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Politics › Re: The Nigerian Government Power Reform Road Map. by ektbear: 12:40am On Mar 28, 2011
More detailed than the other plans I've seen. I think it is very good. Still reading it though.

If Buhari wins, he should leverage this previous work for his own plan.
Politics › Re: Nigeria's Most Important Asset Is. . . by ektbear: 11:42pm On Mar 27, 2011
yep. . . sort of.
Politics › Re: The Nigerian Government Power Reform Road Map. by ektbear: 11:40pm On Mar 27, 2011
Still reading. But looks really good so far.
Politics › Re: Why Buhari Over Ribadu? by ektbear: 11:35pm On Mar 27, 2011
Sagamite:
I am already resigned to the fact that Silverback Gorilla will get the most vote. I am just hoping he does not get the amount required to win outright.
Plurality is all that is necessary, unfortunately. One doesn't need an outright majority.

Buhari needs to get more votes in the 1st round to have a chance.
Politics › Re: Muhammad Buhari Watched The Match Seated In The Abuja National Stadium by ektbear: 11:32pm On Mar 27, 2011
Must have been pretty close to take those pics. . .
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 11:24pm On Mar 27, 2011
[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=632281.msg7998795#msg7998795 date=1301264031]cos they share similar features.[/quote]But there are plenty of high yellow african american chicks who also "share simiilar features." So I don't think that alone is the answer. . . ?

Basseti:
Have u been living under a rock?  cheesy
There is a specific image and stereotype that has been "stickied" onto black women. Thats a difficult image to break apart.
And to be honest, there is a big difference bw black women and white women, not only cos of color but also attitude. If u are used to docility, any other contrary behavior is considered rude and in "your face" kinda thing.

Let me give u an example: Go watch the view, 2 black women, one italian and 2 caucasian. U cant call Whoopi or Sherri Shepherd as hoodrats ,can U now?
I don't watch tv (aside from sports), haven't seen the view. I'll check it out sometime (maybe on youtube.)

I think that stereotype of in-your-face and rude is kinda overplayed though. I sure as hell don't date any black women who behave like that.

Anyway, hispanic women too also have some negative stereotypes about them. . . but certainly get more attention.

I'm not sure what the answers are, really.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 11:12pm On Mar 27, 2011
Anyway, while I acknowledge that the media plays a role. . . I honestly think that answer is a bit of a cop out.

Btw I've noticed ethiopian/eritrean chicks are way more active in hunting for white dudes grin

So don't blame the media too much. Gotta be open-minded too.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 11:09pm On Mar 27, 2011
THE AMAKA:
it has nothing to do with skin color. im talking about the black female celebrities. if she's not one of them, dont expect the media to show anything positive concerning black women.
You lost me. "one of them"?
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 11:06pm On Mar 27, 2011
THE AMAKA:
and when you ask why dont they date black women? lets not even get started on that one. the media plays a big role in what is desired and what is not desired. we know the way black women are portrayed in the media if she's not a "beyonce" type. . . if you know what i mean.
a lot of people have these bad stereotypes, but whatever. i dont seek for their approval or validation anyway.  cheesy
but i heard in Europe its not uncommon to see white guys and black girls, in America, things are always different. i mean, this country was built on racism, so what do you expect?
What do you mean by "beyonce"? High yellow, you mean? Me personally, I always found kelly more attractive, lol
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 11:05pm On Mar 27, 2011
Basseti:
To be honest, I ask myself that question LOL

But this is not as simple as that "white guys dont like dating black women"? The sisters will generally rather date a brother than date a white dude. U are very welcome to speculate on the reasons but I have my own theory LOL
I can understand them preferring black dudes to white. But even so. . . what about supply and demand?  undecided There are like 5X more white dudes in this country than blacks. So in some sense, for an open-minded chick the odds are much better if she goes white.

As for the white guys, most of them are scared shitless of black girls Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. It has to do with the attitude I guess LOL.
Even college-educated black women from wealthy families? I can understand not wanting to date hoodrats. But there are some AMAZING chicks I've seen who are on the market.
Romance › Re: How Do You Know When A Guy Is Making Fun Of Your Looks? by ektbear: 10:56pm On Mar 27, 2011
^-- How much is the bride price

Anyway, can you blame the man? You aren't bad looking at all o
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:54pm On Mar 27, 2011
THE AMAKA:
its no surprise that white guys tend to suffer most from pedophilia. i heard that a lot of them go for asian women because of the fact that an asian that is 25 can look 16. very small, not really any hips, chest, or butt. they like the underaged look, so they go for tiny girls.
funny enough because after i heard that, i seemed to start to notice it.
anyway, i dont know how true that is though.
KK, then it must be So Cal. haha
I think that is part of it. They also view asian women as more feminine somehow than white chicks.

Or maybe it is from p.orn they watched as kids, lol?

I don't understand why white dudes are obsessed with asian chicks.

Another thing I don't get. Why don't white dudes like dating black women  huh

There are so many single, good-looking, well-educated black women available.

Though I met a (tall, beautiful) black woman this weekend in her 40s whose husband is Italian. . . so that is at least one guy who is aware of what they have to offer.
Romance › Re: Guys Which Do You Prefer, A Natural Girl, Or A Girl With Tones Of Makeup :) by ektbear: 10:43pm On Mar 27, 2011
I don't like makeup. Girls generally look better w/o it.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:41pm On Mar 27, 2011
@tpiah: You'll see high-achieving asian girls at white frat parties. They can be as freaky as white girls, from what my white boys tell me.

I've not seen this hip-hop asian stuff that Basseti talks about. But at frat parties. . . anything goes.
Romance › Re: How Do You Know When A Guy Is Making Fun Of Your Looks? by ektbear: 10:38pm On Mar 27, 2011
[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=632231.msg7998370#msg7998370 date=1301260010][color=deeppink]Please take my picture off your profile. . .

I don't want my picture taken everywhere, please take my image off your profile Now! tongue[/color][/quote]grin grin grin grin

When is the wedding? grin
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Romance Section Hottest Female Awards! ( Vote To Decide ) by ektbear: 10:35pm On Mar 27, 2011
This poll is a travesty without abekeade angry
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:33pm On Mar 27, 2011
@fstranger: What do you think of Indian women?

Personally, I've only met a few (under 3) hot Indian chicks in my life. So right now i don't have a high opinion of them.

But I figure there have to be lots of hot Indian chicks SOMEWHERE. After all, their country has a population well north of 1 billion. So do they just leave all their hot women at home?  undecided

EDIT: Ignore, you answered the question right before I posted. . .
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:23pm On Mar 27, 2011
[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=632281.msg7998394#msg7998394 date=1301260230]um, no.

they actually look very hot.


generally speaking.[/quote]I no gree. I know a lot of 'em in real life due to where I live, type of people I work with. Ugly, ugly.


For those questioning the beauty of half-asian/half-black chicks, google Denyce Lawton.

I met a similarly hot girl this summer in the DC area. . . 5'9 half-black, half-chinese chick. Lord she was smokin.

I'm pretty pro race-mixing I guess, lol

Though personally I'll probably end up marrying either African or African American for stability reasons.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:10pm On Mar 27, 2011
[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=632281.msg7998315#msg7998315 date=1301259661]i dont think so @ bolded. Cant generalize anyway.[/quote]I'm starting to think it would be a good thread for the romance section. I don't see too many black women with dudes lighter than themselves. . . it probably is not a coincidence grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:08pm On Mar 27, 2011
THE AMAKA:
I'm not offended, its that i really dont care and i find it laughable that he thinks i do. hahaha


at the end of the day, an asian will still go for a white guy, if she has to choose someone outside of her race. we all know how asians are towards black people. they may mess around with it for the fun, but dont think its going anywhere. asians look up to white people (ive seen this first hand) so for them that might be seen as an "upgrade" or idk.
Haha, yeah. But have you noticed that half-asian/half-white kids tend to be UGLY? Just very weird looking.

Otoh, half-asian, half-black kids look great.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 10:02pm On Mar 27, 2011
@The Amaka: fstranger is mostly just joking. He does this to bait ya'll, in case you haven't noticed grin You shouldn't get offended. . . if you do, you are falling into the trap he has set.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:58pm On Mar 27, 2011
fstranger3:
True!

My coursemates, you need to see how much they worship my dingy dongie.  I will be humble not to blow my trumpet too much, grin
best to let your coursemates blow your trumpet instead grin
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:57pm On Mar 27, 2011
[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=632281.msg7998233#msg7998233 date=1301258939]not yellow, etc.[/quote]Lol @ tpiah! hating on the light-skinned brothers  grin

So do black women dislike dating men lighter than them? I'm glad I'm not light-skinned, lol
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:55pm On Mar 27, 2011
@tpiah!: Hrm, so it isn't like I bring out a measuring tape and measure a woman before I decide I like her or not. . . it is mostly automatic and instantaneous. Girl I'm seeing right now is't very tall (5'6), and doesn't have a big chest. But I really, really like her.

I'm just sort of saying some general trends I've noticed about myself, physical features I really like.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:51pm On Mar 27, 2011
fstranger3:
It has to do with the smallness of their dingy dongie. That is what I was told by my last Asian phock-buddy. grin grin grin
Honestly, unless you are at 3 inches or below, then the size of your p.enis really won't affect things much. Most of the nerve structure in a woman's vag is right near the opening. Otherwise f.ingering wouldn't be effective at all  grin

Most important things for sex imo are rhythm and staying power. Too much length in fact in my experience (with a tiny girl I dated once) can in fact make sex awkward and annoying.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:42pm On Mar 27, 2011
THE AMAKA:
everyone knows Thailand is famous for its trannies, with many having some of the best gender-reassignment surgery. lol. those tall Thai women with big bosoms and butt that you've been messing around with are MEN! bwahahaha!
pele oooo
rofl

fstranger, is this true? Were you smashing a dude? grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Ex-generals Under Watch by ektbear: 9:41pm On Mar 27, 2011
Beaf:
[size=18pt]but another senior officer, who wanted anonymity, confirmed the development, saying “nearly every Nigerian is under watch, not the retired Generals alone.”
[/size]
Is this not a bit disturbing to you all?

When did Nigeria become a surveillance state?
Politics › Re: Buhari, Ribadu, Shekarau Pull Out Of BON Debate by ektbear: 9:36pm On Mar 27, 2011
Sagamite:
But he is "Ordained by God", he has "Good Luck" and is "Fresh Air". grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
This is another thing I've never understood. Nigerians in general tend to be a superstitious lot. Yet. . . am I the only one who has noticed that GEJs "good luck" tends to get those around him killed, jailed, or otherwise incapacitated huh huh huh

I think even GEJs dad or relative made a reference to this in a NYTimes article I read.

His "good luck" is the type you keep your family and loved ones away from, lol.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:31pm On Mar 27, 2011
fstranger3:
huh, Eku_Bear, Asians are the best.
No, they are not. They tend to be short, have flat a.s.ses, and small chests. I like tall, skinny girls with big T and round A. Plenty of white, black and hispanic women with these characteristics. I don't see many Asian women who look like this.

I either find tall with no chest, or if a nice chest then very short.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:24pm On Mar 27, 2011
@fstranger: Asian chicks tend to be on the short side. And I like taller women, so tend to find fewer of 'em that I like.
Romance › Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by ektbear: 9:22pm On Mar 27, 2011
@tpiah!:

You might like this video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SI3lPLsbwjw

This video is absolutely HILARIOUS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63bWYFGBTuE&feature=related

But I hope you see how Asian guys just joke about it? They don't panic and get defensive. It isn't a big deal. People should just do whatever they want when it comes to dating, in my opinion.
Politics › Re: Sharia Coming To S.W. by ektbear: 9:18pm On Mar 27, 2011
Main thing is that the constitution and ordinary courts have to be superior to any Sharia courts.

I don't mind if it is a Muslim-Muslim only dispute, and they both agree to take it to the sharia court.

Would be similar to two Christians taking a dispute to their pastor, or some religious elder.

But the supreme law of the (Yoruba)land must be the constitution. Not any holy books or religious creeds. Mixing religion and state is pretty much a bad idea, as we've learned throughout human history repeatedly.

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