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Yoloboy098:
We met one Saturday afternoon in my area ... We exchanged contacts and started texting each other.. I told her about my interest in dating her but she made a statement I cannot forget.. she said she doesn't need love from any guy.. I felt maybe it's due to past relationships that never worked out with her because in our conversations she talked about having some relationships that just didn't work out because she was getting tired in the relationships...

Fast forward.. after a week to two of phone calls and texting .. she came on a visit to my apartment.. I brought up the issue of we getting along together but she said no she wasn't in love with me.. she told me she don't want anything to happen between us.. she said she only like me as a friend but she don't like me for a relationship..

While trying to calm her down into believing my words of treating her right with a good heart.. I realized that while playing with her hairs and running her neck slightly .. she was getting more relaxed by resting more comfortably on the bed.. I made a move on her and gave her a kiss.. she first waved her head away but I went for her cheeks and started kissing her cheeks and neck.. she was getting more relaxed and never pushed me away.. I made a move for her boobs and brought it out and started sucking it and she started moaning and rubbing her hands on my head.. I moved my right hand down.. pull up her gown and made a move for her pussy.. I used the tip of my middle finger to shift her pant and dip my finger into her pussy.. she was already dripping wet and I continued sucking her nipples while rubbing her clitoris faster and started fingering her.. she increased her moaning...

I shifted up a bit to pull off my boxers but she stopped me.. she asked for a condom.. I told her I was not having any but I will make sure I won't realease my sperm into her.. she changed her mood and insisted that if at all we were going to have sex that she wouldn't do it without protection.. after much persuading she still refused . she got up and dressed.. after few minutes of talking with me she said she was ready to leave..

I walked her off .. she even refused to collect the money for bike from me.. she said she has enough change with her.. she got a bike and left.. I sent her a text on WhatsApp to ask if she's home.. I realized that my message only dilivered without being received because of the single mark sign.. I have been calling her but everytime the call goes through instantly it says number busy which is a sign of barring my line

Please nairalanders.. what could make a girl be acting like this

Best147:
Hope you don dey comot pant? Snap am well oo

Justiceleague1:
Whatever,igive it to Algeria

Martinez39:
@Amarabae and Eyeness

I have heard of such allegations but when I asked a doctor friend of mine, she said she has never heard of sexual harassment. She also said that there might be bullying due to the fact that the medical community is hierarchical but it's rare.

Chipink:
My dear it does I know u are trying to defend it profession being a nurse.
Doctors, especially ones who attend to pregnant women do many abominable things.
Nurses many also mingle with doctors

I was in this what's app group last year where we had 2 doctors , u need to hear what they say some doctors do

paulos8:
Super falcons standup captain Rita chikwelu released these photos...i have my reservations though. Is this what sports has done to her or is there another explanation

Nackzy:
Go to your school and request for a new one or go to court and do the needful

excessmon:
Awesome answers

Can you please differentiate between maturity and masculinity

MrBrownJay1:
Borrow 100k to this stranger you just met who is about to travel away from where you reside?! Why/how/what for?!?!?! How will you get your money back, if he decides not to pay back?! What do you know about this stranger apart from his phone number?!

Just be honest with him:" as much as I like you, I don't know you well enough to give you my LIFE's SAVING. I don't trust you in such a way, and don't think I will in such a short time. Pls don't mistake my honesty with anything else than me being honest and careful here. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best"

excessmon:
Pls normal opinions needed pls....



Thanks

PStacks:
you never go igbo land make dem give you marriage list be that na

PStacks:
just getting to hear this for the very 1st time


didnt know it had islamic perspective.


Altho islam and Christianity are borrowed religions and not our indigenous traditional religions.


then whats the bride price for?

Dont think its tge same with christainity tho

olaboy1:
Using a sociopathic solution to solve a psychopathic problem will not end well.
What happens if the irresponsible sperm punter forgets to take his sick baby to the hospital and the baby dies, would the outcome make you feel better and sleep well at night.

I know this piece is meant to provoke a debate, but keep in mind the repercussions are too enormous for the society. I wouldn’t advice a father to dump his baby with a savage mother either. It’s better you channel your campaign to legalizing abortion in Nigeria.

akinwale701:
Haba. That was harsh, you know?

tosyne2much:
Are you for real?

You know the repercussions of marrying an AS patient yet you want to take the risk

Are you okay at all?

Heeyor:
Any Lady that cannot control her urge for money is not really ready for marriage,bro marry her at your own peril .I am very certain she will fall prey again
and again. She might need money in future eventually to get something you probably term as unnecessary expenses, what stops her from resorting to selling her body to fulfill her needs. Young man,
be wise , even the bible condemned money as
the root of all evil.

Amakavula:
When ladies look for male partners, we look out for special traits that define his character. For me, it's self acceptance, and confidence. A man who isn't ashamed of his body or person.

I once met a guy who I really liked, he had a mole at the side of his neck which disturbed me, so I mentioned it to him.



Some other guy would have apologized and try to explain how he is struggling to remove it, which for me is unappealing.

Traits I look out for in a man

Confidence
( absolute priority )

.Self love, either short, shubby or thin ( he like his self and body the way it's )


. The way he treats people below him ( a powerful man is more compassionate because he has the power, not trying to )
yelling at the cleaner or Waiter isn't attractive.

. Anger ( yes he knows when to use his anger ) he can get physical and show his dominance in necessary situations.


.The way he treats his family ( support and love )


.Treats himself during dates ( a man who buys #40000 worth of food for me and #0 for himself is a failure. He should make me understand his budget and how it should go, lead, I will make suggestions regularly but lead! ( don't mean I like broke guys )


.Disagree with me, I don't mean everything and showing me am stupid or his is smarter. But I need opinions, then support but not 100% supporters club.


.He is unbothered by competition, he knows his worth, stalking me is a no no.

.Goals, he should know where he is going with or without me . I am not fixing anybody's life.

.Freedom. He should understand I want to explore and meet other people so he should keep his distance.

.Support me without me asking. Even If IAM too proud to ask anything.

A matured man should
know when to support me without the actual request. He should get it.


For you what Is it ? what traits do you look out for before you say a man is now a fully matured or a real man ( not material things ) just characters you look out for ?

MissRaine69:
Situation or is this the norm these days?