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Politics › Re: President Buhari To Attend EU-AU Summit In Burssels, Belgium by Ekugbeh(m): 6:28pm On Feb 15, 2022
Lol. They want to Conner Africa to themselves too. Fingers crossed as the cold war begins
Politics › Re: Nigeria, EU To Work Together On Digital Economy, Raising LNG Supply To Europe by Ekugbeh(m): 6:04pm On Feb 15, 2022
They want to sanction Russia their big energy Daddy hence, they turn to Nigeria for help. If not, why is it now, and why is it so urgent.

If I am one of the negotiating team members, I would advocate for Long term supply to the tune at least 25years. If you no cash out now, when?
Romance › Re: Has A Friend Ever Told You He/she Is In Love With You by Ekugbeh(m): 2:03pm On Feb 14, 2022
christianjoy:
She once told me I don't like playing with her, and what was the reason behind that, I was short of words
lol. I don't get, do you work remotely or a student? Don't know why she would ask such questions. By the way, how old are you.
Christianity Etc › Re: Out Of 100k How Much Is My Tithe?? by Ekugbeh(m): 10:26am On Feb 13, 2022
10k
Foreign Affairs › Re: "We Will Not Send Troops To Rescue Americans In Ukraine" - Biden Warns by Ekugbeh(m): 11:17pm On Feb 11, 2022
MyVILLAGEpeople:
grin grin grin

The other time I told some folks on this forum that America can’t go to war with Russia over Ukraine and they were arguing blindly.

This statement from Biden says it all.
lol, you are just being deceived
Crime › Re: Hotel Owner Stab Security Guard To Death In Delta by Ekugbeh(m): 11:06pm On Feb 11, 2022
GeorgeTheCoder:
Delta people are very primitive. I lived there and know this.
cos you lived at the primitive part
Travel › Re: Does It Make Sense To Remain In Nigeria by Ekugbeh(m): 2:58pm On Feb 11, 2022
benpedro:
I left Nigeria in 2015 and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. The peace of mind, clean environment, water, food, health care, being surrounded by civilized people, no generator noise and a better future for your unborn kids. Did I forget to mention that this is my 7th year here and I've not taken any malaria pill! grin Like the posters above advised, that your 300k salary is nothing compared to the peace of mind you'll get abroad. And what is more, you'll earn more if not more than double what you currently earn . So bro, if you're not an educated norther/Muslim find a way and leave that God forsaken country as soon as possible. Do not procrastinate!
which country are you at. I'm into welding and fabrication. Have 2m though, just thinking of migrating.
Travel › Re: Which Country Do You Wish To Migrate To? by Ekugbeh(m): 2:49pm On Feb 11, 2022
Australia
Sports › Re: Rooney: Alex Ferguson Ordered Me Out Of His Office Over Ronaldo by Ekugbeh(m): 1:33pm On Feb 11, 2022
humberjade:
Imagine...you sold Ronaldo and Tevez and then replaced them with Antonio Valencia, a spent Michael Owen and Gabriel Obertan...No be juju be that ? cheesy
allowed or they wanted to leave
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Burnley Vs Manchester United (1 - 1) On 8th February 2022 by Ekugbeh(m): 9:35pm On Feb 08, 2022
Englishisamust:
Paul pooooogba is back!!!!

He better pass Fred and Mac tominay combined
buh they are more consistent than him
Romance › Re: She Rejected My Request To Date, I Moved On, Now She Wants To Move Into My Lodge by Ekugbeh(m): 6:26pm On Feb 07, 2022
Vollon234:
I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.
sometimes y'all get urselves worked up unnecessarily. You should have told her, u didn't take her calls cos ur girl was around, period.
Romance › Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Ekugbeh(m): 8:10pm On Feb 06, 2022
Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now cry

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat sad

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls cry"

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying cry. Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad cry. I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do cry.
Babe, just take it easy. We know you are hurt, any action you going to take might be devastating hence take it easy. Allow your anger to wane a bit.
My advice.
Politics › Re: Desmond Elliot Celebrates His 48th Birthday (Photo) by Ekugbeh(m): 8:05pm On Feb 06, 2022
Hahah
Politics › Re: Full List Of State Chairmen Inaugurated By APC by Ekugbeh(m): 8:01am On Feb 05, 2022
Built2last:
Ugochukwu Agballa has gone from contesting for governorship to being state chairman.
lol. Seems you don't know how politics is runned. They made him chairman to seal him up
Family › Re: How Do I Apologize To My Wife? by Ekugbeh(m): 1:48pm On Feb 04, 2022
gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.
You are just rude
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu: Completion Of Lekki Port Final Solution To Apapa Gridlock by Ekugbeh(m): 10:21am On Feb 02, 2022
Naptu2 you have done well
Christianity Etc › Re: Ebimina Tamuno: I Gave Up On Yahoo Yahoo After Pastor Ibiyeomie’s Curses by Ekugbeh(m): 9:42am On Jan 30, 2022
Wow immorality has become moral. God is great
Crime › Re: 3 Boys Slaughter Girlfriend, Burn Her Head For Money Ritual In Ogun (Graphic) by Ekugbeh(m): 5:08pm On Jan 29, 2022
Cyntie55:
J
you married
Career › Re: Help!! My New Job Is At Risk by Ekugbeh(m): 4:23pm On Jan 29, 2022
People mostly club where they can pass the night like do you have a lodge
Career › Re: Which Of This Hand Works Earn The Most Money? by Ekugbeh(m): 4:20pm On Jan 29, 2022
Learn welding and fabrication
Forum Games › Re: Who Can Solve This Question? A Or B? (photo Inside) by Ekugbeh(m): 4:04pm On Jan 29, 2022
A.
Sports › Re: Infantino Criticized For Saying World Cup Could Stop African Migrants Dying by Ekugbeh(m): 7:32am On Jan 29, 2022
Family › Re: My Wife Believes I Am Occultic by Ekugbeh(m): 10:03am On Jan 28, 2022
worriedhubby:
I have been married to my wife for 10years now. My 1st child (7 years) has some health challenge. My daughter's challenge was diagnosed at age 3. Same year, I came back from work to see my child having crisis. I asked my wife why she didn't take my DD to the hospital. She responded, "no more hospital in this house". I tried calling a friend to drive me an my girl to the hospital, she got the phone from me and ended the call. Her words were , " if you are aware what is causing your child's illness, you better let me know ". I kept focused. Got my girl the needed medical help. Next day when I got home, I asked her, she refused answering. I later told the priest that wedded us, who later spoke with her.

In 2020, I got a call from a church in Port Harcourt, that someone brought my picture to the pastor. That I am the evil man causing my wife's and daughter's illness. The person that took my picture is my wife's brother. I was mad! But family and friends helped me to keep calm. A month later, my wife wouldn't UnCloth in my presence. If I entered the room while she is dressing or the bathroom while she is bathing, she will quickly cover up. When I confronted her, she told me it is because she believes my "hands are not clean ". That she was told that I am occultic before she even joined me. That because I am "hot tempere","don't pray certain prayer points ", she believes that I have some dark powers. I did my best to refute her claim in a calm way. But was deeply hurting. I reported her to a Pastor at Mountain of Fire where she now worships. She changed and told the man that she believes I am a child of God.

Just few weeks ago, I picked a paper under our bed where my wife wrote to someone how her brother had a dream in December and was told that I am my wizard causing my child's illness. In that write up, my wife also claimed she had her own revelation that I am in some occultic powers. When I showed her the paper, she tried to cause a scene, but I left her. I only asked, "are all these true?" "Why are you bent on labeling me what I am not?"
Later that day, she came up with lies, that the paper was just some prayer points she was putting down.

Just yesterday, someone called to inform me that he was with a certain owner of prayerhouse when my wife called to tell the woman why she believes I am occultic.

I have tried to ignore her, but I am gradually getting worried. What is she really up to? She doesn't believe in the medical diagnosis for my DD, hence, she won't give the child the necessary medication if I am not home.

How does someone believes that the hubby is occultic, and wants to harm her, yet still tries to initiate s3x with the said husband? When she had a surgery last year, I was the person cooking for her till she could get back on her feet. Why did she not refuse the foods? Finally, who knowingly get married to someone she believes is occultic, then start running to prayer houses for deliverance?

Could it be my wife is mentally sick? Or she is projecting who she is on me?
It's so painful how the one you seems to turn against you. That's how one of my boss's wife accused him of the same. Buh a well respected pastor cleared her, the story later turned around. Lol. No be everything ear hear naim mouth de talk abeg
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Ekugbeh(m): 9:38pm On Jan 24, 2022
Iyaebe:
You all don't understand and it makes me feel bad,she's acting so cheap and she's not comporting herself just because she saw an attractive man.She's too forward and it's irritating
jus shut up. All these children sef, who de give them fone.

Go on Twitter and see ladies ( classy ladies) shooting their shot and you are here blowing grammar.

You Just a bitter fellow
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Young Bola Tinubu In Suit by Ekugbeh(m): 8:36pm On Jan 15, 2022
trutharena:
Below is the pics of Tinubu.
una don start o.
Suffer no de taya una??
Phones › Re: Windscribe VPN Mocks Nigerians And Buhari After Twitter Ban Was Lifted (Photos) by Ekugbeh(m): 2:31pm On Jan 13, 2022
Windscribe all the way
Sports › Re: If You Are The Goalkeeper In This Situation What Will You Do? (photo) by Ekugbeh(m): 12:40pm On Jan 12, 2022
AstroG:
Juninho scored 77 free-kicks for club and country.
una get time to answer people on NL sef o
Romance › Re: Just Found Out I Am A Month Pregnant by Ekugbeh(m): 6:46pm On Jan 09, 2022
eeewise:
The guy denied and blocked access and contact to him
so, she doesn't have who's responsible yet
Romance › Re: Just Found Out I Am A Month Pregnant by Ekugbeh(m): 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2022
First who is responsible for the pregnancy
Travel › Re: How Were They Able To Construct The Great Pyramid Without Modern Machineries? by Ekugbeh(m): 2:31pm On Dec 30, 2021
Omakraid:
You believe what you believe while I believe mine
lols. Since it fable, then the construction of the pyramid is also fable too.
Like to be intelligent in their own way
Politics › Re: Amaechi: Money Jonathan Left Behind Couldn’t Sustain Nigeria Three Weeks by Ekugbeh(m): 10:19pm On Dec 26, 2021
Biodun556:
https://punchng.com/money-jonathan-left-behind-couldnt-sustain-nigeria-three-weeks-amaechi/?amp
buh where did Buhari get money to give out as bailout. Sometimes you guys think you are talking to morons. Oh sorry, election is around the corner, so more propaganda would have to be engineered

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