Why are most Nigerians myopic in things of Governance, that a man or woman is doing excellently well doesn't mean he or she doesn't engage in corrupt acts even if this corrupt act is not in the public domain currently.

It's about blind support and unidirectional support. The beauty of politics is been able to be open minded and dynamic, give kudos when necessary and chastise when it calls for that.

The era where people promote psychophancy even when issues that are antithetical to the development of the country is better been committed by their political leaders should be done with. Everyone should be able to have an independent mindset and deciphering issues for himself

IamAsiri:


I am not sure if the young man will have any right over the daughter if the lady's father legally adopts the baby. Just ruminating aloud.

This scenario most times in the Nigerian environment will never happen, you know that without even going into that legal angle. So status quo will be maintained.

ipobarecriminals:
u beta stop wasting ur time dishing out this FREE training. If I'm in 9jA and u try this stuff with me,sorry go be ur surname.You can't ruined somebody daughter and still be talking.

Leave emotions out of play, you don't have any such right to disenfranchise a parent from giving care to his child irrespective of what had transpired in the past. Leave tantrums and speak the position of the law and not what comes from your emotive mind.

Law is law not what it should be but what it is.

ipobarecriminals:
u beta stop wasting ur time dishing out this FREE training. If I'm in 9jA and u try this stuff with me,sorry go be ur surname.You can't ruined somebody daughter and still be talking.

Leave emotions out of play and talk with your legal minds.

You don't have any such right to disenfranchise a parent from giving his child care irrespective of what transpired in the past, it's not my opinion but the law. Leave your emotions out of this.

Bongadu:



I've tried to be friends but she won't agree

Sending her money , she refuses


Buying gifts for my daughter, she says no

If this means doesn't work after so many trials then go the kegal route. That you left before isn't a legal right to deny you parental support for the child, The court will issue parental rights to you wether she is friends with you or not is immaterial.

Fiscus105:
Since it doesn't favour you. It's irregularities but if you are the that won, you would have labelled it a perfect one.

All primary elections in Nigeria as of today at replete with irregularities wether it favours any candidate or not. We have a long way to go

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Because we are wise. Because women don't "love" like that. Because most times who we "love" is not ready or is not suitable in other ways. Because we know there is 95% chance we'd marry the wrong person no matter what (see below).
Women know marriage is about raising a family and social standing. We know "love" quickly fades.
BUT we don't marry who we can't stand either!

This is why divorce rates initiated by women is 3 times that initiated by men.

If that's the wise decision, women won't be quiting a wise decision they initiated, don't you think so?

You didn't make love you had sex and it resulted to a lovely product of sex.


Congratulations, we are waiting for invite

Combine both, you can do it. In a decade time you will understand why you pushed yourself to the limit.

In order not to do poorly in school you have to be an excellent time manager meaning a lot of fun time will have to go to plan adequately for your tight schedule.

Supremos:
who's the foolish man?

Learn how to communicate.

Fineman2:
Lol, Muslim Americans and other groups are angry with him

Minority, Muslim Americans don't hold any significance in any state electoral college victory just as the African Americans do. As far as American electoral college system is they are irrelevant to the success of any presidential elections.

Westerhoffe:
What's this?

The moment your partner can raise his/her hand to hit you in public, give them space; you both are done… unless there is something this guy ain't telling.

Public? That's too much . Private I'm done not to talk of public.

Chinjo2:
If EFCC under Tinubu can secure the conviction of just 20 politicians then I will start supporting him.
The politicians that have milked this county dry are walking freely and getting top appointment in APC government while EFCC are running after ordinary Yahoo boys.

Are Yahoo boys responsible for lack of electricity, job, roads and quality health care in Nigeria?

Unfortunately he is the number one politicians amongst the present crop of politicians that has stolen public wealth the most, how does he want to bring down his colleagues in corruption?

This will only be easier if the person isn't corrupt like others.

cocolacec:
Nigerian men and comments.Why dont you try to calculate the woman's fertile oeriod to ascertain the probable father in this case.If men can calculate a woman's fertile period and time of ovulation,you can escape Paternity fraud.

You should know when a woman finishes her menstrual flow and the ovulation period to ascertain this Fraud. Because this window is quite small compared to the days of the month, one can guess to a high degree the paternity of all pregnancies.

TimiRume:
I remember when nairaland was filled with feminine females, toxic masculinity chased them all away.

I really want to believe the op but my instinct tells me most men will tend to abuse submissive women, that's why we have feminism today.

There is nothing like toxic masculinity, no masculinity is toxic.

Go and tell a lion in the wild he isn't the one to eat first because he is not the one that killed the prey but the lionesses. Females will never term feminity toxic but would term masculinity toxic in order to massage their egos.

Every man is different, some portray a certain traits different from others meaning there is no two person with same exact traits and personality. Inorder words masculinity becomes toxic when males exudes masculinity that females don't Ike isn't it, that's not how the world works.

NNPC has about 20percrnt stake in Dangote Refinery that's why.

lonelydora:


If you are a police officer, except bad thing to happen to you soon. All of una dey mád.

You will be fine, get well soon.

pachigo001:
Hello nairalanders my woman always complain that I don’t listen to her is it something to worry about or is just a way she want to use to manipulate me

When she gives out low quality advice and still thinks her advice is the best even if you have given her cogent reasons that are super beneficial than hers in the subject matter, that's where the problem will be.

You listen to your woman but don't just take advice because she is a woman, take her advice because it's cogent enough to supersede yours.

pachigo001:
Hello nairalanders my woman always complain that I don’t listen to her is it something to worry about or is just a way she want to use to manipulate me

Where I see a problem is when she gives out low quality advice and still thinks her advice is the best even if you have given her cogent reasons that are super beneficial than hers in the subject matter.

You listen to your woman but don't just take advice because she is a woman, take her advice because it's cogent enough to supersede yours.

Cancri:
no, you better start listening to your wife,women give the best advices,because they are mostly calm and reason deeply.
If I got married I will always listen to my wife advice the exception is any advice I considered ill about Any member of my family.apart from that I will do anything she says
So I will advice you to do anything she says.

OP don't take this advice.

Your assertion is wrong.

OP don't take anything women say but only take it based on the usefulness of the advice to the subject matter. If the advice is not cogent to displace yours then you have to discard it but if it is then you have to consider it.

OP don't ever use an advice from anyone because she is a female, you will regret it. Only use advice based on the prevailing circumstances and scenario and the usefulness of it at that point in time and not because of the gender giving out the advice

whippersnapper:
Nigeria no be only Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba oh.

Very pathetic, so called minor ethnic groups are major contributor to the Federation account and major ethnic groups are minor contributor to the Federation account while the major contributor take the back seat. Pathetic

grandstar:
This should push Mr.Ogunlesi into the billionaire ranks.

What's his share size? That will give a big clue.

lonelydora:


As long as it's a police officer, I will always justify whatever that happens to them. They are very useless and fôôlish

It's Seun I blame for letting you out of your house to meet others.

Get well soon.

saphiere:
If I understand this rubbish you typed. I'm the reason men in this forum become misogynists? Because to you I attached men and now karma is playing out right?
Seun Sarah is responsible for all the misogynistic behaviors on your forum. Misogynistic behaviors started as far back as ..... Whatever year but Sarah who joined your forum in 2020 is the originator of misogynistic behaviors.

Lastly you said I was busy posting rape news.. .My question for you is, were the news fake? Instead of you to caution your gender you're here typing epistle for me.

Some is helping you and you are still digging your hole, you are really irredeemable.

Get well soon.

hotwax:


They will soon start posting freeYemen. They will start showing pictures of dead babies..lolz

I don't really understand these guys, if you want peace go for peace but if you go for war expect casualties of war. You can't dictate the rule of engagement of your enemy just like they didn't dictate yours.

lonelydora:
The NPF I know, the ASP didn't just comply to re-park, he must have tried to "show" himself that he's a police officer.

Army don't punish someone just like that, except you proved stubborn.

Well, they gave him a pill of his own medicine.

People like you will turn around with a different comment when a lady slaps a man and he turns around to beat her up to stupor because she slapped him first.

Keep justifying brutality against people very soon it will be yours and we will all buy pop corn to dance around you while you cry.

madridguy:
Truly the Houthis are the heroes of our time. They are proven to the world what they're capable of doing.

I expected the US/UK to take the fight to the Red Sea, fight the Houthis soldiers there and not taking your fighter jet to be bombing civilians sleeping at home.

If you have differences with your fellow man, fight him at the spot, going behind to fight his aged mother, wife and children is nothing but being coward.

The Houthis have been blocking any Isreali own ship from passing the Red Sea, I expected the US/UK to take the full fight to the Red sea and not to Yemen.

Now we all can see Israel is just a light weight fighter claiming heavy weight.

You push a man and you expect him to push you back? You are a joker, the man will break your back. That's what the US and its allies are doing, go straight into their back and break the spine.

Terrorists sympathizer, very soon you all will start typing war crimes in Yemen.

Start training you will soon be deployed to the Frontlines in Yemen, 72 virgins awaits you.

Wimkeh:
When a girl denies you sex, by men’s standard, you’re supposed to deny them money and also attention.

But what happens when you go broke and can’t provide for your babe. Is it okay if she denies you only sex?

This is transactionary relationship, give me sex and I will give you money. This is what prostitutes typically do.

Run from any relationship that is based on transactions, it will never end well. Relationship is supposed to be symbiotic where each party look after the other both in good times and in bad times and not just when things are going on smoothly.

Fair weather girlfriends wi drain you to the point where you begin to regret why you started the relationship in the first place, I repeat run from any relationship where you are only loved when you give out money. Run from any relationship where your partner can't be by you when you are down.

A word they say is enough for the wise.

It means go home and take a nap.

dominique:


Another load of hogwash that can only make sense to dullards and retards. The video is not more than 20 minutes, go and borrow data and watch!

Why don't you give me the money Madam multi millionaire on a faceless forum , continue dancing the beat is on.

Jeon:
Men are polygamous in nature.

You will be fine

Wisereborn:

All these children jumping up and down in Nairaland

What do you know about the world smh

What has age got to do with sane mind and thoughts? While I was teen and during my undergraduate studies I made better informed decisions than most adults could.

Don't shutdown people because you feel you are a grandpa and others below your age don't have opinions to exude, be free and open that's the only way to tap from the endless reservoir of knowledge available in today's world.