MufasaLion:


Exactly! He was trying to sound smart by sounding more ignorant and stupid. He thinks everyone on the forum is an educated illiterate like him. I will still trash him when it comes to intelligence and knowledge in most disciplines.

Many Africans have kids because they see them as investments. An average African home is not rich and they have kids, so that one or all the kids can be successful and pay them back, hence the reason many mother-in-law usually have issues with their daughter-in-law because they do feel cheated. They see the daughter-in-law as someone that wants to reap where she didn't sow. Poverty has damaged many people's way of reasoning.

Also, they wanna have kids so that at old age, one of them will accommodate them and burden them with their problem. Here in Nigeria, many parents are fond of such because everyone has seen it as norms.

It's easy to get a housekeeper in Nigeria because many people will accept the ridiculous amount you want to pay due to extreme poverty. Also, most Nigerian families rarely hire househelp because there would surely be a family out there that you can unofficially adopt their daughter in exchange for feeding, shelter, allowance, etc. It's a win-win for both parties. In most cases, such daughter is underage and won't be allowed by these wicked and selfish people to attend school. And you must understand that we don't have standard health care law in this country, so it's easier for some people to even take in their parents and go to work, then come back before attending to their needs properly, which is wrong.

bless you bro ..you nailed it

tollyboy5:

The mother has failed to understand that time has changed that is why ladies are not useful to themselves, only waiting for a man to pay for their daily bread.

Mind you, not all Africans were walking half naked. Yorubas were fully clothed with iro and buba .
Men put on agbada or buba and sokoto.
You will never see any Yoruba old village movie were body were exposed in the past.

Iro and buba in what century? I'm not talking about the British colonialism. Iro and Buba was part of civilization. Civilization is different from colonialism

Eniitankorede:





No point discussing with a nitwit. As if there's no paternity fraud in co-habiting couples, as if there's any sense of commitment in co-habitation. As if the family is not a unit of society. The ills you see in marriage is more than 10 times seen in co-habitating couples. Marriage is the safeguard against societal decay. Children borne inside wedlock are well rounded and well behaved children as compared to those borne by hit-and-run couples. Any domestic violence you see in marriage is more than 10 times common in co-habitation. Marriage gives more security and rights to both members of the couple. To go against marriage is to advocate for chaos in society. I am saying all these for those who reason, not for you because i know you have lost your sense of reason.

Who is talking about co-habiting here and who is going against marriage? You must be very dumb. The issue here is why is a marriage a must, why is having kids a must? Is it for everyone? I guess Buhari was out of wedlock that's the reason why he has been the most usel*ss president we have ever had cuz your mumu is very obvious.

CaveAdullam:
Western hubris and madness have taken a bigger chunk in the lives of Africans, especially the youths, eroding long-existing foundation culture and tradition. Africa has a culture: God first and family next.

If not for the degradation of African culture, on a normal day, that "iye" would have given "Itohan" a dirty slap - most parents in our contemporary day have lost touch with their culture, thereby ignoring their children and being unable to raise them into responsible adults. Charity begins at home; with a good father and mother (and extended family).

Let me translate:

It is a man that will pay for the breasts you are exposing - bride price.
Cover it, it is not meant for the eyes of everybody.
These breasts you are exposing, a man will come and pay money for it.
This waist you are shaking they will kill a big cow for it.

Iyé Itohan still had the Edo/bini culture roaming in her psyche. Good one from the mother.

It's pathetic that we are quick to copy vacuous things rather than things that are capable of taking us to the zenith. Pathetic!

May Africa find grace!

Africa and gawd? I hope it is not the gawd that the westerner brought to us you are talking about?
As for the clothing, it is western culture because black Africans were walking half naked before civilization.
Lastly the mother was right until she monetize her daughters body. A man will pay for it. How can we have equity when a side is expected to pay, as in a commodity you pay for. reasons why African women will keep ending in the kitchen and other room.

MufasaLion:


I'll say it again, Steve Jobs had no statements as you've claimed on his death bed, prior to his death! Bring me evidence to counter my claim or zip your filthy mouth!

Even on his death bed, he still told his daughter, Lisa, that she smells like toilet! Learn to read books and not rumors! I'm done with you!

And as I've said earlier, you're just among the people that have kids and see them as investments and asset to burden with your old age. Ignorant and selfish creatures having kids for wrong reasons.

Goodbye!

Don't mind the werey. He even said he lives abroad, maybe Kenya.
As if we don't see married couples around us every day, as if we don't have them in our families. majority are just there for the sake of it. Free sex, financial reasons, societal/family pressure, religious purpose, to have kids when millions are still looking for who to adopt them when there is no parental care.

Eniitankorede:





Those of us who live abroad know better than you. Its a miserable old age life. Did you listen to Steve Job’s last statement in his death bed? You better start learning how to love and form a lasting relationship. Its a symptom of mental illness if you are not able to form a sustained and lasting relationship. Go take care of yourself and don't spread your cancer to affect the health of society.

Marriage is the only form of love? I get bet with with my left balls that you have never left the shores of Nigeria. The people killing themselves in marriage, cheating on each other are also showing love I guess. Nigeria has the highest paternity fraud in the world overtaken Jamaica, Nigerians top the list of cheats in marriages. Average lifespan in Nigeria is 56, people even hardly grow old. You no get sense aswear.

MufasaLion:


And you that have high labour force, are they not living a better life than you do?

You dey mind the mumu. Is shortage of labor force not better than having over 30 million jobless people?

Eniitankorede:





You don’t ever pray for the calamity befalling these people. They are avoiding marriage because nobody wants to care for others. Individuality is killing them. Miserable life awaits people who crave for individuality. This is evident when they grow old and need help from others. Care home staff can never replace your family and close relatives.

So it is better to have children you can not take care of? It is better to be in a marriage even when there is no love? It is better that our population keep growing and keep producing criminals in the name of marriage? Do you know Japan have one of the highest average lifespan of over 80 years compared to Nigeria 56? Please even if you have children, will they stay with you forever? And who told you Nigerians are happier than Japanese? You people will just open mouth as if you don't have sense.

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Interesting...

It means if she was your younger sister, you would have beaten her to pulp. This is how Nigerian families are always in support of their women staying in toxic marriages. You people will rather die or allow the woman to die herself than to see the women in your family unmarried.[/quote]
That is it. Very useless set of people. You have female sister doing good on her own and you are not happy?

Helpout12345:
You cannot force her to marry. Marriage is not for everyone also. Some people are better off single for themselves, for the family and for the society.

I love this .. same way not everyone will have or deserves to have kids.

Kobojunkiee:
People like you need to be publicly flogged for this level of idiocy in what is the 21st century.....

He should be used as a medical specimen. So senseless human being in the 21st century. He even said he is a church guy, asin a lot of religious people don't have sense. If only those who are married tell him what they go through and what they hide in the name of being religiously correct, he will just shut up his mouth.

Kobojunkiee:
1. Clearly, your sister is not as small-minded as you seem to be as an individual.

2. So because of that, you expect the same will happen to your sister even though she does not seem to be concerned about such things even now?

3. So, because she didn't mention marriage and to you, marriage is an ultimate achievement, you would rather have a situation where your sister is dragged into living in the same tiny world you obviously exist in?

4. I put it to you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with your sister as she seems to have a clear idea of what she wants for herself and her life. You, on the other hand, don't even seem to know your left from your right and that seems why you think it is your place to push your views on your sister, going as far as to claim you are the man in the family and all that rubbish talk.

Leave the woman alone and focus on getting your life correct abeg!

Gawd bless you...she will rather see her sis marry an id1ot in the name of marriage.

IntelChief:


All my ancestors both male and female got married. It won't be in my time that either me or any of my siblings will not marry

Do you know @Bimbo and a lot of people in marriage would have wished they never got married? How is getting married an ultimate goal? How does marriage define someone? You need help not your sister. She is a rear bread

Your elder sister have sense, bigger and better ambition than you. She should marry and become a liability to a husband or become despirate and encounter a wife bitter just because she wants to marry.

olax02:
All these our so-called Celeb should always take it easy. They shouldn't allow this Celeb of a thing to ruin their life. He's gone now what else? Take it easy ooo!

Na only celeb dey die? You know how many other accident victims that might have happened that same day?

Discountsempai:


Well there was nothing they could do except move him to a bed and make him comfortable. As things stand, he had a severe head injury

A one minute video also is not enough to make a judgement

That man no get sense. The video is just 30sec not even a minute. After the explantation he still find a way to blame the nurses.

Acidosis:
Very obvious. Majority did not watch the video critically. This letter explains it all but many still won't read it.

If you follow crowd in this country, you fit enter gutter.

Aswear...I use to tell people this all the time, majority doesn't it is true. We are just too full in this country.

Truthday:


Youve changed nothing with this comment. Islam still remains world fastest growing religion with over 2 billion adherents. With over 43 oic countries. Change your hate to live and see how beautiful love is.

Like the love we are having in the north and abundant of wealth due to religion.

lhordspy:
A new subject 'Religious tolerance' should be introduced and should be compulsory right from kindergaten to senior secondary school.

And it should continue in tertiary institutions as a GST course.

Christians will see this as nothing, to them it is mere rants by muslims over 'little issue' .
No matter how you see this or from what angle you are looking at it. This is an extreme religious bigotry by the polaris bank supervisor and the muslims have every right to stand against it.


Scoot Howard Phillips once said, and i quote: "You can't pick and choose which types of freedom you want to defend. You must defend all of it or be against all of it."

The right to practice and defend my religion is non-negotiable. We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity which is my right to worship my God.

Religious indoctrination is child abuse on it's own. Religion should be rated 18

Nicepoker:
Was the lady in possession of the man's penis?

I tire for this gender....men too should receive sense.

tollyboy5:

You're not using your head.
Think b4 you type.

Goat are been breeded to multiply them. Who is breeding our wild life?

Soso stvpid killing by stvpid people.

Aswear I don't know what exactly people went to school to learn...that's why a PhD certificate in Nigeria is rejected. Something a primary school pupil should be aware of. ��

Tradepunter2:


Goats are breed to multiple in a sustainable way but deers are not.... Look at this now, it's habitat flooded further reducing their chances of survival and most likely killed many of them in the forest.

They are also hunted by big cats, Python and cobras

Don't blame him ..a lot of Nigerians don't have sense, they are not different from the government they abuse. Tell him to go hunt ordinary bird in a develop country, whether he will not end up in jail.

Techiekingee:

Madam, deers are least concern. Infact, they ate overpopulated!... There's nothing wrong in hunting them as they are one of the most hunted animals as game all over the world.

Ode...are they overpopulated in Nigeria? Even in Australia during the bush fire, people were still saving lives of Kangaroo that are far more than human population.

Flirtyjane:
Every animal we see in this country, we kill it.

There was supposed to be animal protection law in this country.

The dear is too beautiful to be killed.

We are destroying the ecosystem in this country.

People who don't have respect for human life how will they respect an Animal...we are not different from the government we insult.

ote author=meobizy post=117417345]It is not banned. There is freedom of expression there. It doesn’t work and those societies moved past believing in spirits.[/quote]
Haiti is one of the poorest countries. If they are so powerful they wouldn't have been do poor.... during the tsunami, they needed science and money from technically advance countries. The same charm that could not prevent us from colonialism. same thing we are doing with religion in 2022, that could not prevent us from being the poverty capital of the world.....with the Nigeria are so greedy, if voodoo works, Nigeria will stop working and just focuse on it.

Candidlady:


can a man be into arts and entertainments and still be faithful to his partner


This your question is dumb abeg

Do you need to sleep around to attract customers as a beer parlour owner


all she needs is to get good and friendly sales girls. .. watch men hover around her business like bees to honey


Iguess people who owns spas too are unfaithful.. A friend of mine got a spa here in abuja most of her customers are males iguess she's unfaithful

Very dumb question....The main cheats are in the church speaking in tongues.

Kajaard:


Has it really gotten to this? This is sad.

Should we call this inferiority complex or should we say these ladies have no shame and have zero self esteem?

All of the above

IAMBOSS1990:

Obviously you have not heard of those who had it terrible for doing such things.

I am telling you of what I see, you are saying what you hear...They are just fear tactics. Pastor does this every week and nothing happens to them. Politicians swear by the so called holy books and nothing happens to them. You need to wake up and stop being gullible.

Onyiiobi7735:
Truly God is too merciful.Can the animal try stealing from the shrine of Sango,Amadioha or any other deity, and get away easy?

Nothing wiil happen...My friend landlord back then was an Ogun worshiper and influential people do come around. My friends will steal alcohol from the shrine, when the the landlord discovered this, he himself will hand over it to them and different meats from the sacrifices carried out. Same with a friend that worked in an Indian company where a cleaner packed money from the shrine and when other Nigerian workers found out and that nothing happened to guy, everyone joined in packing money from the shrine until the indians stopped putting money there.

Fred166:

I will just switch off the TV if I see her watching such movie . Nollywood really need to upgrade.

I intensionally blocked the AM Yoruba on my DSTV because there is absolutely nothing to learn there, not even for pleasure. Also the two Bollywood channels. Those channel will drain your intelligence and reduce your IQ.

Nazgul:
For your information, kids who were raised in strict Christian homes still end up as Yahoo boys, drug abusers, cultists, prostitutes...etc. It's all about your parenting skills.

One of the major reason why most adopted kids turn out bad is due to segregation.

They're always constantly being reminded that they're adopted, extended family uncles and aunts wouldn't fully accept them, cousins of their age bracket would be cold towards them (no thanks to their parents who told them that they are adopted and they have no root cos they can't trace them to any family), so in a bid to prove a point most of them seek solace in the wrong company...hence they end up becoming a nuisance themselves, their surrogate family, their environment and the country.

The rule of the thumb is if you must adopt, you and your wife must keep it as a secret...anyone outside both of you mustn't be aware, cos if that child grows up knowing
he's adopted, it might affect his mental health because he won't feel secure around you and would constantly be longing for his biological parents.

The only reason I still have fate in Nigeria is because of people like you, who are just less than 1% of the total population. You see the rest? Education as failed them. Imagine blaming an innocent child on adoption, when we have majority of our youths who are into prostitution, crime and drugs.
Every topic you come across, you will hardly find one out of 100 intelligent person. Everyone will just abandon critical reasoning and jump on bandwagon. You see whites adopting black children without finding faults but a Nigerian can not adopt a Nigerian homeless child. They will rather give birth to 12 useless children than adopt one.