OKOATA:
Because of wig this one dey break up with his woman. In as much as I see some women as materialistic and golddiggers but as a man you should be able to take care of your woman in your own little way. No be everything be break up.

Comprehension is nothing to write home about here.

Justkatty:
Truth be told, both were already tired of the relationship and by that looking for the slightest opportunity to end it .

That's not the slightest, from his tone it has been a reoccurring thing. He asserted the relationship has been a subscription all the way.

Ballzproblemm:
shaming tactics don't work on me .dear men before you enter relationship don't be afraid what she does for a living and of she's capable of taking care of herself. A must criteria don't date rubbish.

You are right, everyone needs to know why pays the bills for ladies just the way they are always keen to ask what you do for a living. A lady who sees herself as having no responsibility as an adult is a no no for everyman .

dkidd:

If u read am well without bias u will know from his write up that its not about the money or will to spend or not but its about her nature which he has been enduring for until the last straw which was her display and attitude when he refused to buy the wig but u chose to observe the surface witbout understanding the real message of evaluating relationships and chiosing happiness without compromise. But hey see it how u can percieve it anyhow✌

Guy leave that person, he or she lacks comprehension skills.

OKOATA:
It's you who don't read to understand, he and the lady has been together for long through his write up. The guy stringy and he doesn't want to spend because of his stinginess.

Comprehension skills is becoming endangered these days, is it difficult to comprehend what the guy wrote.

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

What is this one saying?

Did you read where he projected his future with the girl to a decade after and where he said the relationship has been based strictly on subscription and whenever he didn't subscribe the relationship becomes hell.

You must be a woman , instead of you commenting with neutral mind you are inserting yourself into the woman position and issuing comments. This is why people say never to consult a woman while seeking relationship advice because it usually doesn't end well.

A man is at fault for jettisoning a woman who doesn't give him peace and support because he must die to please a woman

Those kinds of women will never bring good to any man, he made the right call. Broke women pushing men to doing things they normally shouldn't do because they are entitled and see relationship as a full time job. Good riddance.

vanbonattel:
He may still attack the judge again,

With which hands?

uksam007:
They lied the first time

All the technological innovations of the Americans in this past century are all lies.

The internet space you used to type this are all lies, I agree with you

allen113:
May God forgive all those that lied to us as kids that man has landed on the moon before, come to think of it if man has landed on the moon in time past when we had less technological advancement as compared to now. Why do they find it difficult landing now?

If you a driver and you refused driving for 50 years won't you make a mistake and even go back to driving the car of that era?

This is just something as simple as driving not to talk of a mission as complex as landing on a moon. The mission post world war II was mainly a race for national pride between the soviets and the the Americans though world technology benefited immensely as a result of the monumental research done during that era.

If you like believe the supposed lie or not, it won't take anything out of the Americans for their technological breakthrough and innovations. Check out all the discoveries in the past century, majority of them came from American R&.

They have contributed immensely to the advancement of technology in the world, as a matter of fact almost all tech you used to disseminate the false assertion we're all brought to your home as a result of the ingenuity of the Americans.

flexyrule:
It even goes beyond that...

Mere looking at a woman, whom you are not married to in a lustful manner, is as good as sleeping wit her.

And you know what the Bible says about such temptation?

Matthew 18:9 New King James Version (NKJV)
And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes, to be cast into hell fire.

These people you are quoting Bible for are they adherent to what the bible teaches?

Many will only cherry pick what the bible say, for those group they have nothing in stock with the teachings of the Bible. The worldly standard should be what they stick to and not mixing worldly standards to God's standards. You either cold or hot you can't be warm.

Jennyclay:
I’m just curious if the narrative was the other way round .

By now this thread would have been on page 5 under 2 minutes, filled with abusive comments on the lady

Nonsense men everywhere!!

The day you have the mindset of financially taking care of a man that is the day you will have the rights to complain, he who pays the piper calls the tune. That's how life works.

As long as you are looking for employment through relationship you don't have the rights to complain, only sagacious and homely ladies do.

Where is the link to your story?

pocohantas:


I am all for females looking good and modest. But less than two months ago, Nairaland males gathered to tell us women look more beautiful and approachable with their natural hair. They said we should go back to the days we rocked afro, kiko and allback. OP's mum is rocking her thread (kiko). I want to believe she is looking beautiful and I am surprised you think women without artificial hair look unkempt and uncatered for. Many NL guys said that is the kind of babes they love.

You know you can still use your natural hair and be attractive likewise unattractive. Some people look more attractive even with their natural looks but if you leave your natural looks shabby you will look unattractive.

Same thread used by another person who dresses elegantly with natural looks will look more adorable than the one who doesn't care but just come out with the natural looks nonchalantly.

What the OP is saying is that the mum should exude elegance in her natural looks, money to make that happen isn't the problem but she doesn't to. One can be rough in her natural state and you expect them to look pretty because men advocate for women to be in their natural state.

Solape1:
Nigerians and propaganda. How is the Minister of Interior dragged into this?
Desist from Fake news to ruin the work of a man who has been doing nothing but dispensing his duty since he assumed office.

What are you saying? You are certain he can't join them or he is not corrupt? That he is doing well doesn't mean he is corrupt.

Tinubu is the president today but we all know he is corrupt. I am not saying that publication is correct but also not saying it's wrong because most Nigerian politicians are very corrupt. I can't vouch for no one.

Seun:


So the first order of business is to hire new moderators, particularly women, who can enforce the existing rules against harassment, derailment, etc.

See how you are thinking? Hiring women? Or hiring competent people you should have said? Or may be you should sack all your male moderators and hire all females and block all male accounts on this forum and keep the female account.

Always propagate excellence and shun acts capable of bringing your business to mediocrity.

Jewessgratitud3:
For what now? Man don finish?
That's one I'll never do; share my man with anybody.

They could be his sisters though, so let me not conclude.

You will share if the only reason you are getting married is to look for employment through marriage.

This is not about you but about ladies who think as I have asserted.

Gadafii:
He should have given them space, while two is pregnant one should have been free so that he could continue to draw oil with caution, when the tw deliver, he put the third one in the family way so drawing of oil is never nonstop with the remaining two
But my guy do as you desire

If you think he has only three think again

When they see average guys you will be hearing 'why are you cheating on me'

A rich dude can cheat on you as long as he gives you money

My hands are off.

JasonNOTStatham:
Women who wake early to cook and prepare for husband and
children dey, are you sure there isn't other information not
shared?

I doubt anyone would gift a guy if he do the same.

Guys has been doing same since ages, the equivalent of that is the provision the men do, the major beneficiaries don't even appreciate not to talk of the society.

As a man you are on your own.

Annahh:
She's doing her work though, not a new thing, our mothers did more. Feminism has made it look as if it's a sin to perform wifely duties.

It's not a new thing, what made her tweet go viral was because of some people who will only cherry pick what is good for them in marriage aka feminist without knowing that marriage in itself ais work and not a place to establish ones Hollywood fantasies.

Take a loss and move on. This is the only option available for your freedom and mental health.

Jennyclay:
Let them smoke and run mad, that’s non of my business

Nonsense men!!!

Get well sis.

Proserpina:
This is coming from a man who wants to get rid of misogynists and bring women/ladies back to his forum.


Interesting.

That's the word you know now misogynistic , what is misogynistic and how does it have to do with him expressing his life experiences?

These folks will never allow Nigeria succeed.

These same folks who fail are been given juicy fed jobs and you are here not wanting innovations.

These folks will not let Nigeria move forward, very appalling.

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

Let's put it this, not every man likes to provide money which means a man might love you and still struggle to provide money for the woman to use at home because he doesn't enjoy providing. .

How does it sound in your ears? That's same way what you wrote sounded in my ears

Jeon:
Na traditions .





Don't allow the whites traditions to overcome African traditions,so just do it .

What is the percentage of the population that has one million in the account as savings?

If you know you won't encourage this because less than 5 percent of the population has a million plus as savings in their account, meaning that percentage can do that without problems.

A country where 20 times the national minimum wage can't afford a traditional marriage rites, it's a big mess

oz4real83:
The most annoying thing about such families is that they can't afford it themselves. When any of their sons want to marry, they will push such expenses to the various husbands of their daughters . Corruption is everywhere in Nigeria, while some perpetuate it using politics, others do the same corruption under culture and tradition

You are right.

Felimax:


Till date i swear you won't believe this i still receive in totality every Kobo of her salary into my account. From the moment we started dating. Till date! Even when i was jobless! Do you believe?
The honest truth is there are still lot's of women like that. A lot of guys are so blinded with what they want instead of what they need and that is where their problem is.

When we were dating she was so tiny and yanshles and people often make mockery of us but if you see her figures today, no surgery o. My God! Sometimes i get so out of my mind and soon as i meet her in the kitchen omo leave o, na better rushing.. Lol!

This guy is a bad boy

LikeAking:


You can’t just live it the first time.

It’s like that..

It has to grow with you..

Ur type go sabi give up on life very quick.

Giving up on clubbing is been equated as giving up on something special like life goals, this guy you will get better when the highness wanes down .