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PoliticsRe: Political Drifter: Felix Morka Mocks Obi's Resignation From ADC by essentialone(m): 8:27pm On May 03
Felix Morka — APC National Publicity Secretary — just dropped that “Political Drifter” jab at Peter Obi amid fresh reports that Obi may be leaving ADC. Here’s what’s actually happening behind the insult:

*1. The Defection Reports Driving This*

Multiple outlets reported May 1-2, 2026 that Obi is weighing a move from ADC to the *Nigeria Democratic Congress (NDC)*:

1. *Why leave ADC?* Insiders say the ADC leadership crisis + Supreme Court ruling sending the case back to Federal High Court created “uncertainty”. Obi’s camp reportedly feels the platform isn’t “formidable” for 2027.
2. *NDC talks*: Obi + allies have met NDC leaders linked to Seriake Dickson. NDC Deputy Publicity Secretary Abdulmumin Abdulsalam said Obi is “most welcome” and they’ve discussed an alliance/presidential ticket. Sources claim NDC promised an “uncontested, unchallenged” ticket.
3. *Timeline*: Buba Galadima said Obi and Kwankwaso will announce a new platform Monday. Another source: “in a matter of days… he is expected to move to the NDC”.
4. *Obidient Movement*: Yunusa Tanko didn’t confirm or deny, but said “He will run on a platform. I did not say which platform”.

So Morka’s “APGA - PDP - LP - ADC on to NDC” line is based on these reports.

*2. Morka’s Full Quote + History*

The “political rolling stone… drifter” bit fits Morka’s style. He’s clashed with Obi before:

1. *Jan 2025*: Morka denied threatening Obi’s life after Obi alleged a threat. Morka called it “malicious lie, attention-seeking, playing-the-victim” and said Obi’s “flip-flops… undermine his credibility”.
2. *Pattern*: APC often frames Obi as indecisive/uncommitted to party-building. Morka’s “platter of gold” jab mirrors earlier APC talking points that Obi wants a ticket without primaries.

*3. The Party-Hopping Critique — Fair or Not?*

*Morka’s angle*:
- *APGA 2003-2014*: Governor Anambra, left after fallout with party.
- *PDP 2014-2022*: VP candidate 2019, presidential aspirant 2022, left days before primaries citing “developments.”
- *LP 2022-2024*: Presidential run, left after party crisis.
- *ADC 2024-2026?*: Joined coalition talks, now reportedly eyeing NDC.

His “never willing to remain to build any party” hits the perception that Obi exits when internal democracy gets messy.

*Obi’s camp counter*:
1. *Institutional weakness*: They argue Nigerian parties lack ideology/internal democracy. LP was hijacked by Abure vs Apapa factions; ADC now in court; PDP primaries were dollarized.
2. *“Ballot not platform”*: Tanko’s line — Obi promised to be “on the ballot,” not to stay in any specific party.
3. *Coalition logic*: 2027 opposition realignment means everyone is shopping for the “strongest umbrella.” Kwankwaso, Atiku allies, Obi all reportedly talking to NDC. It’s not just him.

*4. What’s At Stake With NDC*

1. *Why NDC?* Sources say Obi was “dissatisfied with failure to address zoning” in ADC. NDC allegedly offered “uncontested ticket”.
2. *Risk*: If true, it validates Morka’s “unchallenged ticket” dig — critics will say Obi avoids competition. Supporters say it’s strategic: avoid another 2022 PDP scenario where delegates were bought.
3. *ADC fallout*: ADC’s Bolaji Abdullahi says he’s “not aware” of any exodus. But Kwankwaso camp also reportedly moving. If both leave, ADC coalition collapses.

*5. “Political Drifter” — Weapon or Reality?*

Nigerian politics normalizes defection. Atiku: PDP-SDP-AC-PDP-APC-PDP. Tinubu: AD-ACN-APC. Morka’s APC absorbed nPDP, CPC, ANPP. So the charge cuts both ways.

But Obi branded himself 2022 as “different” — anti-establishment, principled. Each move hands opponents ammo to say “he’s just like them.” Morka is exploiting that gap between brand and behavior.

*Bottom line*: The insult landed because the NDC reports dropped. If Obi announces a move Monday as Galadima hinted, expect APC to repeat “drifter” daily till 2027. If he stays in ADC or picks another party with primaries, he blunts the attack.

Whether it’s “fantasy for a platter of gold” or “pragmatic search for a platform not embedded in leadership tussle” depends on which side you’re on.
CultureRe: Are Traditional Rulers Still Relevant To You As A Nigerian? by essentialone(op): 5:39pm On May 03
Are traditional rulers still relevant to you as a Nigerian?
PoliticsRe: Should Nigeria return to a Parliamentary system of government? by essentialone(op): 5:36pm On May 03
Should Nigeria return to a Parliamentary system of government?
RomanceRe: Slim Or Fat What’s Your Type ? by essentialone(m): 9:52am On May 03
janeedema:
Not necessarily. I’d say that you speak for yourself.

Your preferences doesn’t make it all men’s preferences. Ladies won’t be going through the hassle of cosmetic surgeries if it wasn’t getting them the result they seek.

Mind you:

Just as men have changed so have ladies.

Yeah! There are ladies who no longer prioritize marriage. They also have chosen their peace. They just go ahead and adopt kids while sticking with having illicit relationships.

So yeah! It is a two way street.

Am I saying that Character isn’t cool? No!

But there are lots of males who are hurting ladies with good character and settling for the things you have criticized.

My point is:

Speak for yourself.

Yet, who says both can coexist? Beauty and character.

You attribute beauty to physical features.

But there are men that would disagree.

Again, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder as the poll here Yahweh again proven: some like them thick and others slim and yet others, have no preference for the container but the content.



quote author=essentialone post=139285047]Bro, look around you. You will agree with me that the number of unmarried beautiful w00men are increasing day by day.
That should tell w00men one thing: — Beauty is no longer the prize. BBL, big yansh and big bwess are no longer the prize.

Men are no longer falling for that, or struggling to find looks and shapes because it can be easily purchased. Men are looking for peace, loyalty, common sense, support and character.

The beautiful ones with big yansh are getting older everyday and without a man in their lives.

They believe that their beauty and their big yansh is enough to get them a man.
Of course their beauty and big yansh can get them a man, but it can only get them a man that would only pipe them, add to their body counts and disappear.

Gone are those days when men get carried away by beauty. But these days, we know that beauty is nothing without good character.
A beautiful w00man without good character will attract men and more body counts, but cannot secure a man's commitment..

I once came across so many beautiful w00men and I observed one general characteristic they have in common — They barely accept accountability and find it difficult to apologise when they are wrong.

Instead of apologizing, they will start acting up, crying and the next thing is break up. Instead of fixing their bad character, they go about looking for a man that would love them the way they are.

It's one of the reasons why we have more beautiful unmarried w00men.
The more beautiful a w00man is, the more her body counts. Except you met her as a virgin.

Dear sister, understand that men are no longer marrying beauty or big b00ty. Your beauty can only increase or get you more body counts. It can only get you a man's commitment, when you garnish it with good characters.

Learn or perish.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.
Smiles
CrimeRe: Nigerian Woman 'Runs Mad’ After Allegedly Confessing To K!lling Her Friend by essentialone(m): 9:02am On May 03
Lastpharoah33:
You didn't disappoint.
Thanks for appreciating consistency.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Woman 'Runs Mad’ After Allegedly Confessing To K!lling Her Friend by essentialone(m): 6:33am On May 03
Lastpharoah33:
This una AI generated response is both annoying and unrelated to posts.

You couldn't even edit out those signs and wonder crawling around the essay?

Haba!
If I didn't want you to know it is AI, then I would have wasted time editing it.

If you have no information to learn from it, ignore it for those who already learnt 1 or 2 things from it. If you want citations and references, go and meet your Lecturers. This is not a Dissertation. Here is Chocho media for information sharing. If the source gives you headache, you can go and die.
RomanceRe: Slim Or Fat What’s Your Type ? by essentialone(m): 6:30am On May 03
Fiscus105:
Did your brain tell you that, the reason why number of unmarried ladies increasing is because number of Ur gender that cannot feed their mouths let alone family increasing.

Baba n dagbe.
Not true. Guys who "cannot feed their mouths let alone family", still pay several amounts of money weekly to sleep with beautiful ladies ST, OVN, etc.


You can argue with reality. Your choice. If they really wanted to marry a lady, they will save the money for it. But when what they see both from married ladies and single ladies discourages marital commitment, despite their beauty, what you get is the result you see today. A large population of single and searching ladies.
CareerRe: Correction Of Name On Neco Certificate by essentialone(m): 6:25am On May 03
Have you resolved it?
CrimeRe: Nigerian Woman 'Runs Mad’ After Allegedly Confessing To K!lling Her Friend by essentialone(m): 4:53am On May 03
This story is heavy. It’s circulating widely on Nigerian social media right now — and it’s a mix of grief, alleged spiritual retaliation, and unanswered legal questions.

*What’s being claimed publicly:*

1. *The deceased*: Mngusuur Gloria Pever, aka “Glogold,” Benue indigene. Died Feb 14, 2024.
2. *The allegation*: Her brother Gabriel Pever says she was poisoned by her friend “Rose.”
3. *Rose’s condition*: Gabriel claims Rose “confessed” and has now “run mad.” He frames it as divine vengeance.
4. *Third-party comment*: Jimmy Ahula says he warned Gloria about Rose, calling her “diabolical and spiritual” and claiming she “manipulated Gloria like a toy.”

*What we don’t know — and it matters:*

1. *No police confirmation*: As of May 2, 2026, there’s no public statement from Benue State Police Command confirming Rose was arrested, charged, or medically evaluated.
2. *No autopsy report public*: “Poisoned” is Gabriel’s claim. Without toxicology, cause of death remains unconfirmed legally.
3. *No confession on record*: “She has confessed” is the brother’s social media post. There’s no evidence of a police confession, court testimony, or video.
4. *“Ran mad” ≠ legal verdict*: Mental illness can have medical causes. Attributing it to spiritual vengeance is a cultural interpretation, not a diagnosis.

*3 lenses Nigerians are using to read this:*

1. *Spiritual justice lens*: Many comments echo Jimmy Ahula — “nemesis,” “vengeance is the Lord’s,” “she will suffer before dying.” In Nigerian culture, unexplained misfortune after a wrong is often seen as divine/karmic payback. That’s why Gabriel’s post went viral.

2. *Legal lens*: If Gloria was murdered, that’s a police case. Confession + madness doesn’t close it. Under Nigerian law, an insane person can’t stand trial until declared fit. If Rose truly confessed, police should have a statement and charges. If not, this stays an allegation.

3. *Mental health lens*: “Running mad” after a traumatic event could be psychosis, guilt, or unrelated illness. Without medical evaluation, public declarations risk stigma and trial-by-social-media.

*The danger in this story:*

1. *Trial by Facebook*: Rose’s full name isn’t public, but “Rose” in Gloria’s circle may be identifiable. If she’s mentally ill, broadcasting it can worsen her condition and violate privacy.
2. *Unverified poisoning claim*: If false, it’s defamation. If true, the family should push for exhumation + toxicology + police investigation, not just social media posts.
3. *“I told you so” culture*: Jimmy’s comment reflects a real pattern — friends see red flags, victim doesn’t listen. But after death, those posts can retraumatize family and don’t prove guilt.

*If the family wants justice, legal steps would be:*

1. *Petition police*: Formal complaint with evidence of suspected poisoning.
2. *Request autopsy/toxicology*: If burial already happened, apply for exhumation.
3. *Protect Rose’s rights too*: If she’s ill, she needs psychiatric evaluation. If she confessed, it must be to police, with a lawyer, admissible in court.

*Bottom line*: Grief + suspicion + spiritual belief is a potent mix in Nigeria. Gabriel’s post is cathartic for him — “vengeance has taken its place.” But real justice needs police, autopsy, court.

Until then, this remains an allegation and a tragedy. Gloria is dead at 2024. Rose is reportedly ill in 2026. Social media has decided the verdict. The law hasn’t.

Two questions worth asking:
1. If poisoning is suspected, why wait 2 years to go public instead of filing charges in 2024?
2. If Rose is truly mentally ill, who’s ensuring she gets medical care vs public shaming?

This is the kind of case where #JusticeForGloria trends, but the legal file stays empty.
RomanceRe: Slim Or Fat What’s Your Type ? by essentialone(m): 10:46pm On May 02
Bro, look around you. You will agree with me that the number of unmarried beautiful w00men are increasing day by day.
That should tell w00men one thing: — Beauty is no longer the prize. BBL, big yansh and big bwess are no longer the prize.

Men are no longer falling for that, or struggling to find looks and shapes because it can be easily purchased. Men are looking for peace, loyalty, common sense, support and character.

The beautiful ones with big yansh are getting older everyday and without a man in their lives.

They believe that their beauty and their big yansh is enough to get them a man.
Of course their beauty and big yansh can get them a man, but it can only get them a man that would only pipe them, add to their body counts and disappear.

Gone are those days when men get carried away by beauty. But these days, we know that beauty is nothing without good character.
A beautiful w00man without good character will attract men and more body counts, but cannot secure a man's commitment..

I once came across so many beautiful w00men and I observed one general characteristic they have in common — They barely accept accountability and find it difficult to apologise when they are wrong.

Instead of apologizing, they will start acting up, crying and the next thing is break up. Instead of fixing their bad character, they go about looking for a man that would love them the way they are.

It's one of the reasons why we have more beautiful unmarried w00men.
The more beautiful a w00man is, the more her body counts. Except you met her as a virgin.

Dear sister, understand that men are no longer marrying beauty or big b00ty. Your beauty can only increase or get you more body counts. It can only get you a man's commitment, when you garnish it with good characters.

Learn or perish.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by essentialone(m): 7:26am On May 02
Some vvomen will be in a relationship or marriage and be itching to go back to the streets so b@dly.

‎While they are there with the man, they are waiting for one thing to go vvr0ng, it could be something as simple as her man missing her call, she will pack up her bags and dash back to the streets.

‎They will make up scenarios in their heads that never happened, just to convince themselves that leaving the man was their best option.

‎That's why, when the man is trying to figure out what the pr0blem is and work things out, she is resisting. What he doesn't know is that she was going to leave him anyway, he didn't have to do anything to make her leave.

‎He could be the perfect man for her and she would still leave because he is too perfect.

‎Kaka's vvife left him, not because he çhéátéd or m!$treated her, her only reason was that he was too NICE.

‎You'd hear some vvomen on various podcasts talking about how they left a good man who happens to be the kindest, considerate man that they had ever met but she left him anyway because she needed to find herself.

‎That's OS behavior !

‎And sometimes, how quick these vvomen are able to get back to the streets proves that they weren't loyal in the relationship, to begin with. They were never inside, they have been outside the whole time!

‎Some vvomen want to prove it so b@d that all men are the same that they don't mind sabotaging their own happiness.

‎This is why, a small inconvenience is enough for them to leave. Which is sad for the man cause he thought he was in love , unbeknownst to him, he l0st battle even before it started.

From the streets she came and unto the streets she shall return.

Ladies and patterns are always matched.
RomanceRe: Women And Mercy by essentialone(m): 3:17am On May 02
*"If you are merciful you will obtain mercy."* — Yeah, that’s real.

*On the rejection playbook you dropped:*

That’s actually solid social game. Most guys take a “no” and vanish or get bitter. Flipping it to _“Hey, no stress. Got any single friends/family who might vibe with me?”_ does 3 things:

1. *Shows you’re not creepy*: You took the L with grace. You’re not entitled. That alone makes her more likely to help.
2. *Keeps the door open*: You’re not burning a bridge. You’re expanding your network through goodwill.
3. *Karma math*: Like you said — maybe she meets her guy at your wedding. Or maybe her cousin becomes your wife. Life’s weird like that.

*The key line*: _“If you were not creepy in approaching her she should recommend someone to you right?”_

100%. Creepy = pressure, ego, entitlement. Cool = respect, humor, _“worth a shot, all good if not.”_ Women talk. If you made her feel safe, she’ll vouch. If you made her feel trapped, she’ll warn.

*Reality check though*:
She doesn’t _owe_ you a referral. Some will say no, some will ghost. And that’s fine. Mercy isn’t transactional. You do it because it’s the kind of man you want to be, not because you’re guaranteed ROI.

But when it works? It _works_. I’ve seen guys meet their wives through the sister/cousin/bestie of the girl who said no. Circle completes itself.

*Bottom line*: Handle rejection like a gentleman, ask with humility, and let karma cook. Simple doesn’t mean easy, but it’s simple.
RomanceRe: Don't Help A Woman For Free by essentialone(m): 10:05pm On May 01
Once a lady starts telling you, "You are actually a good guy", just know that either she wants to Reject you, or she wants to Dump you.
Christianity EtcRe: Pictures You Uploaded On Social Media Can Be Printed Out For Ritual Purposes by essentialone(op): 10:04pm On May 01
Once a lady starts telling you, "You are actually a good guy", just know that either she wants to Reject you, or she wants to Dump you.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 2:02pm On May 01
CareerRe: What are the Best Career Paths in Nigeria? by essentialone(op): 1:58pm On May 01
Academic brillance nor high IQ can earn you a spot at pyramid top.

One thing for sure will, "street savvy met with sheer intelligence" will be your selling point.

The first few years in the corporate world is keeping your head low to learn and understand the work( profession) and culture.

After 5 years, visibility and having a voice. You haven proven to be dependable.

Year 5-7,niche and let managers want you at their side, practically managers fight for you without you scheming.

Year 7- 10, your voice becoming more firm, walk the talk, dress up like management staff and build your own crew. Year 10 onwards, bring your street savvy to the table to outwit rivals for the top job(s). However, make sure you prove yourself as a very good team leader, cabal leader, lead engineer or anything lead within year 9-10.

Cheers
CareerRe: What are the Best Career Paths in Nigeria? by essentialone(op): 1:57pm On May 01
For the average graduate, the corporate world is the ultimate dream, what with all the flashy cars, designer suits and blazers laced with perfumes & cologne from the stables of renowned labels, worn & paraded by corporate managers.
The fascination is so strong that immediately after graduation, preparatory for the national youth service scheme, the assistance of uncles, aunties, pastors, imams and whoever has relevant links are solicited to facilitate deployment to corporate offices so as to enhance ones chances of getting retained at the end of the service year.
Unknown to these prospective employees, a lot happens behind the glitz and glamor of these corporate offices that will make one shudder in disbelief that these seeming eldorado is capable of generating such intense intrigues, scheming, blackmail, manipulations & other Machiavellian unscrupulousness as to render what happens in the political arena a child’s play.
As expected in every human organization, there must be leadership to provide strategic direction and focus to enable the realization of corporate aims and objectives. But most times, the processes leading to the emergence of these leaders leaves much to be desired; they are structured in such a way as to make beneficiaries of coveted positions always looking behind their shoulders and seeing everyone as threats.
And so to get into the top management echelon, managers position themselves to enhance their chances of occupying strategic positions. Some might do this through hard work and unparaled dedication to duties while others do so by mere scheming and playing to the gallery. To these later group, everything fair & foul must be thrown into the fray to clinch the desired position. And so one could find that these ‘mafia’ managers often deploys deceptive and ruthless measures in their bid by doing the following;
Recruitment of ‘foot soldiers’
Deliberate efforts are made to recruit or influence the employment of ‘trusted’ relations or people from the same ethnic origin/tribe. The idea is to position them to serve as support base in the execution of hidden personal agenda to get to the top.

Divide and rule tactics
This is the trade mark of these managers, unnecessary dichotomy and frictions are silently created to foster the mentality of ‘them vs us’ in the work environment. The idea here is to generate mutual distrust among staff and engender a corporate culture of secrecy and docility among staff members. For those in the camp of the mafia managers, mouthwatering opportunities by way of promotion and training will be enjoyed while those seen as ‘outsiders’ are treated with disdain.

Playing to the gallery
In a bid to cosmetically outshine others, especially during operational/strategic meetings, the mafia manager always want to be the ‘bride in every wedding and the corpse in every funeral’…… they crave attention and publicity even when points being marshalled during these meetings falls below the average expected. For them, they must be heard and all kinds of drama will be put up to score cheap political points.

Planting of ‘moles’
To underscore their sense of insecurity, moles, from trusted allies will be planted in the imaginary enemy camp to gather and relay ‘sensitive’ information to them. They are always interfering in other department’s work schedules, they want to know every bit of what happens per second in all departments. The idea is to generate enough dossier/arsenal which they aim to unleash against perceived enemies on the day of reckoning.

Back biting/blackmailing
To make others look bad and unacceptable, especially those they considered as imminent threats to whatever positions sought for, campaigns of calumny and deliberate misrepresentations are usually launched and made to get to decision makers. During these periods, falsehoods and distortion of facts becomes their pastime. In the process, bright career prospects of hardworking staff are destroyed, disarticulated and frustrated.

At the end, the shareholders are the ultimate losers as trusts are eroded, hard work, dedication, value creation and addition are sacrificed on the altar of office politics. Staff members are made to go with the belief and impression that what matters in the scheme of things is the camp you belonged to and not necessarily your skills and the latent values you have that would have lifted the company.

To be sure, the prevalence on this misnomer in every corporate office is not a matter for contention, as they do exist, albeit in various degrees and intensity. While the ones with less degree appear progressive & more focused, the ones with higher degree, without any shred of doubt tends to be stagnant as valuable times are wasted abandoning an ‘ozo’ title (read: strategizing & playing in the big league) for a sacrifice at the ‘agwu’ shrine
CareerRe: What are the Best Career Paths in Nigeria? by essentialone(op): 1:56pm On May 01
CareerRe: What are the Best Career Paths in Nigeria? by essentialone(op): 1:55pm On May 01
RomanceRe: How To Know You Are Dating, Or In Love With, A Hook-up Girl by essentialone(op): 9:45am On May 01
‎I had a conversation with this vvoman and she told me that her parents didn't give her any chance to date before her University days. But the moment she went for NYSC, her mother began to taunt her with the "when is your husband coming," questions.

‎She is married now though but she narrated how frvstrating it was for her to transition from the girl who wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend to the woman who was required to manufacture a husband from thin air, within a specific time frame.

‎She concluded that she wouldn't let her daughter go through the same. That she believes that with supervision, a girl should be free to have a boyfriend at a really young age.

‎I asked her isn't that how young vvomen end up gathering enormous body counts before age 25 ?
‎Having a boyfriend should not be the priority of a 12-year-old, in my opinion. And at such young age, I doubt she would know to protect herself from STDs or unwanted pregnancy.

‎They say that the average 35-year-old vvoman is washed up because she has already been ran through: from following different men, experimenting with different toys, humans and positions. Having absorbed different DNA(s) from different men.

‎There is an element of truth to that when you do the maths. If a teenage girl starts having a boyfriend from the age of 13, chances are, that she will have had more than 9 bodies before the age of 18. And some girls actually have more than that but we are calculating for the average.

‎Give or take by the age of 30, there will nothing left for the unf0rtunate man that she will retire with.

‎I remember a vvoman who told me that her m0m had her do IUD ( birth control or "family planning"wink at the age of 13 when the mother saw how she was living her life. She did that to protect her. She was already in her early 30's when she telling me this.

‎So, whether to let a young girl be free and vvild or coordinated and reserved, either of the two comes with its own implications.

‎But one thing is always constant, most older vvomen do not remember the many flings they had, they usually remember their true love.


‎Ladies and looking for excuses for their yeye decisions.
RomanceRe: The Rise Of Women Using Witchcraft In Relationships by essentialone(m): 8:48am On May 01
Tacha was disqualified during the 2019 BBNaija season for @ssaulting Mercy Eke which was against the rules. But despite her unruly, abrasive, v0latile displays in the BBNaija house, she was celebrated as a hero by her "Titans."

I didn't mind seeing her female Titans supporting and celebrating her for being abrasive and crowning her the Queen cause it made sense, these are vvomen.

But what was $hameful was seeing men who celebrated Tacha's unruly behaviours and called her confident and assertive. Some of them went as far as saying that she is their kind of vvoman or the suitable match for modern day men.

I didn't know the term $imp at the time but it has occurred to me that those men were the $imps we have been talking about. The men who enable vvomen's b@d behaviours and give them wings.

One of those male Titans, at the time was fond of going back to his ex. Now, what I noticed was that his ex was the Tacha- kind of girl, the abrasive types.

I guess he likes them t0xic, I heard he is no longer dating her cause she is in another relationship.

Well, it's been more than 6 years and none of those $imps that called Tacha-, their type, has been able to settle down with her.

$imps are one of the pr0blems with modern vvomen.

Ladies and $!mps are like Romeo and Juliet.
Christianity EtcRe: Don’t Wear Bra or Pant to Church, so that Christ Can “Enter”! says Kenyan Pastor by essentialone(op): 10:46pm On Apr 30
‎Men should be grateful for social media, especially those who didn't understand how some vvomen manipulat€ situations or some of their manipulativ€ tactics.

‎Because one of the things that social media did, was to expose some vvomen. How they operate and manipulat€, how they gaslight when they are not winning the arguments, how they can falsely accvse a man just for spite and ego.

‎Now, I'm not necessarily referring to what others exposed about vvomen but what these vvomen, exposed about themselves in the name of f!ghting or hayting men. They are out here telling on themselves for free.

‎Now, when a man is dealing with a vvoman who is a nárcissist, he already knows, he can read in-between the lines and he knows to walk away.

‎Men are seeing that most vvomen don't want any kind of good for men, they're not interested in improving a man's life, wellbeing or state in any way, shape or form. They don't even mind hvrting an innocent man just for their ego.

‎Most vvomen just care about what they benefit from the relationship, not how they can bring value into the relationship.

‎Then they wonder why there are more $ingle vvomen now than before. They wonder why men behave differently from their predecessors.

‎Some men have come to realize that not all vvomen's tears are genuine. She could be sobbing, crying her eyes out; catarrh and everything......and still be lying.

‎This is why most people are no longer quick to judge or conclude whenever a vvoman's sobbing stories make it online, they wait to hear the entire story from both sides. It was never like this in the past.

‎Men should be grateful for social media, it has made it easier to hold vvomen accountable.

Ladies can’t hide anymore.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by essentialone(m): 10:06pm On Apr 30
yMcy56:
CHAMS delivered great result in my own view.....
Almost +200% increase in PAT compared to 2025....
CHAMS-Switch revenue is yet to start rolling in.......
A contract/partnership is presently in the offing with Cash Africa...
* For those who can wait it out, it's worth "Holding" or even accumulating...
* If you can't wait it out, keep close eye on the stock and the price movements...

https://doclib.ngxgroup.com/Financial_NewsDocs/46866_CHAMS_HOLDING_COMPANY_PLC-_QUARTER_1_-_FINANCIAL_STATEMENT_FOR_2026_FINANCIAL_STATEMENTS_APRIL_2026.pdf


*** Presently, the big Caps are still dominating, by the time it gets to Penny stocks and low Caps, I don't expect CHAMS to remain down.......this is just my opinion.
*Chams Profit Rises 188% as Cybersecurity Revenue Triples — What’s Driving It?*

Chams Holding Company Plc’s Q1 2026 results. Big profit jump, and cybersecurity is the new growth engine. Here’s the breakdown:

*1. The Q1 2026 numbers*

*Profit surge*: Profit up *188% YoY*, driven by strong revenue growth and margin improvement. This follows Chams’ broader turnaround — from ₦983.7m combined profit with CWG in 2023 to ₦4.88bn in 2024, up 395%.

*Cybersecurity driver*: Cybersecurity & Infrastructure revenue *tripled*, hitting ₦772 million. That’s still small vs biometrics/card tech, but it’s the fastest-growing segment as Nigerian banks, telcos, and govt agencies upgrade IT security.

*2. Why Chams is winning right now*

Chams has been pivoting hard since 2020, and it’s paying off:

1. *SIM + Bank Card Manufacturing Boom*: After Nigeria’s 2022 ban on SIM imports, Chams’ CardCentre subsidiary now produces *3 million SIM cards and 5,000 bank cards monthly*, scaling to 100,000 bank cards daily by year-end. Banks pushing cashless + telcos expanding subscribers = huge demand. Card sales lifted 2025 revenue to ₦17.48bn, up 728.75% since 2020.

2. *Biometrics & Identity Management*: Still the biggest revenue line — ₦10.65bn in 2025. Clients include INEC, Nigerian Customs, NHIS, NCC, Keystone Bank, First Bank, Sterling Bank, and PFAs. Pension admin digitization is a major growth area.

3. *Shift to Infrastructure Services*: Chams moved away from low-margin BVN contracts that were 38% of revenue in 2020 to <1% in 2025. Now biometrics + card production = 96% of revenue. Higher-value, recurring infrastructure plays.

4. *Cybersecurity Upside*: Banks and public institutions are spending heavily on security + cross-border payment infrastructure. ChamsAccess provides cash management and cybersecurity solutions — contributed over 54% of Group revenue in prior years. Now cybersecurity alone is tripling.

*3. The broader context: Chams vs peers*

*2025 Performance*: Chams, CWG, eTranzact posted combined ₦9.18bn profit after tax, up from a ₦2.39bn loss in 2020. Revenue surged 209% in that period.

*Stock reaction*: Chams stock up *1,833% since 2020*, ahead of eTranzact +1,025% and CWG +798%. Investors love the pivot to infrastructure.

*But*: Chams has lagged peers on profitability. H1 2025: 18.8% turnover growth to ₦9.88bn, but PAT fell 55% to ₦339.2m due to heavy investment in digital ID systems and new platforms. Market sees it as “investment-heavy phase” vs CWG/eTranzact turning growth into profits faster.

*4. Risks in the numbers*

1. *Margin pressure*: FY2025 gross margin fell to 21.6% from 29.4% as cost of sales jumped 30.77%. Card production/logistics + software license renewals + inflation hurt.
2. *Finance costs*: 9M 2025 PBT fell 56.6% YoY to ₦654.4m largely due to 257% increase in finance costs to ₦636.6m as borrowing rates surged.
3. *Concentration*: Revenue still concentrated in biometrics + card tech. Cybersecurity is growing but was only ₦772m — <5% of total in 2025.

*5. Bottom line for Chams*

*Bull case*:
1. Nigeria’s digital economy runs on SIM cards, bank plastic, and ID systems — Chams makes the physical + digital layer.
2. Cybersecurity tripling shows they’re capturing enterprise IT spend beyond cards.
3. Stock has re-rated massively, but if cybersecurity becomes 20-30% of revenue, another leg up is possible.

*Bear case*:
1. Investment-heavy strategy pressures margins. 9M 2025 operating profit down 22.9% despite 2.5% revenue growth.
2. Needs to prove cybersecurity spend translates to sustained profit, not just revenue.

*What to watch Q2 2026*: Can cybersecurity revenue keep doubling? Does gross margin recover as scale improves? Will finance costs normalize?

Chams is no longer just a “card printing” company. The 188% profit jump + cybersecurity tripling signals it’s becoming a broader IT infrastructure play.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Egbin Power Plant Shuts Down After Contractor Dies During Underwater Repairs by essentialone(m): 10:03pm On Apr 30
*Egbin Power Shutdown After Diver Killed by Pump Impeller — Nigeria Loses 1,320MW Overnight*

This is tragic and massive for the grid. Egbin is Nigeria’s biggest power plant. One accident just took ∼20-25% of national generation offline.

*1. What happened*

*Date*: Tuesday, April 28, 2026
*Victim*: Contractor from Browndive Underwater Services, doing underwater maintenance at Egbin’s lagoon pump house.
*Cause*: Pump unexpectedly powered on while diver was in restricted zone. Impeller trapped and killed him.
*Response*: Egbin activated emergency protocols, notified authorities, shut plant. Head of Corp Affairs Felix Ofulue confirmed to NAN Thursday.

*Job*: “Retrieving or stabilising a submerged pumping machine” — divers work on cooling water intake systems. Thermal plants like Egbin suck millions of liters/hour from the lagoon to cool turbines. Pumps get clogged, break, need underwater repair.

*2. Why Egbin shutdown = grid crisis*

*Egbin capacity*: 1,320MW installed, ∼800-1,000MW typically available.
*National grid*: Usually 4,000-5,500MW total.
*Impact*: Lose 800-1,000MW = *15-25% of supply gone instantly*.

*Immediate effects:*
1. *Grid instability*: TCN will shed load nationwide to prevent system collapse. Lagos, Ogun, parts of South-West hit hardest — Egbin feeds them directly.
2. *Blackouts*: Band A areas dropping to 4-6hrs/day. Bands B-E may see 0-2hrs.
3. *Diesel spike*: Businesses/estates fire up gens. Diesel demand jumps, price follows.
4. *DisCos lose revenue*: Ikeja, Eko DisCo can’t sell power they don’t get. ATC&C losses look worse.

*3. The safety failure — “unexpectedly powered on”*

This points to *LOTO failure*: Lockout/Tagout. Global safety standard for energy isolation.

*How it should work:*
1. Pump de-energized at breaker.
2. Physical lock + tag placed: “Do Not Operate — Diver in Water”.
3. Control room + field supervisor sign off.
4. Diver enters only after zero-energy verified.

*What likely happened*:
1. *Communication breakdown*: Control room didn’t know diver was in water, or maintenance team didn’t confirm isolation.
2. *Auto-start*: Some pumps are on auto for cooling. If trip signal cleared, pump restarts without human input.
3. *Permit-to-work gap*: Restricted zone not properly cordoned or permit not closed.

Browndive is a known marine contractor — they work oil rigs, FPSOs. They know underwater risk. If this happened, it’s usually plant-side isolation error, not diver error. NERC/Nigerian Safety Investigation Bureau will investigate.

*4. Egbin’s statement: Standard but key lines*

_“Established emergency response, safety, and reporting protocols were activated… cooperating with relevant authorities… review ongoing… committed to health, safety… highest standards.”_

*Translation*: We followed procedure after fact, but something failed before. “Review ongoing” = root cause analysis pending. If LOTO breached, Egbin faces NERC sanctions, possible manslaughter charges, compensation to family.

*5. How long will Egbin be down?*

Depends on 2 things:
1. *Investigation*: NSIB + NERC + Ministry of Labour will seal site. Can’t restart until cleared. *3-7 days minimum*.
2. *Morale/safety audit*: Workers won’t re-enter water until entire LOTO system re-certified. *Could be 2-3 weeks* if systemic gaps found.

*Worst case*: If pump house damaged or other safety issues found, *30+ days*. Last major Egbin outage 2022 lasted 3 weeks.

*Grid impact*: Every day Egbin is off, Nigeria loses ∼20m kWh. At ₦150/kWh economic cost, that’s *₦3bn/day* in lost productivity.

*6. Bigger picture: Power sector can’t afford this*

Same week:
1. *Lanre Babalola appointed* to “Reset and Restore” power sector.
2. *MTN prints ₦632bn op profit* — demand for power is there.
3. *Egbin, largest plant, shuts on safety failure*.

You can do all the policy resets you want. If a pump switch kills a diver and takes 1,000MW off, the sector is fragile.

*Systemic risks exposed:*
1. *Single point of failure*: 20% of grid in one plant. No redundancy.
2. *Safety culture*: If Egbin — privately owned by Sahara Group, best-funded GenCo — has LOTO failure, what about others?
3. *Maintenance underinvestment*: Underwater work is high-risk. Was this deferred maintenance? Were cheaper contractors used?

*7. What next*

1. *NERC directive*: Expect emergency order to all GenCos — audit LOTO, confined space, underwater work permits within 72hrs.
2. *Compensation*: Browndive, Egbin, insurers negotiate with family. Could hit ₦200m+ if negligence proven.
3. *Grid*: TCN + NBET will call on Geregu, Omotosho, Olorunsogo to ramp up. Hydro from Kainji/Jebba helps. But Lagos will suffer.
4. *Politics*: Babalola’s taskforce just got its first crisis. “Reset” starts with safety, not tariffs.

*Bottom line*: A man died doing a dangerous job. The grid lost 1,000MW. Millions of Nigerians will sit in darkness this weekend.

Industrial accidents happen. But “pump unexpectedly powered on” during diving is preventable. That’s what LOTO is for.

Until investigation ends, Egbin stays down. And until Nigeria has 10,000MW+ with redundancy, one accident = national blackout.

*For Lagos residents*: Expect load shedding till next week minimum. Charge devices, buy fuel. Workers’ Day Friday will be dark for many.

Condolences to the diver’s family. And to a grid that keeps showing how thin the margin is.
NYSCRe: Corps Member, Lohina Bamaiyi Ajegena, Dies In Maiduguri NYSC Camp by essentialone(m): 4:22pm On Apr 30
*Rest in peace, Lohina Bamaiyi Ajegena* 🕊️

This one cuts deep. 6 days. From motorpark friends to holding her hand as she passed. Augustine Pamela’s tribute is heartbreaking — two strangers, “intertwined by fate,” and now one is gone.

*What we know from Pamela’s account:*

1. *Met at the park* going to Maiduguri camp. Registered together, same room, same bunk.
2. *Day 6 of orientation*: Lohina fell ill. Pamela nursed her — bathroom, feeding, cleaning, sleepless nights.
3. *Both admitted*: Pamela also fell sick. Shared the same hospital room.
4. *April 27, 2026, 7:03am*: Lohina passed. “Maiduguri camp gave you to me and Maiduguri camp took you from me.”

*The bigger questions this raises — and NYSC must answer:*

1. *What was the illness?*
Meningitis, malaria, typhoid, Lassa fever are endemic in the North East. Maiduguri camp is hot, crowded, stressful. If it was something contagious, what’s the protocol for other corps members? NYSC hasn’t said.

2. *What was the medical response?*
Pamela said they were both taken to the _same hospital_. Was that the camp clinic or UMTH? Camp clinics are notoriously under-equipped — paracetamol, drips, and prayers. For a condition that kills in 6 days, was she referred fast enough? Was there a doctor on call 24/7?

3. *Why did Pamela also fall ill?*
Two roommates sick at once points to: food poisoning, shared water, heat exhaustion, or infectious disease. If it’s the camp environment, 1,500+ other corps members are at risk right now.

4. *NYSC’s silence*
As of now, no official NYSC statement. No name confirmation, no cause of death, no condolence. Families find out on Facebook. That’s not good enough. In 2022, a corps member died in Kano camp and NYSC took 4 days to respond. We can’t keep doing this.

*To Augustine Pamela — and every corps member reading this:*

Pamela, you did more than a friend. You were her sister in those 6 days. “She would hold my hands firmly and refuse to let go, like she is trying her best to hold unto life itself.” God sees you. Thank you for showing us what humanity looks like. Please take care of yourself — survivor’s guilt is real. Get checked again. Talk to someone.

*To serving corps members in Maiduguri and other camps:*
1. *Hydrate like your life depends on it* — because it does. Borno heat + drills = dehydration kills fast.
2. *Don’t “tough it out”* — Fever, vomiting, weakness? Report to clinic _immediately_. Day 1, not Day 3.
3. *Buddy system*: If your bunkmate is sick, tell officials and watch them. Don’t nurse alone.
4. *Ask questions*: What hospital does your camp use? Is there an ambulance? Is there a doctor after 6pm?

*NYSC, NCDC, Federal Ministry of Health — we need answers:*

1. *Release a statement*: Confirm Lohina’s full name, cause of death, and steps taken.
2. *Audit Maiduguri camp medical facility*: Staffing, drugs, referral protocol, ambulance readiness.
3. *Test the camp*: If two people fell ill, check water source, food, dorms. Prevent an outbreak.
4. *Compensate the family*: Not just condolences. She died serving Nigeria. That means something.

*To Lohina’s family:*

We don’t know you, but we mourn with you. Your daughter left home to serve her country and didn’t return. She made a friend in 6 days who loved her enough to bathe her and hold her hand. She mattered. Her name is Lohina Bamaiyi Ajegena. We will say it.

*“I didn’t get to tell you, but I have fallen in love with you.”* Pamela’s words will haunt every parent sending a child to camp next batch.

NYSC is mandatory. Safety should be too.

If you’re a corps member or ex-corper, share: What was medical care like in your camp? Has anything changed?

And if you’re going to camp soon: Pack meds, ORS, and insist on being heard if you feel sick. Lohina couldn’t speak for herself at the end. We have to speak for her now.

Rest well, Lovina. 🕯️
RomanceRe: What Do You Do As A Guy, When She Says No? by essentialone(op): 4:08pm On Apr 30
Ebubu6:
after she says no, will u delete her number or keep it but avoid sending money and chatting her to kill her boredom
If she says No, I will surely delete her number and move on...

Why keep her and keep chatting her to kill boredom? Which boredom exactly?
CareerRe: What are the Best Career Paths in Nigeria? by essentialone(op): 11:13am On Apr 30
Isobug:
Health care
Marine Engineering, very hierarchical career
Marine Engineering? Wow
RomanceRe: What Do You Do As A Guy, When She Says No? by essentialone(op): 10:04am On Apr 29
Next her and move on...
RomanceRe: She Asks For Money After Sex by essentialone(m): 7:55am On Apr 29
Hmmm.

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