post without due authorisation.

This followed the commencement of a two-week warning strike by the Senior Staff Association of Nigerian Universities (SSANU) and the Non-Academic Staff Union of Educational and Associated Institutions (NASU) today.

With the warning strike by SSANU and NASU, activities in the nation’s public universities have been fully grounded. The Academic Staff Union of Universities and National Association of Academic Technologists (NAAT) are already on strike over Federal Government’s failure to implement agreements with them..

Minister of Labour and Employment, Sen Chris Ngige, told The Nation last night the government had decided to apply the “No-work, No Pay” policy in compliance with Section 43 of the Labour Law.

Ngige said that the actions of the unions amounted to “false leave” and a declaration of forced holidays for students. He reminded the members that the government was not “Father Xmas.”

His words: “Anybody on strike now will not be paid in consonance with Section 43.

“What they (unions) are doing is false leave; they are forcing their employers to close down some of their universities and declare holiday for students because of that.

“So if you do that, you will not be paid. Government is not Father Christmas where you are not working and you will be paid.”

SSANU and NASU had in a joint statement yesterday announced the commencement of the warning strike, saying “no concession should be given in any guise.”

General-Secretary of NASU, Peters Adeyemi, and National President of SSANU, Mohammed Ibrahim, directed the branch chairmen to ensure that the work boycott was ”comprehensive and total.”

They referred to a letter addressed to Ngige in which they accused the government of failing to respond to its demands as of the time they issued the statement.

The statement reads: “Please refer to our letter with ref. No. JAC/NS/VOL.II/192 dated 16th March 2022 addressed to the Minister of Labour and Employment titled: “Re: looming industrial action and notice of warning strike.

“Having waited so long, this is to inform you that the government has not responded nor reacted to our demands as at this moment.

“In view of the nonchalant attitude of the government to our demands, this is to direct our members in all universities and Inter-university centres throughout the country to commence a two-week warning strike by midnight of Sunday, 27th March 2022, in the first instance as earlier conveyed to the Federal Government in our letter.

“Please note that the two weeks warning strike should be comprehensive and total as no concession should be given in any guise.

“Your strict compliance and adherence to this directive is mandatory for all branches of NASU and SSANU in the universities and inter-university centres.”

Some of the complaints of the unions are inconsistencies in IPPIS payment, non-payment of Earned Allowances, delay in the renegotiation of FGN/NASU and SSANU agreement, non-payment of arrears of national minimum wage and usurpation of the headship of non-teaching Units.

Others are neglect and poor funding of state universities, non-payment of retirement benefits to outgoing members, and non-constitution of visitation panels to universities.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/fed-govt-invokes-no-work-no-pay-as-unions-ground-varsities/amp/

With .cn extension, its obvious this fake news is from China.

uniquelyspecial:
You want me to tell you the sad news?

If you have vital information concerning the delay in salary, go ahead and spill it. No matter how bitter it's, we will stomach it.

kay0195:
We shall survive. Tomorrow nor far again

What's the guarantee that university staff will be paid?

Will Smith kids

Theoseun:
Please i bought two domains from dynadot yesterday and ED still show the domains available
Hope its not an issue

It's normal. It will later change from available to registered. Provided the domain is already in your dynadot, you shouldn't worry yourself. If you are still in doubt search for the name on the whois.

flejnr2:
states have not paid too

I heard Anambra state government has paid her workers.

flejnr2:
yes he is your choosen one

Ok

Is Ogbonnaya Onu the chosen one?

How can the same software you had earlier given 85% fail integrity test?

Werey

AntiAPC2023:
FAAC shared 590 billion

FAAC: FG, States, LG Share N695bn For February
Source: channels TV, Vanguard

ImmaculateJOE:
Dave Umahi failed to strike a balance between Physical infrastructure and Human Capital.

No salary increment,
No promotion
No recruitment
No minimum wage.. And you want to lead Nigeria.

Well said!

After so many years of protest and appeal, the Ebonyi State Governor, David Umahi, has finally approved the promotion of civil servants for the year 2019, 2020 and 2021.

The news which was made public by the honourable commissioner for information and orientation, Orji Uchenna, was shared on Facebook by the Special Assistant to the governor on media and publicity, Nweze Francis.

In the announcement, he also stated that "His Excellency the Governor has also approved the payment of Pension to all Pensioners in the State with effect from 22nd March, 2022"

This approval is coming few days after the Governor alongside his deputy were dismissed by the Federal High Court over his defection to APC from PDP.

Some Ebonyians have gone online to express shock over the governor's sudden change over the welfare of workers.

Their surprise is hinged on ground that since his emergence as governor of the state, there was an immediate embargo on promotion and recruitment in the state.

https://mbasic.facebook.com/francisnwaze1?v=timeline&lst=1514090390%3A100054156231218%3A1647900424

30% of the world's wheat flour comes from both country. Egypt for instance relies so much on Russia for their flour. With the ongoing war coupled with the fear of disruption food supplies globally countries such as Algeria and Egypt have banned temporarily export of some commodities such as sugar.

Down here in Nigeria, most of our refined oil are imported. With the rise in crude oil prices its both a blessing and a curse to us. Right now the price of diesel has increased. Unfortunately, we rely so much on diesel to power our industries. These inadvertently will be transferred to the consumers. You must have read that those in bakery industry are planning to shutdown.

MangekyoAlt:
Russia's debt is actually smaller than I expected. Meanwhile USA's external debt is bigger than their entire GDP. 20.94 trillion USD to 30 trillion USD debt
Imagine say na USA receive these sanctions wey russia receive. There would've been no hope for their stupid asses

Their debt is in billions. What you saw there was the interest.

2sexycom:
Create New Card and start buying domain names

Thank you for the information. Please what's their exchange rate?

jamih:
Try change the subject, the body, and resend.

Thank you!

Promxy94:
I won't have replied, if not for the fact, that you quoted my post.

First of all, i acknowledge what ever everyone believes in, therefore i don't see the reason why you should not acknowledge what ever i believe in.

Secondly am sure that nobody here who is closed to me, or who has approached me one way or the other in a reasonable manner,have i denied him or her reasonable response as regarding this business, under the disguise of Grace.

I have made my own little efforts, and contribution to this domain thread, that many of you haven't done. I usually give out and have given out domains here, sourced by me and freely registered by me, and that has enabled one, two or more persons earn a sale, which they have also reported here. Facts don't lie. And i know i will do more, and acknowledged that many people has also done same.


Always try to Respect someone's decision, and don't tend or try to Antagonise someone in any way. If my ways don't please you, you relax, follow those people that their ways are pleasing to thy sight.


Please i beg you and everyone.

Regards....

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iCauseTrouble:
This man dey beg me make I give am domain? I be like father Christmas for him eye?
He got my contact from whois

Was your whois in public mode?

iCauseTrouble:
This man dey beg me make I give am domain? I be like father Christmas for him eye?
He got my contact from whois

I don't mind giving out the domain but at cost. That will be my reply to the email. His response will determine my next line of action.