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cayorday89:
With my experience in cases like this, what he has succeeded in doing is getting you hooked to him as he, by means of him helping you spiritually he knows much about you and how much you earn and he will not stop asking for funds and creating fears in you with prophecies that will most likely be false because he already told you the ones that come to past. He will continue manipulating you with the ones that will never happen just to feed on your fears and cash out from you. Tell him the spirit tells you it's time you give your tithe to the church you worship and see his reactions.. He has played his part in your life and its time to let go except you want to extend the olive branch once in a while to him.

Bostin:
Every good things comes from God at the appointed time . Remember many people have being patronizing different spiritual vendors to no avail , if yours works out while seeing a particular prophet it's means is your God right appointed time but was coecidental with the prophet's magics. Start believing everything you are or have today is all from God for his appointed time and thank him always is enough for him .

Dtruthspeaker:
ah egbô, you have seen it na. Without God problems only increase. And they increase on their own or you yourself would increase it.

You have to start from the beginning of you want to get out of this shits!

And what is the beginning? The Truth!

Which is do you know that no one else in the world can help you and bring you out of all your problems?

And that like a chess piece on the board, it's good or bad progress on the board (world) fully depends on the higher player who plays him, hence the rightness of that statement "we are pencils in the hand of the gods", do you know that is how you are?

These and many more foundational questions are you supposed to have settled so that you would always at least know what is going on.

Dtruthspeaker:
Error!

Paying tithes would not work!

Why?

He who breaks one of the Commandments BREAKS ALL!

Bostin:
Bro , that man has successfully created fear in you reason why you're so worried .
You need to first kill that fear to take a bold decision of freedom from fake prophet . Thereafter you can block him from contacting you and go back to God. Though never expect fast miracle while asking from God , it's take lot of patience to receive from God ..Shalom!

Ilekokonit:
It beggars belief and for the first time in a long while I am actually pissed off with her effrontery and immaturity to still harbor such thoughts when she is already 41 and the guy is even doing her a favor as the guy is younger than her as he is 40 and the guy is willing to bend over backwards to marry an older woman but she is just too immature for a 41 year old.

There is a type of thinking called stinking thinking and she has it in abundance and that is her main problem she should focus on getting rid of first instead of focusing on a hard working guys salary.

Madam poster, get rid of your stinking thinking first as you are too immature for a 41 year old.

With these kind of Nigerian women roaming the streets, getting married to a Nigerian woman is becoming more and more of a turn off for me by the day.

Her mindset is the kind of mindset that will make me call off a wedding no matter how close we are to the date.

What effrontery. Nonsense and ingredients.

Rozross:
The man has trapped him, I pray he gets out of it wisely. He’s vulnerable to the self acclaimed prophet. His greatest weakness so far is Fear.

Dtruthspeaker:
Even if he gets out of it, his problems would still remain and increase and he would still enter another.

Rozross:
Well I’ll say you’re kind of in a deep trap, some of these men are not dealing with God even though they prophesy accurately. The mistake you made is to ever believe there’s an intermediary between you and God, you can deliver yourself from any bad situation without having to go through any man of God, but the problem is maybe your lifestyle and obedience to the instructions of God. He might have seen and prophesy whatever but it’s all up to you to work and avert the so-called prophesy. People tends to underrate the effect of fasting, but I’m boldly telling you today that fasting does a lot of things to your soul, fast and tell God directly what you want, adjust your lifestyle and stay chaste. Do all these and you’ll get nothing but promotions rather the demotions and sack as predicted by the so-called man of God. If your wife is Christlike she can do wonders as God is very quick to grant the prayers of a wife on her husband. The monikas you mentioned to intervain won’t have anything meaningful to tell you because they are vague spiritually. Be wise to know the right counsel and advise you take.

irijuola:
I don’t have the right to meddle in your family issues but I just have a some advice if you don’t mind.
I have a sister like your brother who still behaves like a baby at 23years. I know she isn’t as old as your brother but what I’ve come to realize is that they’ve grown up to see us as their blood sibling who will protect them against all odds. Please, if you have funds to send him to the USA, UK or Canada, please do. UAE that you’re judging as paying him 150,000 is maybe too stressful. Another mistake is trying to convert their currency to naira. He’s not spending in naira and I’m very sure the real amount in UAE currency is not much. We don’t know stress in Nigeria o. All this abroad countries, you sweat out all the wages you’re paid. Circumstances do change and him going to any of this three countries may bring a massive turnaround in his life.
A quick question, does he have a degree? If he does, let him also try applying for jobs in places like Canada. A friend of mine moved from Dubai to Canada last year after getting a job offer in Kitchener, Ontario.

SeaTrade:
One weyrey billed me 400k for knacks for VI a few days back,I price am down to 60k and was willing to pay,
However when I got close to her,found out she bleached terribly and is just a local hustler in ballers space opportuned by conji to even speak to a nigga like me.
I told her that let me go and withdraw the funds,that I don't transfer.
She say make she follow me before another girl carry me,I declined.
I boned her,went up to sleep.
She call tire ,I no pick.
She sent a text that "if I'm broke,I should just say so".
I just smiled and didn't respond.
I'm not in the habit of giving champagne to maltina girls, make she try gee boys jarey
I pay according to cleanliness,I'm hardly carried away!

Taich:
He is family, one thing about us Africans is the deep rooted communal family culture. Still speak with him, if his relocation makes more economic sense I will advise you "invest" in it if you have the resources. Sometimes family bond are held together by the strongest(rich), send a message again and ask him about his relocation plans.

Martinez39s:
How it is done.

Taich:
The brother self. Mathias accused Paul of consulting a witch doctor to bewitch Kylian Mpappè. You wonder what you will do if your brother is Paul Pogba, you can make legit money off him. You can start a good business/football academy and sure capital won't be a challenge, you can help him manage his money, you can get a good degree in finance and help him and his friends to manage the "arm robber" salary. The opportunities of being a brother to Paul Pogba are endless expect if you are looking for handouts.

detectivejones:
In your dream when you sleep.

FettyWilliams:
Bruv just move on, she ain't worth your love.
I can relate to this, similar thing happened but mine was I got scammed by a real close friend she warned me about that she doesn't like him and she's been bleeping one guy she claimed is her distant cousin, started bleeping another dude she met on facebook and slept with her baby daddy some months back. These hoes ain't loyal bruv

cayorday89:
Oga Emma, you don marry na, we still dey market and parents no get two prayers pass this time next year na with wofe and children especially on b'days...

cayorday89:
Very true, it was not the book, the signs were there, with communication not frequent as usual but he still did not believe she could do it, my experience, I just lock up till the day the truth will be made known in the open as she gave excuse of been unable to show up, and when truth came out I messaged her to let her know and we have not even seen since then.

blazingblender:
Lit
But at some point if you see true love you will know it's sweet while it lasts

blazingblender:
Mehn this is so painful sincerely...
Why is love so hard to find ?
True love ....
Is scam
The only person you can love truelly is yourself
..
Sometimes we don't even love our selfs

God1000:
The relationship wasn't built on true love, but on money and material things, that's the reason for her new behaviour and cheating since that money isn't available again

Just let her go, the earlier the better

This is why I laugh when ladies set ridiculous standards forgetting that something can happen tomorrow, that's when true love will prevail, but some of them aren't even ready to endure with a man when the chips are down

As a lady, if you date or marry a man because of his money, what happens when that money is gone, you dump him and move to another man, that's nonsense

Sorry about your situation, you will find another good woman.

Sukkyy2010:
Me that detest job, the fact that I must work for someone in abroad to survive there is the major reason I reverse my interest from migrating to abroad. Even in my country here Nigeria where my nature adaptiveness is met I never there let alone a strange land.

shariff84:
November.

shariff84:
three to one.

Martinez39s:
Boss, long time. How family? I don't think that heartofcity12 was throwing jabs at rich people. Remember that someone was attributing women's promiscuity and whatever mainly to "economics." Heartofcity12 was simply saying that it really has nothing to do with economics alone because many paternity fraud victims are rich men too. This is true even in developed nations and other nations around the world; little surprise as riches can't cure cuckoldery and blue pill mentality. Also, we know for a fact that a lot of rich men's wives do sleep around, hence we ought to ask what role did poor finances play in that?

Sinces poor/unsatisfactory finances were used as the main reason for the issue discussed, heartofcity12 had point to rich people and emphasise that they face similar problems. He wasn't hating on rich people.

We don't hate on rich people here or try to diss or mock them. The day LifestyleTonite and others came from the ashewo thread and were talking down on riches, we redpillers put them in their place. We all said it would be better to be rich than poor; some even went as far as saying that it is better to be a rich simp than a broke ass redpiller.

As for the genuine desire stuff heartofcity12 was talking about and how he related it to paternity fraud, I might speak on that later if the opportunity presents itself. I thought I would write a lot today, but a lot of things are on my table and I will always prioritise my offline life over commenting on nairaland. Cheers.

sotall:
Oga wake up!

This is athletics and not xvideos.

If you wan see bwest ...go watch pornography.