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Understanding matters, but for me i strongly agree with sharing the same room

Love endures,

Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths.
In our life many roads would come our way as we journey through life.

There are roads that lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and religious vocation.

There are also roads that lead to fame and fortune on one hand, or isolation and poverty on the other.

There are roads to happiness as there are roads to sadness, roads towards victory and jubilation, and roads leading to defeat and disappointment.

Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. Perhaps the most perplexing road that you would encounter is a crossroad. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take?

What is the guarantee that we would choose the right one along the way?

Would you take any road, or just stay where you are: in front of a crossroad?


There are no guarantees.

You do not really know where a road will lead you until you take it. There are no guarantees. This is one of the most important things you need to realize about life.

Nobody said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that it would be returned.

So please as you make your decision remember love endures,

Spoken words are very powerful,i am very careful how i talk not only to my children but other people as well especially when i am angry.

We are all familiar with the old adage that "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me?" That is such a false statement. Of course words can hurt you, and often times they do. When spoken by a loved one, its effect can feel even more detrimental. The harmful effect that words have can often be permanent regardless of intent.

A person's self-esteem and self worth are invaluable. One can't assume to postulate the value that mere words either written or spoken can have on those around them. Ones self-esteem is how they feel about themselves. When harmful words are all you hear over and over again, the magnitude of its very negative connotation can be stagnating. Eventually, one starts to believe these words to be true.

I PLEAD with anyone using abusive words on their kids or anyone to please stop it.

The path of the just is as a shining light that shines brighter and brighter , a father is expected to use all the resources at his disposal to make life better for is children.

So my children are expected to do better than me in all ways .

WONDERS shall never end,this is a work of God

This is a thought provoking post, what I can add is that marraige is a not for boys and girls many are getting into marraige today for the wrong reasons.

This is why I really appreciate your courage to address it this way.

SHAKERZ_1 looking at what many have said especially pinkielove all i can say is that the ball is in your court ,look well before you leap.

Wish you happy decision making.

Kindly stand firm your ground this issue will die naturally if you dont compromise your faith in God.This light affliction is working for you an eternal weight of glory,so hold your peace and soon you will see the salvation of God.

Kellysopy thanks for bringing up this post.My advise is simple and brief there are three people you should never lie to .

They are your;Lawyer ,Pastor and Doctor so kindly discuss with them likewise if you have a mentor he or she can also help you out.

as for me my wife is my next of kin because i love her as Christ love the church.

Money without romance is very dangerous to any family health,likewise romance without finance so ,i strongly advise a balance which can be achieve by planning and proper communication with understanding

"Don't be afraid to give up the good to go for the great."

— John D. Rockefeller: Was an American industrialist and philanthropist


Hi forumites,

While many people believe they are entitled to live a great life,
top achievers I've met over the years know they
must take 100% responsibility for achieving the lifestyle,
relationships, financial freedom and opportunities they
experience in their lives.

This isn't always easy.
But one way to start making progress is to begin
responding differently to the events that occur in your life.

I challenge you to be courageous,what lies within you is far greater than you can ever imagine,

Good day All,

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In my own humble opinion marriage is by CHOICE not by FORCE, unfortunately a lot of people especially ladies see it as do or die affair.It should not be so

Lets continue thanking God,and watch out for how long this constant power supply will be, I am really enjoying it sha o

The festive season is around the corner,so many event are line up ,likewise so many people like you are already calculating how they are going to make millions.

There are many tips that you can use to become an event planner and become one of the best, however, you need to know that to become an excellent event planner you need to pay attention to the fine details and offer the best to your clients. This can take a lot of time from your day-to-day activities. To become an event planner you need to put forth a lot of energy and time.

1. The first tip and the most important one is that you need to get in contact with some of the best supplies. You need to have a business contract and connection with many suppliers so that you can offer the best to your clients. Remember when you have the best suppliers; your reputation will be excellent.

2. Also, always give your clients options. Have a least a dozen venders that you work with on a regular basis so that your clients can choose from a few options. When you give your clients options they will feel more evolved in the planning process.

3. You need to think about what kind of events that you will plan. They can be small dinners to huge weddings so you need to come up with creative ways to bring life to a party. There are going to be a lot of signatures styles, but if you continuously research then you can keep up on trends and event activities.

4. When you are doing a wedding that is multicultural, you need to learn about both of the cultures that they want present in the wedding. This will give you a better understanding of the traditions that they want to honor.

5. You also need to think about your location of business. Is your office somewhere respectable or in the ghetto? You need to make sure that your clients are going to feel comfortable in your office. This way you can have more cliental.

6. As an event planner you need to learn how to communicate effectively. You need to know what is acceptable and what is not by reviewing all your details with the clients. The party isn't about you, but the clients. You need to keep that in mind. Even if you think sometime is wrongfully place, listen to your clients needs and wants.

7. Another way for you to enhance your reputation is to keep ties with the clients who were very pleased with your performance. Use them as references, but always ask before giving out any information. This way you can give future clients and idea of your quality.

8. You may also want to ask your clients if you can take general pictures of the event so that future clients will be able to see what exactly you are capable of doing. This is will make a lot of people hire you on the spot.

9. Talk to the client and set a budget before contacting any of your suppliers. This way you can communicate effectively with your suppliers and clients. You can offer the best possible solutions and ideas within a budget. If you can pull off an extraordinary event within a budget, then you will be recommended to everyone. There are only two things that matter and that is the design and cost of an event.

10. Finally, you need to have a personality that allows you to interact with others and really hear what others want. You need to have the strength to handle everything with a collective attitude, as well as, make the planning process fun for your clients. Your personality and the way you handle things makes a huge difference in being a successful event coordinator or an okay planner.



To get more gist about event planning ,participate in this thread and have fun, see you soon

nice contribution from you all, I have learnt some new stuff

You can advertise online by using;

*google adword

*writing articles about your product

*using of banner

*put up a mini website

*Use an autoresponder

*Write a report about the benefits of your product and servicethen give out freely.


To advertise OFFLINE you can use

*Classified advert

*Handbill

*Radio or television

*brand good quality but less expensive gift and distribute it freely.

Do research on any of these method and employ the one that favours you most.

Although there are several online biz INFORMATION MARKETING stands out among them , Even that 3k is too much to start,if you already have a laptop connected to the internet.

Please tread softly,I suggest you seek legal advise also before making your final decision, then pray for God guidance

There are several opportunities you can tap into but first you need to sit down , set Specific ,Measurable ,Achievable ,

Timely Goals in your area of interest. Then do something daily in that direction .I advise you to read " Think and Grow

Rich By Napoleon Hills.

I suggest you check google and visit some of the standard creche to make some enquiry.Likewise you can get in contact with an educational consultant

Please bros ,do what is in your heart but remember whatever you sow you shall reap and the fear of man is a snare.So make haste to do what is in your heart to do.

This is ridiculous,please note this is beyond just being an African man it is a total demonstration of foolishness and ignorance of the highest order.

African men are wonderful and I will forever be grateful to God for being an African,Nairaland forumites.

The man is the one who have refuse ti grow out of his 17th century mentality.

FORGIVE but dont forget to be wise as serpent,gentle as dove and be bold as a lion to handle the consequence of whatever decision you take at the end.


Enjoy your moments

I agree with you to some extent, but my own view is that the meaning of "true love" is bastardize many are only in lust.

My best shot so far is [b]24 [/b]starring Jack Bauer

It a film that emphasis tragedy of life at home and how to deal with it as a man.I learnt several things from it

* leadership principles
*decision making
*self reliance
*discipline etc

Enjoy your moments.