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Albertone:
He only needs the guy's account number and name to start the process.With court order, the bank will be mandated to do the needful.It will be easier for don because he is a celeb so he can't be suspected of having ulterior motives and the bank won't want their reputation to be damaged as he can come online to post about the bank's inefficiency


And who are you referring to as small pikin

Lolzzz. Small pikin talk as usual.. CELEB INDEED

LOLZZZ.. OGA YOUR DON JAZZY HAS GOT NO CASE HERE. OKAY?

Albertone:
All his accounts can be restricted.A court order will suffice and probably a police report.It will be easy for him because he is don jazzy

Really? Small pikin really dey worry you.. Make your almighty don jazzy wait for bank to release the guy's details including address to him. Him go wait old die.lolzz

seunak2016:
u think there won't be some kind of conversation he will show bank? it won't hard for people like DON to speak to manager of the branch and get it sorted. do you know millions of naira people like him leave in his account, bank will not want to fall his hand

So.sorry to say 'small pikin dey worry you'.. Don't you think so?

FOLLYVENTURES:
Extradition? Put a siege? Too much foreign movies ey?

No mind dem

buygala:
He would still be caught if he doesn't return it....tracing him from his bank account and BVN isn't rocket science


Fan just saved himself some jailtime....


No biggie

So you think it's as easy as that?

Jewessgratitudd:
Was going to say the same thing. His account would have been blocked immediately if he had refused to send it and don't jazzy calls his bank.

Naaa so e easy? You ll end up restricting an empty account naaa.. Abeggii

SoftP:
If he hadn't returned it, Jazzy would've reported to his bank, hence they had put a siege in his act or he might possibly face extradition.

Dude was wise and smart enough to act noble


Kini big deal

So you think it's as easy as you make it seem? E never happen to you

BluntTheApostle:


Well, we all know who the leech is here.

Or were not the one angry that some boys you dated in the past refused to spend on you but rather spent on some other girls?

Well, no one really wants to spend money on a leech.

The earlier you realize this, the better for you.

LEECH... PARASITE..

tricksters:
I am not sorry but the only pathetic n mad man soul I see here is your bigoted father.



For daring to tell your father the truth to his bigoted igbotic face?! Well I am no coward n am not sorry about that either.

FRUSTRATION AT IT'S PEAK

BluntTheApostle:
No wonder the men you dated chose to spend on someone else while they were dating you.

They were stingy to you but generous to some other girls.

At least, you should realize that they were not really stingy, but they chose not to spend on you because of this attitude you have shown me.

Anyway, I don't have to prove anything to you. My intention remains to ensure that you don't use your own experience (which may have even be caused solely by you) to mislead someone else.

Giving advice here needs serious thought and consideration. You can't just tell someone that their boyfriend is spending on some other girl simply because you faced same in your own life.

Many homes have been broken due to poor advice given by emotional women like yourself.

Is this the epistle you wanted to drop? I jump you pass...LEECH

mubbyone:
nice reply man

Really?

Tajbol4splend:
It doesn't matter

It does plsss

BluntTheApostle:
That is what you should rather be doing instead of jumping into conclusions.

Oga A STINGY MAN OS A STINGY MAN. Nothing like jumping into conclusion here..


I jump your type pass cos it's obvious you are one..

Pls spare me your latest epistle of how you take care of your lady. Okay?

BluntTheApostle:
Eyah, sorry.

I did suspect earlier that you were emotional rather than rational when you quoted the OP. But now, my suspicion is confirmed.

The guys that turned you into such a bitter hag need to be crucified upside down.

Lol... I jump am pass

MOnkeyBabe:
if I were you,I would marry him kiakia.a biRD in hand is worth 2 in the BUSh.as for me,I didnt waste time to make him mine at 24.im very SuBmissive and humble through God'sGRaCe.i like him perfectly with all his flaws.i think you have time to while away though.to each their own.if not you wont be here asking questions.

It's well with you. But I guess some people still have got something called CHOICE which obviously you dont have.. Submissive and loyal indeed..

Bizibi:
and how did you know

I have dated real leeches so I know the terrible ones but I have seen cool and wonderful ladies who were friends with me but married now.

There are ladies that don't like asking for money but they just want that once in a while outing or some gifts even though they can foot the bill or buy one for themselves.though there are stingy ones but the good ones should not be taken for granted.

God bless you real good

edoboy74:
Lols that’s how losers conclude. Go get a job my dear and take responsibility for once

So says a KID

edoboy74:
You are still a bitter old spinster otherwise what is an old woman searching for in a topic like this ?

Small pikin dey really worry you.. Just go back to bed. Okay?

CHINA SHOULD AND MUST BE SANCTIONED. WHAT'S ALL THESE RUBBISH?

james6381:
No man is a stingy. Every man is a giver. For the fact that he did not give you money doesn't mean he is a stingy man. It could be that he's trying you or your patience as a wife to be. Please be wise not to loose your chances. Because you are his girl friend doesn't mean he can't give you money or support. Wait until you becomes his wife and see the difference between girlfriend and wife. Maybe that's his own strategy for a good woman. Men a looking for a wife material with different testing actions towards a lady. If the lady is not the patience type she will loose one of the best husband that could be hers to another lady. If you love him be patience and humble. If do not love him, find your way.

One of the numerous lies I was told..

Op, take this advice and weep all the minutes of your life

edoboy74:
She is not worth any penny from that guy, if she really love him like how she made us feel, she won’t bring this topic or report her bf to this forum... she is a gold digger

Really? Some people dont deserve to be loved..

BluntTheApostle:
That you have been through it does not count at all. Many guys have been dumped by girls that they spent heavily on. Does it mean that every girl that a man spends on would end up jilting him?

For instance, the guy's supposed stinginess can be as a result of many factors:

1. He might be spending on someone else as you said.

2. He might be stingy as the OP suspects.

3. He might be merely prudent. Maybe there was a time in his life when he spent money anyhow, and so he has taken charge of his finances more prudently. This happened to me. My mom's death made me realize that you can't afford to spend money anyhow.

4. His take-home pay may be half of his salary.

5. The 5k loan may not all be his money. Maybe it is even a debt that he owes someone.

Pls stop all this stupid and flimsy excuses for ones wickedness and stinginess . Go get a life pls cos it's obvious some of you dont deserve to be loved.. You just come around to drain one emotionally, financially and all round

mharyamikeola92:
I really don’t lyk going out..But I don’t know how some1 will travel from Lagos to Osun without buying common bread

And there goes one of your weaknesses.. 'I REALY DONT LIKE GOING OUT'.. My dear you have to LOVE going out.. He is capitalizing on that. Just get another admirer that comes visiting and you ll see a Horgan wrestling out his lungs just to keep you , 'HIS FARMLAND' glued to him.

I speak from experience ooh

omooba969:
@bolded,

I hope all men can have this sense of entitlement as well...

My dear anyhow you see it, for me I have come to realize this BITTER TRUTH..

GAZZUZZ:
You are in your mid thirties and you are desperate.

Pls SHE ISN'T DESPERATE. She is simply concerned and it's normal.. People like you make situations like this look normal whereas it isn't..


Op I bet you ,if you continue with that 'relationship', you ll eventually be left EMOTIONALLY DRAINED AND FAGGED OUT.

BluntTheApostle:
How did you know this?

SMH...

It is a bad thing to jump into conclusion.

How do I know? I HAVE BEEN IN AND THROUGH SAME SITUATION. and well if she has got some time to spare, she should go dig more and come tell us her findings..

mharyamikeola92:
I ave my own job and a well paying job..I don’t need a man to b dere financially but is there a big deal in a man buying gifts for some1 he claims to love not necessarily money

My dear pls stop all this' I ve my money and I dont need his'.. The truth is that YOU NEED HIS MONEY.. IF HE CANT SPEND HIS MONEY ON YOU, HE DOESNT VALUE YOU. WALK AWAY AND SEE HIM RUN AFTER YOU COS YOU ARE HIS 'FARMLAND'. BUT NEVER GO BACK TO HIM.

If you want to know the truth, he spends that money on another lady you think and feel is not up to your standard.. Pls dump that 'i m independent' idea you have in your head.it won't work here. Try to form 'needy' atimes

I have been in same situation

primesoccer:
I will definitely meet her with the evidence. But I still want to continue chatting with her to get more info from her before I make the move.

Forget meeting her with the evidence.. It isn't necessary.. JUST MOVE ON

CsRockefeller:
In Philosophy, it is said that Objectivity means talking from the view of the object.

Thats what I am going to try to do, no pity party, no emotions.

Sometime this year, I went for an interview and also met a host of other prospective candidates around, some of us were jobless, some already had jobs.

We began discussing about d pay, we speculated between 70 to 100k, I told them that it cant be more than a 70k given its the Chinese (very stingy persons). Amongst us was a guy already earning 150k somewhere, we scolded him, how can one attempt to leave a good paying job for peanuts, we warned him about the consequence of loosing his good job. He had his interview and quickly left, I felt he was so greedy, even if u want to leave a 150k job, it should be for a higher pay, his friend said he's fond of jumping from one interview to the other. With a pay of 150k, a lot of people would seat at that place for at least 2 years.

Man, the ordinary man has always been selfish, he seeks himself alone, remember Cain and Abel, Jacob and Esau, Absalom and David, David and Saul, the list is endless.

For a long time, I tried to convince myself that everything on earth doesnt revolve around Economics/Money/Status/Financial stability but I was wrong, as I get older I know better.

I dont want to make this longer than necessary, but if your financial position as they say in Accounting is not where your lady wants it to be enough for her to commit to u then, she is still in the market and when that guy comes with her bag of expectations, she will jump.

It is what it is, call them gold diggers, hoes, sluts, it is what it is, man seeks himself first, and don't forget that your country is the poverty capital of the world, everyone wants to escape it.

The 20k is something, there's a lady who would be happy with it, but not this one. People will continue to search for jobs, and partners that meet their financial expectations.

It is not ideal, it is not fair, it is not right in a suituation where human emotions are involved but is the World fair itself?

Cc: Primesoccer

Thanks for being REAL though NOT FAIR.. AFTERALL LIFE ISN'T FAIR

freeman4ever:
500,000 thousand people? What was the population of Nigeria in 1918?

Read. It's there ..

GEEBITE:
Are you just programmed to defend anything relating to this govt. That two star general you saw in the video was reassuring his bosses in HQ that he is on ground with the troops. He is my bro in law's course mate and that's how they fought in Liberia and Sierra Leone.Their set in infantry are one of the finest as they were the second set to graduate from NDA when it became degree awarding.The video was deliberately leaked to paint him black so they can remove him.Take it or leave it.

I thank God for his life and for answering the prayers of his family members and loved ones.. Make the General go house go rest abeg. The man don try.

BLESSING IN DISGUISE

Sagay212:
When you arrest terrorists and release them after one month claiming they have repented, them Nigerians should know the people sponsoring boko haram.

Obviously the FG IS SPONSORING BH... TERRORISTS IN ASO ROCK