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That my fellows nlanders is what we call a female son

God bless you my sister

BlaqCoffee109:
Eyeness, well done... So a woman has to be the care giver, homemaker and provider...all in one?! 2buffagain and his crew try....so when the woman is all worked up looking old and all and is to tired to live up to her responsibility at night and constantly have to man up everyday to be both the man and woman...the same men will find excuse to fling her away that she is too old and they need young blood... annoyingly these same men will go out to spend their money on slay queens while their power couple wife pick the tabs. Personally I am a go getter and believe in the man as the head of the home but I still am as feminine as they come...I am going to sit looking pretty while my man do his thing. Forget all these chew gum boys that want a woman to pick the tabs and still want to form macho...na their type dey be gigolo...no real man...will have his woman call the shots especially financially....she can be his ride or die when the chips are down and support and stand by her man financially especially if he is going through a rough patch, but being the provider is exclusively his forté. My toro

Funmisticqueen you are a real psycho. Doff my hat to you.

CreepyBlackpool:
She came over, refused to fvck, still asked me to go down the street and buy her food. I bought laxatives and added to the food.
She purge tire


Ran over my ex's dog. She didn't have time for me but had enough to be taking her dog on a walk. I kuku do the dog hit and run

i found a kindred spirit

Mine was having sex on the railing of the top floor of a 14 storey building, of course at night. I kept praying not to die

xendra:
kitten niggas? , from your write up I can tell you make the list of worse men in Nigeria. So move along.

see xendra, leave the broke ass niggas alone

ChangeIsCostant:
A doctor has passed away after collapsing at the University of Benin Teaching Hospital in Edo state.

The deceased identified as Dr. Okeoghene Egigba from Okwovwori, Amukpe in Sapele area of Delta state, died in the early hours of yesterday after slumping while on duty in the hospital. 

Until his death, Dr. Okeoghene was a Senior Registrar in the Department of Surgery.

According to reports, he was undergoing training to become a full fledged surgeon before his sudden death.

It was gathered that the department of surgery was shut down yesterday to mourn the death.

A close friend Chika Ndulue took to social media to mourn the loss. She wrote; Chief Okeoghene Egigba. Dutiful, respectful, warm, jolly good fellow. Even in the world beyond, you will always have my respect. It is all souls day, may God receive your soul, may you intercede for us.
 

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/11/okeoghene-egigba-slumps-and-dies-while-on-duty-in-benin-hospital.html

nigerian patients are not worth it at all, you should have left the country. RIP colleague.

2buffagain:
So basically you are working towards cheating while you are married....as opposed to say...generating profit from a dignified business.
Well to each their own. All the best with your cuckold Maga search.

that is because i am not bound by romance. Women are polyandrous in nature.patriachy changed that

2buffagain:
So then I ask you, what happens if the man eventually decides you are not worthy to be his woman and throws you out of his house?...Replacing you with another woman?

Or do you just enjoy the idea of potential, uninhibited degradation?

that is why he wont be the only guy in the picture, my goal is to be the woman that he is too afraid tonthrow away.i work towards that daily.

2buffagain:
Again to the OP's point, You are still persisting in strawmen arguments and trying to bring extremes into a simple conversation.
Obviously anyone with sense who marries does not go for these extremes you seem intent on introducing to this talk.

You are basically trying to deflect away from YOUR dependency problems.
I remember you from previous threads.
You are the girl who is too lazy to work if she is married.

Indulge in logical fallacies all you want, you are who you are.
Just be sure you make your parasitic intents clear to the men you meet.
Meanwhile Dignified, symbiotic women will keep on bringing more to the table and keep on being appreciated.

lol, i cant come to a relationship being a man and a woman, i am just a very feminine person and beleive that men should be men and women should be women. If you like, call it parasitic, but a lot of capable men are okay with it.
What you call dignified women are merely masculine women who have to pick up the tab due to men slacking on their responsibilties and poor home training.

MissRaine69:
Let’s move away from this “real man” mindset all men are real the subject matter is women not contributing to the household they are part off that’s the bone of contention.

hahahahahaha. So the agbero on the street and deadbeat dad is a real man. marry one and enjoy the benefits these real men have to offer. Being a real man is more than having a manhood to pee from

MissRaine69:
Never said they were.

but you implied they were

Iamtosignno:
Love this girl at first sight but i don't toast her Cos am not ready to date any girl then this girl later toast me I accepted thought maybe
God Is Work
we started relationship after some months
she humiliate me as someone i love before she toast me i just overlook it two weeks after the day she give worst moment of my life to my surprise she call me i offend her i was like what the heck
I beg that thing for almost three weeks getting home lately everyday cos she is an apprentice during the time i was begging her I found out her college at work have poison her heart toward me i notice with the way they do with each other when am talking to her
i wanted to tell her
your friend have decide your life for you abi
But I remember Action Speak Than Word
She might have that in her mind too...

So Today Story like that happened

My friend really love this single number of one
He just too love her with all his heart not with his brain inshort story
He found out she has been cheating on him
This babe started begging my guy but he said it over between them she invited him to her house today to my surprise although i was not there this babe kneel down for my guy that she cannot afford to lose him confess that her friend was cultist behind her wrongdoing
she told her my guy have nothing to offer her
I just weak when my guy told me everything
Upon all the love what else again...

Girl Friends What Do You Gain From Advising Your Friends To Astray
And Girls That Heed To Their Friends Advise What You Have Gain So Far.....

op this your english is worse than bad advice.

Xaos:
Is the husband her salve?

You wear your clothes but you want someone else to wash it for you... Stop wearing clothes na if you can't maintain them. Or pay someone to do the job for you.

then men should wash theirs themselves

MissRaine69:
You overshot the point by 1000s of kilometers. Patriarchy is not what’s being argued here it’s dependency syndrome.

the two are not mutually exclusive

bukkyemotions:
How miserable it is for a fine girl who read law or any good course to sleep with a slum boy, Mechanic or ghetto boy. Sometimes the urge for sex could be so high that you just need to get satisfied. You call a local boy and he services you, and when you are done, you begin to regret and feel miserable when you remember the bank guy toasting you as you have been forming hard-to-get. Or if a guy who is so much in love with a medical doctor; but out of conji, picks a girl that sells corn into his room, sleeps with her and feels so miserable.

you simply havent learnt control, that is all

iLegendd:
There are some truth to your reply. You'll be shocked to know the one I said is the real truth.

If you pay for sex, a woman will appreciate and respect you because of paid. Who wouldn't? That respect is temporary. It's because of your money.

Naturally, people respect people with money. The repect is not real respect, but fear. A man with money can use his money to make you myserable. This is why Nigerians worship politicians. Fear or money brings temporary respect.

The real respect comes from personality and sincerity.

sadly a lot of men especially in this forum are lacking in that department

ifartonyou:
If Buhari can help us by increasing the tariff on makeup, he'll get my vote
If Buhari can help us by increasing the tariff on makeup, he'll get my vote

we dont care cos men like you will only end up paying for it

You no get sense at all

This is desperate pick me behavior. Your first mistake was standing by him, your second mistake was telling him to move in. Babes will never learn, the man is managing you until he finds his real girlfriend. You will not see broke men in threads like this, but if it is to label a woman above their league as olosho, they will be masturbating

Beke2020:
Good ing Lively Stones,

I’m 27 years old I have been dating a guy for 4 years now. When I met him I was working with an NGO in Kano state, we are from the same state (Kastina state precisely) so when we met it was easier to link up as I was not in a relationship then.

Just 3 months into our relationship he lost his job, but I stood by him and encouraged him that things will get better, I later got another job in Kaduna which was better than the one I was doing in kano so I had to relocate to Kaduna.

He became so insecure that I was going to leave him because even his friends were saying the same thing, but I assured him I will stay except if he is the one that decide to leave, after 1 year I rented an apartment and I ask him come stay with me at least we have better opportunities in Kaduna than Kano.

He came and we kept applying for any available vacancy then finally he got a job in June 2017 he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted the proposal. Then suddenly, his behavior changed totally.He became aggressive getting angry over every little thing, I complained about it severally but he will change after sometime he goes back to his old ways.

I told him to rent a house since he now has a salary. We still went ahead with the wedding preparations but deep inside of me I’m convinced he doesn’t love me anymore I try ....more




https://livelystones.com.ng/we-are-getting-married-because-it-is-too-late-to-stop-now/

Rextizzle:
It's not my fault you didn't have a responsible mother, Pele.

it is only your bitter mother that doesnt know how to train her children to respect their betters, trash is better than you cos it can be recycled. You are free to continue to be a waste to mankind. Goodday.

daviesblaze:
with this your list, dont bother because they wont bother

they already do, they just dont know what's up

I friendzone guys i like for the following reasonns:
1. He is too fine for his own good, fineguys never stay faithful
2. He is too young and still hustling
3. He is too broke to take care of me
People in this category are not the prize, so even if i like them, the crush will dissolve in a few weeks

Rextizzle:
Look at this mumu seeking for attention. you need a dirty slap to reset your fauty brain.

times 2 to your mother

mhizcassidy001:
baby you try ooooooo
if i open my whatsapp messages you go fear.
if they ask for nude and you refuse to send it to them,they will start calling you names,especially on my gmail.
you just have to be patient,block and let them go with there wahala
Gracias

anytime a guy asks for nudes, i quickly tell him to send me his account balance, that it turns me on more than nudes, that is how i keep broke guys away.

ahnie:
Now,much z it sold!

700 naira

ahnie:
What about those that doesn't apply make-up?face toner or whatever.

Any hope for dark skinned women like me...i need a good cream(not those expensive one)Tha wud make my skin shinny.

vaseline eventone with vit b3 and triple sunscreen is good

2buffagain:
My dear, as long as that pussy doesn't come with money or something else of value attached to it (e.g the owner of said pussy being able to do my taxes), it is basic and common.

pucci can never be bssic and common, change your mindset

IamD18:
Trash Trashier Trashiest!!!!

You can never see them preach against "Rape" with free mind. Always wanting to impress women by preaching and putting it like a "Men" thing.

If you wanna preach against "Rape". Preach against it by advising men and women to desist and erase rape mentality.

Not men alone.

were you raped?

2buffagain:
Maybe I've been away from the Naija way of things for a while but...

I remember in naija, young men "pursue" uninterested women until the poor things have to keep insulting him to stop.
This is borderline-rapist behavior (And sometimes even graduates to full rape sef).

A lot of guys don't get that this "pursuit" thing they think they are on can only really begin when BOTH of you already like each other.

Pursuit: "I can't meet up this evening....how about next week?"
NOT pursuit: "Leave me alone! I am not interested!!!"

Pursuit: "Sorry I can't talk right now...perhaps tomorrow evening?"
NOT pursuit: "Look here Mr Man. Don't call my phone again!"

Pursuit: "I'll think about it"..... (How to behave with this one: DO NOT contact her immediately again. Text her 3 days later to inform her that you'll be calling her 2 days later to continue the previous discussion you raised)"
NOT Pursuit: "<some insult>"

You get the gist right fellas?
Even the pursuit thing sef, has a limit. You can only be posted so many times before you abandon the project and move on to other things. It should never be that serious, and most especially, it should never involve insults .

You will not die if you don't get that girl. You give her way too much power with that mentality. You'll also notice that withholding said power is even what will make her start thinking she has missed out and you find the role of pursuer suddenly switch... If she is actually feeling you. All because you had some self-decency.

If you respect yourself, there is no reason to debase yourself when expressing your intentions to a woman you like.
ALWAYS have a mindset of "plenty of fish in the sea"....a mindset of Abundance.
Understand that whenever you convince yourself that "It must be this particular girl or no one else", you are simply lying to yourself.
There are tons of other girls even better than her, some you just haven't met yet in your current stage of life. (And trust me, you will meet tire as you get older.)

If she isn't feeling you, she isn't feeling you. Keep it light, respectful and wish her all the best in her journeys.
IF she IS feeling you, and yet is foolish enough to be sending *NOT pursuit* signals to you, walk away all the same. Your dignity must come first. Don't tolerate or accept that baseline disrespect from the start of your non-existent relationship. Start training these women not to form too much lest they miss out....and thats if she is interested and forming. If he is trully not interested, not every girl is for you.

while i whole heartedly support your post, this only works for desperate pick me females, not gurls with game.

TheStrongest:
HOE!!!
seems the post pained you much

so dumb!