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Eayahh RIP but exercise is gud for health nw

So people have power like this and they haven't blow down Aso-Rock

Nice one, HIV will soon hav cure then

Well, the first rule is, don’t get into a fight in public. But, there are times when you can’t avoid it, you’d say. Imagine, you are in a grand and crowded shopping mall with yourpartner. There is a lovely lace gown that you want to buy. However your partner claims that you buy such expensive dresses only to keep them locked up in the wardrobe. Obviously, you get pissed at such an atrocious blame, even though it may have a hint of truth to it. The immediate reaction from you will be to counter attack your partner with a verbal argument. However, it really is not a sensible thing to do. So, how do you handle a fight with your partner in public? Read ahead and find out.

1) Do not verbalize the argument:
When in public, refrain from getting into anykind of fight, no matter how provoked you are. It may give you momentary satisfaction to unleash your anger in the form of an argument, but the embarrassment that it brings you later is not really worth it. The raised voices will surely attract attention andprovide entertainment to other shoppers. Doyou really want to be the hot conversational topic (actually, gossip) of these onlookers?

2) Use expressions to convey anger:
When there is a near argument situation in apublic area, what do you do? Express your disagreement with an angry stare. Do no overdo it. Show it just enough to let your partner know that there is an argument waiting for him as soon as you step into the house.
Do not ask for his opinions on any more shopping matters until you settle the ‘lacy gown issue’. Ignore his comments and when he asks for your opinion on a shirt which he thinks will make him look sexy, give him a perfect answer to match his earlier blame. It can be something like “It’s nice but I highly doubt if it will make YOU look sexy.” Add an extra emphasis on the word ‘you’.
Such small actions and sarcastic responses might make you feel marginally better. This will help you hold your temper in check until you are in the confinement of your house where you can fight all you want. So, there you go. Next time you are in public, do not fight! Instead, be the levelheaded one and take the argument home.

Royal Roy: March 9 for real.

I guess u must be attracting the girls like magnet on metal....make people laugh like Basket-Mouth, you must love the alcohol too. And finally, you must be making good money....now or very soon!!!

#teamPisces baby.

yes ooooooo

My birthday mateeeeeee shout in eegba

Yomieluv: So many animals in human forms,the guy definitely is animal in human skin,and sure must be kept in zoo.
Man's inhumanity to man.

Even if they kept him in Zoo people will still be using money to watch him which is a way of promoting his wickedness, i think he should be kept in a dungeon or lion's cage.

Sorry GEJ, i forg.e.t to informed you it's my handiwork because i like you

Is good to be mobile but i think farmers need something more than handset now that will enhance subsistence farming.

Inside your heart

Born 2be Rich: @OP wetin be the name of your own church...Abeg tell us

Thanks, Redeem Christian Church of God; Bread of life Parish.

Year 2013 was tagged: My Year of Total Deliverance!!!
In my church, what about you?

Hapi new year alllllllll

My first shout out goes to Almighty God, then my parents, sister's, brother's i miss u and i luv u, and my dad in thy Lord Pastor Richard Oka.
Finally My Only Beautiful Real Angel: Roseline Bolaji i love u so so so so much

I'm in church now and every where around my church is bubbling.
How was your area now?

Why will i not happy? When this very Earth carried my life rotate and revolved the sun with a lot of heat, harmattan, cold and rains. I need to thank God oooo

Quickly go to 'Ladipo' in Mushin

Another thread!
Did GEJ have godfather

People pray every day-by-day for this nation, and if not for these prayer who knows what would have happened by now?
Please Nigeria need our prayer's for good governance and divine protection in 2013. So just a prayer point from you before the new year can go a long way in year 2013.

I pray God should continue to put the interest of this nation in the heart of our leader's and protect us in 2013, Amen!

Say your prayer. Thank you

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yeye4live: 4get it,ow many pple 2day divorced n stil leav hapily

You're on point.

felifeli: You have really answered your own question. If a building has become structurally unsafe best solution is to pull it down before it falls down by itself and destroy lives. If a marriage has FAILED for the love of God kindly get a divorce before it claims lives.

If a building is not structurally sound any more, pulling down is not the best option for a competent builder.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Yes.[/quote]What ma?

Marriage is the process by which two people who love each other make their relationship public, official, and permanent.

In comparison; a marriage that about to collapse and that of an abandoned building that is so fragile to collapse, to me there's no difference. And to a Builder/Building Technicians, a building that its collapse is imminent can be restore back to is original position which can still withstand winds, heavy rain, and spend the normal life-span. by replacing some old parts with a new part.

Do you think couples can still do something in other to prevent divorce, if a marriage seems fragile and the collapse seems imminent?

1025: pdp will win in their usual way but if they decide to test their abilities without the refs, west brom is sure to go home with something.

Is paining you Supporter of looser team, 46 minus your point hw much remain

Up Utd

1. He’s Stingy with Personal Details:
Most men aren’t going to pour their hearts out and sob on your shoulder. They’ve been conditioned to believe that real men don’t cry. And while your boyfriend isn’t required to shed tears in front of you, it would be niceif he could clue you in as to what he’s thinking every now and then. If you’ve been dating your man for months, but you still haven’t heard one mention of his childhood or career aspirations, something’s not right.

2. He Doesn’t Make You Feel Special:
Your boyfriend is supposed to love you. He’s supposed to make you feel like the most beautiful, intelligent, wonderful woman in the world. If he’s not making you feel special, it’s time to re-evaluate how he is making you feel. We’d take a wild guess it’s something other than good.

3. He Gushes About Another Woman:
Whether he can’t shut up about his new coworker, yoga teacher, or supposed “friend,” if your guy goes on and on about another woman, he could be guilty of emotional cheating and may not be far from physical cheating. His focus on this particular woman may start with a few short mentions and slowly graduate to extended conversations about everything from her career choice to her coffee choice.

4. He Tells His Mom Everything:
Momma’s boys are in constant communication with their mothers. You may not realize it, but if you’re dating one, his mom probably knows every intimate detail ofyour relationship, and takes liberty to weigh in on every argument the two of you have. Chances are, you’ll have to listen to her opinion -- a momma’s boy isn’t shy about voicing what’s on his mommy’s mind.

5. He’s a Stage-5 Clinger:
Relationships work best when two people have their own, independent lives apart fromthe one they share. A man shouldn’t need you to continually entertain him or spend every second with him. You signed up to be your guy’s girlfriend, partner, or wife, not his security blanket.

6. He Doesn’t Fight Fair:
Whether it’s because your guy’s defensive or just a jerk, if he becomes excessively aggressive when the two of you have an argument, he isn’t fighting fair -- possibly themost detrimental trait of a bad communicator. Instead of dealing with the present, a boyfriend on the defense will oftendig up the past, diverting the conversation away from him (which almost always means he knows he did something wrong). You should never put up with your boyfriend attacking you on a personal level, which includes telling you “you’re just like your mother,” and, our favorite, calling you “crazy.”

7. He’s Shady with His Phone:
If he’s always receiving calls in the middle of the night, and takes them in another room, or grabs his phone the second it rings in the hopes that you won’t see the caller ID, he’s probably not talking to his mother. Don’t fall for lines like “It’s a work call” or “That’s an old college friend,” because he’s probably telling the same exact thing to the other women he’s seeing when you call.

8. His Idea of a Date Is a Booty Call:
You’d be surprised how many women confuse late-night hookups with actual relationships. You should know that if a guy’s truly interested in you, he’s going to take you out, not merely invite you to join him once he’s already at the bar with his boys, or call you after midnight just to “see what you’re up to.” And if that’s exactly what’s going on, then you, are merely his last resort when he can’t find another chick to take home.

http://m.ivillage.com/red-flags-not-ignore-when-you-re-dating/4-b-361552

striktlymi: Good evening,

I had exactly the same thoughts. But would it solve the problem? There have been cases where members of the sect have gone to the homes of unsuspecting people to cause havoc.

The best way to silence a bully is not by hiding but by confrontation. I believe firmly that it is high time the Christians in the North defended themselves. Staying at home will not change anything and depending on our failed leaders will only lead to more blood shed.

If the Christians in the North decide to sit back at home on the 31st of December, what then happens on the first of January? What will they do all through the year? Should they lock themselves up for fear of a group who wouldn't spare a second thought about coming to their homes to kill their loved ones?

I believe it is time to "fight"! I believe it is time for them to say ENOUGH!!!

Thank you!

Thank you sir, but do you mean they should go to church with ammunitions or they should put security men!!!

To me i think every christian in Northern area should stay back at home and do a family cross over night.

Kay 17: Emusan is too ignorant. Its only a fool that would think a foetus can grow without a womb in a woman's body

Thanks for your recommendation but it is high time for you to believe in God and s miracles Bros

Affiliated: I've been overlooking your grammatical mistakes because I think we can all understand the point you are trying to pass across but I want to correct this one not from a mocking or superior point of view but I feel such mistakes might affect you somewhere sometime and it would be wrong for me not to point it out.

In my own words: You use We in situations where you should use Will. We is a pronoun used to refer to a group wherein you are included for example We are having a conversation online
While will is used to refer to the action that is to be done for example Only a fool will say that there is no God

If you are aware of this but you are just abbreviating it to conserve energy then just ignore the above. but always be careful with such abbreviations when in a formal setting

thanks for that

cyrexx: your bible says dont call people fools or else you risk eternal damnation. Are you not the foolish one indeed by disobeying the bible and risking eternal damnation?

so you know that one in the Bible but you didn't know where the Bible says ''Only a fool we say there is no God''

So u care to ask me a question like this and u didn't even border to send me chicken laps wit one bottle of alomo-bits

Affiliated: I didn't do it with a doubting mind. I just did it with no mind at all whatsoever to catch whatever experience there was. As in I wasn't doubting or believing either, I was just clear headed and observing everything.
If you are asking me to believe before I start the process I know I would get what I already expect because I would give it to myself not because of God or anything like that. its good that you guys have something to base your beliefs and faith on anyway and in the interest of leaving no stone unturned, I would try it again with a clear mind and see what happens

Thank you my brother try it once again i believe God himself we reveal something to you.
Though we can't ignore scientist work they really tried and i also believe in them but to some extend. Bible say something about them in Ecclesiastes 8:17, says ''Then i beheld all the work of God, that a man cannot find out the work that is done under the sun: because though a man labour to seek it out, yet he shall not find it; yea further; though a wise man (scientist) think to know it, yet shall he not be able to find it.'' this word came before civilization (in stone age). We can see it today scientist are just trying their best but they can't know it all.