suckmedownthere:
Oh dear it wasn't like that until you came into my life...I gave you the vussy 3 times daily,7 days a week,you had all types of style from xvideos.com until now..

Gave you pus.sy and you are still having it with you? No one gives puss.y to anyone, two person having sex is mutually beneficial to them both, she isn't doing him a favor for having sex.

Only prostitutes say that, I gave you pus sy give me money.

There are ladies who can never put their kobo on the line to help you but will want you to put millions on the line to help them, they are of no use and should be left on the streets.

I had a date with a lady and I introduced myself as a research assistant , she looked me head to toe and asked me if I do other jobs apart from this and I said no. The way she asked and her response of looking for job got me almost bursting into laughter. A jobless lady looking down on someone already amongst the top 5percent earners in the country.

I don't impress ladies with money I only impress them with my sagacity and personality reason been that lots of ladies out there are only interested in what they stand to gain and not what they stand to offer. When ladies underate me because they think my humble deamenour connotes lack of finance I feel relaxed and happy because I loathe such ladies who bypass important personality traits and make decisions based solely on money. Those type of ladies are to be left alone to navigate the waters of life.

Your job role isn't important what is important is how you make yourself financially comfortable from your job and the plans put in place to meander through the turbulent vicissitudes of life.. People who rate you instantly because of your job role should be left alone, they are fair weather and won't hesitate to abandon ship at the slightest issue.

Rich4god:
Let me just add this one...

What do you as a lady stand to gain from being a baby mama. A guy who is out looking for a baby mama is likely going to try to claim the child for himself.

If the guy didn't marry you, after providing child support to you, you expect him to leave the child and move on? He will likely want to draw the child to be his own at his adult stage.
What then is in for the ladies who opt to be baby mamas.

Some ladies are feeling like because they are getting child support money monthly from the man, so they just relax and enjoy their self. They won't or may not be able to develop their self for the future. So when the child support stops, they can no long afford the basic needs of life.... this make them to resort to doing all sort of things just to survive.
Most of all these baby mamas you are seeing online or around you, are probably regretting their actions.

Ladies, don't fall victim to the charms of men... If you are not good enough to be his wife, then don't be a baby mama for him.
Stay away from pre-marital sex

Stay away from pregnancy before marriage.
The life you see all these baby mamas enjoying now, later on they will be full of regrets.

"Stay away from pre-marital sex"

Stay away from premarital money
should be the right advice to greedy lazy ladies who see men as a means of employment rather than a means to establishing g long lasting relationship and partnership.

You expect men to foot bills if ladies without having sex with them? Once a lady sheds her greed and increase her contentment levels half of her problems in life has been solved. They won't but rather chase money from men and in the process they get pregnant and then want the same men who have exchanged sex with money to become their partners when the relationship was transactionary abninitio

Puss360:
To be a man no easy oo...
This one now, after all the hustle, go say "I work for my money in the hard way".
These type of men no go pay hook-up better money o... las las 2k... But dem for fvc.k nonstop till daybreak... Drink roots, herbs, ogogoro...ontop 2k wey dem pay

God abeg o... I dey Always avoid all these hustlers.. Make I no come die for active service...

Hustlers avoiding hustlers you will be fine.

Go develop your brain power so you no go worry about your body again.

mamaafrik:
Alaska annexation move is linked to this,Russia is going to try diplomatic and military moves to get it back.
If they can't American neighbours will be beckoned at.

Get well soon.

Front0lane:
Crude sold to Dangote is additional sales to Nigeria. It was never part of what was sold previously, it is a new additional market that should lead to more sales

Nigeria as more than enough crude to sell to Dangote n at the international market where it will earn forex in dollars.

Domestic sales purchase btw Dangote n NNPC is additional profit to the country n those in charge should ensure the increment is accounted for with substantial earning in the range of the $10 billion we spent importing the same substance else those at the helm have been doing round tripping to the tune of whatever is less of $10 billion.

That is another focus of fraud if Nigeria can account or save ₦10 bullion we spend buying finished product yearly previously before Dangote refinery.

Note Dangote will also be selling refined product to surrounding countries as it will be cheaper than importing from USA or Europe like they use to.

Did Nigeria tell you crude oil production has increased by 650k b/d of oil equivalent? Where then will this additional volume come from if not from existing production line. Production data hasn't changed significantly to cater for this additional volume.

EreluRoz:
She's not under any obligation to marry him or was there any written agreement that she must marry him after graduation? I don't pity such kind of men, a wide man will recognize a woman who is down for him.

He should look for the next girl and continue.

You are not smart at all, I advise you put on your critical thinking skills while reading any article in order to comprehend it first before exuding any thought.

When a marriage proposal is made to a lady and she accepts a contract between the two has been entered into. If one party breache that contract the other can sue for damages invited during the pendency of that proposal.

The only reason the man spent that amount is because she agreed to marry him , repudiating that accord means she has to pay him back those money spent. There are plethora of precedence.

Women and emotions, this is why women opt for divorce more than the rates men do, when they longer feel they quit.

If you must have a long lasting relationship, emotional feelings would not be the top priority for marriage to strive.

Emotional feelings and connections have been what the feel good industry ( Hollywood and Nollywood fantasies) have sold to most women from their time of birth to adulthood. If there is a mismatch between ideal situation (Hollywood fantasies) and real life situation they term the relationship as 'I am not feeling this marriage or relationship ".

Dopamine rush will wane off as you progress into your relationship, you are then required to bring in habits that are independent of dopamine secretion because those are the habits that ensures a lasting marriage or relationship.

Some of the things that make one enjoy a lasting marriage or relationship includes
1. Tolerance
2. Kindness
3. Empathy
4. Committement
5. Loyalty
6. Mutual respect
7. Selflessness
8. Forgiveness
9. Communication
10. Finance

Once you base your strength of marriage on that feel good syndrome that marriage is bound to fail than succeed. Marriage is work, it's a place to train and mentor the next generation of leaders in the society, this process doesn't always come rossy, most times it is exhausting, energy consuming, financially draining and require resilience and doggedness to meander through all vicissitudes of life with a positive outcome. Those traits that are independent of feel good are what helps us overcome the challenges of marriage or relationship.

It's their choice to develop themselves as they deem fit at their early twenties if they deem fit. What I don't subscribe to is after the socalled 'developing yourself 'You are still not different from the person who chose to accept marriage at her early stage of adulthood.

I still can't get it when some of those ladies who use the escueses of education as a tool to exploring and developing themselves still turn around at the twilight of their sexual market value still looking for men that will help them pay their bills. The question then arises, what then is the essence of education and self development? Why waste your time , resources and mental capacity if you can't use that development to better yourself, family and immediate environment?

It's very pertinent to allow ladies achieve their potentials, encouraging them is vital but I don't support those who negate that time which should have been used to help themselves but as a monumental failure to themselves and the society.

EreluRoz:
When a man completely fund you especially if you are not from a rich background, this is what you'll get. Harrysong truly represent his region, a lot of irresponsible men from that side of the country.

You must find way to bring tribe to discuss all the time that's what bigots do.

Your critical thinking skills didn't tell you such is what's trending for celebrities in Nigeria, check your side of the divide you wi see countless musicians who are doing same thing with loads of baby mamas , how then is the tribe of harrysomg different from yours with regards t this trend?

Postinor:
May israel be destroyed by the grace of Allah,land thieves

Don't just pray , Go to the front lines A.llah will give you 72 vir.gins.

Stay in your bedroom and type what comes to you

emperor4love:
You must be stupid for u to travel from calabar to umuahia nd was asked to lodge and u did so,without predicting de outcome,so if he had giving u de money after making his way on u,will u still cast him that he took advantage

Very stupid girl, she wanted sex for money but the guy gave her sex for sex and went home. Next time she will learn how to work and pay her bills, to her men are her employers.

Bouncing2:
Wait oh…na u screenshot that Facebook profile?

U sef nor small oh…u even de use iPhone 14 pro dey look for help..

🤔 why do i feel like this is some c ooked story!!?

You don't know whatsup, that story is just made up to collect and scam the guy money but rather the was played.

If truly she is in need why can't you sell your phone and pay for your education? Dum.b and gre.edy girl.

gasparpisciotta:
Vulnerable or stupid.

The Facebook profile should spook any right thinking person. A football agent, Nollywood actor, resides in Abuja but asked you to come to Umuahia?

Anyway she has been scammed

She is not even taking accountability for her stu.pidity what a human.

Wawelexy:
This isn't funny but I find myself laughing..... Make una no dey visit guys you don't know but una no go gree hear word... Thank God he didn't even kill and harvest your organ... But normally sha, na God go punish that guy for anywhere wey him dey

This is where her beggy attitude has landed her to. I don't check WhatsApp status anymore, whenever you check you must see a lady begging one thing or the other from people on their contact list, such people are never contented with what they have and the people that surround them.

When ladies learn accountability and responsibility this scenario will never happen again. How many times you heard guys of same age going on social media begging? They are out there struggling and trying to make ends meet. An uncontented child who isn't ok with what she can get around her vicinity (family) will always have issues going forward.

Coolsat:
Not good. He should pay for the services rendered by the desperado

Which services? Is she a prostitute?

See how the girl can not even have accountability for her actions "he coerced me" you would have said he ra.ped me.

You don't have parents, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunt's, friends etc to run to for help but an unknown guy who you both must have probably discussed about relationship and boom it t hits the rock.

Next time you will learn n that nothing is free even in free town.

lwisee:
I don't think anybody can steal 75 billion Dollars

Money that is more than twice the Nigerian budget can't be stolen by 3people . It's not possible.

They are thieves but not that amount

This Ishi need s to be taught a kindergarten lesson.

The Governor should use him as an example, everyone else will fall in line.

anslemarinze52:


I think this should be the way forward...... Try to be with her more often and see if such controlling will reduce.

You guys didn't read he stays indoors 24hours of the day from Monday to Saturday? He only has Sunday to go out, how more can he stay with her? He should not step out of his house again forever?

Bad habit should be checkmated a and not to be emboldened

Jewessgratitud3:


Na The thing wey dey finish you be that. All I see here is you feeling victimized and being defensive over nothing therefore refusing to see what you're doing to others. if you see her seeking your attention and care as being controlled and pushed around like a house boy then it's you who has a problem.

You claim to be home every day but those period you can't give her the attention she needs because youll be focused on work; mind you she sees and understands that too. Then the only time you're free that she can get your attention you chose such days to go marry your bottle and pepper soup. Have you thought of this?

By the way you never mentioned in your original op that her sister was staying with you guys until I raised the issue of emergency. Can you see that you're just being unecessarily defensive? This alone says a lot about you. You go talk whether na her sister marry her. Check yourself and adjust.

Improve on your critical thinking skills, it helps a lot when comprehending what people write and not just writing from thin air.

For those who have not gotten to this point of their life, if a lady shows contempt for her father it probably means that contempt will be extended to you therefore you have to look before you leap. I advise people at that that stage to not proceed the relationship into marriage before you get your hands burned.

shoodboi2:
If they want problem, you give them problem. No more war by proxy. Putin giving them back to back 🤣🤣

There is nothing to give them back to back, from the article he cited about crimes how did he take crimes? I'd it by peace or war? Why won't your answer be applicable to Alaska? Is Alaska not in the world map?

We are waiting to see if he can replicate that scenario rather than talking without actions. Talk does not destroy a nation but actions does. Let him shoot and so he knows the meaning of incineration.

Jogs1900:
This is not going to happen..USA will die there

This is not a topic of discussion. The guy is hallucinating.

fyzaila:


Very unfortunate for the dry cleaner . Only if integrity had allowed him to keep the phone untouched while waiting for the customer. Lesson learnt: never touch or temper with a property that doesn't belong to you even if it is in your custody.

You are right. Integrity at all times even if it may lead to bad situations.

BennyDGreat:


They would have come out easily if they had money to hire a good lawyer. The police would have to prove that the man was murdered....if not they throw it out

Interestingly these guys don't have money and one of them was actually soliciting for free services from amg brother who is a solicitor. Pathetic situation they found themselves.

yomi007k:


If the man that died was your loved one, would you still believe the stories of your suspects?

You still don't get it, no need to go further. Have a great day.

aribisala0:

And if Fubara is not a gentleman what will be do?

Hahaha, you are asking questions as if there is nothing he can do because ti you wether he is gentle or not he is powerless. There is no need to enumerate what he can do since your mind is made up.

Sctests:
He should be in jail for having such kind of friends around him. Him and his friends may be cultists or killers and may have done some kinda crimes together. He is paying for those crimes previously committed.

Those kind of buffoons cannot exist at 1000km around my cycle as friends.

This scenario doesn't happen to one person alone , the nest night be yours if truly the story is correct and you live in Nigeria.

Even so called righteous friends can abandon ship and go southwards in character which may lead to the harm of an innocent person amongst their friend click, see how you are justifying illegal detention of another because he finds himself in a bad situation. Jungle justice hasn't happened to you or anyone around you that's why you are saying this trash.

I met a someone who was incarcerated for two years because a friend (dry cleaner) gave him a phone to use in the main time (for a few days before he buys a new one same week. This is the twist, the dry cleaner had washed and ironed a customers clothes and found that phone which he later gave the guy to use for those few days (without telling his pal that the phone actually belonged to a customer). His intent was to give the friend to use for those few days before he got a new one and then bring it back to his shop awaiting the customers picking up his belongings after payment.

According to the guy, the the dry cleaner had already waited for his customer to come pick up his clothes for more than a month not knowing that the customer was already late during this period of waiting. The twist was that the man was living alone and his children found him dead after some days at home. They had to call the police and investigation were made and they found out that the phone was missing that's how they tracked the phone to the dry cleaners friend after putting on the phone and using it after 1 day.

The guy I met was arrested via tracking as well as the dry cleaner and they were accused of killing the man in his home. How is that even possible? How did they even know the house of the client ? Just because the clients phone was found in their possession they were incarcerated and locked for years.

This guy spent 2 years behind bars and was given bail while the dry cleaner has been in prison for the past six years without option of bail. You wi tell me the guy's deserved to be labeled murderers because of what? Shit happens and pray not to be in a dicy situation that is beyond your control.

pocohantas:
When we tell you to fight for your marriages, you won't listen. A man that is not ready to endure has no business getting married. Go learn from your fathers how to endure. That is why marriages of old lasted.

Why not learn manners so that you can have a blissful union.

BondRiv:


Appointment of caretaker chairmen is unconstitutional. So after their tenure, fresh elections will be conducted. We must abide by this constitution we so love.

That is not feasible in Nigeria of today, the reality is actually different from what is going on.

ufuosman:
Samuel Ikwerre lg chairman

Are you serious? Na Ishi be that? Someone that was lobbying SIM to be chief of Staff before he appointed Ehie's predecessor. That guy is the closest replica of Wike, the similarity between them is just too much.