₦airaland Forum

AtikulatedNaija is exerting so much energy everywhere on NL, I just hope he is getting paid.

Different strokes for different folks. I really don't see the rush to have children. You are meant to be together forever and you should take your time before you procreate. Remember you are in Nigeria where the economy is harsh and having one - two children while you are both struggling to provide the best for your children.

Besides, we spend so much on weddings in Nigeria and save so little for marriage. The two years would be for me to pool my resources together to give my children a good life. .

Ps: while this might not go down with many people strongly against divorce no matter what, I believe it easier to assess your marriage after two years and it would be much convenient to divorce without having to bother about "sharing" children.

Family planning should start before marriage. Couples should already know what they are getting into before they tie the knot.

For me, no children until after a year or two. Children are responsibilities and the parents must be ready to handle that. I want us to enjoy our companionship as Mr and Mrs, and be certain if we really want to be together till death do us part before having children.

Sometimes when I see all the nonsense hype big breast and bums gets on social media I wonder whether these people haven't seen something or someone similar.

These are the ordinary girls who have enhanced themselves with filters and have carefully arranged and packaged their bodies to make gullible people drool.

Such things can only move teenagers or perverts. There are girls who are exceptions though.

She really is keeping us "abreast".

I totally agree.

All your points are salient and we'll thought out. I honestly wish I had certain experiences like the ones you outlined, while growing up. I would have been more self-confident and sharper.

Well, I am still learning, as life itself is a learning process.

I just wish I were multilingual and could play instruments.