Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Excellently said, Rokiatu.

It's sad to read your ordeal, and I pray that you find comfort soon. In all of this, the one person I'll blame is your husband. The way a wife is treated by her inlaws is largely dependent on the stance of the husband to his wife.

One of husband's duty is to protect his wife. Of course, some in-laws may come with drama, but the man shouldn't allow them to have their way with his wife. He should have set the tone from the beginning and put everyone in their place.

Blaming you afterwards for how things turned out wasn't manly either. From your story, you did nothing to warrant all of this. The truth remains that your husband is the only person that can restore your respect in the family. The question is if he's willing to stick by you through whatever that might arise from that venture.

obembet:
I wil beg all Thier igbos in South East to relocate to Lagos and vote Thier son o...

CHINEDU....

God saved your life but not for what you are doing with it now.

The more they congratulate him, the louder the embarrassment and humiliation when Peter Obi reclaims his mandate Lol 😂

God can never be mocked!

powerblaze:
Too bad LP doesn't have a known Governorship candidate for Lagos. This would have been a serious back to back embarrassment for APC.
Sanwolu go dey sweat seriously now.

LP has a governorship candidate. His name is Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour.

For the fact that you had to ask shows that there's a conflict within you. The part of your body that's supposed to be covered is being shown for all and sundry to see; how's that supposed to be a sign of intelligence?

If you want to go naked, then don't bother with clothes at all. Save everyone, yes, yourself included, the stress and just go nude. Afterall we're in a woke generation, right?

But for decency sake, cover the hell up! Jeez!

Lol well, if the D has done right by you, then by all means show appreciation.

This is just disheartening. So a man can't leave his wife for a period of time without hearing this sort of news? Sometimes I don't blame men who vow never to get married because what's all this?!

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digitite:


Based on my research. Start with python ( Good in calculations ), PHP ( Web Applications ). Javascript ( Interactivity ; also good for API integrations ). HTML and CSS ( Building blocks of front end ) are very easy. While SQL is for Database.

Since the Cloud Infrastructure is dominating. Always work with Libraries and frameworks compatible with modern systems and works with traditional systems as well. Make it Hybrid. For example, make your programs be accessible to all versions of the Operating System.

All in all, choose a sector and specialise in, e.g Health, Education, etc. It will make you a professional sooner than later. While experience makes you an expert.

I appreciate you for taking out time to educate me. I have all I need to start now. God bless you!

digitite:
Days are gone when you need expensive laptops or desktop PC's to learn programming or even develop a solution.

You can now write and run your codes on a cloud browser.

Also the type of Laptops you would need depend on the kind of programs you are developing. A graphic intensive app like games , etc or multimedia app requires much computing power than text based calculators....

All in all, the RAM and Processor is the most important in this case. All other tools you need are hosted on the Server.

Thanks boss! Which language will you advice I learn for app design?

Excallibur:
The best you can get with the budget you have.
Consider ram, the bigger the better
Processor
Dedicated video ram

Thank you, sir. But can you tell me how much to budget for a standard laptop?

Hello, gurus! I'm totally new to programming and I'm looking for advice on how to start. I heard someone say that not all laptops are good for programming. If that's true, which brand can you guys recommend I purchase?

Secondly, I want to learn how to build apps. I'm ready to put in the work. What language should I learn and where can I find resources?

Thanks for your help.

Una no get talk

There is a form of loyalty that isn't dependent on money and that's what we're currently seeing in the Peter Obi movement. And I must confess, this is just the beginning.

Take away money and stomach infrastructure from most of the people supporting other candidates and watch their supposed loyalty deflate like a punctured balloon.

Ask God to baptize you with the spirit of righteousness and watch what happens.

Congratulations, sir. This child will bring your family and the entire world joy and progress in Jesus name, Amen.

Happy birthday, great man of Jehovah! I wish you more years in perfect health and greater power and anointing.

wayne4loan:
and you too... Happy sunday

Happy Sunday.

wayne4loan:
ok

God bless you.

wayne4loan:
Jesus

Please, do not use the name of Jesus in vain.

God bless you, sir, in Jesus name, Amen.

No.

Hmmm... Where do I start? This God called Jesus is too loving and faithful to me. When I'm down, he's there to lift me up. When sin makes me unworthy, his blood takes care of that. He's just to kind to me. I was close to death few months ago but he said no and brought me out of the death bed.

Although I'm not faithful as I should, he doesn't stop loving me even for a second. I love him, but he loves me even more. Thank you Jesus for loving and choosing me.

Congratulations.

What is all this rubbish? When will these happenings come to an end??

At this point, this thing has become extremely embarrassing! Of what use has the past borrowings been to the average Nigerian? Does this administration want to beat Nigeria into coma?

Does it mean that this APC-led government lacks the mental capacity to take this government to a better height without first running it into the ground, thereby making it uninhabitable and ungovernable for the next generation?

This government is a disaster and a huge insult to the most populous black country in the world!

Biafra will be declared a country this June.

At the beginning of this year I was owing two guys a combined sum of 15k plus I had my house rent to pay. I was so much in distress and my heart was heavy.

I was close to tears, so I decided that if I just cry, I'd rather do so in my Church. I came to Church but it was locked. I sat in a secluded part of the church and let my emotions take over. I cried like I hadn't for a very long time. I didn't want to be embarrassed by those guys, and I told that to God.

I used my phone to search for scriptures and as I prayed I was also quoting scriptures. When I felt better I left. That night God sent me all the money I needed through someone I hadn't met before. I only communicated with him over the internet. I simply mentioned my problems to him, not even expecting any help from him. He instantly took it up and asked for my account number. The rest, they say, is history.

To my Father in Heaven be all the glory in Jesus name, Amen.