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Bolustical:
Yes, I am of the opinion that the President should resign based on his failing health as there other capable hands to succeed him, that is where the real change comes from.

I would want him to rest based on principles and not emotions,

But is it not ironical that most of the same people calling for his resignation are the same people who kept mute when SULLIVAN CHIME their son, was out of the country treating a cancer related sickness for over 5 months abroad? Same thing for Danbaba Suntai! I am so sure if the current President were their kinsman or GEJ, they would tell him to continue since Yar'adua did the same,

Yes, for me, PMB should resign out of principle and morality but not because of hatred.

My brother, you are right.

adedayo3193:
Oga shut up, Messi scored two goals and Rakuten scored 1 laliga return leg

You can still correct me without using insultive words. Yeah, I might be wrong but you are not also not correct when you said Messi scored two goals. It's not true

wristbangle:
The last el classico not the pre season own. Even the last pre season, neymar did not score. You should go Google your fact abeg

I'm sorry about that. Correction noted!

wristbangle:
Wrong! He wasn't in the el classico match when barca won 3-2 to Madrid at bernebeu

Neymar scored the first goal in that match. Google it!

opalu:
Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women? The impact on generation next?


_There's always two sides of the coin. But as Kingdom Oriented People, we must live to make The Different and Raise A Godly Family Example_

*It's our calling n responsibility as Godly Parents!*

Permit me to share?

ebukahandsome:
Rakuten?
Is that a name of a perfume or insecticide

I hope this has answered your questions?

I'm not in any way in support of domestic violence. However, how come it's always a particular eye that gets battered each time the issue of domestic violence crops up.

Papiikush:
Maybe the poor fella has been asking the "Where is my daddy" question. She decided to dress like daddy to pick him up for father's day.

Kids are always the victims of marriage crisis this is why you have to be very careful not to end up with hoes or ex hoes

Yesooo. You need to be careful, so you don't end up with gigolos or ex gigolos

oluwasegun400:
This is a viral video of two kids engaged in a street boxing bout in Abeokuta, Ogun State with older kids and adults cheering them on.


According to the Facebook user who shared the video, the kid in the blue vest is nicknamed Floyd Mayweather Jr. while the kid in the Bright Turquoise vest is Manny Pacquiao. Where are their parents? Isn't this child abuse?

Watch the video after the cut...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oI6xl-MaYQ


Source: http://www.flexygist.com.ng/2017/06/13/see-this-viral-video-of-two-children-in-a-boxing-match-while-adults-cheer-on/

Catch them young. Future badoo

Na wao! No b only private jet go full this wedding but space rocket too.

Igboblog:
Pls bear in mind that Davi Umahi was Part of last administration, and if you think that last administration failed, that means he equally failed. The Gov has no right to criticize last administration because he was fully part of the administration.

Here are the pictures of the Journalist that got beaten yesterday.

Uncleodi:
Don't you think that the information is a big propaganda from people that feel they are not getting stomach infrastructure from the government ?

Ask ur self one thing! With the very low federal allocation and seemingly petite IGR, the Ebonyi State government pays salaries on or before 20th of every month consistently since inception and yet meaningful projects are going on simultaneously...yet, his government is greatly criticized!

Have u asked ur self what is happening with other sister states in Nigeria? Let's not go there now.

Believe u me if the governor has the kind of money at the disposal of the previous regime(s), he would be possibly doing better than he is doing now.

Pls, let's be patient with the government.

With God, it shall be well.

So, you think these pictures are Propaganda too?

[quote author=pocohantas post=56069676]A man is the head of the family, as said in the bible...but what if she isn't a christian?
Some people will come here to blast her.
She is even better than some of you.

The hypocrisy in Nigeria is something else, men will quickly see the part of the bible instructing women to be submissive, but they don't see the "thou shalt not fornicate". They tell lies, backbite, steal, sleep with their neighbour's wife, but want to be the head.

I saw a thread of some porh Well said my dear. He who seeks for equity must come with clean hands.

Jodha:
While at it... Just know that South South.. We're not part of yhu guys...

We want our own "Nigerdelta Republic"... We just dey look una...

Lead the way.. We'll follow suit..

You guys can go ahead with the Niger Delta republic. We okay with the five states in South East.

What kind of foot wear be this?

olisafincy:
Whats your comment guys

Lovely!

santos876:
See as em position like person way dem they force smile

Are you this insensitive? Can't you see that he is very sick? Get well Julius!

Upon all this my waka waka, how come it's only EFCC that keeps uncovering money here and there.

BlowBack:
In my area you can't bypass the meter as it is rigged on the electric pole.

The disco also carried out routine checks an if you are caught bypassing (if that is even possible) you will be slammed with a hefty fine.

Bypassing the prepaid meter is not easy and definitely not worth it

What does it mean to bypass the meter?

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Oxtonguy:
Excluding your transport fare, and upkeep the gate fee is #500 only.

Thanks

Oxtonguy:
Agodi gardens

Lovely! Pls, how much can one budget for a trip of this nature?

Op, this is beautiful! How much does it cost?

Yesooo! Driving without 'deliverance' is not allowed.

marshborn:
So you would rather worship a god which was imposed on you by the white man? Okay weh done

You even get time to be replying him.

Harmattan dey for Saraki's office?

babyfaceafrica:
Who cares!!

NFCS does