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Babaneh:
Dear LIB readers I have a girlfriend I have been dating for a year now. She said she love me and she wanna stay with me. We've had several issues in the past but we are still together. The problem now is that she is carrying my baby. I need the baby. But I am not ready for marriage now. I told her I will take care of her and my child because I don't want an abortion. I love her and I want to marry her. But not yet ready now. And she is now threatening me to abort the baby unless I come marry her now. What should I do?


source:http://lindaikeji..com/2015/02/dear-lib-readers-my-gf-is-threatening.html

kennygee:
She should no better than than showing her fallen heroes to the world.

taiocol:
you got a bigger one

MhizMonnaie:
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I av a frnd who has been into two different relationship,d 1st lasted 4 3yrs n d 2nd lasted 4 a year n 2mnths,she started dating wen she was 16,she would be 20 in april buh she z still a virgin n she z nt a holy type,what exactly do u guys think about dat?

niyi16:
I met her sometimes in march,2013.. am in my early 30's while she's in her early 20's...the relationship started in a lovely manner,she introduced me to her mum,I loved her some much,we had dated now for 2yrs but no sex coz she's a virgin...we hardly see,but for the short time we've met she's always afraid to have sex with me which I reasoned with her.....the funny part now is....I called her one day and I noticed she isn't responding well I asked her what is wrong she told me it is a personal issue....the same thing repeated itself last month,I called her several times she didn't pick it,I called her the following day very early she later picked it and asked her what is wrong she said the same thing,"It's a personal issue"...pls I need your advice what is really wrong?..I met her sometimes in march,2013.. am in my early 30's while she's in her early 20's...the relationship started in a lovely manner,she introduced me to her mum,I loved her some much,we had dated now for 2yrs but no sex coz she's a virgin...we hardly see,but for the short time we've met she's always afraid to have sex with me which I reasoned with her.....the funny part now is....I called her one day and I noticed she isn't responding well I asked her what is wrong she told me it is a personal issue....the same thing repeated itself last month,I called her several times she didn't pick it,I called her the following day very early she later picked it and asked her what is wrong she said the same thing,"It's a personal issue"...pls I need your advice what is really wrong?..I met her sometimes in march,2013.. am in my early 30's while she's in her early 20's...the relationship started in a lovely manner,she introduced me to her mum,I loved her some much,we had dated now for 2yrs but no sex coz she's a virgin...we hardly see,but for the short time we've met she's always afraid to have sex with me which I reasoned with her.....the funny part now is....I called her one day and I noticed she isn't responding well I asked her what is wrong she told me it is a personal issue....the same thing repeated itself last month,I called her several times she didn't pick it,I called her the following day very early she later picked it and asked her what is wrong she said the same thing,"It's a personal issue"...pls I need your advice what is really wrong?..

GoodFaith:
Guess
You looking for woman to take care of your dumb ass
You need to include Canada and America now

LostMermaid:
Oh... Can you pass me a cigarette as well?

So is that a hopeless case?

danielmichael:
Sometimes silence is golden, but sometimes there
are things that need to be said. Its best to think
before you speak.
The last thing you’d want is for your partner to
dump you over something you didn’t even mean to
say.

‘ARE YOU REALLY GOING TO WALKED OUT DRESS LIKE THAT:’
If it’s mine then chances are I like it. There’s already
so much pressure for girls to look flawless and
picture perfect.
So, she doesn’t need to be told by you that she’s not
meeting the standards.
She bought that item of clothing because she liked
it- she feels good in it. Unless you have the money
to buy a new wardrobe for her then maybe you
should keep your comments to yourself and love
her for who she is not what she wears.

‘BABE LET'S HIT ThHE GYM;
This one reminds me of a song by Ruben Studdard
that goes: “Why you wanna change me, flip all the
things that really make me the way that I am…you
used to like your big old teddy bear…”
If you met in the Burger King queue and he/she
told you about their love for junk foods then don’t
expect him/her to become a vegan now that you’re
dating.
You can only bring up the gym idea if you notice
that your partner has gained some weight and it’s
having an impact on their health. And even then, be
tactful about it.
Everyone is insecure about their body image and
the last thing you’d want to do is hurt your lover’s
feelings.

‘IF I TELL YOU,YOU HAV TO PROMISE ME NOT TO TELL ANYONE;
Nobody likes a Gossiping Gertrude unless of course
Gertrude is your close friend who enjoys gossip just
as much as you do. Don’t fill the silence with gossip.
If you find that you have nothing to say to each
other maybe you should have a make-out session
or call it a night and go to sleep.
If word gets out and the trail leads back to you guys,
it could get you into serious trouble and may even
hamper your relationship.

‘MY EX DID THE EXACT THING;’
If you’re looking for an express ticket to Dumpville,
then, yeah, bring up your ex. The only time your
partner wants to hear about your ex is NEVER.
It’s not nice being compared to someone even if
they were a complete douchebag and you’re just
this ball of amazingness.
It shows that you still think about your ex and
maybe aren’t over him/her. Your ex is old news and
it’s time to focus on what’s right in front of you.

‘THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF MY EX;
Again, ex-stories are a no go area. Think before you
talk, even if it’s something as simple as a song,
movie or a joke. Some things are better left unsaid.

‘NOTHINGS WRONG,IM FINE:
Girls are guilty of saying this. We say it but we don’t
mean it. It’s actually our way of saying “my world is
falling apart and I just need you to hold me and tell
me that everything will be fine” or “I’m so mad at
you right now.”
If you’re guilty of doing this - stop it! Your partner
can’t read your mind. In a relationship,
communication is very important.
You need to verbalise your thoughts instead of
harboring them. If you don’t, you might just end up
exploding at your partner and then start bringing up
unattended issues from three years ago.
If something is bothering you rather deal with it
right there and then.

‘IF YOU REALLY LOVE ME’;
A relationship should not have terms and
conditions, that’s what your job is for. If your
partner uses this line to try guilt trip you into doing
something, then please do yourself a favour and
dump that loser.
It is a mild form of manipulation and actually shows
weakness. If you would like your partner to do
something for you just ask them, chances are they’ll
say yes anyways, and if they don’t, you’ll just have to
accept that.

‘JUST CHILL-YOU ARE OVERREACTING:
“Telling a girl to calm down works about as well as
trying to baptize a cat”- @BroCulture (twitter)
In other words, she will not calm down. Girls are
sensitive and take a lot of the things guys say to
heart.
From the guy’s perspective it probably isn’t even
coming from a hurtful place, maybe she is being
over the top and does need to take a chill pill; but
try finding a more diplomatic way of telling her to
calm down.

‘BABE STOP BEING SO INSECURE,HE OR SHE IS JUST A FRIEND;
If your partner voices out their concern about you
spending too much time with a friend of the
opposite sex or being too friendly with them,
respect their worry and maybe cut down just a little
on your over-friendliness.
Your partner will notice and it will mean a lot. So,
instead of being a little insensitive rather reassure
your partner about the true love you have for
them.

YOU RE ALWAYS TOO BUSY FOR ME;
Unless your partner spends 25 hours a day at work
or with his friends or anywhere away from you,
then don’t say this. It comes across as needy and as
if you have nothing going on in your life.
Remember, your partner is an individual, not an
extension of you.

Sarimah:
Nah...
I love my size

Truckpusher:
APC E-rats and propagandists would be like: so no Central Bank for the list. This Jonathan must go back to Otuoke.
Sai Buhari

profojah:
Hahahahahaha....u dey craze

profojah:
Please guyz....

There' s this girl on NL...she's extremely gorgeous but I don't know how to woo her....you guyz should just help me out on MhizIjay....

Sarimah:
uhmmm yeah!

Sarimah:
u can say dat again

MzNelly:
Okay......so where can we find this good man?

*sigh*

cherryice:
haha! Thanks

cherryice:
always been

cherryice:
that ish you been spewing about teddy, trust me it reads "wailings of a pathetic loser"