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HomeTutor1:
I have been into two relationships without sex.

The first one lasted for two years and the second one lasted for 5 years.
I dated the second one when I was an undergraduate, I tried my very best to avoid staying indoor with him throughout the five years. I was staying in the school hostel throughout my undergraduate days so that helped me to achieve that goal and I have only been to his house once.
All our meetings are always in an open environment. I diverted my energy and sexual strength to my academics 24/7. I dnt demand for money or anything fron him.

I have always avoided keeping male friends as an indoor guest.

My physical appearance will never tell you the type of person that I am. I put on trousers, Attachment and other things. I am not a novice to any topic because I have read alot onlin

It is not for spiritual or whatever reasons but just my personal decision.

My first sex must definitely be on my wedding night.
I cannt bear the pains of abortion and sexual feelings with another man that I am not legally married to.

hi, Im not being a Judge over your way of life, BUT I am finding it strange to understand the rational behind dating a person for 5 years and you are not going to marry them? it feels like 5 wasted years you could have enjoyed wiv ur husband

jidxin:
quick answr NOPE

OK, so fact one, No sex does not guarantee marriage, agree?

herbie27:
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.

Ok that is Bad mkt

jidxin:
I dated a grl for 4yrs without sex....sex ain't d best in relationship if u truely love her den it means u really value her ...once u ve sex she will surely lose value nd u will see her as a sex obj....nd sex aint gud 4 d guy 2 ....in quote

Quick question, did you marry her?

ireneony:
i think you should stick to the topic.
I'm not discussing money here.
This very topic is for men and women.

Can I ask a question, what of after 2 years of No sex dating then you got married and on the D day he could not get it up and you went to the Doc and it was confirmed he has erectile dysfunction and its permanent, what would you do??

Ok I got that Pic as promised and see waht is written on the regular

rabex123:
so u think onli Igbo's import cloths or electrnics

No but they account for %85 .U only need to Branch ladipo

Miscellaneous:
okay... I understand now. thanks,... pls continue with the updates too

No wahala we r on top the matter

Miscellaneous:
Gone through all pages & I'm quite satisfied with fantastic contributions. Erico2k2.... God bless you & project... thank God u created a thread for us to learn.
Contributors I salute all..... the thing is that I have a burning question.

How come a 9" block uses less sand compared to 6" as posited by someone?

Thanks. And in other news5
The 9 inches was hollow and the 6 inches is solid .

rabex123:
Everybody has impact one way or the oda to evribodi s life...

Nah lie ohhh.tell me how someone in Lagos impacted my life since I'm from Delta state ?
Ipob inport our clothes. Electronics and most of our car parts . That's the impact I meant and it can be mesured .

rabex123:
Ipobs avoiding this tread like a plague..
If dem say na Igbo man..u go see things like ..
They cannot do without us
Industrious clowns etc...
I rep AREWA....ABUSITE..

But you need to give it to the IPOB, cos the sure have an impact in your life love or hate them

Me I have been protecting myself frm malaria in ages.

why does it say full time when game still on

Huffington:
Following the recession in which Nigeria currently finds itself, the Anambra State Governor Willie Obiano has announced a series of economic stimulus packages aimed at easing the pains of the citizens of the state.

Below is a Special Broadcast on the Economic Stimulus Package by the Government of Anambra State on Tuesday, September 20, 2016.

SPECIAL BROADCAST

Ndi Anambra, ekenem unu!

Following the formal announcement by the Federal Government that the nation’s economy has gone into a RECESSION, I consider it my duty as your Governor to distil the message of the economic situation of the country down to the grassroots. However, following this development too, I am happy to announce to you that I have come up with a Stimulus Package that will ease the pain of the recession and help our dear state bounce back to prosperity.

Ndi Anambra, before I unfold my Stimulus Package to you, I want to assure you that the government of Anambra State is fully aware of the difficulties you are going through in your families, in your businesses and in your various communities. I wish to assure you that you are not alone!

My brothers and sisters, I feel your pain! Biko, unu ebezina maka na agu nwelu nchekwube anaghi egbu. Anyi nwelu olile anya! Oga adikwanu nma!

Brothers and sisters, our country’s painful journey into the current recession is fairly known to us. The events that triggered this decline are very well documented in the public domain. So, I will not go through the details of how we arrived where we are. Ndi Anambra, I wish to assure you that after a careful study of the situation, I am more convinced now than ever before that with our fundamentals, our infinite capacity to come back from deficits and our implicit faith in God, our story should be different in Anambra State.

Consequently, our intervention comes in Four Key Areas-
1) Tax Relief Programme,
2) Special Intervention Programmes for Small and Medium Enterprises, MSMEs and Large Enterprises,
3) Social Intervention Programme for Low Income Households and finally;
4) Intervention in Infrastructure-for-Jobs

The objective of our Tax Relief Programme is to evaluate existing taxes, levies and fees in the state and introduce some waivers and in some cases scrap the collection of some illegal levies imposed on our people. I believe that these will go a long way to cushioning the impact of the recession on households in the state. Our immediate response in this regard is as follows:

1. I hereby suspend the sale of consolidated emblems in Anambra State
2. I suspend the collection of Hawkers Permit on all streets in the state
3. I suspend the collection of Wheelbarrow Tax in all markets in the state
4. Lastly, I abolish the imposition of unapproved levies on students in public primary and secondary schools in the state.

All these pronouncements shall take immediate effect.

Next is the Special Intervention Programme for Small and Medium Enterprises, MSMEs and Large Enterprises. Ndi Anambra, this sector of the economy accounts for over 800,000 jobs in Anambra State today. These businesses are suffering from the acute drop in the supply of Foreign Exchange at the moment and are left with two options; scale down their operations or shut down completely.
Ndi b’anyi, my role as your Governor is to envisage challenges and provide solutions that will ensure a speedy comeback from difficult situations that require the power and might of a state government.

This is what my administration has done in the past two years through ASBA, Anambra Small Business Agency. This Agency is a very important institution that I created to serve as a catalyst to our domestic economy. So far, ASBA has effectively distributed the sum of N1.5bn as start-up capital to many SMEs and MSMEs in Anambra State. These funds are part of the N2bn that the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) made available to states about two years ago to help stimulate local
entrepreneurship across the country.

Anambra Small Business Agency, ASBA was set up with credible manpower and a strategic focus on the productive sectors. I must thank the CBN for demonstrating a great foresight with that credit scheme and I hope that when we knock on their door again soon, it shall be opened onto us since Anambra has managed the last drawdown well through ASBA.

Ndi Anambra, although it may not be known to many people, the truth is that the famous Anambra Rice owes its growth to our intervention through ASBA. So many other manufacturers have also benefitted from this initiative. Therefore, arising from the highly visible success recorded by ASBA, we shall carry out the following policies to provide relief to the productive sectors and stimulate the domestic economy –

1. We shall provide ASBA with a minimum of N3 billion to lend to SMEs and MSMEs at 9% interest rate across key sectors.
2. We shall re-channel earlier accessed Bank of Industry, Bank of Agriculture and Commercial Agriculture Credit Scheme funds totalling to about N1.5 billion to support this sector. ASBA will handle it as usual and rigorously follow the standard modalities.
3. We shall fast-track the roll-out of the CBN Anchor Borrowers Program in our state to support SME/MSMEs in the agricultural sector.

At the same time, we have since commenced consultations with the business community in the state and will soon hold an interactive session with the Awka, Nnewi and Onitsha Chambers of Commerce as well as the state chapter of the Manufacturers Association of Nigeria (MAN). This will enable us understand their most pressing needs in order to make a strong case on their behalf to the Presidency and other relevant authorities.

The next stimulus initiative is the Social Intervention Programme for Low Income Households and the most vulnerable populations of the state. Our intervention in this area is broken down into two components. The first component shows what we have already done to ease the pain of the recession while the second segment outlines what we shall quickly do to consolidate on our recent efforts so far.

Now, here are the things we have done to mitigate the impact of the Recession in Anambra State in Low income Households and the most vulnerable groups –

We have employed 500 persons into various positions in primary health centres across the state
We have engaged 300 road sweepers to keep our cities clean and 250 youths to rid our roads of potholes in our zero pothole programme.
We also employed 300 youths into Operation Clean and Healthy Anambra ,OCHA brigade to support our enforcement drive
We made tuition fees in 11 vocational colleges free in the state to ensure that more youths acquire the necessary skills for survival

Similarly, we have also lowered Okada and Keke levies to N50 and N200 daily respectively to cushion the effect of recession and subject to the completion of the registration exercise with the Ministry of Road, Rail and Water Transportation we are seriously considering a waiver for this segment of the low income group.

Now that I have shared what we have done so far to minimize the impact of the recession on our people, I shall go ahead to unfold what we plan to do to deepen our intervention in this segment of the population –

1. We shall provide sum of N3.6 billion to fund our on-going N20 million choose-your-project community program in all the 179 communities in the State. Each community has been allocated N20 million to spend on their most pressing concern. The projects will also be executed by the community and strictly supervised by the State’s Tenders Board and the community members in line with best practice.
2. We shall provide automatic employment to all graduates from universities in Anambra State that are living with disabilities into the State Civil Service. The aim of this initiative is to encourage all our brothers and sisters living with disabilities to embrace education as the key to a better life.
3. We shall work closely with the United Nations Development Programme to provide Training and empowerment programmes for the uneducated physically disabled members of our society.
4. We shall intensify efforts to tap into the numerous social programs at the World Bank, such as Community Social and Development Programmes, Youth Employment and Social Support Operation and the Rural Access Mobility Programme.
5. Lastly, we have aggressively keyed into all the social investment programmes available at the Federal Government, mainly the Home Grown School Feeding and the Conditional Cash Transfe Programmes. Working closely with the FG, we hope to commence these programmes in the next two months.

The last of our Economic Stimulus initiative is to sustain our On-going Intervention in Infrastructure (for-Jobs). Ndi Anambra, experience has shown that investing in infrastructure is one of the most effective ways of breathing life into an economy in recession. It has a direct multiplier effect on job creation and reduces the level of hopelessness and desperation in many households. My strategy in this regard will be guided by prioritizing and identifying projects with huge economic impact.

Here are some of the initiatives I have mapped out under this heading:
1) We shall fund the development of 500 hectares of land in all agrarian communities across the three Senatorial Zones in the state to support out-grower schemes and link them up to big industries in the state. For example, next year, Delfarm Songhai Ltd will commence the supply of sorghum that is produced in Igbariam to Intafact Breweries Ltd in Onitsha.
2) Having trained 250 youths at our School of Agriculture in Mbakwu, we shall fund three Youth Empowerment Schemes in fish farming, garri and ice processing clusters in the State. We have earmarked the sum of N225m for that.
3) We have also earmarked the sum of N300m to be distributed to stimulate Vegetable Production in the state and enhance our highly popular Vegetables-Export Programme to the UK and other parts of the world.
4) We shall fund the construction of strategic roads and infrastructure projects with high economic and social impact across the State once the rains stop.
5) We shall leverage development partnerships and Federal Government funding for intervention in education and healthcare infrastructure.
6) And last but not the least we plan to attract reputable and serious investors to partner with the State on viable infrastructure projects that will boost economic activities in the state.

Ndi Anambra, we have carefully thought through these projects and set aside funds for these initiatives. I believe that these initiatives will stimulate economic activity across all nooks and crannies of the state.

In conclusion, Umunnem, it is important for us to realise that Nigeria’s economy is on the crossroads. We must move quickly and come together to pull ourselves back from the brinks before it is too late. I have never been surer of the capacity of Anambra State to shrug off the current recession and use the opportunity it has provided to leapfrog into Nigeria’s frontline state.

Ndi Anambra we have the manpower, the material resources and the willpower to turn the looming despair and desperation to hope and prosperity.

Umunnem, Ndigbo si na onye kwe chi ya ekwelu. Anyi ekwelugo na Anambra ga adi nma!

Dalunu!

Chief Willie Obiano
20th September, 2016


SOURCE: http://www.ndibe.org/2016/09/recession-obiano-announces-stimulus.html

very wise MAN, this is what our FG should do to eliviate the plight of the ordinary man.He can start by stoping certificate of road worthiness of cars cos it bears no meaning.
Reduce export duty by %50

Enuguboy4nsk:
niger delta is not even a geopolitical zone rather south south is a geopolitical zone..niger delta is just an area covered by oil spillage

Is this how U guys up in the Hills reason?

Enuguboy4nsk:
is Niger Delta a tribe-----NO
is Niger Delta a state-----No
is Niger Delta a geopolitical zone---No

be proud of your tribe or if u have lost touch with your tribe just like op u can mention your state...

last time i checked Ondo a yoruba state is in Niger delta
Imo and Abia; both igbo states are in Niger Delta too

it sucks for one to lose his/her identity

Niger Delta is a geographical zone . That's the only thing there is to it.

tyrone07:
I am Uhrobo and i am seriously ashamed of myself for not being able to utter a single uhrobo word apart from the greeting Migwo. I hope i even spelt that correctly. I grew up in different cities in Nigeria and abroad but that is no excuse and i blame my parents for it. Only yesterday i was going through a website wadoo.org to try and learn a few words. Currently i'm in Asia amd would appreciate if anyone can point me to any meaningful source that will enable me learn at my own pace.

its never 2 late to learn.if you can learn the language of the country you now reside howmuch more your mother tongue . All you need is to ring some of your friends whom you think are fluent in the language give yourself few months you would be suprised of howmuch you can express yourself in Urhobo .That's what I did .

Sanchez01:
fratermathy, God bless your mind! I was speaking with a friend on the phone some days back and she said she finds it embarrassing to speak Urhobo with her peers in public because it is considered 'local'. Being fully aware of my plight (born and bred outside Urhoboland, yet, speak Urhobo flawlessly), she is motivated now and clearly enjoys speaking the language.

The multi tribe in the ND is really fizzling out the Urhobo language and other ND languages. I blame Asaba though, the part of Delta that see all parts of the state, come together and speak pidgin till thy kingdom come.

People in that school of thought I consider silly or not wise . Have you heard the Ijaw Man speak in public ? Its like they are fighting .I speak Urhobo to my peers in public in London .anyone who has a problem with that can go and die

Igboid:
Orogun( Urhobo) and Igbide( Isoko) are examples of Urhobo and Igbide towns with Igbo ancestry.

Nobody is interested in having Urhobo in Biafra, I refuse to see what you lots will bring to the table that Ndiigbo don't already have.

I'm only stating history as they are. Nothing more and nothing less.

The share borders . They never originated from Igbo however you are more than welcomed to share refrences instead of hear say or assumption

fratermathy:
Many of the Okpe and Uvwie people speak Urhobo as first language. Others speak Pidgin and English. Most are bilinguals. The few who speak Okpe and Uvwie represent the older generation of people and trust me when I say my statement is not far from the truth.

Very wrong . Okpe is of the Urhobo extract . Would an Okpe man in sapele speak Jese to thier kids ?

valarinz:
You'll likely damage your tyre in the process, what I know folks do is to turn the tyre inside out ie the side that bears the date goes inside instead of outside, but I doubt performance won't be affected

If you tyre has direction of rotation then you can't

theGenuineMEE1:
@erico2k2 My car's model is 1998. I'll it scanned like you advised.

ok cool
something like this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3nAm-pC-1c

valarinz:
It's usually written on the tyres, date of production, they just add four years, shouldn't be more than four years old according to them, that's a debate for another day

,someone said they will file out the manufacturing date off the tyre

amazinghomez09:
More pixss

this look really nice

DECOtech:
During a rain, you rad fan wont come on as frequently as it does when the weather is hot cos your vehicles cooling system is designed for its fan to come on when the engine temperature is about to go above its preset point. trust the fan to go off a few seconds after the engine touches the water.

you again is assuming,
let me ask you something, what are the factors to cause the fan to come on, internal or external?don't forget we are discussing an internal combustion Engine.

valarinz:
Bros, I quite disagree, maybe this was before, cos on my way to Abuja of recent I was booked for expired tyres and it was there on the ticket which I paid to the bank before my car was released, fee was 3k

so where did they find the expiry date?

mufutau55:
Yes o. Deffering it just means more expenses later.
We go finish am by God grace o.

Hajji M.

Exactly, and we are moving 4ward.
Plz Im still looking for decking wood to rent in PH anyone with info is highly appreciated.

ironheart:
a quick question to you, do you run into a pool of water while driving? Mind you we have a bumper, condenser, a radiator before you get to the fans, beside majority of the water will come from under the vehicle. I still stand by my thinking and open to be proved wrong that your fan will not break. Yes it stays at 90' but in that water there must be heat loss n i have a thinking its enough to cool the engine to a certain degree

to your question YES cos you do not float fru it you drive fru it but at what speed that's entirely up to the driver.
I get where you are getting confused, yeah there will be loss of heat if part of the Engine submerge in water but not enough to stop the fan from working, if that was not the case then in winter my Fan wont need to work cos the winter weather is cooler than any pool of water in west africa, hope this answers your question

theGenuineMEE1:
Hi everyone. I'm in dire need of a solution. I have a C280 V6 that consumes fuel a lot. The fuel guage gets to 1 quarter then the car stops until fuel is topped meanibg anytime it stops there's always fuel in the tank. My mech advised that I change the Tank and Fuel Pump which I've done and that cost me more than 30k. Yet the problem persist. Please I need your advise and the way to go. Thank you in advance.

your mech is just greedy.The fuel pump pumps fuel that's its work end off, since yu got supply then your pump was good, your tank was not leaking so he should not have asked you to change it.my guess of your primary problem would be your fuel gauge or sending unit, its inside your tank,you can buy these separate without changing ur tank,I have done this B4 unless its built in with the pump.So try and change your fuel gauge in the first instance so you get accurate readings.
As for fuel consumption you will need to scan your car and we can see the narratives.
PS what year is your merc?

fulaniHERDSman:
Sarrki, you are spot on here. I am fuming right now. Obiano is vibrant but got this one dead wrong. Mr president is also guilty of this. Lets not isolate any of such similar situations. Though Obiano is most culpable. See why the change must start with our leaders? The followers can only but kowtow. Once again, Obiano exibited goat behavior here.

guy how you want them to take inflate the cost of the contract if dem buy locally

obiremy:
NIGERIAN AIR FORCE FIGHTER JETS BOMBARD BOKO HARAM LOCATIONS IN NORTHERN BORNO

The Nigerian Air Force (NAF), in continuation of its efforts at finishing the remnants of the Boko Haram Terrorists (BHT), conducted several air strikes at suspected BHT locations on the outskirts of Tumbin Gini and Tumbin Kayewa Northeastern Borno State on Friday 16 September 2016. The air strikes were as a result of ground based intelligence and successive Intelligence Surveillance Reconnaissance reports obtained from several missions flown by NAF platforms. In a video released by the NAF, some of the terrorists could be seen at one of the rendezvous where they were believed to be holding a high-level meeting when NAF jets were scrambled to hit the locations.

A post-strike battle damage assessment of the the strikes revealed that the rendezvous was badly damaged with many casualties while those far from the vicinity could be seen scrambling to safety. The aircrafts involved in the air strikes are the NAF F-7Ni and the Alpha jets. The air offensive of the NAF have continued to deny the terrorists any hiding place and room for maneuver. This has enabled unhindered advance by the surface forces as part of the ongoing Operation GAMA AIKI. It will be recalled that the NAF had, in an earlier operation successfully conducted air strikes on BHT Camps at Tumbin Rego on 26 August which led to the death of many high ranking members of the group.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6aOtj_DdBro


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/09/nigerian-air-force-fighter-jets-bombard.html

After collecting money abi nah free

solaseunmatthew:
Maybe she no gree make the guy rape am. SMH, how will a sane man inflict pain on a female all in the name of AC. God what is this country turning into?

I sense that too