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Kobojunkie:
You mean there are already laws against this?

I am sure there is a legal age for marriage in Nigeria. He probably broke that one.

I have a feeling, there is something in our constitution that stops "immoral acts" like this.

I have a feeling, his crimes are so heinous that he could be breaking international law and may be subject to prosecution in any of the UN member states.

But then, this is Nigeria.  


However, as I said in the previous thread, I am not sure there are specific laws for this kind of thing. Also, as my people talk if there is no law, there is no sin.

Xavier.:
The first post and subsequent postings from labiyemmy have similar writing styles. I can almost swear that dy are from one and same person.

Note d freq use of d word goat and naughty person. The poster is also not yoruba, he is obviously from d SE (not trying to be ethnocentric, but d goat thingy).

I dnt understand what game d poster is up to.

Poster wats d object of this whole drama?

Well spotted. I think combining your observation with mine, it is clear that from the information in front of us all, no act of hacking happened. And it also appears that it was all done by one person.

I think me and you should open a private security agency.

Former governor of Zamfara State, Ahmed Sani Yerima who is also a serving senator was today questioned by the National Agency for Prohibition of Traffic in Persons and other Related Matters (NAPTIP) over his alleged marriage to an Egyptian minor.

Mr. Yerima, who reportedly got married to a 14-year-old Egyptian girl in Abuja, had been invited by the National Human Rights Commission of Nigeria and NAPTIP but refused to respond to the invitations.

Hours later after questioning, he was granted bail on self recognition and asked to report back to the Agency on 15 June.

While, outside the court, Mr. Yerima told journalists that he was not bound by the laws of this nation but by Islamic laws, which he claims he has not breached.

The way the story is written is confusing. He declined invitation in the "nd paragraph, but then it was then reported in such a manner that he did went to the questioning session? I guess some sort of editorial typographical error or something?

Anyway, if the story is true. It is interesting how he feels he is above the law of the land, yet he appears to work for the same land that he help to make the law for! That is just ironic at best. [Abi na hypocrisy?]

It is depressing to read this, and I am not sure anything will come out of it.

sashaa:
@ poster u ar so right!!
And 4 all of u dat ar demandn submission 4rm your wives(yes wives and not g.f or any female u see) note dat d bible admonishes husbands 2 love their wives 1st!
D love 4rm d husband is a prerequisite 4 d submission.
How can u evn demand submission 4rm sum1 u treat like poo? Beats me.
And lastly, d bible says d wife shuld follow d husband even as he follows Christ. So, u had better be yeildn 2 d will of d Lord b4 u ask dat of your wife!

You are still talking about submission, and it is interesting to see how the message have been drilled into most females from our culture, that they have to be submissive, and most will gladly do this.

In a relationship, both sides are equal and no one should submit to the need of another. However, there should be a mutual understanding and the need to compromise when necessary.

Making compromise, tolerating etc aren't the same as being submissive.

BlakkBoi:
Mr. man I think you may have lost your sense manliness
A woman is supposed to submit to her husband and any man asking for that is in line. You may have been cheated from desiring that by anyone you are currently putting up with but that is no excuse to relinquish your right to a submissive woman.

Get a grip on your manliness dude!.

So I lost my mind for having a different view from you? I lost my "manliness" because I respect my woman and do not treat her as "my property" but my equal and the love of my life? Okay I think, I get you now.

No a woman is should not submit to the will of a man. Any man asking for that is noting but an egomaniac. Let us turn this around, will be a problem if you have to submit to the will of a woman just the same way? Also who gives you the unquestionable right and authority that a woman should submit to you?

A for this statement you made - "You may have been cheated from desiring that by anyone you are currently putting up with but that is no excuse to relinquish your right to a submissive woman." - what does it mean?


No men like you should get a grip I think.

Odunnu:
@Topic,submissive doesnt mean she turns out a 'remote control'
it means she accepts u completely as d guy who holds d final say upon her and dat is why its of paramount importance Elrazur marries a woman he respects and adores,If and when he does,he tends 2wds d happiness of d woman and satisfying her evry need.
Nw, dat woman naturally falls in line wt evry vision/ambition of d husband and fights endlessly 2bring out d best in him and she does this by totally being submissive 2d husband.
Hop I jst made sense?
I dey come!

Accepting someone do not mean one have to submit to their will.

By the very concept of how submission is explained on this forum, and how it is enshrined in our culture is that a woman should behave in manner that suggest they are not even supposed to ask question, but do as told. To me, that is the exactly like how a remote control will be.

As for the rest of your post, apologies, but I am finding it hard to understand.

Igwe.:
How do I explain to atheist that God said woman should be submissive to the Husband?

My views and belief have nothing to do with the debate. The problem here is that Men are constantly using the very word of God for their needs. Given your statement above, how is it any different to those who think Infidels are going to hell, because their word of God said so.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/37178222/ns/business/

This should bring about interesting response right? Basically, Hamas are reported to have destroyed homes belonging to Palestines. If this was an Israeli authorities action, I am sure there will be plenty of outcry and condemnation.

In the balance of things, this is something that should be posted. I wonder what the responses will be.

Oh just in case anyone tries to say it is all Western/israeli/Zionist propaganda. Other non-western or at least media perceived as such are reporting the same thing.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/37178222/ns/business/

Odunnu:
Maybe u have a wrong definition of 'submissive'

I do? Please enlighten me. I tend to make mistake lately.

@labiyemmy:
scroll up and ask yourself- you are the fool who used the word hacking- in your bid to prove you are smart, you exposed your idiocy-

Gaining access to your account when you are in London and he is in Nigeria, is a classic definition of hacking.

But anyway, did it even happened in the first place?


Omo I'm out jare. Meh. Nah you sabi.

@labiyemmy:
ElRazur

So you know what's going on in England, you are realy a mad person - who says he wants to fight you? You realy need psychiatric help, this is what NairaLand has revealed- noone is laugung or begging you to laugh - call me, you have seen my picture and you know my name and my phone number - or at best google it -

You need to be taught a lesson. Watch your back.

Lwkmd.

You make threats and then tell me you aint fighting me lol.

I think you should back away from the computer. Your blood pressure is rising.

Look on a serious note, why don't you just explain as to how your account was hacked?

princekevo:

Lol. Jst confused. Dont know who is impersonating who.

Let me help you.

Kosovo was impersonating me, before @labiyemmy hacked into my account and posted as Alabiyemmy.

@labiyemmy:
ElRazur

I dont care if you beleive or not- it just confirms your madness - I live in London, phone me up on 0208 986 1228 - come an confront me if you wont be thaught a lesson of your life. You will know say person pass person.

You can talk behind the screnn and think you are king - come and meet me face to face if you realy think you are as bold as you pretend to be on NairaLand. I am waiting for you to thrash things out thoroughly. Im.becile.

Lwkmd.

It is illegal to fight in Public in England you see. Them call am Afray.

You are one funny guy. You did the same thing in the previous thread.

Oh shit wait, you just hacked my account and make this post.

Yeah get a grip.

As to why you want a submissive woman is beyond me. Surely, you would want your woman to have a mind of her own? I mean, I have read many post on here at my free time and the amount of drivel some male and female come out with are just pathetic. I don't know what gives people this impression that a woman should be submissive. The more I try to find a reason, the more it start to dawn on me, that it is nothing but big ego of these type of men talking.

I had a look at a thread in which someone was asking advice on how to make her man love her more, and some of the replies just leaves a lot to be desired. One is force to ask question if some male will just drop their big ego for one second, and try to see things from the view point of a female or a neutral position. Why the need for submission?

To be submissive in a relationship in the context in which it is used around here appears to be doing  the will of the male without questioning his motives.

I sometimes feel this is probably a cultural thing and a very bad one. If I am dating a woman, I do not want her to be submissive - not in the context it used here or how we are brought up with it from home. I feel a relationship is a two way thing and no one side should exert their will on the other or demand others to do their will.

Just as a recap, all you men demanding submission in your woman. Or wanting it as part of their quality. Abeg make una go somewhere siddon jare. Women are humans just like you and have a mind of their own, they do not have to submit to your will in a relationship.

iice:
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I have a fantasy of eating a wrinkled punnaniii. Can you make my dream come true?

Kenezi:
Er no, it's idolatry by simple definition. They are worshipping an object, whether it's bones, wood or rock, it's idolatry.
Education empowers the mind, fine. Education can wipe out behaviour or strengthen it. Anyone can be educated in anything, what do you want to "educate" Nigerians in to eradicate bone worshipping? I'd like to know.

By a European standard American Christians aren't secular at all. They are quite fundamentalist due to Puritan backgrounds.

Oh please. The deputy leader have stated they worship the most high god like anyone. It is the newspaper that is reporting that "they gathered that they worship the skeleton" and as this is a Nigeria media, their investigative journalism is very elementary. I will rather believe the quote attributed to the deputy, than what the newspaper "gathered in their investigation".


So you use European standards to judge American Christians?  Awesome. Never mind, that is not my point with you. 

Aro Okigbo:
A BIG difference my brother. Have you ever attended any true christian crusade?
The prophesis of the word of God as contained in the Bible is alive and living. Jesus is Lord and He is the only way, truth and life.
Remember, no one cometh to the Father except through Him.

I do not take serious those who quote from a book written by men to guide them spiritually you see.

Debate logically and not quote from a book I do not have belief in says.

@labiyemmy:
ElRazur

I always thought you are a mad person. Now I have confirmed it- you need a psychiatric treatment, if you are short of funds, I will personally pay for it, and give you money to recuperate.

You are blind and cant see with your brain and your eyes- your brain is full of poo, cow dung and excreta. This post wasnt started by me, it was started by the impostor- if he made a post in my name and i removed, it, and you cant see that, and your only reason to shout is because i am posting from the same account, THEN YOU ARE AN IDIOT, AND AN IM.BECILE.whats your point in the last post? Nothing - I will accuse of anyone if i dont get my way? get my way with what and with who on NairaLand? Who fu cking cares if you are sceptical? who asks for you judgement? Who do you think you are?

NairaLand has indeed mixed idiots with good people, you are one of the idiots in here and I am sure many people do agree with that. If you dont beleive what I am saying, who cares about you? you are just one in a million others, or are you Seun?

I simply dont have any word with you, demented mother screwing kangaroo like you.


Dont forget to send me your medical examination bills - and a little pocket money to keep you fit to live amongst human beings-

Lwkmd.

So you removed a post he made in your name?  It proves nothing and make no sense. If you claimed your account was hacked, surely the password will be changed and prevented you from accessing it?

You have accused him of hacking your account, yet no evidence is forth coming like you have done in the GPS map fiasco thread. I.e not providing any substantial evidence to back up your claim but throwing up tantrum like a female diva.


Your account was allegedly hacked " Yesterday" and a post was made with it  "at 04:01:07 PM"

But then, you posted with that same account at "04:28:35 PM"

So you managed to get back your account in about 28mins or so?

Surely there is ample time for whoever hacked your account to changed everything needed to stop you from getting back in? If someone can hack your account, then they do have the simple common sense to do those basic thing.

Oh wait, it appears there was never a hack in the first place.  Or was it? Again I am sticking with what I can see here, no account appeared to have been hacked.   

@labiyemmy:
if he hacked into my account as suggested, he definitely didnt change the password? or does hacking means your account is hijacked completely, blocked, locked and kaput or what? Remember he started this topic. I will defnitely not start a topic and call myself a goast beast - what a funny name for a mammal.

Are you taking the[b] pi[/b]ss?

You have accused someone of hacking your account, yet you seem to be posting from it. Then you wanna turn around and ask silly question? Please don't do that.

I am yet to see an evidence suggesting that your account is hacked like you are claiming.



Not to cause any wahala, aint you the same guy that claimed people copied your map in the past, that resulted into almost 20pages of bickering and you never produced a single proof?


Omo mehn, it is looking like you will accuse anyone of anything once you aint getting your way, and as a result, I am very sceptical of your claim that someone hacked your account.

Kenezi:
This is idolatry so yeah, there is quite a big difference between this and other beliefs but you can pretend otherwise if you want to. The United States has a 99% literacy rate and 75% of them claim to be Christian, so reading won't change very much.

Who says it is? Or is this something instilled into you by your own religion?

Yes Education empowers the mind, and while it may not completely eradicate some behaviour, it will go a long way in making an impact.

By the way, your figures do really mean anything.

Kobojunkie:
Ok!!! Stop right there. There is a difference between this and worshipping men who died thousands of years ago and there bones were never really found. These folks risk exposure to disease!! I mean come on, worshipping the remains of a dead man, in a Nigerian setting, I would guess they even go as far as to TOUCH the bones and then go home to eat eba with the rest of the family with those hands . . . . o ti, mba, no no , it is not the same. And these people need to be educated on better ways to worship their leader, unless anyone here can solidly state that the bones/body is clean of disease . . . . ROFLMAO!!

I have stated that it may not be the norm, but if is their belief good on them.

As it stand I am not sure anyone have caught anything as a result.

Also the power of the mind can be a powerful one.