₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
I derive no pleasure in sexist compliments that put other women down.

Thanks but you need to do better.

You don't need to derive pleasure from wat I said, I just spilled my mind, rather Dan giving u a compliment..
Thanks too.

Papanwamaikpe:
It we like she didn't grow up here in Nigeria. She's different from the regular NL females . I've been observing her for a while now

Oh ok, no wonder, d babe brain no b naija made.

cococandy:
I’m sorry I don’t know what to tell you. I’m trying to be sympathetic because you must be troubled to have brought it here.

The question is: Can he not eat when he’s hungry? Does he have to ask you first? If finance is the problem, Maybe ask your husband to discuss with him on how he can contribute. If he’s not in a financial position to contribute then that means you and your husband must provide for him while he’s there. In which case, only have guests that you can afford to care for.

I don’t think it’s nice to expect him to ask permission every time he’s hungry. Unless he’s a minor. And even then I wouldn’t do that. But it would be a bit more understandable since a minor might not be very hygienic in the kitchen and stuff like that.

Food is such an important aspect of life that I’d hate to restrict anyone’s access to it. I think he’d be more comfortable and at home if he can eat whenever he’s hungry without asking permission

I have been reading wise and reasonable comments here from guys , which is typical, of guys, but I just read ur comment, and I am glad DAT in dis era wen reasonable women are scarce, dia is still a woman who reasons as beautiful as u, my dear, u re wise, smart, and intelligent. D last set of reasonable women dis world had , was our mothers, dis generation of women are all whack including my sisters. I have not seen ur face , bt i know You are a blessing to ur man, God bless ur future home.

tohyorsih2:
I don't know why i like this dude

Becos he has money.

Xcelinteriors:
Your write up is so long but I read everything

Your wife is the one with problem here. She's a bad woman and tell her her own daughter in law will treat her x100 of how she's treating your mum

For d first time, I see a lady who supports a mother in-law, God bless u for saying d truth, ur house hold shall know peace abundantly.

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

Wetin dis one d talk, now If I say some gals make a lot of sense wen dey are not talking, some ppl go begin beef me, everyone do have sex, and everyone is expected to also bring something to d table intellectually, and dis one is here talking about birds of d same feathers, wetin concern bird concern dis discussion now? Dis one weak me o.

Lol, interesting, come and finish dis story o

nicepoker101:
You are about to fall into the trap. Your body don de shag you already.

My brother how do you mean, pls tell me something I need to know.

HRHQueenPhil:
;Dits purely inspired by d HOLY SPIRIT, I av left my number on ur page

I cannot see any number on any page. Where do you stay actually?

HRHQueenPhil:
Ur wife is now ur wife not a slave to be sent back to father's house when u are annoyed with her. Do these
1. Bring her back immediately
2. Buy her pyjamas and nighties
3.burn all her wrappers
4. Make sure she never leaves ur bedside without putting on appropriate clothing
Congratulations, nothing will spoil ur marraige

I do not know you, but I can swr DAT u are intelligent, dis comment is superb n d best solution,. Where do you stay? We need to talk, I love conversing with intelligent people.

donaldtruman:
Bros,this is not jokes o.U can't expect me to send money to a stranger.
I ve been doing all these for a woman I know and love so much and want to marry,not b'cos it is convenient for me but b'cos I want to make her happy.
But unfortunately she is abusing d privilege.

My guy what business are u into, or where do you work, Are u part of d team helping buhari recover d stolen loot?? No one pays his gal/ wife 100k every month, 20k every week plus oda numerous expenses u mentioned , u ma calculate am na...even d federal govt. no go do am.if u spend roughly 400k on ur gal every month , how much u com d earn, how much do u spend on ur self, and how much do u save?
I hate lies o.

dinak1:
As a normal human being and if I am to take you as my brother, I will call you a big mugu.
Why would you do so much for someone that does nothing for you?
Tell me one thing she has ever contributed to your life.
I know you have so much cash to spend around, but guy you ain't her only money bank
SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.
SHE IS NOT A WIFE MATERIAL.
ask yourself these questions:
Would you be able to cope with all this rubbish did the rest of your life?
Would you like your children to be trained this way?
What will happen when you don't have money again?

My dear no stress urself trying to comment or give advice, just do like me, read comments and pass, because DAT story na big fat lie, a guy of 31 does not have all d money DAT guy is spending on d so called babe....when did he grad or start doing business DAT he would have saved up to all dis amount he mentioned here, do you know d start up salary for a fresh graduate in dis country? Do u know how many years u must have been a business man before u can have enough to lavish like d so called OP? Las las we are all here to read stories.

Catholic faithfuls and other concerned Christians, pls let's gather here to celebrate our Blessed Mother , The Virgin Mary, The Mother of Perpetual Help.

Bro what you just narrated here is eye watering, in all my years as a catholic ( still a catholic ), a seminarian, and an ex seminarian, I have never seen a gal DAT dated a priest, and goes scot free, God punishes dem outrightly, dos priest have taken an oath of celibacy, and u being a gal wants to distract him from serving his God, its just like taking meat out of a lion's mouth, definitely, d Lion ( God ) will eat u up, I will tell u abt a few episodes, while I was in sch ( higher institution ) a female std was dating a priest, when nemesis caught up with them , they were together in a room, and d gal's gas cylinder exploded,guess what happened , the gal burnt to death, BT d priest survived, and till today he is still alive, hale and healthy, and all d burns are completely healed, I also know a gal during my seminary days DAT would not allow a particular priest to rest, she died of a strange ailment , on her death bed. She had to confess to another priest, d story is endless, I cannot write dem all, a seminarian has asked my sister out wen we were younger, d only tin I told her was RUN 4 UR DEAR LIFE! So my guy, If u truly love dis gal, take her to another priest so she can confess her sin , and do her penance, so u both can be free , cos wen one finger touches oil, it affects the oda fingers. u can also contact d priest u talked abt and give him some advice, BT pls NEVER U REVEAL D IDENTITY OF D PRIEST! God have mercy on us all.

agbekeOreke86:
Madam Rika,irrespective of what you ma'am thinks or anybody else at that,Busola's gonna sleep peacefully with both eyes closed probably for the 1st time in 20yrs.does this look like a joke to u ma'am??molested/raped victims(either male/female) never heals ma...it can only get better when they talk about it.why do you think they send them to rehab abroad n subsuquently support groups to help them heal??u think Timi wanna expose his wife like that??His ego is on the line here.no man wanna know who has 'been' with his woman/wife before.na strong head men dey use ooo.the reason why she could come out eventually is to find peace within herself despite the fact that she gat a happy home and found a friend in her husband who chose to still stand by her against all the odds...sorry ma'am,marital status dosnt automatically absolve rape and molestation!!!!

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In as much as I don't want to talk about this, but do you think ,the best place to talk about it and feel better is on d internet DAT woman is probably in her 30s and d so called rape event happened wen she was 17 , just check d period gap BTW 17 & 30 , so within dis longgg period she has not told anyone ,not even her husband , in order to FEEL BETTER... Pls think again

If I were d COZA pastor, I no go even say anything.
Even as a married woman, she is not supposed to say something like DAT in public, for d sake of d children's image, if my mom comes out publicly and accuse someone of raping her wen she was 17, I swr I go dis own her, since she waited dis long to tell ppl her story, she should have as well let d sleeping dog lie!

Following, com continue ur story Na, * sits on a bench munching my pop corn as I wait for op to continue...... mak nobody beg me popcorn o*

Løl,u r nt even ready to get married...cos u were asked for a laon in other to pay ur fiancé's sch fee,and also dat of her broda,u don d get second tots abt marrying her,..if u heard anoda man payed ur fiancé's sch fee while u were dating her,u go begin vex for her,and probably call her a harlot,and conclude she collected d money in exchange for her body....
wen u marry a gal,u marry her entire family...i cud remember wen I was still very little,my mom's youngest broda and last born used dia family house as a collateral to secure a loan from d bank,and wen he couldn't pay back,d bank came for d house,d family had to pull resources to pay off,my dad brought almost 45% of d money...
there is an adage in Igbo dat says " ôgo bu chi onye".. its means " one's in-law can also be dia god".

SATANeye:
guys stop fkcking in the dark o.....its not advisable

see wat d Op is talking abt,dis is same gal in d pics

Fernandowski:
she was like ' Shaq, though I love you so so much but I can't trust you .... you attract literally errone with your looks and height and Errthing...... cheating on me will be so so easy for you ' ........

I tried my best to assure her I ain't gonna cheat..... cut all ties with my female friends , spent more time with her, called her like trice Errday and sent numerous text just to assure her I ain't gonna leave her for someone else but she won't still stop being insecure.....

I had to call of the relationship by myself...... It wasn't easy that night....... we kissed and kissed till my lips hurt....... tasted her tears in my mouth..... it was hard to let go but with time, it healed.....


dating someone that doesn't trust you is a very stupid thing to do...... love Dey sweet shaaaaa

u forgot to tell us d name of dis Philippines movie,e swt shaa.

TonyeBarcanista:
Another fraudster on the loose deceiving the gullible

my broda,I dnt knw who you are,I dnt even knw d healed cripple,BT I knw Blessed Iwene Tansi,His remains has been performing wonders,(dis one no b talk say) I'm a living testimony,sometime in Dec 2014,His remains were brought to Holy Ghost Adoration ground Uke Anambra state,I was opportuned to kneel beside d corpse and touch it,bro DAT priest died abt sixty somtin yes ago,BT his corpse is still fresh,I had chronic asthma, I use inhalers,and nasal liquid drops to breathe properly, life was hell den,BT d moment I had an encounter wit d corpse, I was healed instantly till date,I've Neva used any breathing aid to survive,I fit puff cigarette, natin d happen, bro dats how Saints operate,they don't decay,and dia remains perform wonders.

I can't categorically giv an Answer now,I think d poster above me has something to say.....let me not say somtin NW,and my Oga at d top will say anoda.

If you ask me,I'd say the man should cater solely for his family,its his responsibility,d woman should only be a helper,eg if d man no dey,d woman shud b able to carry d family along......i d always beg God to mak me financially bouyant to meet all d needs of my household ( wife,kids,inlaws,extended relations) ....
Any family wey woman b bread winner,d family no d sweet ,e d always get comma.....d last tym I checked in d bible whr a woman fed a man,mankind was kicked out of d garden of Eden!

Cutehector:
U see, things start up with "choice"



He made a choice in the first place. The boss did not put a gun at his head to coerce him to sleep with her for the night. She asked nicely.

He obeyed like a slave. He allowed stupid feelings to dictate his actions. The phrase "What if" is killing a lot of couples today.


All I can say is that he got himself into that mess all by himself. He better use the same way to get out of it by manning up and owning to his mistakes.



Now this goes out to men out there, I don't give a damn who you are or what you do.





Have Self Control....

God I love dis guy.....intelligent ans.....d man in d story made d mistake by allowing himself fall for her tricks.....sex should NT be d reason you re wit ur wife,wat if she travels or goes for a course training abroad,DAT means,you'll fvck anytin on skirt DAT opens for u abi........i prefer to sit,or lie/cuddle my woman and we talk and laff happily...

cutehector abeg no vex cos I talk say I love u,I no mean am DAT way,I didn't knw d ryt words to use.....im NT gay o,I'm straight,and I hav a beautiful lady by my side ryt NW,my woman!

olihilistic:

I never broke up with her.
she left me and married another man.
the vacuum she left in my heart hasn't been replaced.
I love her till eternity.

keep on loving!

Rexhenrex:
lmao...innocent you no well...so na me you call womanizer?

I call u womanizer u d complain abi....d name doesn't even scratch d surface of ur womanizing attitude.......infact u b WOMANIZATION!

Op,pls r u d rexhenrex I grew up wit,abi na anoda one??......if na u,den dis ur problem started in Pri 2,you r Neva contended wit one gal,u always want to be wit evry chioma,Ada,bola,hauwa,ovie,isere,imabong,ifenyinwa,ebube...(d list is endless) on d street...well u call it a problem,Bt I simply call it WOMANIZING!...

in other words,meet ur pastor/Rev for counseling.,tnk me later.

AMERICAN PIE.
I first watched dat movie in 2009,and I go watch am dis evening.

The only woman I ve begged lik dis na my mom,wen I wanted to beg her for moni to buy X-box game....
she told me if I can tak d 1st position in class,den she'll buy it......it seemed like impossible,bt I buckled my belt,and took d 1st position dat term...
#hardwork pays!.

(1)-My Calculator= helps me calculate HW much my customers wud giv me,and HW much change I'll giv Dem,also enables me tak stock in my shop...

(2)-My Currency Converter= helps me wen I'm in exchange line inside main market,to knw dollar and Rmb equivalent in naira...

dats all.

proudly igbo (Onitsha boy)
on behalf of Igbo Boys Movement Onitsha branch. (IBM).
signed...Mgt (white house).

donkizzydaboss:
We know ladiex to be soft-hearted and easily broken...they let looxe their emotionx nd feelingx when they are in love but they also shed tearx when heart-broken...

Do big guys alxo cry?

natin wey I no go see for nairaland.....nigga @op you d use X in place of S......dos DAT mak any sense to u? Abi na d latest tin in town,mayb I need to update myself.....well it looks childish to me,if you are in an office na so u go take d write formal stuffs I'm NT tryin to insult u,Bt nigga u need to grow up,DAT method of writing doesn't mak sense at all.

Rexhenrex:
lol...i once did o,loved that bae like mad

hehehehehe Rex I fit guess d babe name abi?

Someday I'll post my family pics to celebrate fathers' day too

#vision2030....

meanwhile,nice pics,cute family..

#better tin na moni mak am...

#God bless us all..