₦airaland Forum

Oluromantic:
Youre abt to marry a mel-chlor or san-mel. Apart from mood swings, they want admiration badly and they get easily angry if not admired. I once dated a girl like that before, I was the one who by myself told her we're not compatible, cus I couldn't cope. She ranted when I told her, abused me and my parents blabla but I felt free like I was caged before. That's me though, you may be able to cope. We're different.

By nature, they lack moderate feelings, emotional independence and stability...that's their weakness. It's usually from one extreme of emotions to the other extreme skipping moderation and balance in-between. At one time, they'll love you like babies, like all their life depends on you. Another time, they'll show serious temper over little things. Either you date for marriage or there's nothing between both of you. No ordinary friendly plays or so at all except birthed by emotions. If you beat her often in a ludo or whot game na wahala. If you decide to be passive abt her swings, she may leave for her parents or friend house for being ignored and that'll be embarrassing. But their strength is being supportive, they can give u their all or indebt themselves for you in loves name.

If you know u can't cope, you still have time to decide. Forget about family.. only 2 of you'll live together as man n wife. Forget the general conclusion that women are emotional..little things upset them blabla. It's when they want to be selfish they say all that. Not all women are emotional dilly-dallys. Though emotional, some are sensible with their emotions. I'm not wishing you separation at d edge of ur wedding but the truth need be told. You need to be very emotionally balanced and independent on your own to keep her going. If you are, then you can cope, but if you're not, hmmmm...

This writeup is DEEEEEEP.

You hate the nail. If you've not dated one, you won't understand.

Fragility6:
Cyber bullying eats up anybody weda u are from naija or kafanchan. Why do u think politicians spend some much money appointing people to control dier social media accounts its actually to defend dier name.D name calling gets to them believe me. Just imagine lie Mohammed arresting sumbdy 4 a poem,El rufai arresting sumbdy 4 criticising him,An Igbo group warning pple 2 stop calling imo governor d supreme court governor. Guy its d mind we are talking abt here o

I wanted to say same. We are here forming James Bond. If Twiitter folks DRAG you, you'll hate life. You think Nairaland has intelligent people? Nah.

DuBLINGreenb:
Is it not Japan again? Their suicide rate is number 1 in the world na, they have an agency specially set up to stop people from jumping off roofs, bridges, windows and rail way platforms they have a suicide Forrest with the most suicides in any single place on earth so it is expected. Rip young one.

I wish say this spirit of suicide will find its way to Nigeria and face our politicians.

Or let us contribute and buy Kar98k with 8x Hobbs scope and share for our fellow poor masses so we can all do the needful how Una see am? Hunger done too much abeg

Suicide rate is no.1 in India.

You don't mean it.

Man must cash out!

Righteousness89:
Unforgivness ,Malice and the Tongue are Major instruments that may Hinder People from Heaven..

If u can curtail these 3you can curtail the Rest

Exactly bro.

Most people lose the battle in their minds. They're not smart. Offence is Satan's greatest weapon that Jesus warned, Blessed is he that wouldn't be offended in me.

The issue arise and instead of you to start fighting the inner battle saying, "I FORGIVE HIM/HER. I won't resent her. I hold no grudges against him."

You just sit down there reminiscing on Satan's rant of, How dare he talk to you laidat?
You're gone!

:lalasticlala.

I call them the Powerful Trio. Just like Ronaldo-Tevez-Rooney/ Bale-Benzema-Cristiano/ Messi-Suarez-Neymar kinda trio

When they attack and you don't defend hard, a goal is inevitable.

IF you watch the videos of most people who went to Hell and came back, they'll tell you, I saw a woman/man who was crying, "I should have FORGIVE him/her."

So now you know, that sin is UNFORGIVENESS. I've watched numerous videos and the common denominator is UNFORGIVENESS in all its ramifications.

People come around you or post how they no longer womanize, smoke, drink, wankk, sezz, steal, lust etc.
They go on in that line and never notice that we have;

1. Physical sins. (You may stop this because of what people will say. It's morally wrong also.)
2. Spiritual sins. This has been modernised. -Lies AKA white lies/diplomacy.
-Malice AKA good riddance to bad rubbish. -Filthy Communication AKA freedom of speech. People love lies. Some jobs demand you to lie, it's also tagged "discretion". How easy!

Colossians 3:8-9 listed them, ANGER, WRATH, MALICE, BLASPHEMY, FILTHY COMMUNICATION, LIES.

Follow the build-up,

Anger-Wrath-Malice..

(He gets you ANGRY (not necessarily a sin), you think about it and WRATH builds up (sin is knocking), then you see him and ignore, MALICE scores the goal (that's Unforgiveness in progress, that's a sin) Then FILTHY statements comes in because WRATH voice harsh words

As it's written, if you don't forgive, your Heavenly Father won't forgive you: So could it be that you're living free from fornication and adultery but God hasn't forgiven your sins EVEN IF YOU ASKED FOR MERCY simply because you failed to forgive that person?

Solomon the wisest man said, It's the little foxes that spoils the vine. Not the big foxes. Little ones!

Nobody notices the anger in your heart. Nobody saw your motive for preaching on the street(you want tell people you're a Christian). Nobody saw your motive for praying loud at night (to tell the neighbours something, PRIDE). Nobody saw your motive for singing that hymn when you and your spouse are having a disagreement...No one except GOD!

No wonder Jesus eradicated the law and prophet and place it all on LOVE. If you love God and people, you won't criticize them for being sinners. You will forgive their errors and wrongs. That's not their sentence. They want out. But you saw it as an avenue to make them feel horrible. That's hypocritical. That's not LOVE.

Most of these folks are like Jonah, they are ladikal plophets but don't want anyone else saved. They always want to judge others. TODAY, God is saying, quit that self-righteous position and love people. It's this love that brings them to Christ. John 13:35 (By LOVE, shall all men know you are My disciples)

Shalom!

HRHQueenPhil:
Thank u and noted sir
Can u provide prayer points for the prayer and fasting

Lols

Stacyomolola:
Please dont generalize

Okay I didn't intend to.

But that may be her situation, you know right?

Millenniumlady:
I'll fvck you up nigga don't play with me

You're very funny.
You just pick up a cheap android phone and type what you want to type.

Smh

Millenniumlady:
Awwwww this is a welcome development. Op why are you using itel hope you're not in a relationship because I can't imagine what the so call lady is going through by dating someone that uses that phone.

Call a hoe, a hoe and not a cutlass.

The first thing here isn't the money,

1. Thoughtfulness.
2. Love/Romance
3. Money.

dingbang:
2. Covid 19 is identified using the PCR method by the NCDC. This is the only effective way to determine the presence of the virus in the human body.

Isn't this painful? Seeing it makes me feel somehow.

Wait o,

Yesterday 32, today 45. This could be POOL number o.

Somebody should give it a shot.

Stacyomolola:
Your bf was only in lust over you, he has eaten your candy and he has seen someone else.
U are now only but an option (SIS YOU ARE DATING YOUR SELF.)

It's not always like that. He might be busy and she just being too pushy.

Girls get pushy or desperate when they see funds.

He just woke up and said that? Lies!


What did you do or say? Men are not fools. To every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction.

arthorjnr:
Same Tough guy would flare up if he's sister was a victim of such but its The Hate U Give.

Nice guys don't finish last, they finish on their own pace, own terms and most of all, have their Sanity and Peace. You know why? They weren't in any race with no one to begin with.

Superb line!

Expresswriter:
I can tell you for sure the guy is manipulating you. Ghosting people is totally wrong. He's playing mind games on you.

If I were you I won't take him back. Because I bet you, chances are that there is 200% (or even 1000%) probability he'll repeat this behaviour. I bet you. Ask yourself-- is this what you want?

Why settle for someone who doesn't respect you?

Think about it! TWO WHOLE WEEKS he was busy and so couldn't pick your calls or reply your messages! So who are you to him? A disturber? A needy woman? Of course, that's the clear message he's giving you from his two weeks ghosting.

You're expendable as far as he's concerned, period.

He's conditioning you to become used to him. He's manipulating you. This may be one of his plans-- he wants you to dangerously fall in love with him so that you'd be the one to ask him out and NOT the other, usual way round.

Probably, he has insecurity issues. I can't categorically say on this.

Wake up and speak up for yourself.

If he said he was in the hospital, this is understandable. Or that he was arrested. But not to say he was busy! Jeez!

Even wealthy billionaires still have time for their wives. A man can act busy to outsiders but not to his wife or fiancee or girlfriend or a close female friend. TWO WHOLE WEEKS!

Abeg, decide for yourself. The guy behaviour dey vex me. These are the type of men who give Nigerian men a bad image

Motivational Speaker

Relax, it's not that deep. 87.3% of people dating now won't marry the person they're dating. If they want to ghost, let them ghost.

The truth you're hiding from is EVERYBODY IS GHOSTING ON SOMEONE. There's someone you don't like, who's liking you and you're avoiding them, giving them RED SIGNAL buy ohhh, they're colour blind. So chill.

Millenniumlady:
Better don't lose your dignity over a man "Nigerian one for that matter" because at the end of the day if you don't keep him pressed a little bit he won't value you so better step up your game if text you reply in three days time with "k" or view the chat so that he'll know that you've seen it but don't respond he'll start chasing you gradually before you know it he's all over you.....I hope he have money haviza

Nigerian girls will never change

This is what you pipo learn in your school. Honestly, respectfully, it's getting stale. It doesn't work like that again.

My question is,

Was this fine detailed investigation done by FBI USA or FBI Nigeria?

When CHAMPIONS LEAGUE go resume?

Please, even if na monkey post, I wan watch the 2nd leg of Bayern vs Chelsea.

Please UEFA, allow us watch please. Thanks.

Fastestmanalive:
It's an average house sha

And that makes you feel secure? Smh

VonBenny:
Covid-19 is a scam in Nigeria. I mean it is not in Nigeria. All these are eye services. Let Fed Government open up the Economy, businesses are folding up, people are loosing their jobs. I stand with Pst David Ibiyeomie.

No body asked you where you stand.

They abruptly and lawlessly came to Jesus for tax. He knew they were thieves but He gave them.

By this (love) shall all men (Believers and unbelievers) know you are My disciple.

SaintNegro77:
Dividend of tithes and offerings.

And...

gypsey:
crooked scammer pastor, where are his so called healing powers?

You're a dummy. I don't know what else to say.

PrettyPrint:
no... Satisfied now?

Please be serious na. I want to check something

PrettyPrint:
una still de debate here?


I'm not she. She's not me.

I am she. She is me.


Pick any line u like

Are you...the person there? Really?

wirinet:
Are you guys aware that in about three and a half months, over 95,000 US citizens have lost their lives to the coronavirus? These are people's fathers, mothers, sons daughters, aunties, uncles, friends etc. Don't you even have any sympathy for human lives?

At this rate up to 200,000 people will be dead as a result of the virus by July.

Will the efficacy of your prayers stop the deaths, or will it bring comfort to those that have lost loved ones?

What's your point? Because all I see is pointlessness

Trump is a Christian.

He believes in God. It's hard to find a president who speaks for God as he is.

I believe he's there because God wanted him there.

People are cashing out even under Covid's watch. Nice

ibkayee:
I'm good thanks, you too

Watsup?

I can picture Trump's manner of speech as he says,,


We have various countries – France, Spain, we have a lot going to Italy, we have a lot going to probably 15, 18 countries. They’re calling us. We have the capacity to do this. Nobody else did.


“So, now we’re really helping other countries where they’re losing a lot of people because they don’t have ventilators.”