₦airaland Forum

A confirmation that Nairalanders range from 13 - 17 years of age.

Flows001:
Admin please push this to front page.

My first post on nairaland, so please pardon any error.

Good morning everyone, so let me just go straight to the point.

My elder sister has been dating this guy for more than a year now, she became pregnant months into the relationship and he begged her to keep the child, that he was going to marry her.
So she did and about two months ago, she gave birth to a boy.
Just like he said, he started making moves to marry her, she took him to see my uncle (because our dad is late), alongside with one of his brothers, they also went to see some of my aunties; as well as my Mum. So basically everyone knows them together in our extended family, as well as the street where my sister stays (she resides in Enugu State), because he usually goes to spend time with her and I must admit that he has been really nice to her and made sure she has been comfortable and never lacked anything.
Along the line, my sister started suspecting that this her husband to be has been avoiding picking up strange numbers calling him, she asked him but he told her not to worry.
Fast forward to earlier this week, she stumbled upon a text he received from one unsaved number, the text was begging him to allow the sender to atleast come visit him, apparently; this same guy was already married before and already had two grown children before he left the marriage for reasons which she didn't tell me, so his children have been making efforts to reach their father as their mother went to dump them with his brothers and went her way..

When my sister confronted him, he had to open up to her and apologised, stating that he wanted to start another life and couldn't tell her from the beginning because he didn't want to lose her..

Now my sister is in a dilemma, their traditional marriage was scheduled to hold by the end of this year and he has already started making efforts to officially pay her bride price.
Her two options are:
1. Leave him and become a single mother at this young age (she's a student of NOUN and does business which he supported her to expand).
2. Stay with him and accommodate the children from his former wife (which can be traumatising for her).

Please advice 🙏🙏🙏

Last last, na she go make final decision. Leave her to do it with a clear head.

If my opinion means anything, I’ll advice she settles down with the man. Adult children have nothing to gain from her. All they need is his love and they’d be off on their way.

holluwai:
Lol... I don't know you too!

Neither does he know Portia.

Marriage silenced one while the other became a BBW. That girl you lust for today will one day become used goods. Focus on bettering your life as a human being.

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Ignorance has overtaken this forum. No different from the country it serves.

Burna boy is overhyped, but he is still a solid artiste. His quality hasn’t changed from his days of trying to make money off mixtapes till the present. Many others simplified their music because the average Nigerian doesn’t care for lyrics. He remains on the top of the food chain.

DCEU movies I cared for were; Man Of Steel, Suicide Squad and Aquaman — which I considered safe but enjoyable. The Suicide Squad wasn’t bad and The Batman was a perfect movie. Everything else should have remained on the cutting room floor.

That is a West African female. Fake news.

If she is successful in her country, she doesn’t need any more recognition. We’re in the Afrobeats era where international acts beg ours for collabs. Her husband is getting featured by African American artists. It’s possible she chooses to shy away from them.

Another day in the jungle.

Who are “our?” Hopefully this will be the last we hear of her. Next thing you know, news will surface of her being a politician’s sugar baby. Another thing which may happen is her being a contestant on BBNaija 2024.

DodadaKoKigbe:
I know you serve the palestinian god yahweh, jehovah and his useless son jesus.

I serve the living God Eledumare.

Good. Now, sin no more.

DodadaKoKigbe:
Your god looks like the white man who colonized and enslaved you?

Which god do you serve?

DodadaKoKigbe:
God gave English to you? Or your white slave masters beat it into your f00lish skulls.

The God we serve looks like them. God gave us English.

DodadaKoKigbe:
I really don't know why you f00lish Africans elevate this English language as if it was God that gave it to you. You even prefer it to your own original languages that are far deeper and richer than any European or Arabic language. Africans are really f00lish people.

God gave it to us. The Bible never described Jesus as African.

One; break the question down for the contestant. The colonizer’s language is her second lingua. Two; she’s pretty. She doesn’t need broad knowledge to succeed in life.

EBMedia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tagJbPWIkJE

The Moment A Female Contestant Repeatedly Failed To Answer A Simple Question In English (Video)

Bia, I no know if them use 240p video swear for you. I will never watch any of your posts again.

Next time a Nairalander rains insults on you because their meds ran out, take a look at what the person looks like. See the bedroom walls without paint and the decrepit bed he sleeps on. No sign of a wardrobe because of the room’s chicken coop measurements. Sleep well because their words are as empty as their existence on earth.

One cannot stay a champion for too long in a competitive market. Face your business, OP. Why aren’t you dragging wealth with Dangote?

This is why people have multiple children.

Maybe in South Africa. That’s not how it sounds on my phone.

She’s a YouTuber. Maybe she chose to capitalize on the voice. I’m surprised most of her videos don’t make front page in this rubbish heap.

Since that time? MTN already employed the service eight months ago.

maasoap:
And you think it is modern to teach your kids how to touch their genitals and give mouth action instead of teaching them how to protect themselves from pedophiles?
You think it is cool to polute the minds of your kids with sexual perversion instead of giving them sex education?
You think it is cool to confuse your kids with gender and sex orientation?
We know your type, typical asslicker

Remain in your cage.

Africans, remain in your cages. All the white man is doing is educating his people. Keep hiding everything from each other and wondering why the world left you in the dark.