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lasisi69:
Your exposure from a young age to the realities of the world is a super big thing !!! The best advice or gift i can give all y'all is to practice MINDFULNESS... Love everybody ( the heart must become a sea of love and your mind, a river of detachment...This is because, ATTACHMENTS leads to SUFFERING . In all, Get closer to GOD !!! Nuff said

Be Happy

English Please!!

The hungry nigerian cannot be mindful

[quote author= post=103475768]Update From . COM

Emeka Anyaegbunam from Nnewi, Anambra state and his wife have welcomed a set of triplets after 12 years of marriage, Reports.

Members of the Anyaegbunam family who Notified and took to Facebook to announce the goodnews as well as thank God for his blessing.

According to Emeka's sister, Ngozi Gloria Maduabum, the children, all boys, were born on June 30, 2021, Learnt.

"Here comes our wonderful, miraculous babies. (Three boys) God of wonders, I am still thanking you on behalf of my brother and his wife. Friends and family pls help us and continue to thank this our God o, cos who doesn't know will not understand. Receive all the Glory God" she shared on Monday, July 5.

On July 4, another sister, Chinenye Anyaegbuman Ewuzie, wrote: "There is nothing u cannot do protocol breaker, Jehovah overdo,I appreciate you for blessing my elder brother with triplets all boys,after so many years of waiting upon you,All we have to say is thank you Lord,"

On Tuesday, July 6, Emeka's younger brother, Ugochukwu Anyaegbunam, confirmed the good news.

"OUR ALMIGHTY GOD BLESSED MY SENIOR BROTHER EMEKA ANYAEGBUNAM WITH TRIPLETS(THREE BOUNCING BABY BOYS) AFTER 12YEARS OF BEING CHILDLESS,HOSANNA IN THE HIGHEST."

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG[/quote]we all know it is through IVF and not pastorpreneurs, but let us thank God.

sirjamesjnr:
Sweetheart, you have always been the very best friend to me right from the day we met. I may lack the right words to let you know on this valentine day how much you mean to me.
The sounds of your voice, like a melody for my heart, is sweet, gentle, it always eases the pain. The touch of your hands makes me forget about everything that seemed important before. The expression on your face is a divine picture created by God. Ife mi, I want to dissolve in your inner beauty and love.
I need you to know there’s this thing that holds my heart down whenever I think about you, I would have called it love, but it’s more than just love, and Words lack a name for it. Indeed, I am glad that you are my own, and I am yours, true soul mates we shall always be to each other. In times of challenges, know that I am always here to lend a helping hand. In tough times, know that I will always have your back to protect. No matter how tough the situation gets, know that you will always have my shoulder to lean on.
I can’t explain the way you make me feel when I hear your voice or see your face, but I adore it. Loving you is the best thing that has ever happen to me. I never regret the day you came looking for an apartment to rent on this platform(Nairaland), Since that day, you became everything I ever dream of in a woman.
You are the sweetness that breathes love into my heart and my tongue shows forth the fruit of your sweetness. What else do I want in a woman? Babe, beyond the physical look, you remain the truest person who has made my life so beautiful. Sometimes I check the mirror again and all I see is the expression of your loving heart.
Happy Valentine. DrFunmisticGlow.
I choose Nairaland to send this to you because this is where it all started. ...

i cherish you, love you always,.
Happy?! I love you
Sad? I love you.
Angry? I love you.
High? I love you,
Mellow? I love you.

No matter my state of mind, i love you.


Every part of you.

You are the leaven in my bread.
The alcohol in my wine
The THC in my pot
The nicotine in my cigar.
The MDMX in my money
The sugar in my cake.
The tiny garage to your big truck.


I love you emotionally too.

You rock. Literally

Celenwa1:
SO bad why terminating an rnocent unborn babY.People should know how to zip up.

pls help SAVE A SOUL
I have spinal injure now
suffering paralysis and
limited Hand function
use.see my signature
for video evidence and
full story

do you know that the north has a high rape rate?

That place has a dwindling and aging population. of course they want corona babies

NobleDeSage001:
It would be necessary to hear your husband's side of the story too. But the two of you share the blame equally.

For a marriage to work, both partners must contribute to its success with mutual respect, understanding, sacrifice and patience.

Perhaps, these were lacking in your marriage at some point.
Madam, the truth is that you disrespect your husband and he felt less of a man. The easiest way to reduce a man to rag is to disrespect him. No man can stand a disrespectful wife.

You described your husband as a man with a large heart. How was it like for both of you at the onset of your marriage? That means that there is something making him act the way he does at home or most likely, you don't know or understand the man you got married to.

He started beating you with the hope it will get you to accord him his due respect.
If you are not ready to respect him, forget the idea of going back.

Ask yourself, what exactly would be the reasons why you want to go back. Have the factors that drove you apart been addressed conclusively?
Answer these questions sincerely and decide if it's worth another chance.

Forget pastors abeg. What is God telling you? Pay attention to His voice...
Peace be with you

so wh does the husband want her disrespectful ass back. Granted we should hear his story. but for a woman to call a marriage hell. it must have been hell.

Slurity:
For the sake of heaven, your children and your happiness. Try to forgive and go back to him but with different approach and agreement that he will change and take all responsibilities in the house and you MUSt stop spending your money even on yourself. Rely totally on him for everything until you are convince he has change. There is no crime in leaving him again if you discover he don't want to change.

you are evil

Zaronxpanol:
Thanks all for your comments.
On a serious note, I need a bible scholar or a religious leader to read my story and advise me in this scenario. Because it seems I am the one been painted as a black sheep. My ex-husband has an innocent face and he is good at gaining public sympathy and pretending.

leave the church. the church cannot dictate what you want.

purples25:
I'm glad you at least understand where I'm coming from. Sometimes I feel that the only thing that can make a man responsible may be religion. Because religion demands for a man to be the head. How can one mention that a woman should have standards and they are going haywire. Perhaps, the world has gone mad. How would a woman work and also keep herself in sync with you and just be supporting you in sensible ways whilst you do nothing towards her own wellbeing. I mean nothing, he is so selfish that he is unable to even call to ask how you're doing, but his main care is sex. How are they so selfish?

They said a woman that sets a standard is being bought. I disagree. This is because when you do things for the one you love, it is not considered as buying them over. Rather, you are caring for that person. If I have a boyfriend and I spend on him, it is a gesture of love, I am not buying him. The same for someone that has a fiancee. Thanks for sharing your angle.

I hope khia sees this

purples25:
A friend, Eyeness, made a topic on something similar and i believe it was misunderstood. She was referring to what a woman should do based off the experience of dealing with men that REFUSE TO MAKE ANY EFFORT in their relationships. What i wonder, is why anytime a woman mentions 'comfort' men go crazy calling her a gold digger and all sorts.

It is not wrong for a woman to have standards. This DOES NOT MEAN THAT SHE WILL NOT WORK, or that SHE WILL DEPEND SOLEY ON HIS MONEY. In such cases she just wants someone she can truly depend on.

In my opinion, even if you wish to pick a poor man, pick one that, if he has the opportunity, he will treat you as you deserve. Even if, in a year, he comes across 5000, out of it, he will do something for you, with 1000. Someone that is ready to DO SOMETHING, to be A MAN. Not some dude that just wants to be sleeping with you forever, and he neglects you emotionally, not calling and all. Then also, when he has little money, cannot even appreciate you. This very behavior is what drives the woman to the rich man. The poor man can be nasty and neglectful. At least, even if the one thing gained from a rich man is being cared for to some extent, it is better than the poor man, who schemes to trap a woman with claims that if she does not stay, she is a gold digger: yet these poor men neglect their women like rags.

thanks for the mention. the issue is even if you pick a poor man, what assurance will you have that he will still be faithful when he becomes rich? wealth has a way of amplifying people's truth character, then there's also the fact that he might never be rich. you become poor by association and you have to pick up his slack. this will naturally create resentment which will threaten the relationship. Its too risky a gamble. the best thing is to work with results, not potential. being strategic about your future is nothing to be ashamed of. This makes me a proud golddiger.

adetoroamos:
Whenever i have new haircut there use to be much of acenes on my face, pls what cause it and once i leave my hair to grow, i will be acne free or been long i have haircut my face will be so fresh. Am a guy tho

on your face, or on your beard area?

xendra:
Do not argue with everyone, you should know that not every woman has standards some even do 3.somes to please the assholes they call man some now mask it by claiming they wanted it too.....but we all know deep down if the man wasn't up for it they wouldn't.

yes. Thanks

emmaodet:
Alright, message well copied and noted

I know I quoted sexylassie, why did you edit her name out?

bammo:
You sound like the owner of the Website

We can have a civil discussion, without trolling, calling names or exposing personal secrets.


Anyone who does such will receive immeadiate action. I thought this forum was full of humans, not dogs

[quote author=phazotron post=894868][/quote]Never in your life insult me or anyone in my again. Keep your disrespectful behavior at home, where your bad behavior is allowed. Don't behave like a wild animal here or you will be gunned down as such.

purples25:
Lol so my reward is to be the home of a goat.

Ha women don suffer

I tell you.

Emmaodet, sexylassie, arthur2021, Martinez39 pls be civil on my thread.

There's more to life than trolling each other.

I draw the line when insults are thrown or dirty laundry is aired in public.

Contribute to the thread with becoming rabid dogs and disgracing yourselves. Sexylassie pls take note

sexylassie2:
Your pic are old, suddenly to prove you work on a vessel, you quickly posted your old pic.

The salaryslip showed 2018, your contract also started the same date as it was printed on your contract, but you didn't show us when the contract will be over, no contract runs till 2020 now especially this moment when their is crisis.

As I have written contracts are short term especially for 2nd mate.

Why did you blur out the date on your payslip?

I am not calling you out for grinding groundnut, what I was calling you out for was the half truth.

let me sip tea!!

sexylassie2:
Most men like you will complain if she doesn't give you sex after taking your money.

I can say that you are confused.

Very confused human beings

khia:
I would be offended if a man saw me as a woman who has a price tag to be bought. I would rather he give me his respect, time and heart. Material things I can buy for myself. It's your culture that has convinced you that a man must spend, spend , spend on you in order to deem you valuable which is ludicrous. This concept is what breeds entitled gold diggers.

your culture has also convinced you to be the breadwinners and packmules of your households to hobosexual bum men. To pin after men who don't want you and think it's better to go for white trash. Men who can't protect you and build your community

I think I'll take my culture anyday to yours

StrenuousBlog:
My sister was just going through some photos online. She stopped abruptly when she saw the picture of a beautiful woman, happily married to an old man.



She was irked by the ladies caption. "I am blessed, and so excited to have married the best husband on earth".


My sis scoffed at it, saying, " how can she be so audacious to call this old man, the best husband on earth"?


Without even looking at the photo, I simply asked her, does a husband have to be young to be considered good?



I went on, that man might just be the only person that makes her really happy, treats her well, love and care for her genuinely. And makes her feel like the Queen she is. She must have her reasons.


You see, some things are not just in black or white. Especially marriage. It is never this way or the high way.



This doesn't in anyway mean older men are the best. Far from it... But just because you can't see yourself getting hitched to someone older or younger than you, doesn't mean you should judge anyone who decides to.



If you do not appreciate a chubby lady, don't bother getting married to her. You might trample on her self esteem, in your bid to get her to your desired shape. It is a different ball game if she wasn't that way when you married her.



You do not admire a short man? Don't "pity" him by wearing his ring. You might end up comparing him with every male specie you come across.



Not everyone can start small with you. Some ladies do not see "potentials". Don't make her feel like she's doing you a favour by staying with you.


Look for that one that understands your vision. You like men that speak well? Wonderful. We are in this together sis. Look out for him. Don't get married, and start correcting him at every turn.



If you can't stand a successful woman, please do well to marry a woman that has her vision aligned with yours. Don't "go with the flow" because you like the "idea" of an independent woman.



You like them already prosperous before meeting you? Jesus still have rich children you know. Don't lower your standard because you want to change your surname.



You like to be spoilt, taken to expensive dinners, malls or vacations? Own it Sis. IT IS NOT A SIN. It doesn't reduce your annonting or glory. Through prosperity shall His kingdom be shared abroad, the scriptures says.



Let him know that. If he can afford it, great. If he can't, you both can work towards it. Don't pretend and tell yourself you want to be "wife material".
I mean, "wife materials" do not fake it. It's just who they are.



If you love a woman that will tow Sarah's path by calling you "Lord", and serve you food on her back. Great. Do not go about despising, or speaking ill about people that would playfully call their husbands big head, goat, fish or the likes.



One man's food is another man's poison
If you have a conviction to marry him when his only possession is his standing fan and foam. Don't let anyone deter you.



There's no written law on how much you should be earning before settling down. If there is, it was written by someone. And you know, we do not have the same experience.



No matter how many books, seminars, tutorials, articles etc you read on marriage. It would never be enough to guide you through it. But, there's a Spirit in man.


Source: [url=strenuousblog.com]strenuousblog[/url]

this is a beautiful article.keep it up

crownedrookie:
Yes

that is so dumb, it can't even qualify as logic

Genset:
Don't mind them ooo . Na only broke guys full Nairaland. It is very visible from the way they type . Broke men ain't shit . Una go weep tire especially that emmaodet that his wife feeds.

Lol!!

Men that are fed by their wives are the worst. Hobosexual lazy bums.

Genset:
Don't bother about me dear . I like them rich and I already got myself one from Enugu. I love being taken care of by my man. It makes him look so handsome to me.

The way it should be.

Martinez39s:
What's the need for this topic? Is it motivated by my topic? If you like a rich man, go for a rich man. Red pill men are not bothered by your choice, we don't just care. Even if all women start shunning redpill men, we wouldn't be bothered.

what topic is that?

I mentioned your name because you are one of the noisemakers on this platform. Not necessarily because I take an active interest in your content

21cents:
ignore the way I wrote and pay attention to the points raised.

the original post constructed by you has given me more than enough peek into your character and persona, so I'm definitely not making the assumptions myself.

very interesting how you claim to know me by reading just one post.

If you can't make your message presentable, then we could discuss like mature adults. Have a wonderful day

ccffwx:
All you've said is the truth. An old man whose children were all grown and had nothing to pretend about confided in me that these men know what they were doing and would constantly take advantage of gullible women. Even some of these women know some of these things you have typed but will keep at it. Very real article.

Thank you

See finishing, drop him down a peg or two, then shame him for good measure.

XhosaNostra:
LMAO. How amusing! You're a nutcase, that's for sure. A deluded one at that. I think we have a few similarities, in fact, one of which being the fact that I don't give a toss either so save me the menstrual meltdown & aimless attempt at verbal assassination. It doesn't faze me. That stuff may work on the weak targets you meet in your every day life, but I'm of a different stock & you may have just met your match if you're under some belief that you draw the quickest pistol, verbally. I got my own arsenal & an I don't give a shìt attitude of my own, so you're welcome. Fruitcake, meet the fearless one yet, with enough wit of her own to run circles around you, unlike the stùpid ones who let you demean them & thus, got you thinking you're some badass. I chew up people like you like curd. I gave an input, but don't mistake it for thinking I truly care about your fùcking problems & how to solve them. You could remain the miserable fart you are for eternity for all I care. You wanted to know what people thought of your shìtty, garden-variety personality (nothing exceptional about it, you're just another wannabe because you probably read it somewhere that narcissists & the like are intellectually gifted or you just wanna give off the impression that you're Spock-like, whereas, you're probably a fùcking big baby in reality) & I said my piece, so I don't give the slightest fùck what you think henceforth for I said what I needed to say. Fùck ya thoughts! Compliment accepted for thinking I was trying to be smart when I wasn't even trying A few things people can fake, but being smart is a hardest one to pull off convincingly. So if it appears to you, self-acclaimed brainiac that I'm at least trying, then I must have perfected my act. Mission accomplished.

pDudd:
There is nothing wrong with you bro. You just don't want to get rejected again so you're more careful. Daz all.

The OP is displaying classic signs of Antisocial disorder. He is totally different from you. Such people find it hard to maintain a relationship due to the characteristics of the disorder. I feel sorry for him. A past traumatic relationship probably precipitated it.

exactly. It's a personality disorder, it's not just one event that caused it. Some nigerian men are like that

purples25:
I console you dear. We need to think of the future. A guy that is broke but loves you will at least do some things. Here we are demanding the barest minimum, and for that we get called names. He doesn't try for you today, he will never try for you in life. I've seen it with my two eyes.

Last last he will tell you thank you. Tomorrow when he is rich, you will see a fresh, fair, pretty young Igbo( no offense) girl on his fb account. All the pictures and places he never took you to, na so so post you go dey see for fb. Them go chop chicken, chop meat, go clubbing, swimming. Introduction, marriage, lavish one. Then you will know they are not angels. And i bet you, that other woman never suffered. She saw a rich man and went for him.

70% of Nigerians are poor, and a number of them are broke men holding on to the pipe dream that they will be rich tomorrow.

It's 2020, we are still waiting for all of you to blow since 2008. But asking women to jeopardize their futures on your dream is pure selfishness.

Newbielearner:
Bro, I think I and you are both wrong for visiting this thread. I think the topic depicts that's for ladies only.
However, I think you and I were curious. So we visited.
I wasn't disappointed to see what I saw. Op was constantly using the word "spend." The word "invest" never occurred to her.
Who wants to harbour unproductive liability in a human vessel?
Someone with a creative mind would not have to ask before you invest in her ideas. If you spend on her, it should be by choice not the usual send me this and that.

If you want someone spending on you, he'll be spending on others as well, and wouldn't worry about how you feel when he does what he does to what he buys, not what he invests in. Some ladies no this. So they stun you by rejecting some of these things. Otherwise, in the end you'll end up a single mother.

You should know bro, the right woman that understands your ideology would come your way. Not the typical Nigerian lady that turns a billionaire to a millionaire.

Some Nigerian ladies are actually the best. They make you feel like they have a plan. How they even go as far as going against your business competitors, ask you how something even you have forgotten about played out. How they just blend with your life and make you even want to grow better.

The onos is on us to keep filtering through and avoiding leeches. A virtuous woman is hard to find. But when you do, you should know God has favoured you, and invest in her, pet her, and be faithful.

spend and invest. All euphemisms for the same term, putting money and resources where you see value. I just used the simpler word out of the two. I am not after political correctness.


I am not surprised by your response either, resorting to cheap blackmail and shaming telling ladies " you'll end up single at 30" "you'll end up a single mother" is no longer effective.

My threads give ladies the hard facts and the skills they need if they want to navigate the dating and relationship waters and come out with the best of both worlds.

Who says the ladies I speak to do not have a plan? Or are not virtuous? Women add value to men by simply being in their lives because they are multipliers. If the women you come across are giving you crap, it is most likely because crap is all you have to offer in the first place.

We don't want men who are all talk and no action, who can easily promise love but can't invest/spend on our business or our futures.

Women are not the liability, broke men are.


I encourage you to keep filtering leeches, since you were already anaemic to begin with.


Isn't it funny how the men that have come to this thread all make claims of having cash??