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Op ,this is aresult of where u grew up. Not all men treat women like thrash. Their are still some good men out der,who dont reciprocate with hatred

sinaj:
Naija sef tire me!

Why demolish it when it can be converted to something else or evn sold nd d money used for something else

Can u really buy that building and let ur family live there knowing fully well about all manner of atrocities that had taken place there.

uyplus:
It costs you nothing to pay tithe, really? I can place a bet that you don't earn good money!! I stand firm on my belief that most people who pay tithe are broke people, because they think it'll multiply the money they own. God is not a Ponzi scheme! You even went further to ask if people read their bible, do you read yours? Where in the bible is it recorded Jesus and his disciples took and paid tithes? You are paying because it's an age long practice. Smh! Read Deuteronomy 14 22 to 29.

Really! is that how u were raised,so u are a great seer. Well even if i agree with what u said about not earning anything atall i still stand with what i wrote up there. U can bet ur life on it or swear on it all the way.

Nosikebit:
you are 100% wrong .. you eventually become who you marry. Even the bible said it dat man and woman will come together and become one. If you get married to a stingy woman eventually you will start becoming stingy no matter how free giving you are. If you get married to a dirty person, you will start embracing dirtiness. That's why people change after marriage. The mystery that i am still trying to uncover is why couple start looking alike after marriage. Believe it or not marriage is a very powerful bond twining souls together

And am sure if u eventually marry an armed robber,prostitute,gay,murderer,etc u eventually become one. So tell me why we dont follow our parents or siblings career or way of life. Ur write up is actually still very wrong.

mindeed:
Are you Nigerian, female and a parent? I write to inform you that indeed you have failed my generation, woefully and deeply. How so you ask? I’ll go straight to the point. By breeding rapist males. I have come to realize that Nigerian boys grow up without been enlightened on sex education. The parents do nothing to educate their sons on what is permissible with respect to sexual assault, molestation and rape. Instead boys are left to learn from movies, peers and colleagues on what is morally right, wrong and criminal.

So they go on making statements like "Konji na bastarrd" BASICALLY admitting that they have absolutely no control over their sexual urges, that is, once aroused, “NO” expires as an option. Many males in this country would blatantly admit to you that once a girl visits you at home or in the hostel, then they’ve silently granted green light to sex away.

For those mothers who still have growing kids, please try to teach your sons:

Not to caress a female sleeping close by
Not to have forceful sex with female guests
Not to press your bulge on the back of a female whilst on a queue
Not to make any assumptions that a “green light” has been granted

Nigerian men please stop the RAPE!!!!

Go and gather sense of topic/headline construction.

This is the same advise i will give my own blood. Run...... she hasnt changed ,probably wants to settle down and needs a dumb guy.
10 guys
4 guys half of the year
Probably some abortions ,plus she is cheating on u. I usually dont give advice like this cos no one is perfect but the worse is ur girl isnt even changed 1 bit.

Elvixbeatz:
I know dis is from my own point of view.... But just hv to say it.
wen my uncle got married nd ask d wife to quite her job nd stay at home ,I saw it as a foolish nd a poor mentality move, I was proven otherwise last year . i was in a relationship with a gurl and when we startd dating she was not doing anitin lk workwise so together we prayd search all corners for a miracle in da form of a job .
So wen dis our sole desire was not forth coming i adviced her to learn a handwork despite her uni degree, so she decided to learn bead making. Cn u imaging dat immediately she strted learning dis she stop calling entirely, I was d one always calling until it dawn on me one day nd i asked her bt she claimd she was always busy , I asked her lk busy both weekends wn u are at home She still hid under d shades of being busy.. I took every tin cool, Minding less becos i needed my emotional stability to stay on my job..
Finally God answered our job prayers, Then it moved from not picking mi calls to only chats I complained bt she still brought d initial tlk of work busy. Finally her atitude changed .. She was so authoritative wen she tlks to me , respect zero becos she s earning sometin now.... In all and all i let d whole tin go down... Dats we broke up...nd it saved me a lot (my focus)

If i was not emotionally strong wat would hv been d case?. . Now i go with My uncle wit d sit at home wife becos women can hardly distinguish between career and relationships or even family....

What you went through is called 'experience' and that is what every human being goes through ,we have our experiences,and we learn from it .however picking the bad side only from ur own experience doesnt make ur story well perceived or are u also telling me ur daughters wont go to school simply because they will end up breaking the heart of any man they are in relationship with?

If u are looking on quiting the relationship,this is not really a big issue. Talk to her about it and make sure u get a firm and concrete answer cos bringing it here will give ur fiance unprintable names by people who dont really know her or u

Talk to someone and also consider a rehab. He his going to self destruct and ruin his life if u guys watch him and think he will change.

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Only pple there can tell u
Lies
Deceit
Envy
Jealousy
Backbitting
Backwardness
Waywardness
Stealing
Quarelling
Noise
Pretence
Hatred
Fetish activities etc.

Men also do worse things,impregnating another woman and keeping it only for u to find out after the man is dead.
Some human beings are wicked , not men , not women.

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Lies, husband are superior to there wives by being yhe head of the family not men or women. Their are female bosses who are head of an org .

Alot of women cheat because they aint getting love and affection from there husbands. Dnt mind ur friend the truth is that he is not in love with anybody so he doesnt mind passing his negative vibes to another. We actually dont know why we care so much for pple we love . Love is never too much it just comes out the right or wrong time.

When they tell u distant creates a great gap in relationship u guys wont listen. The truth is that in as much as what ur wife did is really bad ,i mean betraying u like that u still have to know she has blood flowing through her veins . Try to find out if they have taken it above mere words or if they are now physically seeing themselves.

Its good to help ur family especially when u have it, but when they want to take it for granted or make it seem like its a must then i just bring out my unreasonable sef. Am the first by the way and have learnt some younger ones rely on u financially and once they are good to go and start making money then they hoard theirs when u want help. Families are our back bone but can also be a pain in the hip if u are not watchful. So save for ur own rainining days too.

Because women are not coming out to tell u they are the bread winner,just because of what society will say doesnt mean they are not.
There are lotta men who got pushed up by there women ,dont be fooled into believing women are baggages in marriage.
P.s- the real reason women get married isnt for financial gain .

UbanmeUdie:




Until her belle becomes bigger than her two breez combined, she remains an 'agan' of no significance.

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Useless wife of a careless husband!

I wanted to ignore this but i thought i should call ur attention to what u wrote up there and ask if the 'agan' in quote is the yoruba meaning of barren or means something elsebin ur language. If it is then u better go ahead and ask God to forgive u before that name falls back on u and i dont mean only children wise only.

Yes i can, let me see the newspaper outlet that will carry it as front page news.
Sleep if u want to, only tradional pple take this things to be a big deal;especially when they are not boxed up.

U will beat my daughter and still threaten me, i will just ask u to stroll into the bush.

DrinkLimca:
What does she do for a living apart from sucking cocks of private jet owners?

At least she is sucking matured wealthy c....s, not small boys like utha t will go around doing kiss and tell. Ur writes ups are bad ,come back in somevyears time and check them,am sure u will be ashamed.

DrinkLimca:
They both are crying because they will miss their marathon sex together..

Now i believe u are sick.

DrinkLimca:
Years of thorough banging of her vagina has finally paid..

She is someone's mum and also a wife.how would u like someone to say that about ur mother. Use ur head and stop typing trash all in the name of been annonymous.

All this inlaws that will come and perch in ur house,eat ur food,but safe there money . Junior inlaws are trouble talk more of the elderly ones. Stand ur ground cos ones he enters u can begin to count years again.
Things are better when u meet once in a while ,once u begin to accomodate each other then they start seeing ur flaws and u start seeing theres and it actually takes a matured man to stand with his woman. Am emphasizing on the man more cos they tend to be the ones that loves there family most .

I disagree with the believe that spouses turn ur heart against ur own family,its just what u accepted. He is not doing the right thing towards his parents ,siblings can deal wiv there own life ,but u owe parents alot.

Most pple here just spilling rubbish, some of ur parents are collecting bribe,giving bribe,stealing govt funds,defrauding pple etc and still used the money to sendvu to school so u can type tyis rubbish about man who has been able to keep a job with a billiinaire.
If u know how hard it is to work for a millionaire talk more of a billionaire and still hold down the job for 20 years then u definately will have a rethink.

U dont even have a right to castigate anyone who isnt a virgin or looking to marry a virgin if u have had fornicated before. Every disvirgined girl has once been a virgin.

Omg! The drugs u took really lite ur brain up.

Many pple havent even fully read the bible themselves on tithe but they are following freeze as usual as a typical nigeria and also following the words of any pastors. Read ur bible and u will get ur truth there.
Am continuing with my tithe cos it was stated there in the bible and practiced since ages.i t cost me nothing to give ten percent of my income to God and if at the end the pastors misuse it then let the wraugth of God be upon them. If u aint convinced when u read ur bible u can also stop paying it but let it be a decision u understand and stand on firmly.

december7:
There are some errand you don't do normally but when one is idle, woman go stylishly turn you to a maid. You no fit understand and God no go let you understand

I no fit understand because u be alien and i be human ba.the fact is u do what works for ur family as a man which includes droping ur ego and lead,Just like christ did,dont find an ewsy way out by abandoning ur wife and children and send them tokens and come here to say i cant understand.

I wanted to say calm down and and not divorce her,but on a second thought it wont be a bad idea as long as u know this thing might repeat itself with anoda woman,if u decide to marry again.
Do the needful which is dust urself up and go look for job. And what do u mean by errand boy? I hope it is not attending to ur family needs u call errand cos u will be so surprise some rich pple do it.