₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
Exactly, hence I hammered on the concept of "deregulation of the sexual marketplace". What we have is purely romantic capitalism that is brutal, with no democratic elements to it. Its basically sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest, where you have to be rich first, and she wish you'll be a good person, and to be beautiful and hot first, then he wish she will make a good wife.

We never see anything yet. To guess what is yet to come, take a look at relationships in the African American communities, they are the first in this journey of decadence. To predict the future, the past is a good place go start.

DoctorOlasDesk:
Pansophist no go kill person. Na so all the terminologies almost wunjure me too

pansophist:
Exactly, hence I hammered on the concept of "deregulation of the sexual marketplace". What we have is purely romantic capitalism that is brutal, with no democratic elements to it. Its basically sexual oligarchy, survival of the richest, where you have to be rich first, and she wish you'll be a good person, and to be beautiful and hot first, then he wish she will make a good wife.

We never see anything yet. To guess what is yet to come, take a look at relationships in the African American communities, they are the first in this journey of decadence. To predict the future, the past is a good place go start.

templeRun20:
Warn your mother to stop sending me messages cause i will be forced to insult her the next time she send me a message reminding me of you
you guys should take your love to somewhere else i am not interested...

My ex girlfriend sent me dis message dis morning just because my mom was trying to reconcile her with me...

She wants to insult my mom that took her like her own daughter

Sawdiq39:
I broke up with this girl 2018 cos she do cheat and she was dating like 4 guys sometimes she do video calls half naked with guys so I told her I’m done with her . The next day u couldn’t hold the heartbreak I called and told her we should continue dating , the babe told me it’s late already that she’s dating 4 guys for real and I’m the number she loves �but now I will have to fight to top the ladder I told her Bleep u bitch

Senomii:
She told me a broke boyfriend won't be broke forever, one day he will die and rest

pansophist:
If I'm a Nigerian man looking for a wife, I'll just go to southern African countries like Namibia for example. Women there ain't that materialistic. Its like when naija women see a man, na money them see, not a human.

It's directionless men they are ghosting. Men that knows their mission in life don't suffer such humiliation. As I de so, a leech will ghost me, na to pop champagne remain na, how isn't that a call to celebrate?

pansophist:
I even think wealthy men are actually more focus on a lady earnings potential. You dont build wealth and run it down by marrying wrongly. I honestly don't know any man that doesn't. Because if the women lack money skills, then its a problem down the road. Its a dangerous skills to know how to spend, but not make money. Na the man go suffer.

Calibrator:
You can't make this up

ademidedavid:
The race is not for the swift, nor the battle for the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favor to men of skills but time and chance happeneth to them all.

Ecclesiastes 9;11


I dey always use this verse hold my body gidigba

pansophist:
Why do you think it is only broke men that expect women to show up with reasonable contribution? To stay wealthy, you must make decisions that sustain wealth. You hardly see wealthy people marry poor people, those are Nollywood nonsense. Check the elite class in Nigeria, they marry within themselves. Being wealthy is not just a material thing, but a psychological thing as well. Now imagine the kind of discussion that will happen between Dangote and the bread-hawker. What will they talk about? Wake up, real life is realistic.

As an analogy, its easier to climb the staircase to the 5th floor when you're not carrying a woman on your shoulder, because she can use her legs. It's easier for two couples to go higher when each of them can contribute materially even if it's not equal, instead of the women burdening the man with hers, while not contributing anything. You can argue that men should provide more, then you'll have a point. But saying women should not do at all is a recipe for singledom. Only dumb men that do not know their direction in life will accept that condition.

Don't you also want to be the kind of woman that gives her a husband's car as a gift? Is sex and washing his clothes only how you'll show love to him? Don't you want him to feel convinced that you're with him not for his money? If the economy goes bad and he loses income, will you guys become poor instantly? What kind of mentality do you have sef?

The only woman that I'll take seriously with this "men are a provider crap" must not only be submissive but also a virgin and must accept if I take multiple wives and want her to birth me ten kids. I don't like the selective application of culture. The bible says that a man should only pay the bride price for virgins, so she must be one. Stop the hypocrisy abeg.

mployer:
She knew all the hotels within the vicinity. Even our hangout spot had a lodging acommodation. I didn't know, she told me

Lalami3232:
Why must it be about men every time?
Make we rephrase the question, "when is it right for a woman to get married? "
The answer is easy ooooo, na when she don tire to fvck around and her toto don slack . 99.9% of nowadays women no get anything to offer men. If we take toto and childbirth from nowadays women, majority no get anything to offer. The ones wey get things to offer won't want to get married e.g Genevieve and co. Men dey suffer sha. We must get things ready before marriage but women just need to get toto and dem go consider dem ripe for marriage. Make we ask ourselves this question, if na men na dey for the situation wey most women dey, the women for accept to marry them? We dey suffer ooooo, make I no lie. We need to hustle hard so that our women go dey comfortable but still, dem go still stress person for marriage. The toto wey plenty dey even offer no tight again. Na we go still spend money to buy penis enlargement pump and cream before we enjoy am. Toto go open mouth like local basket!!! See eeh, I'm not happy at what's happening to men ooooo. If you as a woman want a man wey get car and houses, then show us yours. We don tire to dey consider una because of toto. Dem go crave for elaborate wedding but dem no go support a dime. Fellow men, let's be wise ooooo. If she can't offer at least 50% of what you can offer, make she go.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja woman has nothing to offer aside her body wey almost everybody don chop before you"

Zonefree:
But, there's nothing special about your kpekus na

DamnnNiggarr:


Just like USA with a GDP worth of $24 trillion(2021 estimate) but has a gross external debt of over $21 trillion.

Imagine a country that has annual expenditure of $7 trillion but with annual revenue of $3.4 trillion.

If not that Nigeria's government is not transparent, Nigeria would've been one of the richest country in the world with an annual expenditure of $30 billion and annual revenue of over $50 billion.


I'm not too good in economics but with the knowledge I got in eco101, 102, I can unequivocally tell you that Printing more money doesn’t increase economic output – it only increases the amount of cash circulating in the economy. If more money is printed, consumers are able to demand more goods, but if firms have still the same amount of goods, they will respond by putting up prices. In a simplified model, printing money will just cause inflation.

*Suppose an economy produces $10 million worth of goods; e.g. 1 million books at $10 each. At this time the money supply will be $10 million.

*If the government doubled the money supply, we would still have 1 million books, but people have more money. Demand for books would rise, and in response to higher demand, firms would push up prices.

*The most likely scenario is that if the money supply were doubled, we would have 1 million books sold at $20. The economy is now worth $20 million rather than $10 million. But, the number of goods is exactly the same.

*We can say that the increase in GDP is a money illusion. – True you have more money, but if everything is more expensive, you are not any better off.

*In this simple model, printing more money has made goods more expensive, but hasn’t changed the quantity of goods.

So Mr huptin, why can't Nigeria just print ₦aira to tackle Nigeria's economic mess? Nah! It doesn't work that way.
If only 20 bags of rice is produced in your location, assuming only only 5 people are able to purchase a bag at say 20k out of 100 person's due to lack of money and the government decides to print more money to be in circulation in the economy, and about 50 person's now have cash, now what will happen is that, more people now have cash and it's still 20 bags of rice that is being produced which will lead to high demand for a bag of rice.
Do you know what the producers will do? They will respond by doubling the price of a bag of rice.
I hope it's clear now.

sparkle6:
G

These are intern positions for ladies only.

Cc emmaodet ubunja CaveAdullam heartofcity12

pansophist:
Of course yes. I know Nigerian media is dominated by the western ones such as CNN, BBC, sky news etc but if you branch out of it and listen to chinese, Russian, Iranian, Indian and other non western channels, you'll get new perspective.

This is a geopolitical war, its an establishment of a new world order, the Eastern (China/Russia) coalition and the west (US led). Go listen to the speech Putin gave in Munich Feb 10th 2007, its happening right in our face. Does the world seem healthy to you? Why should a few countries enjoy global wealth and most suffer? (Eg Africa, Asia South America, basically non western countries)?

Why should one country the US have the power to squeeze the life out of any country it wants ? On an individual level, will you allow another man to determine whether you survive or not? Our world is really messed up. What Africans called "independence" was merely a transition for a defective system (colonialism) to a more effective and self-sustaining one, which is western hegemony. Sit and enjoy the show. Alot more shall be revealed.

UyaiIncomparabl:
If you like, don't spend on your woman, another man go help you. Y'all men be wailing about spending on women but millions of men out there are giving it to these babes on a platter of gold. God knows I hate men that don't spend. I can't even be with. And you as a man must not look at my finances. Red flag.

pansophist:
That's the point.

Nato was created to slaughter Russia, without Russia, there will be no point for Nato. The west fear and envies russia. Its a fat cow that must be slaughtered, to strengthen western hegemony. Russia is so huge, if you divide the whole Africa into two, russia is bigger than half of it. The whole 30 EU countries, USA, South Korea and Japan will fit inside Russia and there is still space left.

Now imagine all the resources buried underneath their vast territories. They can't just accept that it's not under their control. If common tiny Nigeria have all its natural resources and oil controlled by western powers, what more Russia? This war is bigger than most people think, and because they listen to only western side, they are misinformed and reach wrong judgement.

pansophist:
Also, always doubt the love of a woman who is not on your level. As a rule, men should enter equal relationships. She must be able to afford whatever you can give to her. It's sweet when both of you go out and you pay today, while she pays the next day. Honestly this is the kind of relationship I was used to all my life, until I enter naija and saw that relationships was heavily monitized.

ubunja:
It gets worse bro...

luminouz:
I guess this new week is called

MONK week

luminouz:
Boss man....

Na to dey look now oh...

luminouz:
*sighs*

It is well...

Me no talk again biko

heartofcity12:
Prostitution is becoming the norm, it’s alarming...
Ppl’s future wives..

sajmark:
I had a good laugh at the bolded.

You have a lot of redpill messages to pass, you're just unable to comprehensively pass them... You, my friend is one messed up Taliban.
Nigerian women look at the monster you made.

Raalsalghul:
https://www.nairaland.com/6822178/just-discovered-wifes-past-how

Skepticus:
The bigger question is: What quality of women are waiting for you, when you cross the finishing line? The bad quality trash that litter everywhere or the extremely rare gems?

Skepticus:
The bigger question is: What quality of women are waiting for you, when you cross the finishing line? The bad quality trash that litter everywhere or the extremely rare gems?

luminouz:
This is premium lager bullshiit!!
Men should accept the ladies the way they are and not ask what they bring to the table? Are you fuqin kidding me? You lots are never logical but emotional. Will you ever marry a dude who says he is a cleaner? Won't you reject his ass and scream 'I don't do broke men' nonsense? With your penchant to always put ya bills on any man who comes your way, will you ever think of even thinking of marrying a cleaner? Or because he is a man,he should bring all to the table while you sit ya fat ass down and contribute absolutely nothing?
This is why there is the redpill. The days of working for leeches are over. You want a rich nigga, be rich yourself. If any woman con me into marrying her like that cleaner babe in your story, she won't be Mrs another second, in my house. She will leave that very day. Whether you are getting older or your eggs are getting fried menopausally, I don't give a clusterfuq. Get grinding and make your money before talking to me. I didn't ask you to be what you are so get your ass moving and make more money. Love is for the birds, not for me.

Temidayo9:
With your response, it shows you are not married. However, it is a gross mistake for any man to leave his wife to a foreign land in whatever reason.