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MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Nah this is sad

They get released almost immediately, at most, they get between 6 months to 2 years imprisonment, with an option of fine (according to the law) .
We don't have strong laws on fraud.

garfield1:
No need to watch.check their history.you dont expect a place like rivers to vote apc so suddenly

When did i mention Rivers state voting for APC?
Did you read my write up?
Did you check the maps i posted?
SE, SS and NC is for PDP and has always been for PDP, it's a bit dicey in the SW, however the North always votes along ethnis lines, thus, Atiku. My submission is backed by historical data.

garfield1:
Places like zamfara,kebbi,borno,yobe,katsina can't vote pdp...se will go to obi.atiku will win ss narrowly and nc will go to aoc narrowly.

Let's watch and see

I think power will remain in the North.
Note that the SE and SS and North Central are aligned with PDP when it comes to Presidential elections, they always vote along the same lines.
The SW were aligned with PDP until 2015, and when they went with the North. A lot of SW youths too would not vote BAT.
A typical Northern would rather vote for Atiku, than vote for a southerner, no matter the religious beliefs he holds.

We are expecting to see, for the first time in the political history of Nigeria, the North align with the SE and SS to vote in Atiku.

I can't speak for Obi. He would get a lot of votes but it wouldn't be enough to beat Atiku.
I see him coming second in the elections. I love Obi and really wish he can win, but the political sphere in Nigeria is not ready for Obi. Perhaps in 2027.

I have attached the maps of 2019 and 2015 and 2011 elections. See for yourselves and make the analysis

naheem8307:
This topic just reminisces my thought of worries over my girl friend whom I have at heart to become my life partner.. At the beginning of our relationship, she actually did opened up to me of her past relationship that she has had just a man in her life and she only had conjugal with him twice which was the same guy who deflowered her regrettably, but that was never an issue anyways. I did the same by opening up to her too "Vice Versa" since we are engaged and about to get married anytime soon.
To cut the story short, recently she happens to visit me at my place and one way or the other, we slipped from the vow we had together not to mate until after marriage but the obvious happened. To my greatest surprise, I realized the "V" was too widen and not tighten as supposed, I was confused and she immediately saw the picture of disaffection of the outcome glaring on my face, I couldn't held it but to ask her several questions about the statement of her past sexual life as narrated sometime ago if indeed it was the real account of her past or am being framed into a deceitful story tale, but she insisted it was the true story. I can remember she sworn with the holy book on two occasion in order to buttress her confession, though that was done at own will..

So the question here is and this is mainly to the medical expert on this forum for more enlightenment and advice, what could be the cause of such a change in her body ? or was there something she is hiding about her past " may be she is a kind of wayward type unknowingly to me which imply to her current status ? Or could there be anything like "V" tear or cut as align with the topic ? despite the fact she has never giving birth before.

A very good response will really help a brother because our relationship has never remain the same afterwas and to be frank I am thinking of other options lately.

There are different types, shapes, sizes and color of vagina, some virgins have wide vaginas, some sex workers have tight vaginas. Some women are born with the hymen and some are not, but that does not mean they are not virgins, this is why most doctors believe virginity is a myth because you really can't tell who a virgin is or how many sex partners a woman has had by the size of her vagina
Note that the vagina returns to its natural size after sex/childbirth

You can't ban abortions, you can only ban safe abortions. America has the highest maternal mortality rate among developed countries... Why don't you stay out of our uterus and fix the shitty health care system.

Don't over think things, just live life and focus on yourself and mental health,people that don't have kids still thrive, you can travel the world, pick a hobby, date as much as you want or do something to fill your time.
I do want to get married but i don't want kids, I've been with guys that feel exactly the same way. Life will go on, we will be fine.

If it's a Ganglion cyst, there's no cause for alarm. A trained and registered Nurse at your local hospital can treat it. Treatment is simple, they just insert a needle and draw out the cyst, it has a milky/yellow/red oil-like consistency. 2-3 times should do for a cyst that small. They'll place you on some simple drugs later.

But you have one on your head so it might be lipoma. Please seek proper medical advice and diagnosis from professionals, nairaland is hardly the place

Normalize cutting off toxic people from your life, including toxic family members.

Efik language - Udari

She will catch up, she's just 3, still very much a baby.

Na wa oh

KayB:
For those people who are frequent at domestic Airports travel since the advent of covid pandemic , please I want to book air ticket from Lagos to Abuja but I need to know the present routine if I need to show evidence of being tested or anything related. Thanks

Nope
You don't need a PCR test or be fully vaccinated for domestic flights.
You only need a negative PCR test for international flights... The vaccine is not compulsory

Can a man with dreadlocks teach?
What are his qualifications?
If he's able to pass the interview process, then he should be capable of transferring knowledge to the pupils.

Good luck with that
Addiction is something else.
You can not help him, only he can help himself.
Offer him help, but he has to make that decision and commitment to stop taking drugs, and it takes a lot of love, care and patience. I know people that relapsed after 5-10 years, especially when meth and crack is involved.
It is difficult but possible.

I used to be in the same place untill recently
1- Water, please drink a lot of water everyday (you have to be intentional about this)
2-introduce fruits to your diet
3-panadol period pain
4- hot water bottle
5- pain relief patch (just stick it on your abdomen and go about your duties). It works like magic
6- ovira device... It's a small wearable device that stimulates the nerves and stops your period pain instantly. This is about $130 and it is very effective, no drugs no side effects. Even women with PCOS use it. Just Google it to learn more. You don't need the drugs or hot water bottle, just stick this to your abdomen and go about your duties

Also, you can meet another doctor for a second opinion, sounds like you might have PCOS

Lollittaa:
As far as I could remember, I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?

Lollittaa:
As far as I could remember, I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?

My dear, just starve him and all that rubbish will stop... my younger brother of 2 years acted that way, he would finish eating and not even wash plates, won't even help out when I'm cooking. I stopped cooking, I eat outside very well before coming home or buy bread, cereal, etc. When he saw hunger for 2 weeks and considered the cost of spending his money on buying food, he had to give himself sense.
Cooking and housekeeping are basic life skills and I see people that can not do these things as irresponsible

Abetterperson:
My mom sister son decided to stay with us because of his family financial struggles. He's a bit older than me but we are of the same age group. Firstly I noticed this guy is sexist and when I say sexist I mean it. He believes a woman job is to clean the house and take of the family, a good woman in his eyes is a woman without an opinion, smile and always do what she is told.
He views me as an inferior, he tries to order me around and gets angry when I refuse. He doesn't really talk to me which honestly I think is for the best.

When he first arrive at our apartment he was shocked that he had to do any chores calling it a woman's work. He doesn't respect females infact he body shames women.

Am on my period and we are the only ones in the house because of my cramps am in pain. In the morning we ate bread with bama and tea. Just now this guy asked me what we are going to eat because he's hungry (he's doesn't like eating outside, he prefer homemade food). I told him I don't know,next thing he told me to figure it out.

Just because I Know the kind of person he is, I kept quite. He came to me again asking the same question, I told him to help me ground pepper and a bit of onion so that I will be able to prepare stew and rice, normally I would use our bender but because there is no light and am afraid to put on our gen because of my mom.

Next thing I hear is this guy just shouting like a failed musician, telling me that I don't have character and respect. I didn't answer because to me he's a madman

Am waiting for my mom to come, I Know she will take his side because she doesn't want him to feel maltreated but what is all this.

Am not his wife still yet this is no way to treat a woman whether she is your wife or not.

Xscape047:
Prove it .

He said it during an interview

They are married

Xscape047:
Nasso

Congrats ooo.

Try marry the Mama...