goodman41: Reference to my previous Post https://www.nairaland.com/5777845/never-wanted-sex-first-visit I called my girl that I'm coming to know her family and she said okay I should come that while coming I should buy soap and cream for her which I bought. she sent address that I should stop at their Mark square. On getting to their market square I called her but she said I should wait there that she will come and pick me there, I waited I didn't see my girl I called she didn't pick after 30 minutes I called but her phone was off I waited and called again her phone was still off, I got angry and enter motor and went back, on my way back I saw her two missed calls, I decided to call her which she picked and I told her I waited her but her phone was off so I decided to go back she started saying that her phone was down that she went to charge it small before coming to pink me. when I got home she texted and start begging asking when will I coming again I told her that am not coming that she should come and collect the soap cream she said I should buy for her. on Thursday she called that she will come on Friday morning and go in the evening because her mother will not allow her to sleep outside. she even came before 10 am and cooked for me. we had wonderful sex that she was moaning loud and screaming horni! horni! is sweet oo! is sweet oo! when she was about to go she collected her soap and cream and I gave 1500 for her transport but her transport for going and coming is 1300 but this girl left angrily without me seeing her off that the money is small for her transport. her number was off through out that night she left in the morning I called and started asking why she left angrily but she said she doesn't has strength to talk to me that I should call later, so later I called her but she busy my call, I have decided not to call her again and move on with my life.
goodman41: I went to my sister's house, met this fine and curvy girl, try to play love with her but all to no avail. In the night it happend that we have to sleep in the same room, when she fell into deep sleep I pulled down her pant and started finggering her, the more i fingger her the more she get wet and oil like 30 minuits without her knowing what was going on, when I became too hot i wanted to insert my dick but there was no condom, so i tried to control my self, Besides her pussy was having an odour and too much wet. When i started sleeping she woke up and went to wee wee when she came back i try to romance her to see her reaction but she declined and move away from me, i be came confused if she didn't know all the finggering i have been performing on her. please girls is it possible to fingger a girl for like 1 hour without her knowing what is going on while she was sleeping?
goodman41: I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.
After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.
Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?
goodman41: I went to my sister's house, met this fine and curvy girl, try to play love with her but all to no avail. In the night it happend that we have to sleep in the same room, when she fell into deep sleep I pulled down her pant and started finggering her, the more i fingger her the more she get wet and oil like 30 minuits without her knowing what was going on, when I became too hot i wanted to insert my dick but there was no condom, so i tried to control my self, Besides her pussy was having an odour and too much wet. When i started sleeping she woke up and went to wee wee when she came back i try to romance her to see her reaction but she declined and move away from me, i be came confused if she didn't know all the finggering i have been performing on her. please girls is it possible to fingger a girl for like 1 hour without her knowing what is going on while she was sleeping?
topstone4: She called me anuofia. Does that sound unrude to you? Or, according to you, she is based abroad and her insult is acceptable? If she should get an apology, she should apologize first.
maybe I didn't see it, anyway we should all seek peace and be civil especially in posts that are not provoking. if she made that statement then she is wrong at first.
WeRblessed: I dont know how it works in Nigeria, but after 18 years you should stop being your parents' responsibility. Therefore, you need to move out, rent your own apartment, pay your own car note and insurance. Your parents should have already removed you from their health insurance if you are not currently in college. In fact, some parents will literally pack your things ready waiting for you on your high school graduation day. The next day, you need to move out. Dont ask me why please. Such is life.
@OP samicine Neglect and ignore this comment with reckless abandon. This one has no existence of sense in it comparing the west where things work with Nigeria where things thrive and barely work.
Classworked: A person may leave his parent's house by will , because of necessity or because of a desire for freedom a parent may not grant.
Leaving by will means the young individual packs up , moves out and struggles to earn a living without the support of his parents.
Leaving because of necessity means the individual has to get an apartment in a different town because he doesn't want to stay in his school's hostel (for formal education) or his master does not provide shelter for apprentices (for skill acquisition) . In this case family provides support and the lad may visit during festive periods. Technically, the Lad is still a dependent of his parents but doesn't live with them. Infact all NYSC students live alone for one year until their service year elapses and they cannot find a job. That's how graduates who once lived alone return to their parents .
Those who leave because of freedom leave to partake in illicit activities or to live together with the love of their lives especially when their parents wouldn't welcome such cohabitation. *****************************************************************************
"The west" is vague and broad. In the United States, Students who leave "by will" usually do so because their parents cannot afford the cost of tertiary education. They get Students loans which they go to school with and live to pay for the rest of their lives if they do not get a big break. Such Loans are not available in Nigeria and many of those who take such Loans abroad would rather a Nigerian system where a member of their extended family sponsored their education.
An intelligent young man whose father owns a duplex in the town he works would rather a neat car than a 500k rent a year. Such wise person will build a house faster because he has utilized his scarce resources and at the same time enjoyed free food , free accommodation and restriction from cohabitating with a lover who may drain his resources. That's a wise economic decision. I don't have a formal statistic to back this up but as a person from a family with few properties to rent and lease, I'll tell you that the best group of people to rent one's real property are Salary earners and people above the age of 25 in entrepreneurship. Through out my 10 years of understanding the landlord business there was no under -30 tenant from a poor family who paid his second rent on time. It's not about saying you paid rent at the age of 15. The first rent is the easiest to pay. If you do not meet your landlord 1 week after its expiration, then you have no reason to shade those who have patience and a long term plan of leaving their parents when they "Can really" stand on their own.
It's not about leaving your parents , the poor and innocent Almajiri kids you all despise left their parents at even younger ages. The big question is if Nigeria offers same opportunities as the West. One wonders why we doubt the ages of our sportsmen.
Ishilove: Samicine, be patient. No parent is perfect and some have them even worse than you. Manage the woman like that until you can stand on your feet because where do you want to go to with 19k? Is that for tfare or recharge card?
Humble yourself, swallow the crap and use it to build emotional muscle for the task ahead which will be coming up in a couple of years.
@OP samicine This is the best answer to this your condition now. The very best for now, I've been in your shoes though during mine I actually did steal the money but no one threatened to throw me out but I knew it was wrong but I needed money but was not working.
frankmoney: All this palliatives are total nonsense . Advanced countries are giving thier citizens thousands of dollars ,. We dey here dey share yam and indomie
Will you mix the thousands of dollars with sugar, milk and seasoning condiments and drink?
XhosaNostra: I'd say you're a narcissist, but you're self aware. People like you usually have deep-seated abandonment issues or suffer from fear of rejection. You only skim the surface when it comes to emotions, so noone can get close enough to inflict any sort of pain. Get them before they get you type of thing. Underneath the seemingly uncaring facade, there's actually an extremely sensitive person that's scared to death of getting hurt, so they put up all these defences to protect their mushy core. Something like a human crustacean One person will manage to break down your walls though, mark my words. But it'll only take one person. It won't be easy sailing. There'll be a lot of vacillation between enmeshment & suffocation on your part. Good luck to the poor girl
He is hurt fro something deeply immersed in him, he feels he has failed in something maybe the high expectations he beamed himself on and always wants an excuse in another. He needs alot of unlearning to do.
stephenduru: A man identified as Mr. Chinaedu Omeonu who hails from Mgboko Umuoria Autonomous Community in Obingwa Local Government Area, killed his cousin brother.
According to information reaching me, Mr. Chinaedu Omeonu inflicted a very deep cut on Mr. Solomon Monday Orji who happens to be his cousin brother and the cut was what led to the death of Mr. Solomon.
Reports gathered have it that the son of Mr. Solomon Monday Orji went to Mr. Chinaedu's house to pick some mango fruits and Mr. Chinaedu out of his hatred for Mr. Monday Orji's family flogged the little boy mercilessly to the extent that the boy fainted and was unable to go back to their house.
When Mr. Solomon heard what happened to his son, he rushed to Mr. Chinaedu's (owner of the mango tree) house to ask him why he flogged his son mercilessly to the extent that the boy couldn't work again just because of mango fruit.
Mr. Chinaedu was very harsh on him and after exchanging words, Mr. Solomon carried his son home. According to eye witness, on his way going back to his house, Mr. Chinaedu went inside his room, picked a cutlass and rushed Mr. Solomon to his house, before Mr Solomon could turn back and know what is happening, Mr. Omeonu had already cut him mercilessly from his back and life was not left any more.
According to those around, Mr. Solomon died instantly at that point and everyone where all in tears. As at press time, the youths and people of Mgboko Umuoria apprehended Mr. Chinaedu (the murderer), tortured him and was about handling him over to uniform men.
MissTechy: The Infinix Note 7 officially launched today, and the major bummer with the device is the fact that it comes with a HD+ display and a USB type C port
During my time with the device, I also noticed it comes with a couple of new features, for example you get the DTS sound experience, Live transcribe that has baked into the Notification and a couple of others. I also shared some major issues I noticed on the Note 7.
Everybody need en own share even me make them include me for the blessing, at least make I see wetin I go carry for belle before coro kill me after'all all die na die.
I know all these muslims must still find a way to criminalize wike especially since he pronounced rivers state to be a christian state, they will never rest, always bitter at every action of the man whether good or bad. I'll give them one advice, mind your business, wike dosen't want his state to be like kano where indigenes now hide under cows and baskets to sneak into other states.
I know all these muslims must still find a way to criminalize wike especially since he pronounced rivers state to be a christian state, they will never rest, always bitter at every action of the man whether good or bad. I'll give them one advice, mind your business, wike dosen't want his state to be like kano where indigenes now hide under cows and baskets to sneak inside other states.
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Most mad men I see naked in the market dustbins started like this, congrats.
Family › Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by explosiveskull(m): 4:59am On May 19, 2020
One person will manage to break down your walls though, mark my words. But it'll only take one person. It won't be easy sailing. There'll be a lot of vacillation between enmeshment & suffocation on your part. Good luck to the poor girl 
