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Eyah. Why commit the crime in the first place? How i wish most criminals could think of the likely consequences before indulging in it...

destiny4luv:
I have been married for 11 years now with beautiful and lovely two daughters. I do love my family with the whole of my heart, they are my world and pride and I bless God for His provision, Grace and love upon us as a family all these years.

The reason I am writing this is because most times I really do miss those single days as a bachelor. Back then I can hang out with my pals in the club especially on weekends and have the best of fun without any thoughts of worrying/rushing home to be with the family. The feeling is so breath taking (un-imaginable), the only thing u think of is just urself and urself alone, do whatever u want to do and go wherever u want to go just like a bird in the air no restrictions. But as a family man all those privileges are gone and gone for good.

My reason for writing this "sometimes I miss single hood" was because my wife got me so upset last night that she almost made me hit her but I didn't (though she has apologize) and I have forgiven her. I was hanging out with some of my friends and colleagues yesterday and it's really been long we had such gathering/fun since everyone is now married with family and responsibilities. My wife called me to know when I will be home because I don't stay out late at most 7:30 or 8:00pm am home, but as at yesterday some minutes past 9:00pm my wife called me to know where I was and when I will be home; I told her am with my pals that I will be coming home late, she can go to bed without waiting up.

Myself and my friends really had good time together, discuss a lot and celebrated each other. And after everything we all parted ways and before I got home was some minutes past 11:00pm thinking my wife will be asleep by then since I told her not to wait up. Lo and behold I got home open the door and saw my wife sitting in the sitting room with so much hanger on her facial expression, I was surprised she was still awake after Ieting her know I will be coming home late. The next thing she does was greeted me with annoying toon, took my bag from me angrily and took it to d bedroom which she always does when I returned from work. I know she was hangry but I didn't expect her to be angry at all, so I went to d room straight to the bathroom and took my bath.

When I was through bathing, I went to Check on my kids in their room they where far asleep, I just gave them good night peck and straight to the sitting room. Normally we always stay together in the sitting room play have fun and watch some family TV shows together before bed time. I was listening to some cool jams on TV because I was a little bit tipsy after the hang out I just wanted to listen to some soft and easy jamz to calm me down before going to bed. While relaxing my wife came from the room and started yelling at me saying I have gotten a new girl outside and planning to destroy our Union. Sincerely speaking I was shocked and disappointed at her shallow reasoning never expected such from her. I thought she was on something (drugs) but she wasn't and she has never been on such before.

After all her yelling and accusations which I allowed her to express herself (though I was almost tempted to hit her but I restrain myself) l asked her if she was through with her accusations but she didn't respond. I told her that I am truly disappointed in her for her foolish and childish behavior/reason. Truth be told I haven't cheated on my wife sine we got married and I don't plan or intend to do that. After talking some sense into her she started crying and apologized which I truly forgave her. All she needs was just that trust and confidence from her man no matter what and which I gave to her.

Sorry for the long write up, all am trying to say is there is joy in single hood and a more greater joy in being married with family, believe me am speaking from experience. As a single guy/lady enjoy ur single hood because that's all u have got now, because when u are married all that will be left will just be memories of good old single days. But trust me u will enjoy martial life more especially when u are married to ur soulmate. Though sometimes u will miss the good old days of single hood which is normal, but it is nothing to be compared with a happily built home.

as a single man/woman, you enjoy your freedom but lose it the moment you're married. If you stay way from home more than necessary, kids would be disturbing on phone wifey will be fuming, even though you're away on official duties. You could be away from home for as long as you wish, when you were single

See as APC and PDP just dash soludo the governorship ticket on a platter of gold. Na greed dey ruin the career of our politicians for this country.

NaotoKan:
Fulani herdsmen say hi

dem no dey our side.

Great decision

PlayMaker14:
Chidinma Ojukwu would have been a Mayor in Slovakia or Pennis ylvania, (USA) but her monstrous appetite for material things and overaged Pennis caused her downfall.

stop the hate speech naw

Too bad

One of the few men of God who exhibited the acts and teachings of Christ

If you want hama for real, go back to the village and cultivate cassava on that massive land lying fallow. By end of 2022/early 2023, you're already swimming in millions. Cassava products are now gold in the market. Thank me later cos that's what we do. Sales haven't been soo good. Our years of efforts on research is paying off.

Matt Hancock has resigned as health secretary after he breached social distancing guidance by kissing a colleague.

In a letter to the PM he said the government "owe it to people who have sacrificed so much in this pandemic to be honest when we have let them down".

Boris Johnson said he was "sorry" to receive the resignation.

It comes after pictures emerged of him with Gina Coladangelo, reportedly taken on 6 May.


Mr Hancock had been under increasing pressure to quit, after The Sun published pictures of Mr Hancock and Ms Coladangelo, who are both married with three children, kissing. The newspaper said they had been taken inside the Department of Health.

Fellows Tory MPs, as well as Labour and the Covid-19 Bereaved Families for Justice group, had called for the health secretary to be sacked.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-57625508.amp

kindlyheart:
if UFO was real, there will be sightings here too and not only in white nations.

Wetin we for take sight am naw? You neva here say our satellite don pack up? We no get dat kain tech

Npmedia:
gaint of africa, nigeria are u watching this

it makes no meaning to them lool. If its about how to become rich in 24hours in a corrupt way, they'd show face sharply. Naija don rotten finish. God!

DanseMacabre:
Extraterrestrial intelligence.

I'm telling you. The thing just dey take earth's sample and disappear each time. Maybe the object came from another planet, who knows? After all, we dey go Mars too. The more you look about the mystery of the universe, the less you see. UFO always beats American technology each time...hmmm!

Wonders shall never end.

Callisto1:
oloriburuku ni man yi. whats he still doing as coach of Nigeria

Politics. That's how we rule in Nigeria. Any foreign coach coming here must be willing to play the dirty Politics. I've lost interest in our national team since the days of Bofere Jo. Sad!

Kubernetes:
But such hardly happened in the Islamic world.
I guess its due to strict Sharia

They're not bred differently. Only self discipline would help , irrespective of religious beliefs. They do it codedly. Even back here in Nigeria up north, it happens. Remember alhaji bukar Ibrahim, the former northern governor, now senator who almost destabilised obj's government with sharia? I remember a time he ordered one young girl to be stoned to death because she was caught in the web if adultery. He was caught pants down with 3 prostitutes in a hotel. When approached by journalists, he denied it. But by the time he saw the viral video, he simply said, oh well, am entitled to my privacy. Former emir of kano was also seen on vacation while in CBN where one of his staff sat on his legs.

Segzy19:
See this one! Who tell u Obama was clean.
His bodyguards were the ones arranging this for him, and there was a time his wife susepcted something but she wasn't sure so nothing came out. Obama was a guyman. Too coded!

Hmmmm. I'm not aware of him getting caught sha. His wife always followed him too wherever he went, even when on vacation, she used to go with him sometimes

Wow! Could this be one of the employments buhari promised youths by saying he'd lift millions of Nigerians put of poverty? Just asking.

I wonder what would the politicians use as propaganda against the apc in 2023 because the list is endless. Chibok abduction topped the apc's propaganda list against the pdp while campaigning in 2015.

SegFault:
Stop using your own crooked ruler to measure others use it to measure yourself.

Yenyenyen...you're not there yet so, you're talking out of ignorance. Monika Lewinsky and president Bill Gates and similar examples are there. Google is your friend

salem1996:


Watch how all those people insulting pastors and churches will duldge this thread like Pinto duldging a shot from Ronaldo

Don't mind them. They're EOPs. The day the news surfaced here, you needed to see how they were attacking this man of God and exonerated fahola as if he's not one of them. We are enemies of ourselves in this country. We like praising dishonesty over and above decorum.

kingthreat:
Abeg make them legalize polygamy or something.

Guy, to be honest, its not easy. Being in such a position and walk clean without engaging in romance with the opposite sexx is very rare. Except we want to deceive ourselves. How barak Obama did it is still baffling. People would always lure you into it even if you don't have the will, especially ladies

Petition for removal would soon start to flow. UK!

RichDad1:
No. Well send theirs packing. That’s how International politics works.

We lack the decorum. Ours is a super corrupt nation, a country that lacks respect for the rule of law. Be it recalling our ambassador or sending theirs packing, we lack the wherewithal

RichDad1:
See ignorance on display. �
So UK will deny the President of another country a visits and the country won’t send the ambassador packing immediately?
Our education system is a failure.

Nigeria doesn't have that balls to recall our UK ambassador. Take note.

Lai Muhammed and Femi Adesina haven't said anything yet. They must be busy by now, thinking of the lies to tell over 200 million Nigerians about the botched trip. They would soon counter this claim by saying, buhari has a lot of issues to sort out at home on insecurity after receiving some intelligence reports so, he decided to cancel the trip for the sake of Nigerians...as if he gives a hoot whether everybody dies or lives.

Quoting from the newspost...

Nigerians are also dismayed that Mr. President has consistently failed to honour his pre-2015 campaign promise not to embark on medical tourism if elected President

When buhari said the above in a Lagos Town Hall meeting after a journalist asked him politely , I was so happy thinking this man would walk his talk. He even said he would also stop political office holders from traveling overseas for medical treatment not knowing he's gping to be the first person to renege on this.

Those supporting his government are either of unsound mind or gullible

Basher8583:
You must be very stup1d and immature. So because of you an 1diot will put his job on the line and violate Data Protection Act that can land him in jail.

You youths are so immature and exuberant. You are definitely not ready for anything.

You think life is all about cruise. So long as you are having fun nothing else bothers you.

Misguided lots

See how your stinking mouth pours out only insults, no single points made. Your type isn't rare to find. Una full here . Get sense for once.

I thought we ranked higher...the world isn't actually seeing what we're seeing in the Nigeria of today. Thank God world Bank recently agreed that our economy was in a bad shape for the first time.

DenreleDave:


There is only one reason for this... The rate at which 5 seconds men are multiplying is sumtin to look at..

So the supermarket think it's right to reduce the quantity to be bought.....

And I even suggest 2 per months sef



So you and 5 frnds will come and you all go out with 12 juice... U shud pray dt I am not among those frnds u will carry go bcox If I dey, na 11 u go Carry to house, not 12..


Hand over 12 juice to you when I no mad.. Even if na ur money we take buy am, I will take one

I concur. In the other thread , someone posted that he doesn't gain morning erection anymore. This is a menace which is plaguing the Nigerian society but many just saw as normal. There are millions of youths out there who can't spend 2 minutes...yea you heard me right ...they can't spend 2 minutes on their wives before they'd pour it out. When she goes out to get full satisfaction, you cry wolves that she's cheating on you instead of seeking a solution and stop the reckless lifestyle. Enough said jare

Rozcol:
Its as a result of reckless lifestyle lived by the present youth because I don't know how and why a young man will be struggling with erection.Read my last topic

I concur.

You can imagine a boy in his 20s using viagra, drugs , consumes alcohol of various brands..bullets, alomo, sharp-sharp, etc. Some even mix them together and drink just to get high. All these weaken nerves and affect overall health condition.

The major causes of weak elections are:
1-lifestyles
2-infections
3-Jędijędi.

I've never had more than one bottle of beer in my life and that was over 20 years ago. I've never smoked in my life . The day I collected a stick from my course mate just to have a taste, I coughed profusely. That was about 15 years ago. I don't drink all these carbonated drinks too. Trust me before I got married, I was super hot even my wife avoids me sometimes. If you can't satisfy your wife to the point when she'd say guy...am tired then, you need to check it.

One thing I've also noticed is the consumption of carbohydrate related food like fuel. Some can eat it 2 times daily . I stand to be corrected, yorubas seem to know the panacea to weak election arising from jedijedi. I've heard non-yoruba gals several times say we are very good in bed.

It's not scare. I gained it full this morning. Check your health guy or you get original agbo jędi. Thank me later

Ceenachi:
Did you fulfil your land promise, Sir?
You failed her, like others like you do, Simple.
Kudos to the present Lagos state administration led by Sanwo-Olu. And congratulations to the recipient.

He did...dis you read where he said..

I made it clear that the 24 plots of land were complete with all the titles.

Freestainworld:
fake promises, you are talking now because another governor fulfilled your promises.

I guess you just jumped here to comment without reading the news post

Quoting from oyinlola...

I made it clear that the 24 plots of land were complete with all the titles.

Chioma Ajunwa said the landed property was later taken away from her , including those who weren't lagosians by the civilian government ( tinubu was the first civilian governor after the death of abacha). She said this last week on the channels tv programme chaired by the popular broadcaster Manny Onumonu. I watched her say so. Tinubu collected the property and sold to his cronies. Lekki was hot cake in those days ( and still hot cake now). Even as lagisian, I knew how hard mum fought to get her house at lekki phase one. Perm Secs at Alausa almost took it away from her before some elites in lagos waded into the matter.