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They don talk am again, mak i continue wit my Tonto music jare chioooooo

991: @Op, do you live in the village? just asking.

No

If you see python accidentally in your room can you kill it or call people to kill it?

I will kill and cook it

i know some woman will not enter that room for good six months while some men will use jet to fly away

Uhh-hhmmm mean what or u want to officiate the match


Go utd Go

Which tribe always won Miss Nigeria
Judge urself

lookmangiw: please i need honest answers. where are all this money taken to?

From who

israel007: Where is our country headed? Is Jonathan sleeping or just merely clueless

@ bolded
Israel

All of you are just talking upon what did not concerns you, no matter your tribalistic or ethnics setiment it can't affect poverty rate in Naija and solve the current problem.

Even the person that did the stat is a poor man.

Uhhh-hmmmmm what is the big deal there or na u suppose officiate the match


Another three point for MOOON U jare

Sure i wil try my best!

importer & exporter of.........








Garri

This is a country that we don't value quality engineering work due to our poverty mentality rather believing in crude method/old system that less in cost which make the so called Engineer's not to have confidence in themself by bringing themself low to a level of technician (a lot to say about that), and Nigeria still have a long way to go in terms of technology.

GBAM..case closed c...o....u...r.....t!

How can that be possible
Naija with funny tori sha

She calls more than me to enter 2go

1. Although my relationship with my son has changed, remember that I am still his mother:
“Even though you are the woman in my son’slife now, be considerate of the fact that I used to be the woman in his life.”
“The most important thing that you can do for me as your mother-in-law is to love my son unconditionally. … You’ve now taken my spot as my son’s biggest fan.”

2. Accept me for who I am:
“Don’t try to change me.”
“Accept my eccentricities.”
“Realize that I may do things differently in myhome. Try to understand my ways.”

3. Please respect my age and experience:
“I would like to know how to share some of my experience with you without offending orintruding.”
“Respect my past experiences and realize thatI understand the personalities in the family.”

4. Talk with me about hard things:
“If I have offended you, I may not know this. You have the freedom to say to me, nicely, ‘Remember when you said ______. Did you mean _____?’”
“I am not perfect. Let’s both assume that the other is doing the best she can.”
“If you are feeling hurt by something I did or said, find a way to gently bring it up. You mayeven want to ask me if you could have done something differently.”

5. Try to understand:
“When there are problems in family relationships, each person needs to overlook with grace when possible, and when not, address the issues kindly.”
“Reject bitterness.”
“Don’t judge. There are two sides to any story.”

6. Remember, we are family:
“I really appreciate it when you tell me about some of the family’s funny stories.”
“It’s nice to be invited to events with your parents, brothers/sisters, etc., ... sharing as one big family.”
“Please include me in some of the family activities and traditions.”
“I love it when you ask me to go shopping. I think my son likes the fact that we share this common bond together.”

7. Communicate with me:
“I once felt totally distanced from you and didn't know why.”
“I wish you would ask me for my opinion about some things.”
“I’d love to tell you more about my son’s childhood—please ask me.”
“I wish you would pick up the phone and call me just to chat.”

8. Get to know me as a person:
“I am a person with feelings, beliefs, and ideas, and they are not just an extension of the man you married.”
“Find things that we have in common, and let’s enjoy them together.”
“Please don’t compare me to your parents and how they did things.”

9. Express expectations clearly:
“I wish you would express some guidelines that you expect in your home.”
“Sometimes you interpret my desire to be helpful as criticism of you. I certainly do not intend this. It would help if you would tell me the best ways that I could help you.”

10. Help me know my grandchildren:
“Your children need their lives filled with Grandma and Grandpa.”
“My only grandchild lives hundreds of miles away. When you regularly share pictures of him with me, it means so much.”
“I have tried to communicate with you how much it means to me to keep me informed about my grandson.

11. Take time to express gratitude:
“When you and my son visit, it means a lot to me when you offer to help with the meals and with clean up.”
“It meant a lot to me when you posted on your Facebook page: ‘I am thankful for my mother-in-law! I am so grateful for our great relationship. It is so important! And ever since I got married our relationship has become so natural and I love spending time with her!’”
“Please take time to express your appreciation for a gift by writing a note or calling just to say, ‘Thanks!

12. Thank you!
“Thank you for believing in my son and encouraging him to stay connected with us.”
“You truly are the wind beneath my son’s sails and I really appreciate and love you. You understand my son far better than I do, and I thank God for you.”
“I’ve got the best daughter-in-law God could give. I am so blessed.”

totalbaby: Yes I can fight for my spouse right, if not me then who? NO man, woman, animal, witch, whatever should dare mess with my my man!!!

No bi small ting, i lyk that

safarigirl: Shared among Nigerians? How? By census? Then some states will have more constituencies and their population will triple in one week.

What we should advocate for, is the creation of jobs, upgrading of infrastructures and development of research centres across the country with looted funds- things that such funds should have been used for if they hadn't been looted

That's our hope initially but we have lost it on our leader's

longest time na

vocalprince: War betide any body wey go raise hand say em wan slap my MUKINA. Lazident Jonathan no go fit save dat person as em no fit save Nija so. Me i no dey waste time beging scatter o! I must kill am b4 we settle. HNY everybody.

Lol

Me no and i don't knw why. I travelled frm lag-calabar i didn't sleep. But i have a friend even wen is walking he can sleep

Man Utd will make me hapi today again

d time na 6:00pm muki where did u see yah own

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Prove Zeus does not exist or that Muhammad is not a prophet of God?

The question is sort of silly..... no??[/quote]Which side are u

striktlymi: Good morning Mr. Emusan,

I believe this thread is not just about proving the existence of God. There is also the bit of proving that he does not exist. God is better experienced for now until a day when he decides to reveal himself as he really is. I don't know when this will be.

In as much as I agree that there is no "agreed" scientific proof that God exists, there is also no scientific basis to prove that he does not exist. Anyone who claims to have proof of his non-existence will only succeed in giving an opinion and attacking the "strawman", nothing else.


Thank you!

Thanks, in a null shell you beleive God do exist sir?

torres2: @ u

this ur write up is anoda thread na

Work for Builder's

manmustwac: There is no logical evidence to prove that God once existed like there is that proves that pre-historic animals once existed

is true because their no scientific measure that can prove his existence. God is a spirit, people that seek and worship him do it with their spirit man to prove him.

@op a fellow Nlander name owenlyn1 need advice on ''how to stop thinkng abt her'' i guess dats a good combination for u people, grap him nw before another intruder will come in

kitty kat: i 1st u

beync: 1st to...

see pikin fight on 1st to....

@op pls dey use rope tie u
If yes, u nid deliverance Bro.
If No, dats no more luv is something else u runnnnnnnnnnnn 4 ur life

If it is true

see BP they rise like mad

Something happen one day, a couple were driving and they mistakingly hit the car infront of them (just minor one). As wife be the first person to come down from the car to have a talk with the person, just a few word of apology from the woman; and the man who drove the car gave the woman a 'star seeing slap' (SSS) which make the man to be over rude according to everyone. But to people's surprising it was the woman's husband that calm down his wife and the whole issue die down.

If it is me i will remove my trouser and boxer join

@Project8 must u quote evrything

@op, either GEJ or not lets wait till 2015

Nigeria attack: Song police station burnt down
03 January 2013

Four people have been killed when a police station and local government office were destroyed by gunmen in north-eastern Nigeria, police say.
The attacks came in the town of Song, near the border with Cameroon. A policeman, a soldier, a civilian and his grandchild were killed, the Adamawa state police spokesman told the BBC. He did not blame any group but militants from the Boko Haram Islamist group have staged frequent attacks in northern Nigeria. They have often targeted Adamawa state but this is believed to be the first time Song has been attacked.
Local residents say some of those who died were burnt to death.
Police spokesman Mohammed Ibrahim told BBC Hausa that extra security forces had been sent to the area.
He said there had been no arrests.
Last week, there was a similar attack in Maiha, also in Adamawa state. Violence linked to the Boko Haram insurgency - a group seeking to impose Islamic law on the country - has claimed some 3,000 lives in recent years, human rights groups say.

http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-20897659

Why kogi again