₦airaland Forum

Chigold101:
amokeme i am not in support of a man slapping any woman at all but you how do feel when someone shouts at you? Answer me

Did I say anything about it being okay to yell at your partner? My point is, raising my voice at my husband should not give him the right to slap me.

Pls don't misinterpret me.

ROSSIKE:
Do you know you can set up a restaurant that serves this menu? And make a killing? Just give it a bold name, give it swag, proper advertising etc, and spruce up the dishes one way or another, (maybe add complimentary sides like spicy meat/fish etc) and you're made. I GUARANTEE YOU THAT. In the US they have a restaurant chain called IHOP (International House of Pancakes). Their dishes center around pancakes of various types, plus menu options like omelettes etc. They make a roaring trade!! It's all about identifying with, and catering to, the grassroots. In Nigeria - long fixated on foreign ideas - the market for indigenously creative businesses like this is huge and largely untapped.

Why would I want to pay someone to mix garri for me when I can buy a sack and drink it anytime in my house at a significantly lower cost. The most I can do is buy their meat/moi-moi. Drinking garri in a restaurant and in your house can never be the same. Even if na d same garri from my house dem carry go restaurant, ko le dabi.

adeyiga3:
When u shud ve been readn u were busy flauntn ur boobs and ass shaggn the suga papi. Anyways killn ursef is not d end at least Bill Gate was a sch dropout na but u still graduated

Did you read the post?

njuwo:
1. Don't shout on him and not expect a slap, he is the man of the house.
2. Don't deny him sex and expect him to be faithful, if he can't get it from you, he would search somewhere else.
3. If you don't cook for him. "They" would and that's a fact.
4. Don't leave his house cause he had offended you or cheated on you. "They" would pack in.
6. If you don't contribute financially, don't expect to be respected, you will need more than one trick.

So raising my voice at my husband demands a slap from him simply because he is the man of the house?

Financial contribution should not be a prerequisite for respect.

Doesn't make any sense to me. The husband was well aware of all the things he complained about. He agreed when she said she wanted to do business. All of a sudden, he wants her to get a BA. He met her when she wasn't "trendy" but married her like that. Now, she is not good enough to be by his side.


Don't go into a marriage thinking you'll change your spouse. What you see now is what you'll get after. It is possible for people to change etc but don't bank on it.

babyosisi:
What I described cuts across the whole of Nigeria ,I couldn't be bothered by those who deny it.

I agree that it does.

Those criticizing the OP are guilty of the same thing they accuse her of doing. The fact that you, as a doctor, are different from the "typical" Nigerian doctor described or have worked in a hospital different from what was described does not mean that every doctor/hospital in the 36 states across the country is the same as you/yours. You can only speak for yourself, your colleagues, and where you work/have worked.

You can't speak on behalf of all doctors in Nigeria just because you all have an "oath" or went through the same system etc. That doesn't mean jack squat. Are all doctors supposed to abide by their code of ethics etc and practice according to the books? Yes. Do all of them do that? No. The reasons have already been listed in previous posts.

I was talking to a friend who was a medical doctor in Nigeria about DJDOLA's case and he kept on yelling and disagreeing with me that it was impossible for the hospital to not diagnose the sickness for that long. He didn't know the details and I shared what I gathered from here with him but he vehemently refused like he was even there with the doctors in Nigeria. According to him, there is a certain code that all doctors have to abide by and all. We need to open our eyes and face reality not the ideal. Let us accept that the system is broken. It is still running but definitely not in the most efficient/effective way.

Bushdoc has been quite fair in his comments though. He recognizes the shortcomings of the system.

Btw, the OP's post might have come off as condescending etc but that should be the least of our worries right now. It is a generalization of the whole Nigerian health sector but it goes to show that something is wrong because what she has described is common in many places. Glean the important points from the post.

forgiveness:
You are right, and thanks for the correction.

No worries!

Tbamo:
Don't mind him oh he forgot ibadan ' realest' school!

Abi? how can you mention schools in Ibadan and not mention ISI? D list neva complete be dat. (even tho na past glory d school dey take shine now )

[quote author=forgiveness post=31375206][/quote]It's called The International School, Ibadan (ISI). Ibadan International School (IIS) is different.

IYANGBALI:
which ISI?na old glory dem still dey use jo

I can't even dispute that.

Biko OP, add ISI to your list of schools. If you're going to add BIS/BIC, then you need to include ISI.

oh wow! I can't imagine crocheting those items! I only do scarves I attempted a hat once and I got lazy.

what nonsense tube?

Bobbysworld28:
Since Jan 31st.
Stale news
Update pls

He's still missing.

Raiders:
I agree with you that 2 months is a long time to woo a girl. This is why I decided to end our friendship and told her to stop calling and texting her. I think it takes a girl less than a day to decide if they would date a guy or not but some girls just like playing hard to get.

I'm glad you think. You clearly don't know.

the poor child in that tux tho

vjsmiles:
GREED FOR MONEY WONT ALLOW GIRLS STAY ONE PLACE...
THOSE PEOPLE THAT ARE PROMISING EUROPE WHY ARENT THERE?
A PERSON WOULD JUST COME AND ASK YOU TO FOLLOW HIM/HER TO B/FASO AND YOU FOLLOW..
SHAA USE OF JUJU IS ALLOWED

Greed for money or hope for a better future? You might know better but not every does. Many of them are ignorant and too trusting unfortunately. If you are living in abject poverty and someone come to tell you that they can change your life etc, you might be too tempted to follow them unless you've heard of such scams before or know people that have fallen victim.

Don't blame the girl or the girls.

edwife:
This is the explanation given but still strange.

[img]http://2.bp..com/-nGGE02fc0t8/VPAjoNJE0lI/AAAAAAABsqQ/DcppbewAZ3k/s1600/IMG_20150227_064702.jpg[/img]

So me that I see both blue/black and white/gold nko? I'm center-brained?

homesteady:
I just saw this right now -

That's not true. The dress is blue and black.

I see both blue/black and white/gold. A friend says she sees blue and gold lol

Haha also created the same thread. I see both blue and black & white and gold.

What color is this dress?

gen2briz:
Please try and read the content of the thread before performing your paid per post job.

lol. me sef tire.

*Facepalm!* Next!

Una no tire for dis matter? Shooo!

spott:
One of the 21 million. Crazy FOOL!

GMB giving PDP sleepless nights since 1800BC

Sai Buhari Jare!

Did he go to debate or give a talk?

There's a big difference between the two. In any case, there is no need to further state any view or opinion on the matter. No one wants to hear it.

ndcide:
TOO LATE. THIS STUNT IS DEAD ON ARRIVAL.

WHAT ABOUT THE TOLL GATE WILL HE APOLOGIZE FOR THE ATTACKS DURING THE PROTEST OR IS HE GOING TO REFUND THE ILLEGAL TOLL FEE?

WE HAVE MADE UP OUR MIND TO KILL THE PRESENT POLITICAL DYNASTY HOLDING LAGOS IN BONDAGE.

Nigerians have made up their minds to kill the present political dynasty holding Nigeria in bondage.

Irrelevant pictures and news.

How does this add or remove from the GMB/PYO campaign? Every campaign will have a campaign manager so what are we expecting?

kmt.

hush15:
Why i still don't get the smiley meaning, lemme expantiate:

The way I understand the judicial system, Federal High Courts and State High Courts do have different jurisdictions. The federal legal systems caters for it's federal courts, states legal system does same at the state courts. Though Judiciary operates independently as another arm of government, States Coyrts receives more support at the State Level,while Federal Courts receives more support at the federal level. So the question is it's who gives more support at what level that influences cases more at that level.

and you think Fashola threw a lot of weight behind this case?

bareal:
ọ̀kẹ́ - name or money.
Yoruba is deep in meanings ...́

really? Thought someone just explained that its a child born in the sac?

I'm not even against giving out souvenirs at campaigns etc but can politicians start treating people like humans beings? What is all this throwing things from buses etc? What's that? and people start scrambling for items, some even die in the process.



I'm pro-APC/Ambode/GMB btw and this is just an observation.