₦airaland Forum

I swear, with the state of things at the moment, if a Northerner were to run against a G-string, I'd vote the G-string instead!

The North is marching straight back to the stone age with epic swag.

Afam was arrested for the shady internet deals he did with one corrupt politician like dat.

I've been told to keep hush on this issue, but this is classified information I am giving you. Do not let this info go anywhere outside this thread.

You see, he was hired by the politician from Ebonyi to launder his image with propaganda on the internet to make it look like Ebonyi was working, but Afam tried to elope with the money to Ivory Coast and was promptly arrested.

Ehh... True story.

Scarpon: grandma got sawggs too

Az in!!! The woman's swagger donk kill me.

Na she be the winner in the photograph.

Tusky44: Them gree make person comment for nairaland again? You talk small thing them ban their fathers or them hide your post.

These days I comment more on Vanguard and Punch. Per the topic, its down to the culture of Yorubas and their men feel like a tiny god once the wife bows to greet him.

Yoruba men aren't certainly all the same but I am talking about a good majority of the ones in all class of society. Is it Opasonjo? Tinubu? Awolowo? Diya? Abiola? They are all freaking tiny gods.

Yoruba women please deal with it. You are very welcoming people.

I know right? The whole thing tire me sef.

1st ola: ITS ALL YOUR FAULT, AND NOW UA REGRETTING.

How can it be her fault? The man beat her up mercilessly! Can you excuse that?

I don't mean to incite a tribal war, but why is it that all the Igbo women I know who married Yoruba men don divorce dem sharp sharp?

Steph-Nora Okere don quickly dump and erase her Yoruba husband, and this Ikwerre Monalisa lady has also divorced her abusive husband, who also happens to be Yoruba...

Does this have something to do with family values or are all these dudes just isolated cases? But then again, they just happen to be too numerous to mention.

And it's not just Igbo women divorcing them... Even Yoruba women divorce them in record numbers - Ayo Adesanya is one of the many cases.

And also, if this link from Linda Ikeji is anything to go by, Monalisa's ex-husband quickly went on to marry a Louisiana-based lady Lamide Richards (Yoruba), who has quickly seperated from him and filed for divorce in less than a year, making this the man's THIRD failed marriage

http://lindaikeji..com/2012/11/monalisa-chindas-ex-husbands-second.html?m=1

Please, bigots should kindly stay off. I'd really like answers from reasonable Yoruba people on this issue.
My guess tells me it has to do with their history of polygamy, but it's a wild, dumb guess from me anyway

El-Rufai's red-eyed outbursts are just so shameful.

[quote author=kross_01]In as much as i'm not here to dispute your write up, it will do u more good to consult with professionals before positing such in a forum. Every soil/earth in a particular location has its own qualities, & before a road construction project is embarked on such, the soil sample is tested. Rivers is a swampy area so the same method used for rivers state wont be used for enugu state which has a totally different stony soil kind of.i've seen a road construction project in queenstown(SA) where raw cement is being used to form a layer above the hardcore.[/quote]Gbam! Abagworo too dey phuck up sometimes, that some of his comments can be so jaw-droppingly devoid of logic that I'm like, "Bros... Tell me you didn't just write that"

But he's cool sha.

[quote author=the_ripper2]As in ehn, Roaches talk talk too much jare, too garrulous. I doubt if e don pay contractors for dose jobs, I here say he sabi owe well well. Wats up with the LG ish sef? My own LG no too different from how I leave am o.[/quote]I hear the man has completely screwed them over.
When he first came to office, he started awarding road construction contracts all over the place just for political points. Never mind that he had no plans of actually paying them their full money.
On many of the contracts, before the official documents were released, he quoted 50 million to the contractors, and told them he would pay them once they've completed their portions. Oya now, the contractors went about borrowing money from different areas to finish their work. But once the official documents were released, wetin dem see? 7 million naira, 8 million naira, 6 million naira!
How are you going to go about repaying all the debt of 50 million you borrowed, when you're only going to get 6 million naira for every?!!

Omo, a lot of the work has been abandoned sharp sharp! A lot of the contractors don get stroke. This is heartless 419 from the Imo government.

This man has gone about betraying all the people that helped him get to the top - from Martin Agbaso (Imo APGA don) whose brother he humiliated all because he was desperate to join APC and the Agbasos objected, to the much-respected Assumpta Cathedral Archbishop AJV who has now severed all ties with him for failing to keep his promise of delivering Imo even after saying it before the blessed sacrament.

This man is as greedy and selfish as they come. He got his mandate through APGA; and in the twinkle of the eye, is now cross-carpeting to APC without even consulting his party, all because of his desperation to be Vice President under Buhari.

He's a greedy, selfish, calculative conman.
A total disgrace.

Those booobs...

https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/lip_licker.gif

If the recent sentiment from the majority of my Imo friends is anything to go by, common councillor, Rochas no go fit win.

Never thought I'd be the one to say this.

"Heart of Courage" by Two Steps From Hell

https://i1.sndcdn.com/artworks-000019807774-5pirzz-original.jpg?ca77017

Ngwakwe: Yenagoa in Ijaw heartland don relocate to South East, Abi

You have started again.

He just showcased his illiteracy in Hi-Resolution.

Year in and year out, Lagos looks like an African Venice when it rains... And not in the good way.

You'd think that, with the disaster that happened last year, the LASG would at least get a hint and prepare for the rain. But nope, it's still going to happen - People are still gonna have to pay boys to carry them on their shoulders to the other side of the overflowing gutter watter, houses are still gonna get flooded, and even with all of Fashola's shameless heartless demolishions and forceful evictions of natives from their land, the phucking state is still going to look like a broken latrine, and his stooges are still going to come on Nairaland to tell us this is so because some people are siting illegal structures in "drainage channels".

Continue dey deceive unaselves.

If Banky is digging Kate, then it sure is going to be funny as phuck, cuz poor Katie was the one thanking God two years ago she didn't marry a Nigerian man... Until her marriage crashed.

So, maybe her value don fall kpata-kpata and she's making do with what she can get.

Haven't said it's the case, but it sure is gonna be funny.

"People keep calling me handsome. Are they right?"

Answer: Yes.

With the fit physique and chiseled jawline, I think so.

But hey, I'm a guy, so don't take my opinion too seriously.

Just gotta say, that white guy in the black jersey sure got rocked hard!!!

He couldn't even stand on his feet anymore

Anyway, I don dey retire from this thread jare.

Cheers.

Just for fun...


Epic battle between two black guys and three white guys!

Omo, these nigguhz strong no be small! Wickid!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9rerxgJsX4

Asian man beaten up by racist white dudes


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-czLYg2WFSM

African-American piimp beating up and humiliating his own girlfriend in public. In Chicago.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBucy5y_7Po

V0LV0tic: White Women are Easy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulMVVRFzKek

LOL!!! Those white women were even easier.

@CamnewtownPress: FAIL

stillwater: The men are angry, perfect bliss!!! Now they remember they have fathers, but when black women are the subject they don't remember they have mothers, rotflmao!!! They call it 'healthy critique'!!! Rotflmao! I hate sentimental men honestly. Be able to take what you dish out.

I doubt any lady here has said they hate black men, black women have only finally realized there's a wider range of men you can date.

Our anthem should be 'thou shalt not limit thyself'.

My daughters must know this for sure! That your men and the world delight in your degradation! And she must not limit herself to only her own. Tufiakwa! Because 'they' apparently don't rever you.

Good luck with your voyage, dear.

Spare us the fireworks.

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]I like that you're being objective and neutral. Keep it up. [/quote]

Black Kenichi: She is like many black feminists that worship white men - angry, bitter, twisted and hypocritical!
I've seen plenty of them to know they aren't worth anything but the lowest form of pity!
Oh btw I hope your wedding goes smoothly and you marriage lasts!

Thanks bro.
It's all God's guidance we pray for.

stillwater: You know you men get philosophical when the shoe is on the other foot lol. We all know ideally you have to love yourself or your own first ; D. But ask yourself do black men really love their own? Do black men really love their women? I doubt it.

Mate...

You seem to have some deep emotional scars which unfortunately I cannot help you with.
Direct your anger at the people who have burnt you in the past and leave peeps like me out of it.

My wedding comes up in July, and I'm proud to say she's an African belle with all the right features in an explosive package.

If the black men you've seen in your life have shown no love to you, that's between you and them. Chalk it up as one of those things in life and quit talking like you're fighting the world. Get a grip of yourself already. It's played out now.

Black Kenichi: I know. Yet most black men don't care! We'll still find the women that love us for who we are, not our race!

I guess you're right.
Frankly, I think we should all love who makes us happy, regardless of race. It's when a person begins to denigrate his/her own race is the part I so do not like. It shows a very low self-esteem and lack of self respect, and your girlfriend/boyfriend, whether white, pink, yellow or red, will have no respect for you in the long haul.

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]Are white men the only race out there?

Why would white men go for women their own men don't respect or fight for?

The day black men start holding us on high esteem, that's the day we'll be looked upon with MORE dignity.

Black women are often stereotyped by many who do understand them.

In psychology, we call it categorizing. Humans often categorize and stereotype what they don't have time to study or analyze. It makes things easier for them. It's a survival instinct.[/quote]I've posted the second link.

White women aren't exactly rolling out in conveyor belts for black men as Shymmexx and the many deluded guys in here would like to believe. Chillax.

Paris Hilton: I Can't Stand Black Guys

In author Neil Strauss’ new book Everyone Loves You When You’re Dead, he shares an anecdote about meeting an 18-year-old Paris Hilton who opens up to him about getting implants at 14 until her mom made her take them out, wanting to pose for Playboy and making out with Vin Diesel before realizing he’s some percent black. Via LA Weekly:

HILTON: I went out with that guy last night.
Which guy?
HILTON (points to an actor in Saving Private Ryan): We were making out, but then we went somewhere where it was bright and I saw that he was black and made an excuse and left. I can’t stand black guys. I would never touch one. It’s gross. (pauses). Does that guy look black to you?
How black does a guy have to be?
HILTON: One percent is enough for me.

I honestly can’t tell what stands out more here: The fact that the Hiltons apparently still own slaves, or the almost supernatural chameleon qualities of Vin Diesel’s ethnicity. Because seriously, what is that guy? It’s almost as if God took the body of Adonis and said, “And now you shall be above all stereotypes, but in return you’ll have to make a bunch of movies about cars that go ‘VROOM.’”

http://www.thesuperficial.com/paris-hilton-racist-vin-diesel-03-2011

Read the comments that follow after from white women also voicing their disdain for black men.

The reason I posted these two links is to show you people, that when you show no respect for yourselves, you will get no respect from outsiders no matter how much you may revere them.

I have lived in the second most racist state in America (Tennessee), and I currently live in the "Black Mecca" Atlanta; and one thing I can tell you, is that nobody else can love you more than yourself.

If you can't appreciate your own, do not expect people to respect you, cuz there is no love waiting in reserve for you out there.

So, black men and black women, it's time to wake up to reality and stop this foolishness.

I want this thread to be an enlightening, educative one, so I'll be posting more about things I've seen and read from research over the years, and not about yeye banter

White Men’s Hostility to Black Women: A Deeper Look

Census data reveal that the interracial marriage rate of black women (and mainly white men) has only modestly increased from 1% in 1970 to 4.1% in 2000. Research also shows that black women are overwhelmingly excluded as interracial dating partners, with one study showing that white men excluded black women as dating options at 93 percent.

The longstanding persistent exclusion of black women as a heterosexual relationship partner for white men (and other men of color) continues to exist in a society that today prides itself on colorblindness and even post-raciality. Quantitative polls that measure racial attitudes of whites today show a marked decrease in racial hostilities, however, these polls do not account for the complexities of frontstage and backstage racism, whereby whites manipulate racial performances for the settings that they are in. See Picca and Feagin’s research.

To understand the phenomenon of black women’s consistent exclusion by white men, I examined 134 contemporary white men’s thoughts, opinions, perspectives, and emotional reactions to black women as they expressed in in-depth online questionnaires. The findings reveal, overwhelmingly, that the white male respondents, despite most admittedly having very limited experiences with black women, held grossly negative views of them as culturally defunct, domineering, welfare queens, and unattractive unless representing a white aesthetic. For example, one respondent stated the following, when sharing his thoughts about black women:

Just the term ‘black women’ conjures up thoughts of an overweight, dark-skinned, loud, poorly educated person with gold teeth yelling at somebody in public. I hope that doesn’t make me racist but honestly that’s the 1st thing I think of (white male respondent)

This respondent is middle-class with no black female friends, rare interactions with black families growing up, and who states his interactions with black women only consist of work-related experiences, yet, he expresses strong racialized, gendered, and classed views of black women as the first impressions that come to his mind.

Another respondent, a middle class white male in his 40’s stated the following about black women and attraction:

Sexual attraction for me is a combination of physical and personal attributes. If I find a ‘black’ woman attractive, it is because their hair type and facial features are more representative of the [C]aucasian race. If that aspect is attractive, then their speech and intelligence level would have to be more representative of that found more prevalent in other races (such as [C]aucasian or [A]sian – i.e.: anthropological mongoloids.

This respondent, despite admitting to having no close black female friends and few personal interactions with black women, places whites and Asians as naturally more intelligent than blacks.

My research disputes convenient notions that only a few uneducated, southern bigots hold such strong deep-seated racist and sexist views of black women. The white male respondents in my study hold current and future leadership positions in society, with 42% possessing some college education, 30% a bachelor’s degree, and over 48% are middle class!

http://www.racismreview.com/blog/2011/04/16/white-mens-hostility-to-black-women-a-deeper-look/

African-American woman wants to join the KKK


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8CTnmRb7BY

Let's face it... This community should be nuked.

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]

I definitely don't have respect for the uneducated, jobless ones that beg women for a place to sleep every night. .

A nl member died at the hands of these jobless boys. What a shame.[/quote]My cousin was beaten to a coma by a gang of idiiots in Chicago. I don't know if you've heard of the game called "Knockout King".

It's a game where street guys just form little groups to beat up defenseless by-passers till they pass out (just for kicks). My cousin was unfortunate to fall victim to them. Now, even though he's recovered, one of his pupils looks dilated.

I just avoid these guys in general...

And let's not forget the Bawomolo case...