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SmartFaces:
My dear, so it means he should not blame his dad for his marriage failure abi?

Absolutely NOT.

People , especially cognitive adults should try and be accountable for their mistakes in life. then the world will be balanced. To err is human, pick yourself up and move on if you can't fix it.
Imagine a grown man blaming his dad for ruining his 11 years marriage? Taah

@question, he always had good very reasons so I listened to his counsels. True, love is blind but using one's brain is more profitable in a long run. ( Marriage is a long term commitment).
Parents are more experienced IMHO.

orlanmagic:
If there was another re-run of presidential elections, we igbos would have still voted for GEJ. He simply was the first president to do "something" for the igbos since after d civil war. We for the first time felt integrated to the country called Nigeria. Appointing an army chief by GEJ was a good shock for us... We never believed a day like that will come. Please since APC has won d election, we are only asking for unity and not all this hate and killings we have endured for decades. We love you all

Smart dude

Eloped

KingTom:
Ichidodo has deactivated his account and is now
known as Texcoco abi Texaco filling station chai
the shame was too much to bear. Barcanista has
taken to a life of Active service in the sea as a
Marine engineer, Temitemi1 while still in denial
has now been programmed to type
Congratulations GMB on every thread.
Phockphockman is still angry with everyone
around him, blaming even his own Peniss for not
thumbprinting and subsequently causing GEJ's
loss. Lanicky has taken to runs girl work, our
prayers are with her. AgapeCharis my brother is
going on with life, Severussnape has to be the
most intelligent of the lot, since His principal's
loss, he has been seeking for ways to ally
himself with the new powers that be. Mama tit
has committed e-suicide

These people listed above Also contributed to
Buhari's victory and God bless them all!

Mint! Funny die

1.He should reinforce NPF to improve the country's weak security.

We have lost too many folks to senseless crimes as it is. Young aspiring lives cut short for no reason.

2. Create jobs, jobs and more jobs.

God bless Mr President Elect.
God bless Nigeria.

Dyt:
Op abeg
What fear do u see in Nigeria?

You beat me to it lol.

#reminds me of TV series; witches of east end.
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OP I believe you 100% , you're gifted , please use it wisely. Tell your fiancée to minimize being a chatterbox, I'll be terrified of you too if I'm his mother. Good luck.

Feminists won't like this for sure. I see they've already misconstrued the message.

uromicom:
Thank God i am from ESAN tribe if my wife cheated on me it wont be up to a yr befor she will DIE

Jesus Christ !!!

Same applies to men too right?

sleekman:
either murder or d curse from traditional marriage

What??

Una dey place curse on your brides during traditional marriage?

sleekman:
She's lucky she's not married 2 an Edo or Delta man. She could hve been dead.

Dead over what, Murder??

EggovinMma:
It's true na.If men cheats and hardly forgives cheating, isn't it foolishness to open up? Do they open up after their numerous fuccking?She is a christian, she has her bible and chaplet, she should fast, pray and sin no more. Which one be confession inside again? Now what's the gain? She just ended up destroying her marriage twice.Even if the husband forgives her, he may never forget! Why put him through that?!

Well you're very right. Why put him through that? I may forgive but definitely will never forget too. That's a given. The thought of it even makes me cringe.

Life is too sweet to live misery my dear. That man is a goner.

EggovinMma:
I can see guys talking anyhow on this thread like they dont cheat.
You see why one needs to shut up and seek no forgiveness?
If them fuccck outside belle full, them go still get time monitor who fuccck their wife to to. Na just conscience dey worry this woman because I dont see any reason why she even open her mouth confess, the one she tell Baba God never reach?

Goodnes Gracious

Chat, Chant, tech

Machine

dadaic:
then go get her from the village, who cares?

I wonder oh

Johndoe100:
This is what happens when a woman is no longer useful in bed. Notice how she has sidesteped the central issue - hubby needs something warm, willing and USEFUL in bed.
She should remove the cobwebs between her legs, ask youger chicks how to usr her kitty and then face her hubby. Quick quick he go forget de oda chick.

Goodnes gracious by the way how have you been?
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@Topic, that man is useless.

Kabonic and Sambarry again ??

moca:
[s]This is how u go about looking for trouble all the time.
I'm warning u for the last time. Stay on ur lane.

I have never looked for ur trouble.
Except when I was soliciting for peace btw u and another moniker u pounced on me.
My first post on nairaland last two yrs was to beg u and another moniker tearing each other to cool down
Sometimes u behave like a thirteen year old gal.
[/s]

U have tthe nerve to call my story fabricated one.
May thunder blast u into pieces.
May the spiritt of maybell locate and deal with u.
Come to my village and yarn this dust and see if u will live till the next day.
Herd mentality.

Blah blah blah

Back at ya and all yours evil woman.

Nobody's arguing Mabell's death , how it happened remained a cold case until an autopsy is done.

I'm not surprised what goes on in your village, you sound like one of the crowd that lynched & sent the old woman to exile. Anofia.

Moca, did I just read your curses on my pretty monikers ?

Hian , I called you out on your lies and here you are fuming like a rabid dog. Simple question ; WERE YOU THERE WHEN THE ALLEGED MURDERER POISONED HER OR JUST AN HEARSAY/ RUMOUR??

So you have no love left for moi again? Awww what a shame

Avoid me but will call out a bogus post when I see one.

moca:
Ewuro,pls pls, im not others.
I have never confronted or angrily lashed out at u
Do know ur boundary.

On top a story I narrated,its now a heresay and I fabricated it.
Pls mind how u respond to my posts.

Nne,this is internet and I don't crave acceptance by any group. I say my thing as I see and know it.
U don't like it jump and pass the way I jump and pass ur numerous posts.
Gosh!
U can never change.

see vexing , ypepe whats wrong with my post? It's either you're there when the poor lady was poisoned and murdered or you're not. Which makes you a prime suspect and accessory to a crime.

So spare me all your emotions and say the truth now or forever hold your peace and enough of all these make believe stories.

Why should I change? Have you changed?

moca:
My best friend in secondary school was killed by a wicked mil.
Yes,u heard me right.
So wicked she was exiled forever.
I met her few days b4 she gave up.
I couldn't hold back the tears.
She was tortured by this wicked woman till somebody discovered her but too late.
Son and mother live in d same city but mother insisted on training my friend b4 she finally goes to her hubby's house.
She was d cool and o yes type else she would hv ran away.
Probably hoping it will end one day.
She fall sick and this evil woman instead of taking her to hospital, was giving her concoctions which was weakening her system the more.
Too late, and she died .
The whole community disowned and exiled her.
So much for enduring and treating a wicked mil like urs.
May her soul continue to rest in peace
We hate to face reality.
We have good and bad people in all genders and age.

What reality?

All these horror stories sef , were you there during all these and why didn't you stop her?

go and tell that to criminal court and see if you dont land yourself in jail for fabricating a hearsay.

It is well. Enjoy your long weekend yall

taryour:
Heeeyyyy omo iya mi, how you dey, family, work and business? Longest time. Trust you all are doing great.

We dey jare.. Happy Good Friday. I trust You've spoiled everyone with your yummy goodies

Emi wa a she pupo odun LAYE. Amen. Best Regards

Tayour, thank you for this thread, what a breath of fresh air. Very well said.

Well what can I say @ end time advices on here; You can only give what you have so You can't give what you don't have. If you respect your own parent at home then respecting any adult won't be a chore, it's inbred no story.

And misery they say loves company.

@Bebe2, your story reminds me of a sister I used to share my mind with, but it took me a while to figure out how frustrated she was in her marriage. Everytime I show her or tell her about my MIL, her replies are always laced with negativies, like; 'Mmm be careful oh, they are all the same my dear, why would you allow her to cook in your kitchen, you have to create boundaries oh or she'll get too comfortable , be careful oh, it's too much, you're giving her the wrong impression and blah blah blah' I stopped calling her and that was it.

OP you don't need any help. You're just fine. embrace whom you are in & out and stop looking for trouble.

On a serious note, don't force it hon. And cherish your loved ones (family) because they will be the only faces left when you have it rough and going gets tough.

#justkeepingitreal

He's your uncle and clearly broke now. I'll sound naive now, but do you believe God truly blesses a cheerful giver? That's your offering right there. I advice you to give him provided you have and stop dangling a juicy carrot in front of a hungry bunny.

lekkie073:
correct.....God don catch my landlord....

For real? Some people charge in $s ?

Well said Bellong.

edwife:
This is getting funnier

yes now, just a friendly enquiry oh.
What is it that he lacks offline but will be met via thin air. I'm just keen on knowing ni.

You mean the lady you once shared your life and probably had sex with? Men

Anyway, I don't like the idea of a prying EX ... OP give her money if that's what she needs , hire a neutral makeup artiste and move on. An EX should remain in your past or worse, platonic friendship.

Make up artist bawo now, That's rather way too close and warped . Personal space please.

God take the wheel as We hope for better Nigeria henceforth.

Sai Baba.

Useless man.

Brimmie:
Farewell!!

Alo ramirami!!

Olopa.. Hian