I was watching Evaton vs Chelsea match when my negbour called me that my girlfriend mum came to our compound with police, that i should'nt return home for today.
I knew it, that this girl will definately put me in trouble somday, but i could'nt resist the temptation.
She has been given me money and lot of things from her mum shop.
last week, i recieved the sum of N250,000K to my bank account with her name as the depositor, i called her and she told me i shouldn't fear that she was the one who sent it.
I ask her why and she said i should help her to save it. I've already spent N40K from the money which she was aware of.
I'm now getting imformation that her mum gave her money to deposit to their accout, but she instead sent it to me and said she lost the money. Is like she finally told her the truth that she sent me the money, and i don't kno if she told them she has been given me money before.
I don't kno what i will do, my landlord is callin but i don't want to pick.
Go to her house in the evening, tell them if they insist on ur arrest, you will follow the matter to court shikena
robosky02: Once Africa’s number one ranked football country, Nigeria has plummeted so badly in recent times, no thanks to the current Nigeria Football Federation led by Amaju Pinnick
The present board of the Nigeria Football Federation, led by its president, Amaju Pinnick, was first elected to office in September 2014. On 20 September 2018, Pinnick was re-elected as the NFF President. He was also the First Vice President of Confederation of African Football (CAF) between September 2018 and July 2019, and a member of the Organising Committee for FIFA competitions. Thus growing his personal popularity but has failed to translate that to the growth of Nigerian football, as the game has steadily declined due to poor running of football affairs by this board.
The climax of all the calamities is Nigeria's failure to qualify for the FIFA world cup in Qatar 2022. A bitter pill which many can not emerging. In fact soccer fans who thronged the 60,000 thousand capacity stadium in Abuja did the unthinkable by destroying facilities there. You can't blame them entirely because some of the fans were there for more than 5 hours before kickoff just to watch the super eagles only to be disappointed.
When this current NFF board were elected for the first time in 2014, Nigeria was ranked 37 in the world, just few months after a Round of 16 finish by the Super Eagles at the 2014 World Cup in Brazil.
But ever since, the Eagles, who have failed to qualify for two Africa Cup of Nations (2015 and 2017), And managed to qualify for the 2018 World Cup. And the 2019 AFCON. Were they manage to come 3rd. But till now are still celebrating that 3rd position as if we have never won the cup. To the point of asking to keep Rohr as life coach.
The fall of the Eagles and the general decay in Nigerian football has been deduced to several blunders committed by the football body under the leadership of Amaju Pinnick some of these are:
1. No blue print for the development of the game on the home front. Whereas FIFA have always advocated for the local development of the game in the native countries of affiliate members and even gone ahead to periodically give grant to that effect. The Amaju Pinnick led board from inception till date do not have any plan to develop football in Nigeria. Rather we always see Amaju Pinnick travelling to Europe to convinced young stars with Nigerian descent to come play for Nigeria.
2. Inability to produced local players for the national team In the past Nigeria league was the bedrock of the national team. But today the league under Amaju is so degraded that not a single player is seen fit to even smell the camp of the national team. Whereas in the past players like Finidi George, Omokachi, Vincent Enyeama from Enyimba featured prominently in the super eagles. As at the last count Sunday Mba from ifreanyi Uba FC scored the winning goal for Nigeria to win AFCON under Keshi.
3The deterioration of the Nigeria Premiere League The Nigeria league itself under this NFF has even deteriorated so badly that our league doesn't have a calendar. The league resumes anytime and to end they have to do abridged or just choose anybody to represent Nigeria in CAF champions league. In the past the league use to attract lots of foreigners especially Africans from Ghana, Togo, Cameroon, Ivory Coast etc. But today our League is in shambles. Every player is running out even to Benn republic.
4.Lack of transparency in the administration of football In the past before a coach is appointed the position is announced and interested parties apply for it. But under Amaju how Genot Rohr became Nigeria's coach is a mystery. And worse off is to know that he can't be sacked due to a bogus clues in his contract is very annoying. And while stake holders are calling for the removal of Rohr. The NFF is already plotting to replace him with someone who on paper is even worse than Rohr. What has happen to allowing competent coaches applying for the job whether local or foreign?
5 the dwindling future on the super falcon's
The super falcon's in the past reigned supreme in Africa. Produce players year after year and winning almost all the editions of the women AFCON. But instead of this present NFF to improve our rating by making the falcons a force outside Africa. We have today became a shadow of ourselves.
I) back to back elimination from qualifying for the Olympics in 2016 and Tokyo 2020
ii) losing to South Africa in competitive game for the first time
Before now South Africa has never won a game against Nigeria but today not only that they won, they did it in style here in Lagos
iii) the female league like the male's can no longer produce players for the national team. That is why we now over rely on few tired legs and even scouting for Nigeria descents to come home and play
What has happen to our female football? The league is no where the players we produce the likes of mercy akide, perpetual Nkwacha, Cynthia Uwak etc were not born in England or USA. They all started from Nigeria
Why does Amaju led NFF killing football in Nigeria.
iv) the just concluded women CAF champions league everyone expected Nigeria's representative Rivers Angels to sweep it. But alas they were knocked out. Am not surprise South Africa organized their women league like their men and the result.. They won. Gone are the day you wake up and defeat other teams. They are catching up. And we without a league sent a match rusty team to conquer Africa. It doesn't work that way
5 the super eagles are no longer super. In the past the super eagles game wasa delight were we look forward to how many goals will be scored not just the winning. The team was feared by Brazil, Italy, Argentina etc. But today even in Africa we can hold our own. The likes of Sierra Leone can come here to play 4 - 4 and we will be celebrating a drew with Cape Verde. Not just that the team scramble to stay afloat the team likes pattern and ambitions.
6. Building the national team with "Ajebos" instead of home grown talents I have no problem with players born abroad with Nigerian heritage seeking to play for Nigeria. But my problem is we now "import" so many ajebos to down the super eagles Jersey so much that ALL our home grown players are regarded as second class.
Imaging what happened in the game against Ghana were we have players that are ready to die wearing the green white green yet they preferred and featured player born in England to play when they have never played in the heat of Africa. Why would they be fagged out. When they don't even know that a world cup ticket is at stack .any way they came to receive their first cap amaju promised them
7. Amaju criss crossing Europe to look for Nigerian born player. Even notable ex international have seriously questioned why amaju is now doing the job of the coach. He is the one always travelling from England to Germany etc to talk to any one who says he has Nigerian parents. Amaju will visit and talked to to play in Nigeria. Its even embarrassing when they have to turned down the entire nation Tammy Abraham comes to mind. Whereas there a so many shinning stars in the NPFL the NFF have NEVER visited or taken time to look at their progress
Having seen Nigeria win Olympics at Atalanta and reached the secvond round of the world cup before. The next NFF board should take us higher.
If South Africa can look inwards then we can do better because we have the natural talent. And see what Senegal and even Cameroon is doing with local content then Nigeria can do better. All our league and football needs is better organization. Aka packaging And we can stack a claim come 2023 AFCON in Ivory coast.
Googledman: Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.
I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..
The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.
Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.
Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.
lol. She's in early twenties. Comrades Should we tell him
Edited: To everyone quoting me and asking why I'm angry, hear this!
This man of God condemned the use of this thing from his gullible members years ago. We had a family friend then, they had TV and all but the boys didn't wear jeans to church because it was a sin to wear jeans, jeans oh. There are so many other things but lemme stop here!
Lizzyolatunjs: Hello my fellow nairalander family and friends. A silent member, please help me all. I always saw people bringing family issues here until I personally fell into same trap today.
Please my people am at crossroads and I need advice, bring it all on pls. I would like to know why my husband of 10years would save chats , screenshots of our whatsapp messages when we quarrel and I mouth off to him. I mostly dont even go back nor remember such episodes. However I just said let me check his pictures randomly and lo and behold screenshots of all our personal messages? We have kids together and there has been cheating on his part in the past. I have forgiven and forgiven but seeing my messages saved as screenshots broke me.
We have good chats too but I didnt see any of that so it was specifically done. Elders and colleagues please help me out. Thank you all
you saw screenshot boom, you came online. You ain't any different
Contango: I am not a dancer, but a huge fan of Michael Jackson. My favorite choreography has always been the dangerous dance and I had vowed to do it before I die!!!
Definitely far from MJ and other professional imitators but I am happy I was able to whip something up.
Show some love guys Video quality not good though
I vow to do smooth criminal if I get some encouragement
LilMissFavvy: The question says "can a woman rape a man"? The question did not say "can a woman rape a boy". I agree with you that a woman can rape a boy.
lol. Define man, boy, man in his youth,boy in his youth and male adolescent. Since you want to be smart by half
SHINJA: What the people of Ebonyi need is good food and jobs not airports..How will airport help the poor people of Ebonyi state?
Instead of providing jobs for them you are busy building airport while most of the youths from Ebonyi state are busy hawking lacasera and gala by the road side of Lagos...
You have a point, it's robots that's gonna work in that airport.
mrvitalis: ishekri ,ogoni , and oro nation and Igbos that have over 85% of Nigeria's oil don't even talk but na ijaw , uhrobo , ibiobio , ikwerre way no even get too much oil na them they shout our oil pass
Remember a video of Igbo chief in Rivers state ( ndoni ) saying " those people way they make noise about our oil our oil how many of them have oil wells ?
No tribe have more oil than Igbo nation
But oil per population ? Oro nation is the highest but ibiobio n anang no them even allow them feel their oil Money
lol. Come to kokori and see oil wells like more than 25 in one axis let alone others. Let's not talk of offshore. How many offshore front do the East have? Have you heard of Bonga Fields?
TheOldGods: We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.
So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.
Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.
The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.
My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.
Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?
yinkaOdutuyo: So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.
I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.
When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.
After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.
She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.
I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.
And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.
I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.
Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.
I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.
I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.
So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.
To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:
BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.
At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.
I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.
I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.
But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.
Bit I think as a man you have to man up.
Oga don't mind noise. Somebody that said she isn't hungry suddenly starts salivating at the aroma of the food.
cosmatika: They should strip him of that Oscar award. SIMPle men like him should learn. Don't fight for hoes like jada, lest you get yourself into trouble shouldbe the learning here
TkhGuy: It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,
I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,
She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified, I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,
I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..
I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,
I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,
I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes
I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes
I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,
I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife
I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,
I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder
This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,
We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,
I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,
Reflect7: This whole practice of the Ukrainian govt forcing all men aged 18 to 60 to remain in the country and 'fight' is fascist, authoritarian, and a clear human rights violation. That the UN and other rights organisations have been silent on this is scandalous, appalling and disgusting.
daifeanyi68844: I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady I love so much.
We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom.
Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened.
My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment. She and my father are separated.
One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me, treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her.
On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.
lol. My mom doesn't want me to marry from a particular tribe. Mehn, wen I change am for her nobody tell her. I threaten cut ties with her except Money, buh wouldn't see me. Lol. Her body cool like ice.
airsaylongcome: Lol! Una still dey drag this kind dragging? Na small minds dey talk like this o. Have you heard of Lekki or VI or even Ikeja? I guess you will say they are all in Lagos. But do you know that they are not in Lagos? They are all suburbs of Lagos (Eko). Today Lagos has grown beyond Eko. Warri too has grown beyond old Warri. DSC o, Jakpa o all those suburbs all Na Warri now. That doesn't mean Olu of Warri kingdom reach all those sides
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Mum Is Currently Looking For Me With Police, I'm On The Run! Help by Ekugbeh(m): 11:08am On May 02, 2022
