₦airaland Forum

PresidObi:
Peter Obi is a man of honesty and integrity.

We need an honest set of people to rescue Nigeria from the grip of corrupt people.

Pwettylinda:
Most bakeries in Nigeria treat their breads like the one in photos below.

You won't know unless you enter inside.
I think the ministry of health and the environmental health practitioners are not doing their jobs.

Let's be careful.

Quest7777:
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Someone published a book 34 years ago. You say the book insulted your god & you passed a death sentence on him. Your god could not avenge the insult for all these 34years & you still carry the 34years old bitterness reach 2022 to the extent of committing murder. SMH.

jimetagambo:
These guys love Niger Republic more than Nigeria. Even Maryam Abacha has a university in Niger Republic.

Anyway, Niger Republic people are hausas, turegs, and fulanis too.

Wisdom2003:
I’m not trying to judge.

But I am privileged to have worked for people for almost 6 years before starting my coy.

A most of the folks that comes online to rant “employers are evil” are either lazy or place so much value on themselves than their intrinsic value.

A lot of them come very late to work and carry out their duties shabbily and not ready to learn.

Some lack spirit of ownership and they allow clients to slip off without care (she bi salary is sacrosanct)

Every reasonable employer wants to keep his best hands and treat them right.

My former employer took care of us yet some folks stole his money 6.5M, 5M and 5M respectively.

Please let’s evaluate ourselves before we come online. If you think you deserved to be treated better then resign and move on to a place where you will be celebrated.

The mental health of some employers needs urgent attention based on the way their employees handled their business

#stopranting
Thank you

Jeon:
What about new born babies? do they have breast, ynash, or are they dressing incoherent dresses.

Or what about the innocent chicken and goat?.

FutureIsFemale:
What can be done to stop Nigerian men from raping females especially the minors?

Gkemz:
This is where excess and uncontrolled love could lead to, when it turns sour. Rage is the end product.

Beverlyjean:
I always advice my friends to avoid confrontation with a man , or their husbands ... forget the women power movement, its killing women more than when there was no women power movement... a woman can't defeat a man physically one on one ... so we should be the ones to walk away when its getting heated and not the other way round... and let's stop believing words such as " no matter what we women do , a man must not hit a woman"... thats an evil statement from the pits of hell

Favfables1:
My dear beloved OP....

I'm surprised that you're surprised at the behavior of your uncle's wife ... Honestly i'm shocked at your shock towards her behavior ....

Because as far as I can tell, this is the ideology that wayyyy over 99.9% of women have. You'll hear women saying "my money is my money and his money is also my money", so it's nothing new ...

If I were in your uncle's shoes, I would separate from her the moment she changed, I wouldn't even condone this rubbish for a second longer ....

I would totally neglect her and focus on my kids, and this would continue until she comes to her senses and realize that the burdens of the family is not meant to be shouldered by the man alone ....

nedekid:
I think you both got married early, you at 19 if calculations is right. Possibly you long for things you missed as a young lady before entering marriage, eg, exploring different blokos , going clubbing etc.
Anyway, I think your issue is still salvageable.
When last did you go on a vacation, just you and hubby. When couples stay together for such long time tension and pressure builds up.
If you can afford it, leave your children and take a 2 weeks holiday, go to buy emirates ticket to UK. Stop in Dubai for a week and then the following week in UK. Or use Turkish airline and do 1 week in turkey, 1 week in UK.
Stay in a nice hotels, if possible don't stress yourself with cooking. Just have good time with hubby, I assure you the love will be rekindled!

Starzo:
women are demons everywhere.

Na because wey she dey hit am since he nor reply naim give her mind to do this kind thing.
If to say he remove one of her tooth the first time she try hit am the madness wey make her carry knife for don cure since.
Highest Dem for separate and he would still be alive but the idiot simp dey form perfect gentle lady's man. You se where e end now ABI?

All those 'never hit a woman' flag bearing simpletons,una go eventually collect from the women you've chosen to be a slave to their pussies.

I stand with the redpillArs

Mrbenny001:
So what would a decent and responsible woman be doing with her own earning if she won't contribute to family expenses... How do you guys of this generation reason... No matter how rich a man is, His woman must contribute IF she's earning as well

eazzzy1:
Not being able to pay the bills is different from knowing it’s not your duty to pay the bills. Confidence and respect are not bought by paying bills, they come with who you are as a person. If I had a million dollars, would I feel less confident because my wife picks a $39 bill at a restaurant?

This is how you set a standard and when you can’t meet up due to unforeseen circumstances, your partner starts cheating on you. You lose so much self esteem because it was all tied up to your ability to pay bills.

Nothing bad with a man being generous, but when a woman’s love and respect is bought, there’s always someone else willing to pay more than what you have for it.

xynerise:
Because we can't understand you doesn't mean if you act weird beyond our mental capacity we won't kick your ass out of our life

Donpenny:
She has gotten what she want(Mrs) now she is the boss cux the court got her back, she can fustrate you so you can hit her and she will file for divorce claiming domestic violence. She can now divide your properties into two and take part

Shokoloko:
Hi, I see so many people saying you should have seen the signs before getting into the marriage. Now while that is true, you have already tied and consummated the knot - you have to make it work.
My spouse WAS a master malice keeper and I solved it.
Most people keep malice to enjoy your reaction - asking them to talk and begging for attention
When she is sane let her know that her marriage is still young and she is already trying to bury it with malice. Let her know that going forward you will not be part of that game and you will go out with friends and enjoy yourself to give her time, as long as it takes
Next time she gives you the silent treatment, don't shout, don't warn, don't beg, don't react while she is in that state.
ENJOY yourself. Be happy. Call your friends on the phone and laugh. Go out. Read books. No need for feeding money until she is ready to discuss. Don't look miserable.

Your comment makes sense..... Respect Bro.

On the extreme, the last period, years ago that my spouse gave me the silent treatment, he had been keeping malice for a week: I was reading books, going to the gym, sleeping enjoying myself. On the weekend, he barged angrily into our room, pacing up and down so I would notice him. I yawned and continued to press my phone and smile at the photos. Then he decided to talk and that was the end of malice.

Don't respond to malice. Stay away from the game and enjoy yourself until she is ready to talk

Bola146:
Your marriage is still new for this now Didn't you go through any relationship at all? You ought to be in your honeymoon you saw the signs unless you want to deceive yourself. Sir, know what is causing her sadness and work towards making her happy. You know her better, be praying for her also.

nNEOo:
She wasn't even supposed to collect the money from the fan...now she have ended up embarrassing herself.

Well, it is a two way thing... She ought not and she ought to. At the end of it, she embarrassed herself, that might be her downfall from grace to grass.