₦airaland Forum

LOVEALAIGBO:
How certain are you that they’re Igbo! No Igbo with his head screwed on right will support the rubbish and engineered insecurity going on in the south-east! I’m Igbo, and i don’t support the ekpa bastard and all the fools pretending to act on his orders! The entire thing is a set-up being driven by non-Igbo out of pure hatred for Ndigbo and to try an portray IPOB and Mazi Kanu in a negative light! They are furious IPOB in particular and Biafrans/Ndigbo in general want to drive the dismemberment of their ATM that is ‘one Nigeria’!

No Igbo in support of Biafra or Mazi Kanu will go out attacking and murdering their own kinsfolk! They never did it from the end of the uncivil war right up to the coming of Buhari, so why start now!?

The videos circulating of the stripping and killing of an igbo military woman was done by non-igbos, be deceiving your self.

Supremos:
Do we have a president?.

Do we have members of the Senate and house of representatives?

Why is their atmosphere of silence over the madness going on in SE?

Sometimes I wonder how one can please people who are one sided.

People like you will complain if Government sends Soldiers to the region to keep peace, accusing them of trying to intimate and oppress them, when Government then withdraws the same security operatives, you will turn around to accuse government of neglect.

What really do you want?

BucketMan:
Healthy Competition is always good for business and will in the end favour society... Unlike what we have here in Nigeria where only Aliko Dangote controls most of the scarce resources and has complete monopoly over the market.

Good one from Mark Zuckerberg.

Let others join in too.

OriOko88:
And some people said they will make Lagos useless like warri if they leave Lagos en masse .

This same Lagos wey i dey see so? Una wan dey compare Yoruba human resources with that of urhobo,ijaw or itsekiri?? . Yoruba are in charge of key sectors of Lagos like finance,entertainment,fashion,real estate even manufacturing. So help me tell those people that if dem leave today,they won't be missed atal

Why mentioning Urhobo, Ijaw and Itsekiri? Deltans have never diparaged the West, we are smarter than that!

DamianDd:
My dad is a really good guy, I love him so much and he's gentle most times. Though he gets angry sometimes but he's reasonable about everything he does.

I came home 11:30 which is very late and I knew that and I even hated it too that I came home this late so I was trying to avoid him even when he asked to come to his room because I had a gut feeling that things won't gi right.

But I ended up going to get my charger that was with him, then for the first 5 minutes in he was making sense about why I came home late and I was agreeing to it that it's true

Then all of a sudden he starts saying "what will people think?" "Neighbors are watching" "they'll start saying god forbid, like father like son" "I nor fit let my pikin be like this boy" "which kind family be this, see when their son dey come house?" "People are watching, people are judging" and even more words and it started getting annoying to me, then he said they will say "see when this small pikin dey come house"

It was at that moment that I shut it down, I've never been that way to him but it was so infuriating, I told him I'm not a child I'm 18 which is legal age, I work for my money, I make 50k to 300k a month on my own; no neighbors give me food when I'm hungry, the landlord doesn't clean my eyes when they hurt from viewing my phone too much so I don't give a Bleep what they think of me. I told him to not put all those orientations in my head because it affected me alot when I was younger and it made me timid and shy and scared of being myself or having different opinions and that's what I'm trying to fix in myself and my mindset now.

What I do feel bad about is last year I paid for the house rent and packing when I had alot of money, I brought it up when I was talking to him and said "I paid for this house with my own money so who is landlord or the neighbors for me to be sacred to come in and out of my own home, I know what I did is wrong and I'm sorry but don't put those bad thoughts in my head" I shouldn't have said that though by bringing up what I did for family. He only called me back and said "don't worry I won't talk to you anymore until I use my own money to pay for the house next time" I didn't say anything because i know I was wrong and nothing good would come out of talking back, I just left his room.



What's your thoughts on the matter?

What goes around comes around, ask God and your Dad for forgiveness……a word is enough for the wise.

Wagwanbrethren:
Someone should konk this one in the head. Face your trash God and leave that lady alone.
No be everybody go follow your useless religion, or practice wetin you believe na! 🤷‍♂️

This Kain one for don masturbate with her picture tire, but go start dey yarn trash once he gets to the pulpit so as to deceive em zombies for church! 🤮
Your God is useless, stop forcing him down
everyone's throat. The bible is no different from a comic book, just that it's full of trash, we all must not follow it! 🤷‍♂️

Keep your preaching to your sheeps in church, you can even give them a uniform to wear. At least the nonsensical God will be very happy with that!

*In Just two post I have read, you have bashed Christianity instead of just condemning those using the name of the Lord in vain.

Initially I thought you had issues with the pastors but now I know better.

As a Christian, you are supposed to love people as you love yourself and make the world a better place, it is a way of life not a religion, is that something so bad that you are hating on?

Well, Saul did more than you are doing then but became a great advocator of Christ, we are not to hate anyone but to love them back instead.

As a human, I felt annoyed over your utterances but as a child of God, I owe it a duty to explain and pray for you to understand what being a Christian is all about. Don’t let the foolishness of a few make you be something you are not.

Let’s respect God that gave us life that we enjoy today, we owe him that at least.

It is well with you sir.*

illicit:
I remove all my clothes before I use d toilet

I do this till this day!!!!

hush15:
FG almost abandoned its citizens in Sudan in the middle of a desert to siphone 1.2million dollars. Why would Benin Republic not misbehave.

SMH……just give government a break, you really don’t know what is happening out there

frenzy48:
and majority will be from South West,,so they have been deported after seeking assylum in Benin,when their brodas the herdsmen started using Dem for shooting practice...

Naija go beta one day

Tribalism is really deep in people’s heart on this platform.

Have you stop to ask if the people being deported committed offenses that warrants that?

Is it every Nigerian in Benin being deported?

Why don’t you all be patriotic for once?

Yugoslavia247:
How person go save this wood.

More like firewood now.

I am not sure the market has its own water supply in case of fire.

I think it is high time markets devices means in case of fire.

For instance if it means having a fire hydrant connected to a borehole and enough pressure.

Govt has failed. We also should not also Siddon look especially when it deals with our means of survival


Wetin I know

How did Government fail in this one again?

Rikze:



That number 8 eh, it didn't allow me to save while growing up.


There's this other one that's chocolate-like and it's baked, flat and crispy. I don't remember the name now. These two stuffs shouldn't be known to young ones until they grow into adulthood and begin exercising self control

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lumens:
After supporting Amoda Ogunlere, you have no moral right to attack the person that did this.

Because he supported his preferred candidate disqualified him from speaking against racism, wao, this is a new one.

FairlyUSEDpussy:
Racism apart........why wud Saka even waste crucial penalty just wen u know we just few step winning bpl cup..........

My brother, it can happen to anybody!!!

hotwax:
pastor adeboye does not represent us...a pastor that came out to support jihadi who has killed many christian is inviting insult..

leave vivor...focus on the post vivor reacted to. All these are adverts for vivor. This is why people will even vote for Vivor.

Dear Yoruba Christians, Vivor is fighting christian course boldly

SMH....

ejifranks:
Peter obi didn't need to rig in Ebonyi or any south east state. You know the truth. Embrace the truth

But there are videos of LP rigging the election too, you can okay that and condemn others now!

SyrusdeHansome:
Though i'm not a religious person i knw prayer helps in situations like this. Without the holy spirit directing u on what to do regarding this matter every decision u take will backfire. My advice 4 u is to fast 4 just a day. Study the bible and a powerful christian novel of someone like Bishop David Oyedepo nd be deliberate abt it. B4 u knw it God will direct u on what to do nd ur frnd will even separate frm that man without ur effort

The best advice I have read!

Looky:
Netflix have been trying to push their subltle nudity agenda into the Nigerian psyche through the movie industry.A time will come when everyone will see a naked actress in a movie as a normal thing.
Look at Anikulapo and the recent one starring Nancy Isime.Actresses can go to any length to get a lead role in a movie which includes going naked on set.What is happening to our high moral standard I Nigeria.
Is Netflix gradually eroding our culture.

Nancy Isime didn’t appear nude, it was a double and it was stated in the credits of the flick.

Thanksful:
What did he mean by private sector driven economy? Make una ask am now oh. Nah so Buhari come tell us him dey bring change. We no ask am what kind of change.

See where we dey now

Are you conceding defeat already, he is not the only aspirant now?

siofra:
Haram in Christianity?

It's a Christian behaviour to forgive, my dear. I don't condone the woman's behaviour, instead I'm praising the man for his bravery.

It was the woman's mess that made the husband's actions intriguing, thus you should have denounced her action while praising his.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Who are you really?

engrchykae:
so you think that if the youths seized weapons,they will show it openly?

They should have shown the weapons and the people they caught, I can't believe a story that has no proof.

Apart from the truck and the burnt bodies on the ground, nothing to prove that they are armed herdsmen.

ahnie:
The country is in a free fall state and sadly the president has chosen to do anything about it.
The citizens are now doing everything possible to protect themselves.



Guessing those arms n ammunitions seen with the visitors are fertilizers meant to boost the soil for the crops to yet more food via bountiful harvest.

I just watched the video, didn't see no arms and ammunition, didn't see any of the armed fulani nor Soldiers, all I see are burnt people and a long vehicle plus youths gathered together.

Haven't seen anything relating to the report.

JOACHINpedro:
Okay


Are we still on the same page

Co-asking o

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Have you gone to seek a second opinion?

Solofresh2:
Am real bro
I swear to God!

You did the right thing, sleeping with another man’s wife is deadly and sinful.

Do unto others what you want done to you.

hisexcellency34:
In abroad, no need for fighting or towing vehicles. All they need is to get your car number. But here in Nigeria, especially Lagos and Abuja...

It is well

HappyPagan:
Jesus is not coming back again. Get over it. Enjoy your life... Stop wearing sackcloths and mourning who you no kill. Take your life back from Jesus, he couldn't protect his own.

Jesus will come and He will take His saints with Him.

You too can be saved because He loves you.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look how they made the whole thing about black..the usual victim card..why do blacks always think everyone hates or is after their life..?

Look at his offence and why he got shot(which is very wrong of not self defence)..are we also gonna skip the fact that his vehicle was linked to firearm? vehicle not registered..why the f**k was he running from the cops?you had no weapon and you took them on a pursuit?..of course he had none on him..
So we have to wait till they conclude their investigation before we jump into emotional conclusion..

A white guy named Dylan Roof in North Carolina shot 9 blacks to death but was only arrested at a traffic stop.

A black guy that does the same won't leave the scene alive.

LOVEGINO:
My Her gentle soul rest in perfect peace

God can still restore her back to life because what God cannot do doesn't exist!!!

Voodoo3:
She made her way to that place through corrupt thats is why Nigeria is not growing but dieing .. Imaging such kind of person when there is emergency she will be live streaming the invent instead of saving lives

This happened in Ghana, not Nigeria

popez:
If the merger works, it will be to the benefit of millions of Nigerians who have lost hope in APC and PDP. You shot at innocent protesters, banned twitter, banned crypto, closed the borders, Nigerians are burying their loved ones untimely because of rising insecurity all over the country, the masses can barely feed, universities have been on strike for over 5 months now, and you have the effrontery to come and ask us to vote for you? APC should be apologizing to Nigerians not asking for our votes. God forbid!

Meanwhile, Tinubu is yet to explain to our Northern brothers what exactly happened here:

I just wish we can be less myopic on this issue, with a merger like this and no major representation of LP members in the National Assembly, I foresee impeachment proceedings on Obi especially with a Northerner as Vice President unless of course they both defect to PDP after the election.

My two kobo though.

Zolyjagorr:
THIS KIZZ DANIEL NA BIG FOOL! ABEG WHO DECIEVE THIS BOY SAY HIM NEW SONG "BUGA" IS SWEET OR NICE?! LETS BE SINCERE GUYS, BUGA NO SWEET, HIM JUST THEY FORCE THE HYPE FOR DANCE VIDEOS, NOW THE BOY IS MAD TO THINK OF PERFORMING A BAD SONG LIKE "BUGA" AT WORLD CUP ?? SERIOUSLY KIZZ? INCASE YOU DON'T KNOW "BUGA" IS YOUR BEST WORST SONG YOU'VE EVER RELEASED SINCE YOU GOT FAME .. "BUGA" IS BORING & WACK NIGGA! LET THE REALS TELL YOU THE FUCKING TRUTH... EVEN MAVIN SIGNEES SONG "OVERDOSE" IS MUCH MORE SWEETER & NICER THAN THAT "BUGA" RUBBISH [b]

Have you released any song?