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Cum4me:
you just give this OP the whole truth only if he can understand. Na Money be real man

But most men won't be rich no matter how they hustle.
Never have we had men in large percentage have money nor will it happen now nor in the future.
Rather, a low entry basic minimum requirement should be used.
In a world were there is mass failure financially, you don't use the highest cut off mark to screen out intending student rather, the bar should be moved lower to the minimum entry

pansophist:
You are 25, your experience is normal. The pendulum swings favourably to you as you grow older, only on the condition that you did not give up on yourself.

You need to know that you are not on the same timeline with a woman your age. You will fail to date most, and it is normal. There are more virgin men your age than virgin women.

You have to bear it, that is the only way. You will only end up alone if you just whine about your life. But from your 30's upwards, you will have access to new generation of women. It is turn by turn. Right now, your seniors are with the women of your generation

This place you are is very lonely, I know. Every man if they will be vulnerable will tell you that they pass through it to some extent, but you will think your situation is abnormal if you do not understand these dynamics.

I will repeat. Do not give up on yourself. Keep working hard to improve your social and material conditions, it is your redemption.

And what of millions of guys that won't make any headway into their 30's? despite the efforts they put in due to harsh location they meet themselves.
I see my brother in this quagmire and he finds himself in his early 30's unprepared - Not certificated, no business nor skill, not a hustler, no girlfriend, no money, Nothing

Stop the masturbation pls. I prefer the prostitute option to masturbation.
With prostitute, with time you will start developing to interact, negotiate with ladies and generally become better. Masturbation keeps you away from ladies.

WriteerNg:
⚡The US has told NATO allies it will pressure Zelensky to sign a US-Russia peace deal within days, warning that Ukraine will face a far worse agreement later if it refuses.

WriteerNg:
⚡Fox: Ukraine will have to give up land that they have not lost in war.

Trump: They will lose it.

Fox: The whole Donbas?

Trump: They are losing land.

He knows they will lose it sooner or later if the war continues

JESHAL007:
Women don't marry based on lust and your ability to satisfy them in bed, they consider your resources and what you can provide, and they will keep swinging, at any time, to the better financial option available to them. This is hypergamy. Hypergamy is innate, it only cares about now and it doesn't sleep.

That is why i always laugh guys boasting about their sexual prowess.
If you like, knack your girl from Gwagalada to Mile 2, if you don't cover your side, the average woman will disgrace you.
All the days of your life, you will be insecured - where is your woman going, who is calling her, why hasn't she come back from market etc
Cover your side bro

JESHAL007:
When it comes to committed relationships, particularly courtship and marriage, a woman will choose the best financial option available to her. It doesn't matter if he is a beta, alpha, redpillers or simp. All that matters is financial stability, her comfort and survival, which all boils down to your resources. You ability to satisfy her lust doesn't count as it cannot buy bread. If you are a redpiller with a great sexual appeal and a masculine frame made of adamatium or vibranium, the woman you are discussing marriage with will overlook you and pick the man that has more resources than you even if he the most pathetic simp and he is so unattractive and disgusting. She will pick him even if she has to share him with other women.

I totally agree with you.
That is why i am of the opinion that men must work and earn a decent income to increase their barganing option in the dating market.
Learn the TRP but pls, don't ignore your financial life. You don't need to be rich, just be able to pay your bills and live in a decent place. All other things will fall into place.

goran3310:
The question is completely correct and normal.
Why would answering such a question be a problem for a God-fearing, quality woman?

Men value only three things in women:

1. Youth


2. Beauty


3. Virginity



Those are the ornaments a woman carries.

When a woman starts talking about money—not in the sense of security for the family, herself, her husband, and their children, but in the sense of wanting wealth—then there is no more talk of love or caring for the family.

A woman will always see money as security, especially because of her offspring, and that is normal.
But expecting and demanding that a man must have a lot of money—that is not something God-fearing good women do, but the opposite.

I totally agree with you

Streetinvestor2:
Sometimes thr is no grave.It is vultures that eat the remains.So grave can still be comfort place.The government is the worst in history of my life

Street ehnn... You too get bad mouth

nosa2:
You are spot on. If you have been in this market since 2015 you have probably lost money in dollar terms even though your Naira numbers will make you think you made a lot. I totally abandoned Naira assets in 2014/2015 and I only returned this year.

With regards to the Nigerian Bull market, we are still in the long term bull market. The index needs to touch 280k-300k for us to get back to 2015 levels. I strongly believe we will get there and surpass it but it will take a couple of years. This is why to me all these dips are irrelevant, because when you look at the macro economic situation you will see mostly upside.

I am investing in Nigeria because I truly believe that for the next couple of decades this is market will strongly outperform most stock markets

We don carry mat come sit down gidigba.
We die here.
What farm did you do at Gboko? Animal husbandry or crop farming? Was it profitable?

jonnysessy:
Access has not dropped this low. If it had, i will buy more. He that is down needs fear no fall.

Lol
He that is down, if care is not taken can even go deeper into the grave, God forbid.

GeeKudi:
People generally don't dismiss fake news that fit into their biases.

Probably Anchor Bias or Confirmation Bias or Framing Bias

ositadima1:
I think there may be a problem with this. Since they mentioned the ASI, it likely means the individual stock P/Es are first collapsed into one number by weighting them by market capitalization and then applying the 5-year moving average.

This means a few giant companies, often called SWOOTs (Stocks Worth Over One Trillion), end up controlling the vast majority of the index’s movement. The chart is useful for a macro view of the economy’s largest players, but it’s a poor tool for picking individual stocks.

A 1% move in Dangote Cement matters more than a 20% move in a smaller company.

Sure. It is a top-down approach.
The lower you go - into sectors and industries, the more you evaluate and adjust the metrics

OsunOriginal:
This is what happens when corruption meets incompetence

🤦🤔

Agbalowomeri:
Oga no use statistic wey you no understand o

Shey na statistics we go chop?
E be like say my egungun wan enter express ooo

Sunrisepebble:
EPS is about N70+ with the acquisitions factored in as at 9M

Where did you get this report bro

WriteerNg:
⚡Saudi Arabia will open its real estate market to foreign buyers starting January, allowing non-Saudis to purchase homes, commercial property, land, farms, and industrial sites.

Foreigners can buy even in Mecca and Madinah, but must be Muslim for those two cities.

Hmmm... This prince and his family just want to turn Saudi to a secular state by fire by force and not the religious cite/benchmark or holy site for muslims.
These crop of leaders are totally westernized with little Arab culture in them

PuristForest:
Market still in a shock, even though most assets are in oversold conditions, significant economic and political uncertainty persists... ASI potentially trending lower, current momentum suggests a move towards 127 k which is 23.6% fib level of wave 3... affected assets unknow but thinking high ticket items mainly... A highly probable bullish stance will be test of 141k low (not lower than 138k) and next stop 190K - 200K...personally, i favor the bullish stance but trump 9ja saga, FX stability, policy shifts, and potential earnings surprises will ultimately play a crucial role in shaping market sentiment and direction.
DYOR joo!

refs
https://www.nairaland.com/1131485/nigerian-stock-exchange-market-pick/9695#137190045
ewnation/asi

Why did you say most stocks are over-sold?
Because according to this Meristem research, the current ASI P/E is below average 5-years SD/-1
Which means fundamentally, the average stock needs to be priced up.

WriteerNg:
⚡Former CIA Officer John Kiriakou:

The Israelis recruited thousands of Afghan refugees as informants… guys who had nothing, who’d do anything for $100.

It has always been the VIA, MI6 pattern.

WriteerNg:
⚡The U.S. will sell F-35s to Saudi Arabia, but they’ll be downgraded compared to Israel’s aircraft due to a U.S. law that ensures Israel’s “qualitative military edge.”

Saudi jets will lack Israel’s advanced weapons, electronic warfare systems, and next-gen AIM-260 missiles.

Israel—already operating F-35s for eight years and with more jets in service—still opposes the sale.

And with all these equipment removed, they are still going to buy each for $100m?
If you remove those equipment, the F35 is as good as an over expensive F16

“If you’re in a lousy business for a long time, you’re going to get a lousy result even if you buy it cheap.” - Warren Buffett

chimex38:
lol I no dey.
I just dey laff the bloated price prediction and duration with confidence.
Even Seplat with it's miniature OS and CONSISTENT quarterly dividend payment with also CONSISTENT increase almost yearly in dividend face value payment never reach 6k in about 10-12yrs so far.

Na MTN wan do 7k?

Na "NextGen" MTN go fit do 7k not longterm.

It's well bro

Osariemen12:
But that's is the reality we must accept: the dead isn't more useful than the dirt collected by LAWMA.

Haaaaaaa!!!!!!!
🙆🙆🤦🤦

Osariemen12:
Bring his body back home for what exactly? Are there no cemeteries in the UK. Pay a token and bury him there instead of flying useless cargo miles from the UK.


Life goes on.

Chaii
This is hard

simpleseyi:
Death is a coward. Hiding and killing humans one by one. If dem born him Mama well, make he come out and face us man to man

You want to enter a ring fight with death himself?
A brawl/rumble match face-to-face with death you have been running away all your life from?

Streetinvestor2:
You know try lol
You for tell them that mtn will soon buy musk starlink. That price will soon hit 70k before December since na MH dey the watsup group.
Gurus way no sabi anything

Bro, i have been quiet since on the group to avoid drawing unnecessary angers and attention on myself

The worst place to discuss stock market or analyzing equities is on a WhatsApp group.
You go against any of their perceived gurus and you get threatened of been yanked out of the group.
I joined an investment group of ex-course mates of recent and there, their gurus are telling them to be buying MTN that it will soon touch 7,000 per shares from the current 400....Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!...egbami
I tried sharing a different view or opinion on why even though MTN is going to rise on the medium to long term, i don't see it getting to 7,000 at least, not very soon.
I have been threatened and told to shut up and keep my opinion to myself ever since.
Infact, they don't want to hear anything from me again... pim make i no talk

Usmanovic95:
E no go better for the first African man to kneel to propose to a woman. He just created a stupid trend.

wonder233:
You spoke the truth.
The ladies are so used to multiple partners that they can't fathom really committing to one man. Yes, they envisage getting married someday, but how and to who, they've not given that a thought. For now, they just like having all options on the table, and still leaving the table for more potential suitors. Marriage isn't really the ultimate goal for them, they love been discovered by new people, the thrill of going on new dates, a new talking stage, the niceness that comes with the novelty, that faux special feeling.

I saw this firsthand with my ex wife, just a few months into marriage, she was already missing badly the feeling of being ogled over by a new person, nothing I did could substitute, it has to be a new person or nothing. So when I caught her having an affair, I didn't let the fake tears manipulate me, I didn't let the fake anger and blame shifting gaslight me. I stood my ground and simply walked away and never looked back.

You be correct guy.
Your head dey there

CaseSensitive:
In both 2022 and 2023, and even any given year, the percentage of Indian immigrants that came to the UK surpasses that of Nigeria. You will very hardly see an Indian turning on ring lights to make immigration related contents. But my country people?! Forget.

I've lost counts of contents I've seen by fresh Nigerian immigrants on YouTube, TikTok, X with titles like:

The things I've learned in the UK after 2 weeks - (Breaking News: I Now Know Everything After 14 Days)
One week in the UK - The Good, the Bad and the Ugly - (Just Landed Yesterday, Already Doing Full Documentary)
Want to buy COS? Watch! - (Public Service Announcement From Your New UK Minister of COS Affairs)
This is important if you want to secure COS - (Gather Here If You Want COS Before Bedtime)
How to secure COS from Nigeria - (Exclusive Secrets Only I, Who Arrived 30 Minutes Ago, Can Teach You)
The DOs and Dont's in the UK - (UK Regulations According to Me, Oracle of Manchester Zone 2)
What you MUST know about dating in the UK - (As a UK Relationship Expert With 3 Days Experience)

Then the name changes and tiles - Oluomo of Bury, Iyaloja of Peckham, Amuludun of Hull, Igwe of Sunderland - (conferred on them by His Majesty King Charles III)

What exactly is Nigerian's problem? What is it?

Gerrard59:
Sharing bills when he does not want to partake in chores does not make sense to me. That is why I did not focus on the aspect.
But so far, many married men on the thread have made it seem like the woman's money is solely hers, which does not sit well with me.

Fine, the man takes 100% financial responsibility. The woman works/runs a thriving business and makes good money. What does she use that money for? Who and who does she spend it on?

My brother. This is the excat question going through my mind.
While you are there as a man over-suffering yourself all just to be called man of the house....wearing shambles, looking ugly, your wife is there using her own money to take care of herself looking sweet, having excess reserve to start buying land and doing her project (building) or expanding her shop.
When you finally lose your job, she will start disrespecting you anyway while feeding you and because she is always looking beautiful, someone else who can finance her better will snatch her off under the excuse that you are useless and not doing anything for the family.
In a world that is becoming highly expensive and people can barely have any meaniful savings, some are still there raising shoulder for being ''Man of the House''