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Should any man lay a finger on me, I'll cut his balls and then claim self defense which isn't far from the truth.

Right. How old are you?

Simple. She only wants to be your friend. FRIEND and NOTHING more. Meaning, she doesn't want to go out with you, she doesn't want to be intimate with you, she isn't interested in you, seriously, you've got no chance whatsoever (for now at least). Wanting to be in a relationship = wanting to date you.

@ poster,

Are you living in the same Nigeria where I was born? You want to tell a woman (a nigerian woman) her husband's cheating on her WITH YOU (wonders shall never end). She'll kill you, cut you into pieces, use ur body parts to cook egusi soup and serve it to her husband. Good luck!

@ poster

pay attention to ur wife when she speaks. Listen to her and then reply her with love, understanding and RESPECT even if u disagree with what she's asking of u. u can lovingly say NO and give her ur reasons for answering that way without squeezing all ur facial nerves.
Men u've got to admit that a lot of times when u say NO it's usually in harsh tone. Women don't like that and in response, they'll keep on nagging.

BUT then I want to say that it is in some women's nature to nag like hell. Well for the guys that find themselves in such situation, mmm, there is nothing u can do but ask God for help. This thread is not going to help you!

Stubborn

Gentle

I'd love to chat with Abraham. I'd love to know where he drew his level of faith and trust from. I don't know of anyone who'd want to sacrifice their kid (for nothing in return) not even when they are "spirit filled."

Objectively speaking, 12 years is a significant gap BUT if you are sure you love him (like really love him) then it should not be a problem. Besides, at that age he must have attained the level of stability most girls wish for in a man. Bonne chance! (good luck!)

Daddy

Funny!

If you are beyoncé, then I'm the black version of Angelina Jolie.

Biggest lie of the century.

Yes. Men do act strangely when there's another girl.

yeah! I forgot that one. Thanks.

It depends on the woman. It could be love, affection or money. Basically the same thing a man would want in an affair (except the money).

Where I am they both pick up the bills (serious or no serious relationship) except one party decides to do something extraordinary.

Not all women are like that. Most of the time women know what they want in a relationship. If a woman is in love, money won't be an issue but sometimes guys tend to confuse us. When you start dating a guy he spoils you with gifts, sweet words etc but when the thing becomes a little bit serious, he'll automatically reduce the mesure with which he'd been worshipping her.

true!!!

lakers:
Personally, i wouldnt want an educated girl for a relationship right now, i just need to tap some ass which educated girls don't seem to give easily when compared to uneducated girls.

I'll tell you that it isn't easy to discard any woman (educated or not). You might just end up tapping some uneducated woman's ass for a long long time.

If the guy keeps cheating on me. I'll let him go without any consideration.

I see love as a risk. You either give all or nothing and when you do give all you just might get hurt. It's funny cos there are no assurances.

Neither am I. I actually think they are in a much better position to relate with me.

ask am well!!!

You are in a mess cos you had 2 girlfriends in the first place. Sort it out yourself big guy!!!!!

There are no words to justify such an act.

Just like evryone said, some men find such women intimidating. Some men are all about their ego and no common sense.

True. Beauty is more of an inner thing.

g rien compris.

yeah.
My point is that it's possible to be loved when you are poor or rich. Money can come anytime. That's the reason why I think love is much more important in a relationship.