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SAD stuff. My condolences to the family of the deceased

During my time there was a pedestrian bridge from the main gate connecting to BDPA. Why it was removed remains unclear.

That being said, UNIBEN students seldom used the foot bridge even when it was still standing. Laziness was the common reason why

A speed break (usually requires a Zebra crossing road marking for pedestrian crossing) is totally useless and doesn't justify Civil Engineering judgement because that's a Federal highway up until the point where it branches off at 5-junction (Benin people will understand what I'm saying).

HIGHWAYS are for fast-moving vehicular traffic and there is a minimum speed required to be classified as a highway (60 km/hr)

Solution -> Re-construct the pedestrian footbridge and enforce its usage by all persons using foot as a means of transport.

Why are you shaming him?

Where does it say in any rule/law book that he's restricted to marrying Nigerian ladies?

Its all about the individual and the choices he makes. He's chosen to have mixed babies. Let him be

Setaje:
Shame on u and everybody that liked your comment. Shame!

I like how you made your points. Thumbs up

Its all about the individual and upbringing

charismatic1:
First of all anyone can marry from anywhere, it is a matter of choice. However, it is easier to marry someone that you see almost every time or that is close to you.On the other hand, there are different factors that can lead to whoever you connect with such as the environment, your family background, your personality, Church,School and even your friends too can be of influence. It is very naïve of someone to now generalize that because Nigerian girls are materialistic and all that, that is why Nigerian men are not marrying them.
May I tell you that greater percentage of Nigerian men abroad are still marrying and would still marry Nigerian women.
It is easier for Nigerian men to be carried away or overshadowed with a Western love because we Nigerians are not groomed well in that sense but basically are taught to be respectful. Our parents show us their love in different ways but definitely not in a romantic way unlike the Westerners/foreigners.
Sex is also not a big of a deal to most Westerners/foreigners. Our men like easy or free sex.
Another factor is that the economy is favorable in the Western world compared to our harsh economy, therefore, ladies do not care much about present and future security because a lot of government aides /laws are available for them, perhaps anything happens e.g Child support, Unemployment, Food Link card etc
Level of exposure cannot also be underestimated. Attraction as well as the feeling that foreigners especially ‘Whites’ are better than Black pushes some men to fall into that situation. That is why you see that most of our men do not always marry the well educated amongst the Westerners/foreigners except a very few. Divorce is common after a while.
Some are desperately in need of changing their status(stay/papers). It is easier to lure them into that than to lure a Nigerian woman(Smarter).
An inevitable factor is family. Not everyone can deal with the extended family issues, so they settle for the Western woman/foreigner who might not have a large family.
Lastly some just naturally get admiration for the White folks/foreigners, not because of Nigerian women are these or that.

Men,stop complaining about a woman being materialistic because the ball is in your court.Don't spend if you don't want to spend, rather look for one of your caliber that is hardworking,focused,busy,disciplined with present/future ambition etc except your caliber is opposite of what i'd mentioned.

Kids already having this kind of relations...

Niccur's balls hasn't even descended yet.. Scary world we live in

Nne you've got some incredible amount of tolerance. I applaud you for that.

Your husband should understand that this is an investment in your career and future. Abeg what you did is right.

Wish you success in your future Masters program

OGA please don't spread inaccurate information. The bolded below is very wrong I own and drive a 7-year old Audi A4 (2008 model year) and it still runs like it was manufactured yesterday.

Which Mercedes have you driven for 15 years Cool down guy

pneme:
To those who know much about German enginneering used in cars, you would know that the Mercedes was built for looks as well as the beauty of the engine. A brand new Mercedes if you have owned one will go 15 years with no major fault. The same can't be said for the audi, while it boast of looks it's durability isn't any where near the Mercedes. Audi'd will start having issues after 4 years max and that's stretching it. To be sincere you'd get 3 years of joy with the Audi and the drain begins. They were both built for the same German audience with both offering what the modern car needs I.e. Looks and comfort, while the Mercedes last longer.

Hahahaha what kind of child/man is this? (your attached photo)

olukenzo:
Mostly done by bad boys, dirty raz girls and school bullies. All those that used to fold and put handkerchiefs on their collars


See prototype below...

keep calling

You can have sex as an unmarried couple (although illegally by law and at your own risk) but use a condom. Condoms are not banned in the country and are sold in many areas including PETROL filling stations. Dem no de ask for marital status before dem sell condom for you

Pangea:
All the idiiots quoting me and appearing in my mention!
I don't blame you because poverty has bastardised your brains.
Because a country is developed does not make it less a hell for the millions of children that will be aborted because the mother is afraid of jail thereby risking her own life too in the course of getting rid of the baby herself .
Wether Islam or Christianity, there is one thing that cannot be stopped and that is SEX.
And if SEX happens, pregnancy may occur.
If pregnancy happens, termination of the pregnancy is inevitable through unorthodox means in such environment.
That may also lead to the death of the mother.
Unfortunately we will never know the statistics because such will go unreported because it's considered a crime.
These kind of law is even worse than pro choice at least the mother might decide to have that child.
In this case, any case of pregnancy by necessity must be terminated before it becomes pronounced.

Na wetin de mostly happen. Executions happen mostly on SA

Unless you murder someone (You pay blood money in most cases and do jail time with deportation afterwards) then a death sentence might be issued to the guilty party. Death penalties are rarely carried in the said country

Dharniel:
Baba, you sure?

Lol.. Can't help but notice Hamdan/Tourist club intersection

iiiyyyk:
U Call one of the most beatifull country in the world Hell? What part of earth are you from.
DO u know how many Europeans and Americans that migrate to UAE to live and work,
Do u know how many million people come every day for tourism?

Its their law. They dont need bastard. Simple Marry before having children.

Below is picture of the worst area in Abu dhabi the capital of UAE, Does it look like hell?

Pls provide proof of torture in the UAE if a man gets a girl pregnant

The bolded below is I'm afraid is a rubbish statement bro

BlackKenichi:
The real reason the UAE authorities are chasing after the Nigerian man is because he probably got someone else's slave pregnant and they have to castrate him like every other black male slave in the Middle East.
Why any sane SSA person would want to live in the Gulf Arab states is beyond me?
SSA women are constantly beaten and raped there, while the men are tortured!

Oga you don visit the country before?.. Pls don't spread trash talk here

Pangea:
What kind of a country is that?

It must be worse than hell!
God knows the number of home abortion that will be going on there under the radar?

That useless country is worse than hell!

Lol.. But i disagree with you on the bolded.

The man will only get jail time and deportation after completion of the sentence

Dharniel:
UAE?
unmarried woman?
the man is dead already ...

Good morning all

Morning all...

Let's do business today

No matter how you tell your story, you're actually taking advantage.

On the bolded below, your hand did not fall on her bosoms by mistake and you know it. Oga chill

Samfigo1:
Nairalanderz I hail thee....
Goodday everyone , I want to share what I am going through at present, I want your advice or better still judge me I could be wrong with my action.
I have been cohabiting with a lady for a week now, before I move on let me share how the cohabitation began.
This girl came to our house when she was seeking admission to a school close to my house, one of my housemates accommodated her, he claimed the girl was his girlfriend, eventually, the girl got admitted into the school and started living with the guy but after two weeks they had misunderstandings the girl had no where to go, this lady in question since she came into the house I have taken her as my sister and my friend so we had good rapport. After the misunderstanding with her boyfriend she walked up to me and told me she wanted to leave her boyfriend's room for my room and that it won't last long just for mean time I concurred with immediate alarcrity I told her no qualm after consulting her boyfriend about her plan, the guy said he has no problem as regards her plan. The following day she packed her things inside my room, I thought I was dreaming, I started mulling on what to do, someone I have taken as my sister chei! Kongi na bastard you know now.... I kept calm, that night we were discussing she started telling me stories on the same matress with me, suddenly, I kept mute I was not responding to her super story I was even facing down because I was trying to pack my John Thomas I didn't want her to see the kind of press up it was performing, she thought I had slept so she kept quiet. After few minutes I did as if I jarupaing Lol. pardon me sleep walking or unconcious turning anyhow (you should have understood) I put one of my hands across, lo and behold it rested on her bossoms I was thinking she would throw away my hand but she didn't, that was why I drew her closer and we started kissing, pressing and the likes but whenever I wanted to go down low she would say stop and I would sluggishly take my hand off her, after 4-5 days I could not control the urge, I said to myself tonight I must enter this girl, when night came we started as usual when I was about going down she said stop I did as if I didn't hear, I was trying to unclothe her, she was still saying stop but I turned deaf ears when I was about to remove her undies she started crying profusely I was like what the hell! Did I beat you? She did say a word other than crying after few seconds she said ''it's because I'm staying here'' my blood that was flowing for 140km/min just slowed down and I left her on the matress and slept off. The following day she did not leave and this sexual urge was unresistable. Nairalanders am I taking advantage of her? or was she trying to form? If I asked her to leave she has no place to go what can I do?

It could be that he scammed the man in the music video by exchanging semovita for cash. At least he ate the semo in the end

The work site is very unsafe. Incomplete PPE. No hard barriers, no safety signs.

Chei TKO! Dope response

elvision1:
tell me what's foolish about the question and i would tell you why your classmates never saw you as a threat.

Pastor by profession... Lord have mercy LMAO

Motion mechanism for what exactly? The question sef get as e be

If its power generation (engine), transfer through transmission gears through the drive shaft to the wheels, that is common to all the brands.

Variations among them could include engine type, orientation and, capacity, transmission types and drive shaft configurations (FWD, RWD and AWD).

This is weird.. You do wedding for yourself, by yourself.

Long distance wedding.. LMAO

At least dem for use Skype for the wedding na...

Interesting viewpoint

darlenese:
U are from a poor background
Ur friends are also very poor
U know what is feels like being poor
So help ur poor pals and stop ranting

All these people abusing the poster WHO UNA DON HELP ?

Poster, Nairaland is not the platform to seek advice on this type of issue. You'd only get insults.

I noticed some self ego embellishments on your post.

Make a video or post exactly your thread on FACEBOOK and examine the response from your friendlist When you do this, make sure you go offline. That way, you let em know say the matter don reach critical for you.

Chei.. see this fine girl... Why

Evathyst:
If I ever go to dubai with you, when I know u'r not my boyfriend, and I refuse to sleep with you, please rape me. Pleeeassee! Rape me!

You're right on some points except the bolded

She will only be straffed by the expats here. That's all that will happen when she goes to hotel bars to hustle.

Worst thing that will happen to her is that she will deported back to Naija for overstaying and she'd get a visa ban to UAE.

But i honestly feel she would have been inducted into the open secret of Arab nations by her fellow hustlers here - Prostitution

GogobiriLalas:
Silly guy, why should you take a girl you haven't sampled to Dubai? Not all girls are impressed by material things ! If she go drop she go drop, no be Dubai matter...and how cruel to leave her stranded in an Arab country, do you know what those Arabs do to black men, not to talk of women ...hold this capital L

Tell this to the 'pawn stars'.. There has been no report of any one of em contracting this diseases you mentioned

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