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the society of today everyone wants money. u can hardly see a non money conscious girl these days, they all want money. i am a very charming young man, the kinda guy that get girls to flirt with him. i just have that grace. but i dont do nada about it cuz i feel after attracting the numerous girls i cant keep them cuz no money so instead i turned into a snub and a misogynist. but im thinking is it possible to date any nigerian girl without money? if yes please which category of girls. i have the grace to attract 8 in 10 girls but its to keep them thats the issue. i want to start with church girls as im about to get ready for church..wat category of girl should i go for?

TrapQueen77:
Maybe it wasn't pleasant to her eyesight... We ladies, we admire joystix as well like how we admire ur faces boiz...

no money no car will u still admire his face and pen?

because of admiration and compliments i know a friend who couldnt graduate or take life seriously. compliments are a curse in disguise, it will get to ur head and you will never be able to identify your priorities. look at the ceo's of most companies they are average looking people with no pressure on them so they focused and made a life for themselves. but look at most goodlooking people in your area who have turned to losers cuz people keep admiring them, they cannot live responsible lives and be normal anymore. my advice to u if u are the type people admire rebuke it everytime till they start treating u normally..if not u are gradually permitting something that will end up ruining ur life. if you can relate to this thread please share your opinion.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#ff0099]I can not answer until i have seen a picture of said "fine" boy.
He may be truly ugly and forming fine [/color]

wat if he is truly very fine is dat why girls compete with him? una no get shame?

why is it that when a girl sets eyes on a boy that looks better than her she will try withing her power to make that boy feel bad about himself? why are girls competing with fine boys?

kullozone:
heys, small madam... Will you leave that dude alone and stfu?
Baba dey talk em own reality, you're calling him a baby. We all know you long throat naija girls will fall for the looks but when the guy doen't take you out or buy you gifts ( even if he has lotsa potentials) you start disrespecting him... And fvcking around. Dude has found out he can't be cute without money and still be fvcking pusssy anyhow.
So Just shut up ok?
Naija girls don't love for real, they love the cuteness for just a while and love the money forever.

Bro, jus find small money ehn... Join am with your fineboy and finish them. Don't fall in love oh!

bless G

Admin401:
@bolded. By this statement you just admitted that indeed it used to be a problem for you when girls didn't look at you
That means you weren't always turning head (not necessarily admiration) when you walked past girls. However now you do
And you find it creepy, but i think that you are the one with a weird look that is why people (girls in particular) look at you in way you describe as creepy to you even though they are the once getting creeped out by your appearance.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO "THIS BOY IS FULL OF HIMSELF LET ME KILL HIS EGO" I HAVE PAST THE STAGE WHERE I ENJOYED THIS SHIT. ALL IM SAYING IS I WANNA FUCKKK EVERY SINGLE GIRL THAT ADORES ME. If u like twist it only me know how blessed i am but im not fully enjoying it

lovelygurl:
Sry but I was laughing throughout. Like whaaaaat?

my point is dont make niggas here who just starting life think "Bleep money im a fineboy" and then wen they grow up they see all the ugly guys with the best chicks. money is everything as handsome as people tell me i am even tho i dont even know how true but im excessively praised daily i am struggling with things cuz no money to back them up. im the guy that would go out and a girl would walk up to and say "hey guy i like u" but i dont act on it cuz i know it wont last cuz no money

lovelygurl:
Oh wow someone is desperate but I am not that someone. A girl who loves you only when you are rich doesn't live you but your money. You just aren't confident. That is it

thats still not it. sheybi u said if a nigga had goodlooks he can get anyone..lets praticalise it then. i used to think goodlooks was all that mattered and its this same nairaland that people said money was it. now i get their point. if u know any guy thats handsome and broke ask him if deep down he feels depressed. u girls dont suffer if u are goodlooking people gice u stuff for free. for we guys we get attention that reminds us of the life we should have had

lovelygurl:
Because being a fine boy, I was expecting complaints like unwanted attention, thinking I am already taken etc

And being rich doesn't bring you girls. Which kind of girls do you even want to attract, gold diggers?

the kinda attention i get even finer guys dont get it. i look so distinguished , i hardly walk past any girl that dont turn back to stare its creepy. so dats not even my problem anymore, if i date u now i wont be able to send u even 100 naira card but my face is so handsome. are u ready lets exchange watsapp contacts?

lovelygurl:
Uhn wtf. Was expecting something like too much attention etc. Op, you are not a fine boy johr

if u see me in real life u will cum all over ur pants. im extremely handsome..i just wish i had money cuz girls all admire me but no money has turned me to a sadist

well its very simple and short, i dont have a rich boy life. im kinda really broke and everytime i go out of my gate and see the admiration in the eyes of gurls and the way they up their game when they see me cuz they dont want to look cheap to a fineboy it just makes me wish i was rich. if only God can answer my prayers, it hurts alot to not be able to enjoy this blessing. whats your disadvantage of being goodlooking?

why is it that when you are in a bus and a very handsome guy enters the bus most girls wil stare at him like hes the love of their life which isnt totally a bad thing. the problem is that the other set of girls would try as much as possible to ignore his face like they have a beef with him. even if his phone falls on the ground and breaks these set of girls still will bone their face and refuse to look at his direction like they are angry that the guy is very handsome. why do most girls do this please? ladies wetin dey happen?

for a girl admiration leads to free gifts from strangers and so much more. for a guy that is severely admired by random strangers daily, what can he make out of it? please this is very important

Stellamariss:
disgusting

MUMU THIS WONT MAKE U LOOK CLASSY...BOYS LOVE BOOOBS NOT MOUNTAIN OF FIRE BITCHES

why is it that a girl will have a crazy crush on u and still form when u say hi to her? i have ignored many girls dat admire me cuz i dont like it when a girl plays hard to get. if u admire me then why are u forming?

i dont date because i love the smell of girls....and i cant be tied down to just one. i objectify girls too much for that..do u think i will ever get married ?

floragregs:
He should be flattered. What will fine boys like Bryan okwara and Alex Ekubo now say? Mtsheeeew

girls can stalk sha

i just created my first app. i want to upload it to the store. please has anyone done it here before..can u guide me on the steps?

NevetsIbot:
you can see em just doing 'boy' swaggs... Like one I saw here... The attention they get from mentally immature girls have made em not develop themselves

this was my problem for years...couldnt even take school serious cuz of attention and admiration. but now im very wise...nobody can mk me a fool in a world were i was meant to be KING

why is it that no girl can leave in the same compound with a handsome guy that keeps to himself and not have a "beef" with him in her head. why is this so common...is it a must that because a guy is handsome he must flirt with u? who fineboy don help, why are girls making it look like being a fineboy is a big deal. how many fineboys have u dashed money? why are u girls making it a big deal if a cute guy doesnt flirt with u? even women..mature women are also fond of doing this...why?

if u had everyone drooling at the sight of u like everyday..to the random person out there thats a blessing yeah? okay say if u had that life what exactly will u do with that level of admiration from strangers?

when i was younger i believed that cuz people said i looked good when i grow up i will have everything in a platter of gold. but as an adult i have learned that goodlooks only make people smile at u and stare at u no real physical help can come from it except u are female and its not even all females that get help cuz of their looks alone. now i hv shifted my focus on developing myself and u know that stress sometimes can mk a person look dull. now why are people acting worried that im not looking my best anymore? when i looked very good nobody helped me, why are they worried now? please someone mk me understand

okay hypothetically everybody calls u fine boy and in your head u are brad pitt . now u dont toast people that much because u have a pretty boy prestige to maintain. everyone either likes u or has a crush on u. now theres this girl in ur street that u like. shes the kid sis to ur guy. shes extremely pretty and is like the princess of your area. now u meet her and instantly u catch her admiring as other girls normally do. now u go out with her and her brother which is ur guy and later ask for her number and shes refused. all ur advances failed and u even asked to dance with her and she still refused. okay if it was u what would u do by now? and why do u think shes refusing? cuz obviously ur very handsome. now why is she saying no? please help me solve this

KevMitnick:
Op you feel pain because of unmet expectations. You need to understand that the females are hard-wired to receive only, it's like in their DNA to be receivers only not givers. So giving or rendering any form of help is unreasonable and unrealistic for them.
Also note that a female will only help you if you appear to be of some value to her. That is if the help she is rendering will benefit her or fetch back returns to her quickly.
Finally, whenever you help a female or give her something, always consider that help or gift as a liability, a loss, it's not an asset, it's not going to appreciate or grow, instead the black hole into which your help went will keep asking for more.
When you go with this understanding, trust me, you'll never be hurt or upset when you interact with the female folk. Just like me, let your interactions with them be a class, a learning experience to gain knowledge. No vex bros, na small small person dey get sense.

God bless u bro. we learn daily.

pcoolioz:
cos i see a girl who is sexy af dosent mean i would give her the world. The girl i might end up giving the world may not even be half as sexy as that girl. love is different from admiration, cos they admire you does not mean you are worth getting inconvenient for.

my point exactly. nobody really cares about me they dont even "know" me. they just objectify me cuz of goodlooks and when they get to meet the real me who has a problem they turn monsters to me. its okay. i will work hard and get blessed by God but i wont forget that nobody loves me tho. they can keep their stinking admiration or better still show it to other guys cuz im not and will never take admiration from anybody seriously again i will just treat them like clowns so they bury theur head in shame. if u dont love me then u shouldnt act like u do.

Julietcutie:
sorry op

no i sorry for the girls that would near me again with fake admiration. if u wont help me in my time of need why act like u love me, they should fuckkk off

the only love most girls show is admiration. they will admire u if you are handsome and u will think that these evil people really like u until u have a problem. why is it that when u ask a female for assistance they will nag and almost cry, even if the assistance will cost them nothing? all the girls that act like they love me when i needed help all turn their backs. now i know admiration is smelly pooo. its not real, i will never flirt back with anybody that acts more than nice to me again because its fake when u need their help they will tell u to go and die. in life we learn everyday.

hello. it is no news that interswitch is not reliable because of their sms otp rubbish. i am finding difficult to pay for things online because i use a mastercard and almost all sites in nigeria links you to interswitch webpay gateway and the otp sms goes to my old number. i hv emailed them complained to the bank but all to no avail. please how do i pay without needing interswitch or how do i send money to a friend online with another gateway that is not connected to interswitch?

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