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Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Mariangeles:
How would she know his true intentions, when some men can be cunning!?

One lady that brought her issue here said her newly married husband demanded that she quit her "80k job".
Now, do you think they had that "agreement" before they were married?
I thought that was very selfish and inconsiderate of the so-called "newly married husband"

Eddygourdo:
Yet in those same countries, men also complain of women feeling resentful when they give. How come going Dutch is a term if it is common place. Women are selfish lovers worldwide. The feminist movement is an example of that selfishness. They want the good part but not the bad part. That a woman spends on a man in other climes, doesn't imply she enjoys doing it. if a western woman has to be the breadwinner , while the man lazies about, she becomes the head of the home and will complain when the man slacks around. its what it is sir.

Eddygourdo:
Yet in those same countries, men also complain of women feeling resentful when they give. How come going Dutch is a term if it is common place. Women are selfish lovers worldwide. The feminist movement is an example of that selfishness. They want the good part but not the bad part. That a woman spends on a man in other climes, doesn't imply she enjoys doing it. if a western woman has to be the breadwinner , while the man lazies about, she becomes the head of the home and will complain when the man slacks around. its what it is sir.

Eddygourdo:
Women weren't created to give, but rather to receive. This is why when they have to give , they immediately start feeling resentful. Most men don't know where or on what their wives spend their salary on. When you realize this part about women , you will be more tolerable with them. That being said. A man must always work hard. Never relax simply because your wife is providing . Have your own shit you are doing to make a living. Women respect providers, no matter how small you are providing . But once you relax and she is providing , she must have resentment towards you. Women aren't grateful by nature, they don't understand logic as well. that you used to feed her or were nice to her , doesn't mean she will be nice to you. these are more reasons we laugh and men who carry women on their heads. Learn to love women , treat them rightly, understand their shortcomings, but don't carry them on your head. they will disappoint you.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

dopedan:
I should masturbate for six years? No way

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

FERNANDEZISBACK:
On what ground..?
Morally or Religious..who the f**k made it a sin?
It is the saving of an innocent soul the toils and torments of having to be born into a world..unwelcome and unwanted...
1)Children are not aborted...

2)Abortion is not a sin...
Not everyone practice your religion and don’t care what it does or doesn’t allow...

A lady got raped by a man..you still want her to keep the **..all cos a nonsense god say it's a sin?
This is how they litter the whole place with kids when there ain't no means to take care of them..

tinsel:
Tell me what he did wrong? A 21 years old boy wants to donate his kidney and the Ekweremadu wants to pay for it. What is the problem? Where I will lay blame on Ekweremadu is if the boy is actually 15 years and Ekweremadu is part of the conspiracy to inflate his age to 21.
People have been selling their kidney in Nigeria. This is not the first and not going to be the last so far the seller is an adult.

Amotolongbo:
It is not too early since she has been introduced to the subject by her friends. It is even getting too late ma/sir.

The presentation isn’t anymore a problem, she has the introduction part from her friends already. Try knowing what her friends told her about sex, reorientate her away from the fallacies chunked to her by her friends and orientate her on the truth and fact of sex in a comprehensive way appropriate to her age.

I will advise that you and your partner (both parents) should be on the same page when orientating your girl on sex.

Don’t tell her “if a man touches you, you will be pregnant” like majority of us was told. Let her know and understand her anatomical body parts, the physiological development and changes that will occur with age.
Make her realise and be conscious of the “sacred” part of her body which should not be touched by men and women (cos of the gays we have nowadays)

Danielle09:
It's never too early, as long it's done the right way and with the right words.

zeuss:
better take charge of her education before her friends consolidate.

prinsam30:
which kind fallacy at 6years haba, my daughter is 7yrs and her age group ar not feeding her with any fallacy oooo

Righteousness2:
Government is Collasping,
President is Collasping.
Biden is Falling the same way he is collapsing Nomerica.
Nomerica is Spiritually and Physically Falling.

ufotunang:
Why did they not also beat , torture and kill the customer the muslim guy that approached the prostitute for sex and slept with her...did he not also not commit sin ...this people are just hypocrites

Candidlady:


What sorta madness is this
You had sex with her paid her 1 thou' even had the guts as a crook and eediot that you are to steal her 5 thou'

Then lynched her after cuz you discovered quran in her room

Claiming how can she have such book in a room where customers come to sex her

this kinda news makes me sick to my bones

Men are one of the problems we have in thus world
this world would have been a peaceful place if it got no men
Kindly lynch em too.

But before you set em ablaze, confirm the number of rounds saliu had with the eediot deranged gender then insert that same amount of office pin into their dvcks and anus


Lagos
Dead state

Men
Dead gender

SuperPanther:
You sound really stupid

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Delegates are the problem we have on this country.

Voting Tinubu who brought Bulhari to power and expecting a different result is foolishness of the highest order.

SenatePresdo:
I'm Pro Russia, but Russia is performing[img][/img] Below what people expects of them.

After 100 days fight with Ukraine, they are only able to control 20 percent?

That's underperformance.

LordVoldermort:
Oh yes! 3,500 is what is killing us not the Yahoo boys, kidnapper, terrorists, corrupt politicians NO

It's 3,500 oh very painful, how much money do you think gets or burnt everyday?

KIDfurniture:
100million naira paid within hours by the church!!! The church is a big institute in this country that should be taxed.

Kingpele:
Thank God u are safe. This heartless men collected 50 million from the associates of the Anambra lawmaker and still cut off his head ..may God expose and shame this devil incarnates