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You sound like a man who has been given a hard kick in the butt once or twice and hasn't picked it off the floor since then, your past may have taught you that love isn't worth the hassle but if that is the lesson you took away from those experiences, than you walked away bitter and not better. At least you sound bitter so I'm going to assume you are.
I think what you really wanted to ask was 'I've been hurt in love before and now that I've got it all in life i want to love again but I'm terrified, how can i love again?

First,you need to get over what ever some dumb ass girl must have done to you in the past and move on.so she hurt you and so freaking what? we've all been hurt by someone we love, letting it influence you into making wrong choices doesn't make you right, it makes you immature because learning the right lesson from pain makes you grow up.

Secondly,you need to get your mentality set straight.You don't have to get married if YOU don't see the need to. God saw a need with Adam before he gave Eve. Men who don't see a need for a woman but still go ahead to get one end up messing up her purpose and compromising theirs in the process. So if you don't see the need for a wife,no one here can convince you of it, come back when you see the need to get married and maybe you might get answers that won't cause you to smirk or huff in disdain,

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sure,why not? as long as a man can date me for a whole year without asking me for sex or without trying to feel me up!

zero, i don't believe you men can't zip it in, or women can't keep to one man.Being faithful is a mind thing and anyone can be faithful as long as you want to be,

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There's APTECH, its along ahmadu bello way after leventis round about or she can try either micro manna or khemsafe computers but i doubt they will pay an awesome amount of cash, good luck though

@Seyi, thanks a bunch seyi, i thought as much too,
Many people lack an intimate relationship with God and tend to relie on prophets to 'hear' for them on thier behalf.It's disheartening to see people go off the track that God has set for thme because of what a prophet has said.

What would you do if you had been in a relationship for a long while and over the course of your relationship,every prophet you went to told you that you would end up miserable with the man you were going out with? what if God had told you differently? would you trust what God told you or what more than one prophet says about your relationship? would you still continue or would you break up?

Can we have a board where aspiring actresses and actors have access to information about movie auditions or adverts?
Is there anyone in the house who has such information?

Are you a blithering idiot?
GEJ has only been elected president for what three days and you're already pinning the violence in the north on him?
I totally agree with you, you should have stayed at home and kept your vote.People like you have absolutely no idea about how things are run in this country.
I live in kaduna and while i know that people were killed your information that dead bodies are strewn all over the place is horribly inadequate.I doubt that you have ever been to Kaduna at all!
The violence unfolding in the north simply has nothing to do with GEJ and everythig to do with hungry jobless yaro boys who are being brainwashed by their so called spiritual leaders.Get your facts straight before you go blabbing around the entire place! Mcshewww!

There seems to be a lot of confusion about who to get married to these days.People are getting married for the wrong reasons and the divorce rate is shooting through the roof, People in the house who are married Christians should please let us young blood know, How did you guys know whom to marry? Did you seek God? Did he talk to you and say 'this is the one? were prophets who 'see' involved? gut instinct? How? and are you dead right about your choice at the end of the day? Please help! I'm about to end a six year relationship because I'm not sure God wants me to be with him; I've prayed and even fasted but i think what i want is getting mixed up with what God wants so i don't hear clearly.Your accounts might help me out, please,

There seems to be a lot of confusion about who to get married to these days.People are getting married for the wrong reasons and the divorce rate is shooting through the roof, People in the house who are married Christians should please let us young blood know, How did you guys know whom to marry? Did you seek God? Did he talk to you and say 'this is the one? were prophets who 'see' involved? gut instinct? How? and are you dead right about your choice at the end of the day? Please help! I'm about to end a six year relationship because I'm not sure God wants me to be with him; I've prayed and even fasted but i think what i want is getting mixed up with what God wants so i don't hear clearly.Your accounts might help me out, please,

Hi there, Im really interested in your ad and ive checked out your addresses;they seem to check out butit doesn't look like you have a website address? You have to understand that most people,Nigerians in particular are wary about these kind of posts cause the next thing you know,you've been scammed so if you're for real,put up an email address please, thanks!

@bk/babe90, You're too kind sir, too kind,

Nah! Far from it! When i see a prettier chic i simply go , but for the fact that i am female, *sigh*, im a woman but i loooovveee women! pretty ones that is, Im confident of my own beauty, why turn green at another woman coz she is finer? There may be the temporary bout of wishing i had her lips or her height or her eyes,but when all is wished, i still love me,

Dude, while I'm not judging you or anything like that,i just want to let you know that it's quite normal to be in a long term relationship and feel the urge to sleep with someone else.You're only human, what wouldn't be human however is what you are suggesting.You should be extremely wary of someone who would suggest that you have an ''open'' relationship in the name of trying to salvage a relationship, if i were your girlfriend,and you told me you had the urge to sleep with other women,I'd break up with you if we both couldn't find common ground and let you go shag out your life, an open relationsip is an excuse to be selfish, an 'éat your cake and have it all attitude, it's a pathetic excuse to on the part of both parties involved to avoid being fully committed to one person.I can bet you that if you go into this,your relationship with her won't last long.If you can't stick to your woman after five years in a relationship and want to go tasting other honey combs now,what makes you think you will be able to stick with her during marriage wwhatare you going to do? have an open marriage Is that what you want your kids to learn? Life isn't all about you and what you need you know, it's also about doing the right thing, so dude? do the right thing and stop being selfish, both of you!

Sodomy is defined as the exclusion of the Instruments in the act of pre-intimacy to bring pleasure and involves MouthAction as well, it also includes homosexuality and lesbianism.so yeah,they are the same thing, MouthAction is part of sodomy.

I stumbled on what i consider a really shocking discovery recently.What most people eupheminize as giving head or going down on your partner is actually an unbiblical act! MouthAction has been classified as one of the unnatural acts of sex and therefore anyone who engages in it is probably committing a sin, im not talking kissing and the rest but the MouthAction and cunninglingus.
what do you guys think? is MouthAction within the context of marriage wrong?

Right! While we at the subject of cuisine,can anyone in the house tell me how to cook oha or ora soup? And edikian ko? I really want to learn how to make some ibo soups, thanks

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This is good news! Violence against women has been condoned too long in Nigeria.Lets hope that this judgment will spill into the homes of the average Nigerian wife beater

I never heard it said that a man died because he didn't have sex in a long while.I think you don't have much to keep you busy.Have you tried attending salsa lessons? They are quite affordable.Not only do you get to keep yourself busy,you get to meet some single hot chicks and rub up against them, Lets hope that's as far as you will get! mcheeeewww!!!

Try not to be stupid dude.If someone walked up to you and asked if they could disvirgin your 10year old sister you would be okay with it abi? leave that girl alone! If you can't control your sexual urges,let her go, wacky man!

If he didn't touch me and we slept on the same bed together,I would be amazed and quite pleased;like one of the girls said,Im tired of them putting thier greasy paws all over me and getting one who won't crowd my personal space will be greeeeaaattt!