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EricMason:
Bro
Mission abort
I repeat
Abort abort!!!!

Very funny but I must agreed with what he said...

Speaking as a lady, I won't say you shld confront her cos I know she ll start another round of emotional blackmail.. As hard as it may sound.. ABORT THAT. MISSION..

[quote author=queensera post=73061654]A lady was, today, left bloodied by her husband for allegedly slamming the door against him at their Abuja home.

According to the remorseless husband, he had warned her, on several occasions, against the act, but she has refused to change, hence the beating.

However, an eyewitness, in a chat said: “I am so bitter this evening. I was sleeping when noise in the neighborhood woke me up, so I rushed out to see what was happening.

Behold, a woman lying down on the ground with a lot of blood. I asked people what happened and I was told that the husband beat her to that extent.

I looked and saw the husband still quarreling with people who came to know what the wife did. He spoke with no sign of remorse towards people and even attempted fighting people too.

I was told he has been maltreating and assaulting his wife for 2years now, but the wife can’t summon courage to go because her parents are dead and she doesn't know anywhere else to go.

I asked about her relations, if any is Abuja, but they said they don't know. I could see the wife’s pain.

Even though she was bleeding people around didn’t really care about her state of health. No one offered to take her to hospital. All they were just doing was heaping curses on the husband but totally ignored the bleeding wife.

Police later came and took both to their station. This man will definitely kill that woman one day if he is not stopped. According to the husband, she banged the door against him, despite warning her not to do that.”

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THIS IS SIMPLY FRUSTRATION AT WORK..
INASMUCH AS I DO NOT TAKE SIDES WITH THE LADY ..BUT BEATING HER TILL SHE BLED IS JUST TOO BARBARIC FOR A MERE BANGING OF DOOR

neey1028:
Diamond bank is worst....for more than a month now, they have refused to reverse my money after an unsuccessful ATM withdrawal...so shameful#0041367310#

LET ME TELL YOU THE QUICKEST WAY OUT.. WRITE A FORMAL COMPLAINT/REQUEST FOR A REVERSAL ON A PLAIN SHEET OF PAPER.. OF COURSE ADDRESSING IT TO THE BRANCH MANAGER OF THE BRANCH NEAREST TO YOU OR ANY OF THEIR BRANCHES YOU INTEND TO USE.. ASK THE CUSTOMERCARE FOR A PHOTOCOPY OF THE DUELY RECEIVED REQUEST.

PLS MAKE SURE IT'S DUELY RECEIVED. I MEAN SVed( YOUR SIGNATURE VERIFIED) WITH THE CUSTOMERCARE SIGNATURE AND TIME STAMPED.

YOU LL SEE THEM RUNNING AROUND TO RESOLVE YOUR ISSUE..

THE TRUTH IS THIS: BANKS DO NOT LIKE CORRESPONSE SUCH AS THAT.. COS IT'S PRESUME THAT THE CUSTOMER MIGHT HEAD TO HIS LAWYER AND SUCH CAN AND LL BE USED AS GOOD EVIDENCE AGAINST THEM

NOC1:
He should get a good lawyer, ask for the photocopy of the form he submitted asking for the account to be blocked, with the date it was signed you will know and compare it with the date of the tranfer via your account details.
Naturally without a lawyer you will get your money if you disturb the bank.

Did you say ask for a photocopy of the form he submitted? My dear that form must ve been torn to shreds by now... And there ll be no evidence to back that claim.. Let's not talk of CCTV camera cos it doesn't capture voices.. That's why it is advisable and safest to write your request yourself on a plainsheet of paper for personal account holders, on your company letter headed paper for corporate accounts and your request surly received with your signature verified and letter time stamped by customer care... Of course you ll go home with the photocopy for future reference in times like this..

If all these re in place, then he can go to bed.. Mere writing with such attachment to the bank ll get his money refunded to his account ASAP

maestroferddi:
See this financial illiterate o..

You don't even know what is meant by "limit"..

Account officer is now CBN...

Maybe your yahoo yahoo account officer sets ATM daily withdrawable limits...

YOUNGMAN, TRANSFER LIMITS CAN BE INCREASED OF DECREASED... IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE ACCOUNT HOLDER..

bunmiano:
I've been a member of Nairaland since 2012 and I'm very frequent with the business section.

I have a very serious issue that has been a pain on my neck and I will try as much as I can to summarize everything

I sent a sum of N1m to a Uber taxi driver's account number on the 20th October, 2018. This money was a part payment bill for one of my family members who is battling with a life-threatening health issues. That happened about 4 weeks ago.

This is how the whole thing happened

A friend of mine paid me a courtesy visit and when he was about leaving, I used my rider app to request a ride for him and the driver came and took him to his destination. He told my friend the estimated cost of the fare was N4,800 but my friend didn't even bother to check because he felt he probably would not lie about it.

My friend called and told me the fare was N4,800 and I requested for the Uber taxi driver's account number after which I made the payment. The next day (20th October), I needed to make a transaction of N1m to someone for a part payment bill of my family member's treatment oblivious of the fact that I actually made the payment to the Uber taxi driver's account number. This was because I added him in my beneficiary when I wanted to make the payment.

I went to the rider app to get his contact, only for me to realize he actually inflated the fare from N3,400 to N4,800 which I literally paid for. You can see he's not an honest person but I wasn't really bothered about that.

I called and pleaded to him to refund the 1m I sent to his account. At first, he acted as if he didn't receive any money but after series of calls, he later confirmed it. I sent my account details to him and he promised to refund me on Monday as it was weekend.

Monday came and the dude started acting funny. He would pick my calls and remain silent. There were times he gave the phone to a lady to talk to me. Sometimes he yelled at me to stop disturbing him, and a point, he even stopped picking my calls

I mailed Uber and narrated everything that transpired. They responded requesting for evidence to back up my claim which I provided. I took screenshots of the first (inflated fare) and second payment and attached it to my massage. They responded telling me I should exercise patience and that they will look into my issue

It's been 4 weeks now and Uber has been lackadaisical towards this issue. I have messaged them several times and they seem to be less concerned about it.
With the way Uber has been acting towards this issue, one could conclude that they're trying to cover up this guy. Someone that can easily call and resolve this issue.

They have just been acting like they're more concerned about their own pockets than customer's satisfaction. I expect them to have taken up the issue for properly investigation despite providing solid evidence.

Please everyone! I have tried and I'm already fed up. Their customer care is my last resort but they have been nonchalant despite knowing the name, vehicle type, and license plate number of someone working for them. Even the Uber driver in question has failed to refund the money and has been avoiding me.

I went to the bank recently and his account has been frozen but I haven't been able to get my money

This country is just messed up. Even the police aren't helping matters. They are demanding their own share of about 150k

Mods please help my situation by pushing this to the front page

Below are the screenshots of everything

Op, firstly it's called 'an errorenous transfer' and it's treated by asking your bank for a 'RECALL OF FUNDS'.
But I must say you found out quiet late and you weren't proactive.. You wld ve called the beneficiary's (uber driver's) bank immediately and a lien wld ve been placed on the N1m while you call your bank requesting for a recall of funds pending when you get to your bank to submit a formal request for a recall of funds..

Freezing his account isn't the issue here.. Is the N1m still in the account? Or you just ended up freezing an empty account?.. Sorry to say you acted so naive by trusting the driver to refund the money. You wasted so much time and we all know Cotonou isn't that far from Lagos.. Let's just hope he is still in Nigeria cos I trust my brothers :No slacking.

However if the funds re still in the account, go to your bank and do a recall of funds.. You might need to get a good account officer to follow up that request since the beneficiary is not willing to give a consent to the release of the funds.. Asking you to do a follow up ll be as good as impossible. We all know you are not proactive. No offence intended

But if the funds are no longer in his account, you might ve to get a lawyer to help out in this...

Trust me, this ll definitely work... I just did same for a friend. Although hers was N500k

Goodluck

maestroferddi:
I can smell emptiness from a mile...

One million is nothing yet I wager you are not worth beyond this cheap Android phone you carry about like a fortune...

You don't get it, do you?

SHE IS RIGHT AND YOU RE VERY WRONG....

maestroferddi:
Your limit is purportedly 6 mil...

What is the highest amount you have wired out?

Have you heard of Anti Money Laundering requirements?

PLS KEEP QUIET. IT'S OBVIOUS YOU ARE NT KNOWLEDGEABLE ENOUGH WITH RESPECT TO ISSUES OF TRANSFER LIMIT

JoseVanMoyes:
u r lying, what's ur daily transfer limit....

IF YOU TRANSFER LIMIT IS N10K, DO YOU THINK OTHERS VE NT GONE PASS THAT PENNILESS LIMIT?

MicNz:
He should have withdrawn all his money before demanding for a closure of the account.


Financial service providers are not allowed to close accounts containing customers' money therein.


I just hope he recovers from this sha...

ARE YOU SURE? PLS VERIFY COS I DON'T THINK YOU RE CORRECT..

WHAT IS DONE IS UPON CLOSURE OF ANY ACCT. A DRAFT OF THE AMOUNT LEFT IN THE ACCT IS RAISED IFO OF THE CUSTOMER....

BUT I KNOW MOST BANKS DO NIT LIKE THE IDEA OF CLOSING AN ACCT.. BUT ACCOUNTS CAN BE CLOSED ON REQUEST BY THE CUSTOMER

[quote author=almakiyyun post=73042756][/quote]EVERY MAN HIS CHOICE...
ABEG FREE THEM

almakiyyun:
Over age couple.
Am yet to see a young intending couple, everywhere, prewedding pics of overage couple. Women who are about reaching menopause.

HAVE YOU NOT HEARD THIS 'THE OLDER,THE SWEETER?

LuciferMessiah:
Are all Nigerian women obese?!

Negodu this evening newspaper?
Why is she laughing?

She's getting married at 43 & she's laughing?

I trust menopause. If pocohantas cannot give birth at 34 is it this fermented jahpu that will?

*spits

ABEG GO DRINK 'OTAPIAPIA' IF YOU CAN'T BE HAPPY FOR HER... ..

CONGRATULATIONS DEAR AND HML TO BOTH OF YOU.. HANDSOME GUY YOU VE GOT THERE AS HUSBAND -TO-BE

jericco1:
you're a liar. you think this is joke section?

AND WHY DO YOU THINK IT'S A LIE?
FOR YOUR INFO. MY YOUNGER BROTHER IS A VICTIM OF THIS SCENARIO JUST PAINTED HERE

gaskiyamagana:
PDP's looting of our treasury is still fresh in our memory. Whatever the party and its members has for us should be reserved for 2023 when PMB must have drained lootkmea in their blood.

And what about the looting going on in this administration?

Mccullum:
Stop derailing from the bone of contention, a Christian fanatic sighted!

TERRORIST SPOTTED

OfficialMURIC:
Nigeria is a multi religious society, with predominantly muslim population. Even in advanced countries, muslims girls are not denied their Allah-given right to wear hijab. Christians must and cannot dictate how we dress or look. We all know this Islamaphobia is orchastrated by CAN in order to morally corrupt our muslim ummah. We will resist this. Time to hide and bide is over. Like it or not, the new norms governing how schools in Nigeria treat muslims are being established now.

In your wildest dream... LAZY LOTS...

ARE YOU GUYS TIRED OF KILLING AS A MEANS OF ROPAGATING YOUR RELIGION? FOR YOUR LOTS, EVWRYTHING IS BY FORCE.. KEEP LEAVING IN STONE AGE.. TERRORISTS

HigherEd:
This muric is crazy. When the Christians decided to advance the cause of christianity through education they started planting schools aggresively rather than fighting useless fight round the country.
Today those churches decide the ground rules for everyone who school with them and there is no wahala.
If muric wants schools where muslim girls would be covered head to toe under blazing hot sun then muric should go and establish them instead of ranting all over the place.
If winners chapel can plan to build 5,000 primary schools in a decade span then what stops the entirety of muslims to build theirs and run it the way they like.

Exactly my point...

MISSSIONARIES PLANTED THESE SCHOOLS.. SO LET THEM DO LIKEWISE

Mccullum:
British imposed their Christian's way of dressing in all public and schools by using face cap for the boys while girls uses beret cap which Christians of Nigeria turn to secular dressing, and Muslims agitated for using of hijab for their daughters, Nigerian Christians complaining seriously.

British denied Muslims to be at home on Friday to enjoy holiday for Jumat prayer while Christians enjoy that by going to church together with their family and Muslims' family pray separately on Friday due to no holiday for Jumat, Muslim parents don't complain.

British impose the cross of Christianity religion as the logo of hospital still Muslims didn't complain.

Some of the Christians hate seeing Muslim girls with hijab but they'll won't complain by seeing catholic sisters with their own style of veils.

ISI teachers are under pay roll of FG and you're claiming that is private school, this is absolute lie, private school my foot.

As South West is concern, all British tactics to impose Christianity in the lives of Muslims which our mothers and fathers survived and resists then as they were forced to add Christians' name before admission to schools and after independent with our constitution which enshrined in it on the right of freedom of religion and freedom of dressing, without violent Muslims ummah will continue to erase all British Christian influence on us through legal battles in competent court of law.

Naaa now una eye clear.. You see the difference ..others were busy establishing schools and other basic infrastructure as means of spreading their religion. But your terrible religion decided to kill and force people to accept theirs...

What does this tell you? 'GO AND DO LIKEWISE' .Cos that mode of spreading your 'Goodnews' is outdated..

NOETHNICITY:
The hijab is the fundamental right of those who chose to wear it. If not , how come whenever the hijab issue lands in court Muslims alws win?

And how is UI school private? Who is the private owner of the school?

Simply go and build the type you want , inculcate your religion in the mode of dressing etc and practise it at your free will. Since that what you want

NOETHNICITY:
Why not ask the question the way?
Will allowing the students wear the hijab remove food from the table?
Who is failing to tolerate the other in this cases?

DO YOU MEAN TOLERATING NONSENSE?

MUST THEY ATTEND THAT SCHOOL? ENROL THEM IN AN ISLAMIC SCHOOL OR ANY OTHER THAT ACCEPTS THAT DRESS CODE..
NAAA BY FORCE.... VERY DELUDED BEINGS

ttshems:
Meaning the kids should nt be modest because the country is a circular state

Is the school uniform not modest enough?
Pls take your confirmed foolishness somewhere else

fiizznation:
My friend don't be an ignorant prick. If you understand the northern political terrain, you would have known that the same reason(s) why a Muslim can't be a governor in plateau state for now is also the same reason(s) why a christian can't be a governor of kaduna state for now.

STUPID POST

henritinecy:
So I started dating this girl about this time last year. Things were rosy because I just came back to the country and I was having much money with me. I tried my best to give her what she wants. As times goes on, earlier on this year, we had a little misunderstanding and I initiated a breakup. Of a truth, the issue was minor and didn’t warrant a breakup. She sent my friends to beg me. We kept on going. Along the line, things became rough for me and suddenly, her respect for me started reducing. She hardly create time for us. She is currently in school in another state while I am in Lagos. At this point, we usually breakup up and come back. They were minor things though but sometimes we don’t talk for a while. The last time it happened, she said if we ever break up again, we are never coming back together. And then, When things started going wrong with me financially, she advised to leave the country that it will better me as well as her. But I declined. Gradually , our seeing time reduced. Sometimes she will be in Lagos and we will see just once or twice and she usually tell me that she is busy that’s why it’s like this.

Fast forward to last month. Her elder sister has a wedding and we needed to travel together. So we used my car. Half way into the journey my car engine knocked. The car had to be towed to Lagos while we continued our journey. She even provided part of te money we used in towing the car back to Lagos as well as paying the rest of the fare till we got to our destination. Meanwhile, She was talking to different guys on the phone though the conversations were not related to us but I felt this jealousy in me. While on the journey I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. I asked her to give me her phone and she did without arguing and even opened it. Then I returned it back to her without going through it. Then I asked her what I can do at this point. Cuz now there is no finance from anywhere coming in. As a matter of fact, I was using that particular car for Taxify and now the engine is down. She said she had told me before but I didn’t listen and that I should leave the country and things will be better for me again. I said okay am going to do it this time. So my mind was to come back to Lagos after the wedding and I sell it off. She was even crying while telling me.

On the day of the marriage I took another car from home and helped with the things I could. Taking her and her friends to and fro with respect to the wedding. The day after the wedding, she called me to come pick her from the hotel her friends that came for the wedding were lodging. I got there and we started taking things to the car I brought from the rooms her friends lodged. On our way to the car, a man stopped her and she was having a conversation with the man. And the man was laughing with her and even exchanging contact. This is a man in the 40s. At this point I was furious but I kept quiet. When she was done she came to the car and we set off for her house. She saw in me that I was angry. She then asked me what was wrong and I told her my mood has changed. She asked me to go drop her at the hotel and that when my mood is back on, I should come pick her. I then tuned back, and she came down. Cuz of the love I have for her, I didn’t want this to degenerate to something else. I came down I told her the act was wrong. She then told me if it’s wrong for her to talk to people and meet people because she is dating me. I said it’s not wrong but me being there, it’s disrespectful and besides there are ways she can tell me to excuse her in order to show that she is concerned about me. She then replied and said am speaking English. I felt so back with that statement. I just dropped her stuffs and drove back home.

When I got home, I sent her a long message on Instagram telling her that I cannot continue in this relationship. That I need my respect back and making money is the only value that will bring my respect back. She replied with just thanks. 3 days later, I couldn’t continue a life without her. I called her in the morning. At this point , she has blocked me from communicating with her on Instagram. I asked her to forgive me for what I said and that I was just frustrated with the way things ain’t going well with me, coupled with my car and finances. She told me that she cannot date me again and has moved on. I thought it was a joke. I kept on begging but she has made up her mind.

Last week, I started talking to her with a random account on Instagram and posed like someone that is interested in her and has feelings for her. I also told her that I am not in the country at the moment and will be back next month. For 5 consecutive days we were talking. She even initiated a video call and I declined. Then I asked her about her relationship and she said it’s complicated. That she hasn’t heard from the guy in 2 weeks. And explained all that happened to him. She revealed so many things to me via that conversation. Then I now called her with my number. She then knew I was the one. I started pleading with her again , telling her that I am sorry. She said she has moved on. That the only language she understands now is money which I cannot offer her. That she is tired of this love thing. That if I beg from now till forever , she is not interested. That I should go and make money. That she needs someone that can pay her bills and that the only thing she can do for me is being friends with me. Of a truth she needs money to pay her school fees plus accommodation fee in school which is upward from N300,000 and I cannot provide that now. So she said she needs someone that can be giving her money and that she has suffered enough; But dating me, she can never do that again.

I love this girl and it’s hard to let go. Maybe with time, I will. But how do I let go of what I feel for her and how can I move ahead at this point? Yes she has motivated me to go make money and be a better person. But it hurts me so bad that after making this money, some other lady will be the one spending the rest of my life with me. Yes I bleeped up by not listening to her when she first asked me to leave the country. And I bleeped up by initiating a breakup due to my frustration. But my heart lies with her and hopefully with time, I will heal and make enough money that this experience will be a thing that will make me smile when I look back and think about it.

Please anyone that has gotten over someone you have been so much emotionally attached to, I need your help towards getting over her because right now, the whole experience is killing me.

Thank You

Sir, pls can you state 3 things she has got to offer you aside sex?
Maybe after responding to this you ll know if you took the wrong step by initiating the break up

highqueen:
Sorry go and make money.
Another good girl will come around.

Sorry that wasn't a good girl.. But a money monger and a vain girl

OP thank God you initiated that break up... If you like keep making money just to 'BUY ' love...
GO WORK ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM PLS

tayyibb:
And you think they are not been mistreated?
Actually they are

The foundation of Nigerian education was based on the idea of our colonial master most if not all were Christian missionaries.
Everything about the structure is in line with Christianity,that is why you can't see anything wrong in it.

We are now an independent nation,our ideology too should be independent,we know there are both Christians and Muslims in this country let accommodate both and stop hiding under secularism, Nigeria is not a secular nation except we want to deceive ourselves.

What is wrong in wearing hijab?will it affect your own dress?
Tell me.The problem stems from the fact that we claim to live together but we fail to understand eachother.
Muslim prays compulsorily 5times a day and part of the requirements is for you to cover what is necessary in your body.If Muslims are not allow to wear hijab,they won't be able to do this obligation anywhere they are whenever there is time for the prayer.

Any thing that is demanded by Muslims are called many names Islamisation, extremism, terrorism.Let stop this and reason intellectually.We are all biased in one way or the other we just don't won't to agree,give us space too what are you afraid of.

Islam is not limited to mosque,it pervades all areas of a Muslim life,he must look at everything with Islamic spectacles and act accordingly.

If it is a private enterprise u can have it in your way but for government owned we both have the right to enjoy it without infringement on our fundamental rights.

STOP BEING SENTIMENTAL...

LEARN TO FOLLOW AND OBEY RULES..

Pajapaja:
So much for intolerance

But do you blame them? A religion full of DESTRUCTION..

WISE and SANE country

CyberWolf:
Must he allow his son to run down the company? Can’t he get another capable hand to run the bank knowing that his son is not capable? Nawa oo

His son isn't capable and should ve been replaced long ago

RTSC:
So once, these unstable banks are swallowed up with the corresponding lose in jobs, the remaining banks will start offering loans to SMEs?
You think buhari can force them to offer loans to SMEs as opposed to creating policies that will encourage such.

Continue. All of us dey here dey look.

My dear help me ask him... Saying what they do not understand..

kennygee:
Na wa o. I could have swore diamond bank is doing well.

Well you shldnt judge the performance of banks by their buildings...

Aquariann:
Good. Another one about to bite the dust. TSA and BVN is really exposing these Nigerian banks. Once upon a time, they were busy giving huge loans to characters like Ben Bruce and other Nigerian billionaires without collateral. After all, several government agencies had multiple bank accounts with them, so no shaking.

Sponsoring politicians was the order of the day as against giving loans to promising small and medium scale businesses whom they'll demand your left kidney and grandfather's balls as collateral in return.

Now, no more excess and free government money, Ben Bruce and co can't repay their bank loans, they are all running around like headless chickens.

After Skye bank, who would have believed Diamond bank is not stable?

Please what you know... You simply wrote trash here..Incompetence was their downfall... And not this thing you wrote

OkaNaUbe:
"Ever. Liked My Person" was lit.


Indomie kids go rush go google now.

That's my best from her.

RIP ma'am