₦airaland Forum

sp2002:
As a married man, don't try to have any serious relationship with any girl/lady

Seakay:
Run away from any lady who willingly cooks for you with her own money.

SeaTrade:
Will you call someone on a 500k/mo gross rich?
If not,why are they the ones doing all these?
How are they funding these lifestyles on a regular?

H0didon:
You didn't marry that guy cos of religious differences but for stability. You don't even love your husband but your ex . You can only deceive yourself not us. You knew all these would happen. I mean, how can you goan stay at your ex sister place? . You think we're fools here abi?
Its your husband i pity, he allowed your ex to eat what was left for him even after taking the main share(Virginity) . You can never be contented. You don't deserve marriage.

If you notice lately, there's nobody that craves more for marriage than hoes and the funny thing is, they can't maintain it.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a wonderFOOL man marries a woman who still keep in touch with her ex".

ifyjobs:
na money matter...I have leave days but no funds atm.

ifyjobs:
Sure. send an email. I'm a babe

ashewoboy:
She dey receive jumbo salary.

Billions123:
Definitely Rwanda at some point, February/March works too, I'm basically trying to get enough travel experiences under my belt between now and end of next year.

Richy4:
That's just nice... It's just like the widow's mite..The heart of the givers is what matters... Assuming they got more, they would have done more than that..

ashewoboy:
The FIRS is not small.

truthhurts2:
I have my business( also a graduate),a dry cleaning service with 2 shops (though work haven't really started at the second shop but in the process) and I'm great at what I do. Everything is hard now, things just stand still like a stagnant water for months now due to the ongoing ASUU strike, barely feed myself and wife, losing my confidence and self respect gradually. Depression is setting in dudes... Just tired of everything damn thing

placeofallure:
Hmmmn! You don't know anything.

Don't judge people by their looks o. Some of us are just blessed in that aspect. If you see me, you'd think I can buy the whole Nairaland but for where? Na only body o, engine don knock tey tey.

parkvega:
Seasoned journalist, Chinemerem Ikegbunam, needed to unwind after a work-filled week so he paid a visit to Park Vega Waterpark.
According to Chinemerem, “I came with my colleagues. We dropped our camera, microphone and other equipment when we saw the magnificent facilities. We quickly went into the dressing room and changed into our swimsuits because the waterpark was so alluring❤️.

The journalist and his crew became instant celebrities in the park assistants as they cracked jobs over the water volleyball and basketball court.

“The truth is I came as a reporter but ended up enjoying every bit of the time I spent in Park Vega Waterpark. It was indeed a fun-filled experience. I can’t say which attraction is my favourite because I had a swell time having fun. This is my answer, all the spots were my best attraction. From the kiddies (Aquatower and Splashpad) to the big boys’ and girls’ water attractions (Multislides, Blackhole, Spacehole, Wave pool, activity pool) even the restaurant and the bar). I was served chicken and chips. That is enough reason to return���. He said.

“At the wave pool where we have lifeguards. I wanted to try out a trick I saw in a movie and before I could find out if it would be successful or not the alert lifeguard, who must have read my mind, discouraged me ��. It was quite an experience.”

Billions123:
Initially, I was thinking
Bali
Maldives
Santorini

In no particular order, but I could as well add, Mauritius.

Cheasystickylov:
If there are only 4 countries on earth, US, China, Russia and North Korea, which will u choose to live in.

ThierryJay:
ETH, you better let[b] Wasiu [/b]the Incredible Sulk leave before he turns you into Erik Ten Haggard

I hear Corinthians FC are ready to give him the much needed shelter. Let him go and help them and their 10 wood logs win the intergalactic champions league

Billions123:
Did you get anyone to go with you on this trip?

I'm interested if I can still join you. I'm looking at doing 2 to 3 countries this year end.

pansophist:
Yes, you know your true friend when you're low, not above. Even those you've helped and treated like a brother, will come out of their shell and make you regret ever helping.

Then you'll understand why after God created humans in his own image he regretted it instantly. Infact a man's worse enemy is other men, not women, because a woman can only use a dumb man. Its men you share a plate with.

This is where humility come into play. When one is humble and live in such a way that doesn't makes money his identity, then even if he becomes broke, it won't affect his public image, because its only him that knows if he is broke or not.

The saying that "pride goes before a fall" is for arrogant people, not those with the virtue of humility.

pansophist:
My ex-boss, for example, worried not about money, but that he doesn't time to spend with his family, that how he wishes he is strong and young enough to do certain things e.g run a marathon, and how he must keep working to maintain the affluence his family is used to. If you are rich, you must maintain that lifestyle, or else, it would be grace to grass, which is like heaven to hell.

All the people you have oppressed go laugh you tire, your kids and wife may turn against you because they do have oppressed others thinking you won't go broke one day, hanging out with some certain friends will become impossible due to a downgrade of your social level. In fact, a wealthy lifestyle is upward ever, downwards never.

Karleb:
@pansophonist

A lady in UK has a class where she teaches rich people how to mingle with average and poor people.

These rich can't seem to fathom how the poor, though poor tends to enjoy life more than them, how they, the rich, are missing from so much fun because they can't blend in.


But e dey pain me sha, why do we have to console ourselves with confidence, street smartness etc. why my papa no be dangote brother. Some of us still come ugly join.

pansophist:
I know how painful that can be. I studied in a very elite university and everyday was almost like depression. Kids of 19 coming to class with posh cars, skin as bright as the sun, and even if they decide to drop out, suffering will never be a portion.

I felt like going to naija, grab my papa for throat, and change am for am straight. And I was the few black dude in that school. The rich kids will now form clique amongst themselves and shut it out to others. Class then was more of a fashion parade that actual learning.

But deep down, I knew my time de come, or if its not me, my kids will enjoy such. These kids had parents that worked hard, and if yours didn't do it for you, do it for your kids. But there are things I saw that made me realise that rich or poor, we all suffer equally.

A wealthy British man approached me on time and appeal to be friend with his son, that his son is so shy and insular. This son is literally what Nigerians will call a mumu. He is not dumb, but a didirin. Slap him, he will probably go home and call the police. He fear pass chicken. The price of over-protection and over-providing.

One wealthy Brazilian girl is so scared of facing the world. She always tell me how jealous she is when she sees people who are confident and hustle their way, that they can survive in life unlike her that relies on her parents wealth.

Her parents also were deeply worried that their timid daughter will run down their company after they hand it over to her. Because of my confidence, self-assurance and individuality, lots of these folks even with their wealth wanted to be friends, just to know how to live life being strong and tough.

It was easy to be their friend because I don't care if your father is Bill Gates, I no send you. If we go out, I'll pay for myself, and treat you like every normal person. I respect myself alot, so being my friend didn't burdened them in anyway.

So life gives us different coin, but you'll be naive to think they others don't have their own struggles. Everybody does. Some of these kids are in what I'll describe as being on an "existential drip". Take away the drip (their parental support) and you'll see that you're better than them in everything that matters.

Many have parents that were not there in their life due to the pursuit of wealth. And so on. So my guy, life will give you all the reason to go home and punch your father in the face asking him, "why you fork up"? but don't ever think it's greener on the other side.

N2B2:
First, monkeys, then snakes, and now termites... it's not surprising to note that Nigeria is currently being led by insects and animals.

EponOjuku:
Just like illegitimate pregnancy, Stupidity is a very difficult thing to hide.

Blupen:
Coming from a poor backgroud in nigerian is similar to being born with handcuffs on....

InfinityFabric:
Guy go face your wife or go work harder to have more & better choices instead waiting to tap from a used good.
She chose him, now want to run from the consequences. It's called responsibility.

Just tell us when she finally marries you.

internationalman:
So the problem is USA and not other countries that want to oppress a sovereign country to be part of them.

etrange:
People prefer flying not really because of the urgency of whatever they're going to do, but rather due to the ever increasing risk of traveling by road in Nigeria. Prior to now, that 70k would be sufficient for a return ticket. It's much for a one-way flight that's less than 1 hour.

ubunja:
Guess the Russian/Ukraine war is not enough for these diabolical Western leaders to enforce a new order, just see as Nancy Pelosi and her friends are publicly flirting with Taiwan knowing fully well China is itching to attack that country,, talk about going all out to provoke China into a war with Taiwan. Smh. I swear these clowns want to see the world burn

etrange:
This is hard to believe. This airport used to be one of the busiest local airports in WA. What happened?!

SmartPolician:
It's cheaper to import petroleum products than refine in Nigeria now because we don't have the enabling infrastructure to support local production.

If not for northern agenda, everyone knows that it is smarter to borrow and fix electricity than railways. Stable electricity will significantly transform Nigeria's real sector. Nigeria was doing fine without railways.

midehi2:
My dear, just to fly return ticket from Lagos to Kano N160k

Adekunlebright:
I don too suffer 4 dis country.