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RomanceRe: Maladaptive Daydreaming- What Is It And How Does It Affect You? by Elmiguel(m): 1:47pm On Jul 07, 2024
Mistral:
I dey happy say the article help you well well! True true, when you sabi the name of something, e dey change everything. Abeg, if you no mind, share more about how e don affect your life. How e dey take disturb your day-to-day, and you don find any way wey dey help you manage am? Your experience fit help plenty people wey dey go through the same thing. Thank you for sharing! 😊
Ah bros! The issue strong o. This maladaptive daydreaming almost ruined my life, especially when I was 25.

There was a period in my life when I would just stay at home with earphones in my ears, completely lost in my own head. I'd listen to music or epic soundtracks, and before I knew it, I'd be transported to another world entirely. I go spend hours, even entire days, just dey think about rubbish for room.

When I turned 25, it hit me that I hadn't really achieved anything tangible. Simple practical things like applying for jobs, learning new skills or even getting into relationships were all difficult for me.

I remember one time I had a job interview. I had prepared thoroughly. But as I waited, I plugged in my earphones and started imagining several things that was not even important at that moment. Before I knew it, I missed the interview. That was when I realized that my daydreaming was costing me a lot of opportunities.

It wasn't easy at all. I struggled to balance my fantasies with real life. I began to feel like I was failing myself and my family. I couldn't keep up with responsibilities and it felt like I was being left behind while my peers moved forward just like you stated in the post.

By God's grace sha one day I had to be honest with myself admit say I dey waste my life. I Gradually, I began to regain control of my life. E no easy but sha life dey go.

To people wey dey read my post, if you no get this problem you no know wetin God do for you. You better thank your stars. Na me know wetin dis thing do me.
RomanceRe: Maladaptive Daydreaming- What Is It And How Does It Affect You? by Elmiguel(m): 1:17pm On Jul 07, 2024
Wow! 😲😲 This article don open my eyes well well. I no even sabi say this thing get name. I don too dey do am every day, e don become normal thing for me, but to be honest, e dey frustrate my life. Thank you, OP. 😊

But to be honest this thing dey frustrate person destiny.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A pill journey with Michael to #Make_me_better by Elmiguel(m): 12:04pm On Apr 21, 2021
***grabs mat and sits down***

Op fire away. I don settle. Make I grab something.

Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m): 1:40pm On Feb 25, 2021
powerhouse3:
Advising a lady to close leg and stop following bad guy is like taking a fish out of water and expecting it to live



A lady can close leg for what nairaland guys describe as ' SIMP ',but truly ,can't close thier leg for them Bad boy aka 'Alpha male'



...mosdii,... what's your take on this


sapphire....what's the future saying?
Like this guy grin

Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m): 1:37pm On Feb 25, 2021
ThiagoKid:
Cc;
Elmiguel
Thanks man

Modified : Op you've written well. Hope they listen
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m): 8:06am On Feb 23, 2021
BadRadio:
shut up ! I am one of the gatekeepers of nairaland... learn to watch your mouth before I kick your teeth down your throat.

Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m): 7:36am On Feb 23, 2021
femi4:
Age is just a number, you can have these knowledge even later in life
and also earlier grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m): 7:35am On Feb 23, 2021
Derare:
But nobody is forcing you to give a lady money or even aid her ,you have the power to say NO and still move on with your fucking life.Stop making it look like you are being forced or even under duress when it was all happening.
This particular gender will ,willing give a lady money and still come online to wail.haba!!!
OK ma
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m): 2:53pm On Feb 22, 2021
Mikester:
Upcoming thread - Things every lady should know before 30
Pls tag me when you deliver @Mikester
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Elmiguel(m):
Great message OP. This is sure the most inspiring and wisdom filled post I have read this year.

Lemme add my own.

16. Stop sending money to broke ladies

For God sake, you don't owe any lady anything. You are not their father. No dey send money to these lazy entitled bitches else na you go cry last.

E don tey when I send even #100 to these broke ladies.

That's how one was asking me for 12k last week. Me that haven't even gotten a good job yet. I just tell her to get lost.

If you are a guy and you are still sending money like father christmas, my brother you are on your own o.

Mods help push to front page
RomanceRe: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Elmiguel(m): 12:00pm On Feb 11, 2021
Unfortunately most men are weak nowadays and masculinity is dying.

Thanks Op. I'm touched. wink
RomanceRe: Let's Kill The Day's Boredom (come In Here) by Elmiguel(m): 1:04pm On Feb 03, 2021
On the first day, the female principal summoned him and he showed up at her office

"Good morning ma," John greeted
She looked up from her desk and replied his greeting then pointed him to seat.

"How was your night?"

"It was fine ma. I slept well."

"Good to hear. I hope you like our school?" John nodded smiling affirmatively.

She continued "I want you to know that you're welcome here and we would be looking forward to seeing your best. I must warn you, don't go beyond education with the girls here else you might be prosecuted if you know what I mean... " She said sternly looking him in the eye

"I understand ma. You have nothing to worry about. I'm not that kind of person..."
RomanceRe: The Woman Of Misfortune (literally explicit) by Elmiguel(m): 11:36am On Feb 01, 2021
Mikester:
I was walking down the street and I passed by the abode of the woman of misfortune. I saw her dressed like an harlot and unapologetically uncouth.

She is haughty and arrogant. Her heart is as black as coal and her eyes as deceitful as a veil. She has no worth and her feet are quick to run into destruction.

She doesn't know how to build but knows how to destroy. She is regularly found along the roadside dressed like the prostitute that she is, she abides in the congregation of unproductive women, always busy with unproductive discussions every fine day that passes.

She hates everyone in her street and always have something negative to say about everyone. She goes to church with her looks but abandons her heart at home. She is allergic to wise counsel and fights dirty.

She speaks evil of virginity and sexual purity. She mocks women who are upright and pure.

She loves to party. All the hotels know her name. Her voice is heard at every club around. She is found dancing for the drunkards and scornful men. She is a sex maniac and is always looking for a man to satisfy her undying lust.

All the same, she brings no value to any man's life only problems upon problems. So she lives her life, a woman of misfortune.

The man who patronises her is set for destruction as that's only what she can offer. His life will be brought to shabbles before his eyes. There is more hope for a beggar than for him.

If he finds himself committed to her, he has subjected his life to many sorrows. Her weight will not let him to fly neither will it let him to prosper. She will do him evil and less good all the days of his life.

Inevitably, his days shall be in endless strife and sadness all because he was devoid of understanding. All because he noticed her beauty but ignored her heart. He will cry and his tears shall be many. A man who had a future so bright brought down low by a woman he thought was a blessing to him. So he lives his life, a slave to her deceit.



Epilogue: To every man reading this, don't be that man. Be wise enough to drop any woman who shows any of those traits above. You do this for the future you, so that he will not be found in a stress he never bargained for.

Stop sleeping with every woman. Shun premarital sex. Don't give in to it. If only some men could see the hearts of these women they sleep with, to see what she thinks of him, the hatred and jealousy in her heart for him, to see the evil plans she has concerning him even at the moment they're having sex, they will flee and never look back.

Men, stop giving your strength to women. Don't let cheap sex steal the blessings that has been prepared for you and women do not awaken love before it's time. Do not be the woman of misfortune, rather be a woman worthy of praise. Don't give in to premarital sex. There is a lot of time for sex after marriage. Don't rush.

Use the time and the chances you have now to invest in yourself, trusting in God and his word (if you're a Christian) and you will surely be happier in the future in every aspect of your life. The wise shall take heed.



Is there something you have in mind that you're willing to share or perhaps a question that needs relief? Please use the comment section below.
You're wise. Nice piece.

Mods please front page material

May God no let us marry woman of misfortune o.
RomanceRe: Romance Relationship - Lessons I've Gained From Experience by Elmiguel(m): 1:12pm On Jan 28, 2021
I concur op. Your brain dey there. Let me add this:

17 - Don't spend anyhow on any girl
18 - Never take back a cheating partner
19 - Never return to an ex. It will always end up the same
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:52pm On Jan 14, 2021
Please someone help me through this difficulty...
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:48pm On Jan 14, 2021
Xenry:
I don't believe people that are begging on Nairaland again, after the case of saulstalker (slimslimqqq).
So this story has a high chance of being fake, sorry.
I understand your point Sir and you're right to have doubts but how do I prove it to you?
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:28pm On Jan 14, 2021
I'm not the worst but I'm not living as good as I use to. I need help from a merciful heart. I don't want to lose this opportunity. Please help me
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:23pm On Jan 14, 2021
FalseProphet1:
I'm seeing that you're fake your story is fake, that you just want to beg people for money.
That Sir you wrote up there is what you want to believe not reality. Thanks for your attention and may you not find yourself in a situation like mine
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:21pm On Jan 14, 2021
Stephenmoka4:
What bank did to me and haven't resolved, sad o. We still survive sad
I sympathise with you Sir but we all need a helping hand at times. I'm a survivor but at the moment and this stage , I need to be more... Pls help me if you can.
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:16pm On Jan 14, 2021
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I appreciate this Sir but I have to decline. I need actual help at the moment. Pls if you can help me here I would be very grateful. Thanks again.
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op): 1:08pm On Jan 14, 2021
I'm not fake. Please I need actual assistance. Please..
RomanceNairalanders Abeg Come To My Aid by Elmiguel(op):
Abeg, I no come here to scam anybody. I dey need help now, that's why I open this thread. Abeg, make una hear me out. Thank you for your patience.

I need some money to secure one job wey I don dey hope for, but right now, I no get money. I need to buy some items wey go cost about #5000, but I only get #2000 left. I be student, and I dey far from home. Abeg, I dey beg anybody wey fit help me with this. Any amount wey you fit give, I go really appreciate. Abeg, help me.

Ilegend
Nazgul
Lovetha
RomanceRe: Sad Truth Most Ladies Can Relate To If They Ever Had A Crush [Picture thread] by Elmiguel(m): 11:19am On Jan 11, 2021
mjgoshi:
beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder but do you realise that when when a thing is beautifully every body becomes a beholder

RomanceRe: Sad Truth Most Ladies Can Relate To If They Ever Had A Crush [Picture thread] by Elmiguel(m): 11:17am On Jan 11, 2021
Nice thread. In other news, somewhere in Lagos...

FamilyRe: How Do I Inform My Mother About My Relationship? by Elmiguel(m): 5:02pm On Jan 10, 2021
Richy4:
Leave her oooo she's in love smiley Didn't u see in her description that the man was taller, good looking with straight legs and straight teeth? grin
That one na yeye love
RomanceRe: A Man Reportedly Got Married To Twins Because One Can’t Live Without The Other. by Elmiguel(m):
Nice. Hope they will still be that close when children start coming forth?

RomanceRe: Lady Narrates How She Married Her Twin Brother And Had A Child For Him [VIDEO] by Elmiguel(m):
Pure mental disorder and ill obsession
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Woman Who Is Cold To In-laws by Elmiguel(m):
Considering the topic, my answer is no.
FamilyRe: How Do I Inform My Mother About My Relationship? by Elmiguel(m): 10:29am On Jan 10, 2021
Cadburyy:
He's not that kind of man , thanks
You can't guarantee that.
FamilyRe: Help!at What Age Can I Leave My Parents House? Am Tired!!!!! by Elmiguel(m):
You aren't ready to be alone. Relax and enjoy your time with your family while it lasts
FamilyRe: Could This Mean That My Brother's Pastor Has Chamed Him? by Elmiguel(m):
Possible reasons could be

- He has been charmed
- He feels he is ever indebted to the pastor
- He has a grudge with his family
- He is plain stupid
- He is into some fetish stuff
- He has a mental disorder or ill obsession
- He is suffering from mental slavery.


Whichever one, it all burns down to the fact that his mind isn't in order

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