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RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 11:12am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:
Did you think that was a statement?

It carried a question mark. How didn't you see that?
No a woman does not have a dick, but she has a clitoris, which is the female equivalent of a dick(check embryology). A woman does not stand to pee, but she can actually stand to pee, but it is not a convenient position.

Now answer the question i asked.

let me add to it, what does having a dick or standing to pee have to do with being percieved as a failure as a result of continuous rejection from women?
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 11:05am On Nov 10, 2019
ericsmith:
i don't knw hw u came abt these generalization ... buh talkin of "rejection" all humans don't like rejection. buh if u really want these to be a gender tin i can categorically tell you women fear rejection the most, the only reason why a gurl wil not work up to her crush is "fear of rejection",
Men are raised to make "attempts" in a man's lifetime he knws he will alway av to make attempts which makes him liable to "rejection" these intuition alone prepares him ...to handle it beta than any other gender will.
nobody likes rejection that is a norm buh bin abusive or violence after is immaturity.. if u av a problem wit mature guys let us know.
let me ask you a 2 questions.

What is a man's response when he is rejected by a woman because he is broke?

What is a woman's response when a man tells her that she is ugly and can't date her?
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 11:01am On Nov 10, 2019
isyourboy:
I'm following your comment in line with that guy. Can you counter his logical deductions with facts and not just emotion which you're using to flaw the truth?. He was making sense, but noticed you can't seem to offer any reasonable counter to his claim. Truly, women has no place in matters where logic is the only bargsinijt chip.

Before you say I'm trolling, be reminded that I'm not. This isn't a troll
i did counter it with facts. let me quote you there
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 10:58am On Nov 10, 2019
boiz2men:
Are you serious?

Some men consider rejection from women failure shocked

Does the man have a dicck or does the woman stand to pee?

Enlighten me please
How exactly does having a dick or standing to pee make you better?
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 10:39am On Nov 10, 2019
reservd:
Eyeness, it's not child's play putting up something of the nature you just did, it requires high level of knowledge and understanding which you are not showing in your responses. I'm not trying to discourage you but I really need you to make me buy your idea. Your comments to reactions I wish were convincing. My opinion
what part of my idea don't you buy, let's start from there
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 10:36am On Nov 10, 2019
isyourboy:
I'm following your comment in line with that guy. Can you counter his logical deductions with facts and not just emotion which you're using to flaw the truth?. He was making sense, but noticed you can't seem to offer any reasonable counter to his claim. Truly, women has no place in matters where logic is the only bargsinijt chip.

Before you say I'm trolling, be reminded that I'm not. This isn't a troll
i already did.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 10:35am On Nov 10, 2019
pryme:
I feel you are lost, you have been with the wrong crowd for too long.

You should also hold your self responsible for making poor choices.

On the flip side you could only be doing all this seeking relevance, that is lower than being childish to give conclusion on something you have never experienced.

Find a real man, but the sad part is a real man will never find your type attractive, so I expect you to be chasing your tail like this for a while with your illusions.
what made you draw this conclusion?
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:34am On Nov 10, 2019
ericsmith:
You : " They survive on their ability to obfuscate and lie to increase their sense of self worth".

A man's sense of self worth relies solely on how much of a provider & independent he is. men lie becos women don't want to hear d truth.
a man's ego is built on self worth ... we juz nid women to massage what we already av.

you: "It doesn't matter if what they say is completely true, what they truly need is a woman to completely believe their BS to make it real"

Now get these straight, the truth will alway matter n unveil itsef, sumtin true can not b a BS @ the same time believe it or not, if its real u wil see, what is seen can never be unseen. so why decieve ursef.

You : "it is why they cheat. Because their ego tells them they can" ...

lol ! we cheat becos our libido tells us to, our covetousness for pussy enforces wil cheat, money facilitate it. we cheat becos the society tells us we can. even nature as shown its man's world .. pussy get hymen why dick no get.

As men we can get away with so many tinz buh d gudnews is everyman is lookin for a woman to be gud for while women are lookin for a guy to be bad 4. jus hope 4 d best
In doing all this, you just proved me right. Thanks.
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Female Source Code. by Eyeness: 8:40am On Nov 10, 2019
Ariza:
Funny enough, both would be great fools if they do not have anything to their names than pussy and pricks to be feeling like a PRIZE. grin The world has got beyond this prick and pussy prize. The world seeks great potentials and not dick and holes fighters. grin



Well maybe the world I live in though.!
Well, tell that to Ubunja.
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Female Source Code. by Eyeness: 8:27am On Nov 10, 2019
this post becomes true in two cases 1. When a man starts to think he's the prize 2. When a woman also starts to forget that she's the prize.
it's millions of sperm to one egg. You do the math.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:17am On Nov 10, 2019
ericsmith:
what you think or accept as ur truth is entirely up yo you, we all av our version of what we call "truth" therefore we would prefer facts ... nobody can creat or own their version of facts. sit where ever ,see whatever ... las las we all must bow to the reality b4 us.
while what you said is true, could you please point out what i said that was a lie?
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:04am On Nov 10, 2019
lilwetdick:
so what is the essence of her creating this thread and commenting and running away? i think if she is not ready to counter an argument, she should better have jotted her writeups in private instead of posting it in public, for as long as it is on a public forum, she must be ready to take the hit, it is called skin in the game
i am not running away, i put a post, whether you accept it (in part or fully) or not is dependent on you.

Remember that it is male nature to want to argue, it is not feminine to argue, hence i don't do it. I will merely point out things. You said a lot of things and didn't back it up with evidence, All you kept saying was "the real world", no studies, no statistics
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:14pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
victimhood in what sense, stop making everything about you and your flawed opinion..miss attention
All i did was focus the attention on you actually.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:14pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
you dont have to believe in my version of truth

i know for sure that i am saying the truth
keep telling yourself that.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:07pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
i am not tryning hard to invalidate her views.

she herself knows that her views are flawed that is why she making sure to discredit mine

i guess it is the female ego of not wanting to listen and take corrections acting out. grin
sigh, you're boring. Now you play victim.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:05pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
lol.. this is hilarious read.... i know how hard is it for you to believe the truth, instead of countering the argument you have decided to miscommunicate opinion.... your reply was a failed attempt at mind reading
what i won't BELIEVE is YOUR version of truth, even if you want me to do so badly cheesy grin
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:04pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
lol.. this is hilarious read.... i know how hard is it for you to believe the truth, instead of countering the argument you have decided to miscommunicate opinion.... your reply was a failed attempt at mind reading
what i won't BELIEVE is YOUR version of truth, even if you want me to do so badly cheesy
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 9:02pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
lol, misinformation tactics on ground

propaganda alert.
how is it miisinformation?!

Men do not like to be exposed, and my attempt at exposing you is making you act out like a cornered rat, reducing you to nothing more than instincts.
just like crabs with a hard exterior and mush inside.

Why are you acting threatened?
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:52pm On Nov 09, 2019
BalteFox:
Now, now, honey, you don't really mean that, do you? Don't hurt my fragile male ago please. it may never heal sweety.

grin
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:48pm On Nov 09, 2019
BalteFox:
Now, now, honey, you don't really mean that, do you? Don't hurt my fragile male ago please. it may never heal sweety.

grin
she won't hurt it, you will fix your fragile ego yourself
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:43pm On Nov 09, 2019
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BalteFox:
Ladies, begging your pardon but all of this is cow-shit!

Listen carefully, there are men and there are boys who look like men. Learn to separate the men from the boys and male ego will never be your problem.

@Pettyprincess a real man will respect your space and decisions even if's rejection, but a boy pretending to be a man will insult or beat you up for that. How dare you reject him. Take a look at fumisticqueen, I've asked her out before and got a cold brick wall for answer. I did not attack or insult and you know I'm really good at that. The only woman I've ever lost it with is Khiaa and that had not thing to do with male ago, Lol, In fact I find her very interesting now. If you don't like my explanation come and beat me I'm in my house watching Arsenal disgrace themselves.

@Fumi the only thing you find antagonizing, I believe, is the prospect of a man paying your bride pride price complete. All you want is a man who will take a loan from you to pay it so he will be under your power for life. Frankly, I don't think you will ever succeed. Las las you must marry and you must shut up.


Signed Bigcowhorn
Ultimate Male Ago in Action
So bigcowhorn, which category do you fall under, boys or men?[b]
BalteFox:
Ladies, begging your pardon but all of this is cow-shit!

Listen carefully, there are men and there are boys who look like men. Learn to separate the men from the boys and male ego will never be your problem.

@Pettyprincess a real man will respect your space and decisions even if's rejection, but a boy pretending to be a man will insult or beat you up for that. How dare you reject him. Take a look at fumisticqueen, I've asked her out before and got a cold brick wall for answer. I did not attack or insult and you know I'm really good at that. The only woman I've ever lost it with is Khiaa and that had not thing to do with male ago, Lol, In fact I find her very interesting now. If you don't like my explanation come and beat me I'm in my house watching Arsenal disgrace themselves.

@Fumi the only thing you find antagonizing, I believe, is the prospect of a man paying your bride pride price complete. All you want is a man who will take a loan from you to pay it so he will be under your power for life. Frankly, I don't think you will ever succeed. Las las you must marry and you must shut up.


Signed Bigcowhorn
Ultimate Male Ago in Action
So bigcowhorn, which category do you fall under, boys or men?[/b]
BalteFox:
Ladies, begging your pardon but all of this is cow-shit!

Listen carefully, there are men and there are boys who look like men. Learn to separate the men from the boys and male ego will never be your problem.

@Pettyprincess a real man will respect your space and decisions even if's rejection, but a boy pretending to be a man will insult or beat you up for that. How dare you reject him. Take a look at fumisticqueen, I've asked her out before and got a cold brick wall for answer. I did not attack or insult and you know I'm really good at that. The only woman I've ever lost it with is Khiaa and that had not thing to do with male ago, Lol, In fact I find her very interesting now. If you don't like my explanation come and beat me I'm in my house watching Arsenal disgrace themselves.

@Fumi the only thing you find antagonizing, I believe, is the prospect of a man paying your bride pride price complete. All you want is a man who will take a loan from you to pay it so he will be under your power for life. Frankly, I don't think you will ever succeed. Las las you must marry and you must shut up.


Signed Bigcowhorn
Ultimate Male Ago in Action
So bigcowhorn, which category do you fall under, boys or men?

The real cowshit is the entireity of what your comment
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:28pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
just trolling you does not mean he cant handle rejection, some people take fun in cyber bullying and trolling..getting angry about someone trolling you means you cant handle it.
trying to explain away male behavior (bullying, stalking and possible harassment)by telling her that she is angry and cannot handle it. Make her look like the one who is in her feelings and make it her fault. We see you.

Ladies, these are the tactics men use, recognize it for what it is.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:24pm On Nov 09, 2019
ericsmith:
i don't knw hw u came abt these generalization ... buh talkin of "rejection" all humans don't like rejection. buh if u really want these to be a gender tin i can categorically tell you women fear rejection the most, the only reason why a gurl wil not work up to are crush is "fear of rejection",
Men are raised to make "attempts" in a man's lifetime he knws he will alway av to make attempts which makes him liable to "rejection" these intuition alone prepares him ...to handle it beta than any other gender will.
nobody likes rejection that is a norm buh bin abusive or violence after is immaturity.. if u av a problem wit mature guys let us know.
Typical response, trying to project your BS at others and call it a valid point. This is how we expose them one by one ladies. WATCH as they try to project their 'facts' at us telling themselves and us that they are better at arguing.

Remember ladies, a man wants you to think of what he tells you. he will paint you as wrong, shout, argue, sometimes bully and intimidate you, until you believe and see what he wants you to believe and see.

We see you.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 8:19pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
the reality of the real world not nairaland romance world

you dont see women opening thread bashing men, are you for real?? or are you in denial, you can even go on twitter and facebook and see how women bash men even accuse them of stuff and publicly humiliate men. as i have said earlier, the men exposing woman nude or getting angry because of rejection are lowself esteen men, lets be realistic what is the percentage of men doing, less than 1% but i an count the number of women, who will go as far as destroying a man's reputation just because he rejected her.

everybody fear failure not only men and rejection from women in many men worlds is not failure but gathering experience

i believe you are denial about mental health issues of women, there are many cases of women who committed suicide , cut themselves and even went insane just because a man left them

A man moving on to the next after rejection is because he knows that you are not the only female in the world, he is not stuck in idealizing a woman or in the oneitis disease, these attributes makes a man strong, these are stuff many men emulate.
LADIES BEHOLD THE MALE EGO AT WORK

He is telling himself what he wants so badly to believe is true and trying so hard to convince us to believe him.

We see youcheesy
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 6:17pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
are you serious?

it is women who dont take rejection well, i have seen women blackmail guys who rejected them, talk bad about them, demean guys, stalk them and made life uncomfortable for them.

the reality is there are many guys who dont give a f when a women reject them, they just go to the next, anyway, there are plenty of fishes in the ocean.

yeah everybody got insecurities but it is damn higher among women, many women have self esteem issues and issues that needs therapy.
Good attempt at projection and gas-lighting.

what reality are you talking about?

What exactly are women being rejected for? Asking a man out? ROMANCE LAND is a prime example of guys who cant take rejection well. i don't see women opening threads to bash guys for rejecting them, nor do i see women threatening to expose nudes.

Women have issues yes, which i will eventually trash out. but we do not project our issues or make others feel shitty because our egos are like China. We have issues and thrive inspite of them, we know when and how to seek help, which is more than i can say for some nigerian men. women develop esteem issues FROM relationships.

Ever wondered why we have more suicidal and homicidal men than women even though you claim women have more rejection issues?
MEN FEAR FAILURE, and rejection from women is perverted as failure.

A man moves on to the next one because he is not strong enough to look introspectively.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 5:47pm On Nov 09, 2019
lilwetdick:
these experiences are from low-self esteem guys

a man of higher value dont give a damn about rejection
that's a lot coming from you.

The truth is that all men dont take rejection well. High self esteem guys included. Their type is rare, everyone has insecurities. Self esteem is not lack of insecurities, it is just doing you despite your insecurities and not lending them dominance.
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 5:43pm On Nov 09, 2019
Pettyprincess:
You definately right,i have experienced it alot both offline nd online,even ilengend was still telling me today,i still remember in highschool there is this guy that was asking me out bt i turned him down since then he would never let me rest,always insulting me,spoiling my image in present of other guys,flirting with girls in order to make me jealous bt after he realized i was unbotherd he apologized to me. On facebook nd instagram same problem!! If you ignore their messages the next thing is insult I just don't understand this mentality really!!! Bt i noticed guys that do stuff like usually like this girl bt they feel the only way they can catch their attention is to provoke them later they will apologize nd wanna be friends or date you claiming they did that to get your attention!!! Only if they knew they just making it worse!! I only have two male monikers that i respect so much that i can defend anytime anyday!!!
Even my stupid ex bf will not let me be!!!
JUST because you were not wowed by their BS.
Exactly
RomanceRe: GAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op): 5:31pm On Nov 09, 2019
funmisticqueen:
This is deep,like Billie eilish deep
Does it click?
RomanceGAMES MEN PLAY: All Ubunja has In Life Is The Audacity by Eyeness(op):
What's the best way to tell a lie sis? Believe it is the truth and say it

Have you ever wondered why men get their self confidence from?Especially the broke ugly ones that abuse your pics, call you ugly, olosho, golddigger and feminist. They feel entitled to bash you online and still dont post their pics, amongst many other things men do that confuse women.
This is because there is something important about masculinity.

MALE EGO.

Men's entire sense of self identity is crafted from nothing but pure belief in their own desire and self will. Men survive on nothing but sheer audacity.They survive on their ability to obfuscate and lie to increase their sense of self worth, and OMG ladies! The lies men do tell......

They then immediately find some women's can subtly and or overtly scare, intimidate,and bully into accepting it. That's the game sweetie. If you believe pinnochio enough, he just might be a real boy.

It doesn't matter if what they say is completely true, what they truly need is a woman to completely believe their BS to make it real. What they think you think about them is more important to them than they want you to believe, it is more important than who they are.

This is why a guy starts to insult you immediately you say no to him.
It is why they ghost you when you thought things were going well, You must have conciously or unconsciously threatened their fragile self identity in some fundamental way.

Society has also helped to feed this fragile ego by letting it become acceptable to believe their exaggerated projections of themselves.

It is why they cheat. Because their ego tells them they can
It is also why they rape, because they think they can.
It is even why they believe they are superior, because they need you to believe they are.

Deep down, what men are most men are afraid of is a woman. who sees past all the BS and false bravado, or worse calls him out on it.

A woman who doesn't care what men think of her is dangerous. This is the worst concievable insult to the ego.

This is why men leave you after you struggle with him. They can't bear for you to see them at their worst.


So should you stroke his male ego? No, but you shouldn't necessarily shatter it by emasculating him.

You have the power sis. But for you to realize that, you need to have a strong sense of self identity, have a strong narrative and be the main character in your life story. Also you should set strong boundaries but still be feminine. Let me tell you how.

Point out his BS in a non confrontational way, and let the task of fortifying his self worth with character and true stuff fall on his shoulders alone. You are not responsible for inflating his ego, he is. You can show him what true self worth is like, but he must put in the work. You ain't his mama.

You have the power sis, but rise above it by giving him back so that it can't be used to hurt you, or those around you.





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RomanceRe: How Do I Collect My Money From This Pastor by Eyeness: 7:39am On Nov 04, 2019
theunnamed:
wow, this is brilliant!!!
thank you very much, lemme goan do this
how far, how did it go?
RomanceRe: Can A Girl Or Lady Date A Guy Without Asking For Money? by Eyeness: 7:37am On Nov 04, 2019
Miniso:
man must wack na grin
babe must chop and slay
RomanceRe: Chilling With My Daughter This Beautiful Evening - Photos by Eyeness: 3:23pm On Oct 31, 2019
She's so cute. please try and give her the best a father can airforce1 it is more than putting food on the table and paying school fees.

its about these little things, defending her, making her feel safe, protected and loved in your presence and when you are away.
if your child cries daaaaddddy whenever she needs something or runs to hug you to be comfortable if anything makes her unhappy, then you are doing a good job at fatherhood.

she's pretty, in a few months she will be dragging meat with you. look at those pretty teeth.

By the way, is mama #1 mama #2?

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