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I'm finding myself to be growing up with with my child-like rose-colored glasses, at least most times, thank God.


Maybe that is why I never have a response to the "what did you regret/what are you regretting questions?" Even if I am making obviously silly decisions in the moment, I do not think it a regrets afterwards. Like never. It's like I am incapable of feeling it.

Anyway, I realise this might not put me in the best position to speak on the topic... I may be unrealistically biased.

BoldBrainz:
You have a very skewered understanding of the concept of "misogyny".

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Badadvisor:
No Bro i have sent several mails to both banks and still stories on stories.
Try to make a transfer to one of your contact who's not registered with opay, omit the first number and you'd see the details of the person even if he or she never registered with opay.
I'm 100 percent sure about what I'm saying

I'm talking about the person you sent money to.

Tell the person to actually download the Opay app, and register with their phone number (the one showing the app). The money should be there

DrayZee:
OP please don't be in a haste to sell the phone. I really need this phone right now.
I'm offering 1.2 million, my MacBook Pro and 2 plots of land in Ikoyi (with C of O).
We can still negotiate if you are not okay with the price.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What is this?

Techcrunchng:
can i swap it with my Benz c350

Ediot. 😂🤣

BoldBrainz:
Everytime Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that! If you don't like them, don't date them! Those of us who can manage their madness will date them like that.

Nice one. "Defending" Nigerian women by being misogynistic to women in general.

'Manage their madness'. Lmao.👍

Badadvisor:
All those money are gone tried everything to get it back but nothing positive up till today.

Criminal entity

Have the person actually open an account with that money.

It is still there; they should be able to get it once they have access to the account.

Some have shared that it worked for them like that.

Persephone1:

As long as it's not to "find husband"
I'm small size nah 😃 Petite lady.

This reminds me of a discussion I had wife my mum's pastor some weeks ago. I was at her place and the man wanted to convince me to come to church. I was paying attention to him ooo until he said " when you come to church, get involved in church activities, the lord will settle you and give you a husband. Nne I just log out, he went on and on about a brother that found his wife in a church he pastored before bla bla bla. When he finished I told him plainly that this is why I don't like adult church o or attending church at all. Everything about a woman to them is marriage Find husband, have a home. Pastor open mouth for a while then went on and on on how I shouldn't allow Satan and feminist lie to me lol see ehn I just weak. I asked him questions when I started feeling guilty about putting a man of God on hot seat, I told him I will come to church and work for God while I'm at moms place but it's because it is what it's right to do and not because of man.

He Sha let me go after two hour of lectures

Oh, so pastor knows our antics already.

It's good to know our message is permeating the offline small small.


Likeee, the whole of Jesus' existence is literally glaring for us to see that marriage is a choice. It is optional. And someone's life isn't useless if they are not doing so quick enough.

You're petite?? ?? ?? ?? Whyyy do I always think you were tall? You appeared so the few times I've seen you.


See now that there are literally women, lots of them willing to get married o, but ndi online alfas will not let us rest. These are women that will accept their conditions 100% and more, but they'd rather die fantasising about controlling unwilling women than go to meet the ones who are ready to accept them wholly. Silly people.

Persephone1:
My bobo ke? Maggie no put me for trouble o I'm boboless on Nl biko. Of course no doubt I like intelligent minds but it's just that

The thread is a breath of fresh air 🤣

Lol...it's alright. I understand ❤🧡💛💚.

Persephone1:
Heaven knows I can't attend a church like this

Dey play.

Somewhere I am dragging both of us to by December. We're getting too old and have been troublesome enough on NL. It's high time we stopped.

Send me your measurements ASAP, make I go price gown.

pocohantas:
Yes na. It is a lady. The main alpha female. Suddenly they know registry also gives them some security. I thought they don't benefit from marriage? Nonsense liars and manipulators.

🍻. Nahhh, that lady is something.

In the minds of these men here, they actually consider the OP to be a simp and not one like them abi?

I can't laugh.

Didn't the OP say that he's an ardent user hiding under a yet anonymous moniker? And he's bragging about giving someone emotional trauma?

I am very sure that the guy is one of you who's bragged about being a strong man at one point or the other and called other men simps and insulted single moms. And all of these is just letting me see that y'all will be simps to some woman in your life, sooner or later.

But make una dey cap dey go. Online la wa.

Fountainofyouth:
This guy and connecting everything to psychology 🤣🤣🤣

Nahhhh. Fr. That is like her signature persona on here. Or make she tell you say she don see your type (not you) for psych ward before. You don't even have to see the moniker first, you go don know. 😂

Persephone1:


No time to be typing in foreign language, he should make his point clear and brief.

Lol Layi! One of my favorite TikToker . Crazy dude with long legs.

So we gather dey? Layians for life, fam 👊.

Persephone1:
I don land ooo. Make I run through the thread fess. I dey see emotional trauma

Euo niaa bring bazooka when you are coming


MODIFIED:

There's no need for bazooka, Poco don use machine gun finish the thread self

I did not fuvking see this quick enough!!!!!!

But damn, I am still feeling the after-shock of violence as I am reading like this.

pocohantas:
I will add 2 crates.

Sooooo, a lady is the one in question?!!!! I never would have guessed! When I saw the topic on FP, I said I was going to avoid because I thought it was a woman coming to complain that her man doesn't want a court wedding, and I know the direction the comments would take.

So, what exactly is the problem now that a woman is saying she doesn't want one?? Should he not be jumping for joy and screaming to the high heavens?

Persephone1:
Lemme finish my sugarcane fess, I will be back to comment

As if I knew! So this thread was written by your bobo.

When I saw the topic and your comment, and I saw it wasn't the usual man/woman kind, I was wondering why you commented, and I thought (who?) panso fist must have written it.

He wasn't the one, but it turned out to be someone close.

Persephone1:
Lemme finish my sugarcane fess, I will be back to comment

E don finish abi e still remain? Wey ma own?

Kaycee54321:
I can understand why you feel this way. But trust me, nobody is a robot. Everyone is really tough when it comes to other people's stories...but there's a reason it's called a curve ball... just hope that it never comes at you...'cause, you'd think you've got it all figured out and boom, it slips through.

We can agree to disagree though - but it's easy to have mapped out strategies and this I-expect-the-worst-from-anybody attitude, so can never be you.

But it can be you.

Right?

Likewise you and the other guy don't know that you will confront a cheating partner heads on, boiling and flying off the handle when you're in the same position.

I perfectly agree with you. I may be not be rational-minded and stone cold in my approach as I have painted; and you may be too stunned to numbness, and withdrawn into yourself vwhen you're faced with such.

Like all of these talk about values, and having dignity as a man who won't allow his wife sleep around may just end on here. Online la wa, so anybody (woke or traditional) fit project as dem like.

It's good.

Just another case of a man dodging accountability for something he orchestrated with his own hands. Absolutely nun new here.

Kaycee54321:
In a relationship (not necessarily, marriage), what you naturally expect when you catch/confront a cheating partner is denials, apologies or a tearful break. You don't expect that your partner will go a step further to decommission you totally.

Oh, and I remember this. While ideally, one should be open and comfortable with their partner, and shouldn't put off having difficult discussions, because they are scared of their response or "punishment", cheating has entered the picture here and so, thrown everything off balance. So by all means, employ a cost-benefit analysis or whatever business technique you need to protect yourself. Cheating itself is already an aberration in a monogamous relationship jointly sworn to. If they can cheat, they can do anything else.