melly245:
they will survive

Amen sis. My prayers are with her. How's your lo?

melly245:
my people abeg make una no vex for me about yesterday,i was really depressed, my both parents were involved in an accident and i came here to draw strength, only to meet an unfriendly atmosphere.

Aww! So sorry mama. How are they? Hope it isn't too serious.

Congratulations pintoxx. God bless your princess.

I saw this and I thought to share.
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You may probably not know, but there are some rules of visiting a new mom. No, we are not kidding.

Read on:

1. Wait to be invited
We Africans especially, when we hear our friend has a baby, we just up and go, not forgetting to take with us the ululations…Nah. New moms are tired and they need that mother-child bond especially in the very early days. Do not go when it’s convenient for you! Call prior to and find out when you can visit.


2. Do not visit when sick
Please. If you have a cold, a skin rash or whatever other forms of ailment there is out there, wait till you’re feeling better. Newborns have a weak immune system and are therefore vulnerable to diseases.

3. Leave your kids behind
If you plan on visiting a new mom with your three kids, it’s best to call the new mom before and ask her if it’s fine. The last thing a new mom needs is a bunch of kids running around the house messing everything up and making noise

4. Bring food
Surely, you can’t go to visit a new mom and expect a feast party! More so from a mom who doesn’t have a nanny yet. Assume the role of the host, ask to help around the house and bring food so that you can all eat and save the new mom the hustle of going to the kitchen to cook for you and other guests.

5. Wash your hands
That’s the first thing you should do the minute you arrive. No mother wants germs near her newborn.

6. Wait to be offered the baby
New moms have very strong mother instincts and come off as very protective. The last thing they want is to see their baby being passed around from one guest to another and being kissed and touched and all…as much as your purpose of visiting was to see the baby, wait for the mother to offer you the baby, or at least ask in a kind way.

7. Don’t hog the baby
If you’re offered the baby, do not stay for hours with the baby. That’s baby hogging. Give it back to the mother after a few minutes.

8. Do not offer unsolicited advice
If the new mom hasn’t asked for any advice from you, please keep your parenting tips to yourself. Don’t start saying how the baby needs an extra blanket or how the mom should hold the baby. No! This is a new mom…don’t make her feel like she’s doing a bad job already for pete’s sake.



 

9. Commenting on the baby’s name
Even if you think the baby’s name is as outrageous as North West, do not mention it. Seriously, it’s not the time and place.


10. Talk about something else other than the baby
Ask the new mom how she’s coping, heck, talk about Beyonce…anything else other than the baby. Don’t spend the whole time talking about the new-born. Entertain the mom a little bit.

11. Know when to leave
Don’t be the kind of guests who visit at 1.00pm and by 7.00pm they still haven’t left. Take hits and know when to leave. The new mom and baby need as much rest as they can get

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BritneyStacy:
BIRTH ALERT
My Prince made his grand entrance yesterday at 11.35pm weighing 3.5kg throw VD with tear. There is something called labour and it's for real....no other name fits such pain! Episiotomy is crazy. ...
BIRTH STORY later...
Safe delivery to the remaining August mama's ....September mum's get ready!

Yaaaaaayyyy. Congratulations dearie, I'm glad it ended in praise.
Welcome to the world Prince...
Quick recovery to u, we await ur BS.

So sad. I could hear one of the men saying " help me help me, oh my wife is dead"

Mumjb:
help me praise Allah! my beautiful princess, my diamond, my third love arrived yesterday midnight, weighing 2.8kg . mother and baby doing well am a mother again, Alhamdulilah. Bs coming soon cause am very tired.

Britneystacy my cappo i don born o, easy delivery to u too


GOOD MORNING MAMAS

Congrats ma. Thank God for safe delivery. God bless your princess

sugah:
Omewo ya, Jehovah jireh E mewo ya, alpha n omega E mewo ya, O mereya ne ge ya.!!
I am happy to announce that the Lord of lords, the king of kings has done it in my life.

I am a mother!!!!!!!!!

Ayomi ti de! My joy has arrived. My joy is full.



Team September for sexy borning

Yaaaaaayyyy. Congrats ma'am. Kisses to baby Ayomide . May he give you reasons to smile always.

HerteEnUke26:
Good pm mamas, please ooo can we be considered full term at 37weeks, please there's been so much pressure in my vjay since morning and its really uncomfortable, help with responses please
Cc fortius, lifted hands, zaynie, and all mamas abeg.

I delivered at exactly 37weeks. Baby was doing just fine and is still doing fine. Birth weight was 2.2kg. We didn't need to take him to NCU
Cc: sexyshe.
Safe delivery to you all.

mitchyy:
Finally, my incision has covered up. Thanks to everyone who helped out. I pray it doesn't open up again.

Mamas that have gone through a C-Section, please how long did it take you to start doing these things...

-Driving
-Wearing heels
-Taking cold drinks

[b]And does anyone know the moniker of the member here who sells the postpartum belt? Want to start working on my stomach so it can be flat totally.
[/b]Thanks

I bought from emerald65, byvan03 sells too

Emerald22, happy wedding anniversary to you.

melly245:
and talking about the pain,no one pain me reach that expansion of the jajaina for lo to come out, like say dem dey do tug of war,my eyes won pop out,the way dem go draw one side the go sokoto and the other side dey go kafachan... oooo maGod,no body told me about thát part, that one was the real deal for me extreeeeeeeeeemly painful

Lwkmd, nobody actually told me labour was that painful. They kept likening it to painful menstrual cramp and strong poo.
My own was way worse than menstrual cramp n strong poo. They shud av just told me it was painful so that I could prepare my mind.

BritneyStacy:

Omo , those 3hands already no funny ooo. . They are so accustomed to the checking and they didn't seem to make it look like anything serious sef. ..they made it look like some one who was looking for his or her phone in their OWN handbag and not a stranger's handbag no iota of respect for the place

Hehehehe. They've been doing it for years and it's a norm for them.
When I complained of pain during one of d sessions of hand chooking, my gynae was laughing and he said " everything abt childbirth is pain."
In few days time, you would be smiling at d face of ur lo.

iomoge2:
@esof1

I just had a good laugh this morning.
So i read it out 4 dh n d man is laughing too n asking if its d same thing i will go through.... lol

My sister, foreign hand must enter jajaina as long as na pikin mata.

@britneystacey, only 3 hands and you don type plenty like this? Expect more hands in your private place. I can't recount how many hand invaded my privacy the 2 days I spent in d labour ward, from insertion of cytotec to checking if cervix is effaced, to breaking of water and to checking the progress of dilation. Both male and female doctors, nurses, different hand sizes especially the male doctors with correct strong hands. Even after I born finish, na so I dey open d jajaina for dressing and checking every 2 days till d tear heal. The person that checked today won't be d person to check tomorrow. Initially, I felt abused, right now I no get shame again. That place is only private before u get belle
But worry not, it's worth the stress. it's definitely gonna end in praise. e-hugs dearie

SisiNini:
For I am a Chosen Generation, a Royal Priesthood, a Holy Nation, a Peculiar Person; and I will show forth the praises of him who had called me out of darkness into His marvellous light...

Happy Birthday to me...!!!

Happy birthday sexy bae. Age with grace.

Mama Fortius, vigilante has taken over my life.

Congratulations babythug.
Welcome newbies, happy bumping.

wierdo. What did u eat d soup with?

Boomboost:
Vegetables, melon and eggs. I don't know what they call this kind of soup but I'm enjoying it.
Since its just me, I've tried mixing milk powder with rice, it gave the rice a milky flavor, should try it again. I put flour in beans while on fire, it lathered... hahaha! I know I'm weird, so...

.

mitchyy:
Pic 1 & 2: Hansel after a long round of breastfeeding. That is his satisfied face
By the way, my bweast master, my cutie, my munchkin, my lovely baby is 5weeks old today. I thank Jehovah for blessing my family with him.

Pic 3: See how this boy has sucked me dry? Na only my head and bweast remain
Any need to buy postpartum belt again?

Pic 4: Hansel and mama live in warri for omugwo extension

Sexy mama and handsome bobo. I like d way hansel sucked you into being sexy you don't need pp belt again oh. I didn't even use d one I bot.

Anak, see your beautiful boy...

maureensylvia:


oya c baby duby @4months

thread cutie

Bebe la cute

@ enkaydewdrop, as per the lochia, I'm experiencing same, Just in same order. I actually tot AF has resumed on saturday but the red turned to brown on monday and I agree with Fortius. It's stress! Mine didn't come today at all because for 2 days, I haven't done nada! Just eating n sleeping.

beyedew, ur presido is a cutie

enkaydewdrop:
And our portees;
esof1,How are you mommas doing too?
Hope una no too dey stressed...

Thought about y'all today and decided to hail...
#WarmHugsAndKisses...

Enkaydewdrop, signing out for
#TeamJune
#TeamSmallButMighty
#TeamNoPant
#TeamNoLibido
#TeamNoDeliveryHair







#OkBye

Hailings mummy Jay! I'm doing perfectly okay.
Kisses to baby Jay.

Congrats juliebest! The hand of God is in your life indeed.

Mati4christ:

Mamas of ds thread I hail u all. Pls dia is one mama who complaind of ha jajaina bn loosed after bn stitched n hs bn in pains bt cnt go for dressing as instructd by ha doc because of d fear of leaving d baby wt ha hubby. Cnt recall ha moniker..... Jux checking on ha

.

Thanks mama for asking after me. I'm fine now. I still went for the dressing for one week, saw my gynae afterwards and he saw d site and said there wouldn't be need to re suture as its healing very fast. He said I shud clean d site with cotton wool and savlon every other day and keep it dry. I don't feel any pain there,just waiting for d site to close up.

Cc: mitchyy. Tnx cappo for checking up on me. My vigilante is day and night. Hubby has gone back to work station, mumsy won't have time till end of this month (she works), no live-in relatives. I'm all by myself, hence, the peeping mode.
Congratulations ma'am Fortius, olatebony and all mamas that put to bed.
Happy birthday cherrymum1.
Ma'am soonest, quick recovery to ur lo

dexterush:

Nice and funny BS.we thank God it all ended in praise
Baby is so fresh and sweet looking

Thanks mama.

mitchyy:
Thank God for that nurse @esof1. Kisses to your adorable cutie!

Tnx mummy Hansel.

Fortius:
esof1...Dominique is beautiful..see fresh skin..oluwa mi oooo...ur BS is hilarious ooo...yee i don laff tire..u even rememba me durin labour..u remind me of my first delivery oo...yee...'baby mi kolewerk'..abeg kiss dat Bae for me oo..

Hehehe. Tnks ma
Bet why e dey happen like that na. Why d break in transmission? The baby tire? Abi e dey rest?

Liftedhands:
Esof1 glory be to God! Kisses to baby Dominique

Tnx ma, God is indeed faithful.

mitchyy:



Hehehehehehehe! I don forget now. So i write boy or girl

Oya nor vex. I go edit am now. Vigilante mode is messing with my brain. Lol

@tyconcepts, help us beg her oh.
Mummy Hansel, We haf forgiven you. We understand!
Ma'am Fortius, ayam coming, lemme dress my jajaina and see my gynae first.
This episiotomy needs to heal fast because libido is here.

mitchyy:


Start writing it small small o. At least by tomorrow you should be done.

Even if its up to 10 episodes, we'll read it.

Okay cappo. How's Hansel doing?
Btw, this ur roll call, na boy I born o. No be haemaphrodite

Fortius:
pls mamas owing us BS shuld drop it o

cc raptor2.christybabe.esof1.olatebony...God is ur muscle pls dnt carry it ova to august o..ejoor.

Hehehehehhehe. Bs is coming but ayam lazy to type

kaffy4bill:


You are stressed,thats d main culprit for you not lactating,pls get helppppppp
Pls follow the guideline on the tin,don't give too much water
Give as needed
Hope this help
One love always

Thank you mama