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Francisanointed:
Pardon my grammatical errors
A lot of people who regretted getting married to their spouse can attest to the fact that they saw the "red flags" but they insist on continuing the relationship and getting married.
Why do people do this ? Married men/women, single ladies/guys,what make/made you to think of marriage even after the red flags
A girl continues a relationship or marry a guy that beats her often,cheats on her unrepentantly,abuse her and disrespects her.
A guy continues a relationship where he sees the girl cheats,lies and disrespect him. Sometimes you know there are things you can't naturally tolerate but you tolerate them in relationship and eventually when you get married,you want those things you tolerated in your marriage to stop. That is impossible!
I know you can't marry someone that is 80 percent a version of you. But you must know what you can cope with

Why do people get married with someone they saw "red flags" ?

naija4life247:
Allah will not support a dummy F9 Parallel.

Omisore + Oyetola + Tinubu will humiliate all of you and your dumb Ade de Dancer Olodo F9 Parallel

tillaman:
Trump has been gobbling on putin’s Balls since inception
He speaks so highly of Putin, probably the Russian hackers really played a important role in getting him into that whitehouse

Kriss216:
I can't imagine myself begging my wife for sex.

If I touch you and you give silly excuse, I'm out of bed immediately. That's where 4:20 comes handy.

SenatePresdo:
If Messi was as Desperate as Ronaldo is for Glory, they would have changed Soccer to Messi.
But even as effortlessly as he plays his game, he's still a thousand miles ahead of CR7.

I thought Ronaldo loves Challenges? Why is he moving from one Most successful club to another? Why didn't he go to Arsenal?

Real Madrid is the most Successful Club in Spain and the world.

Juventus is the most successful club in Italy.

Man-United is the most successful club in England.

Where then Is the challenge his fans always shout about?

Messi haven't been in any most successful club, yet doing wonders.
for the Records, Barca isn't the most successful club in spain, neither is PSG the most successful Club in France, Marseille is.

It's Good to choose your Goat as a wise man.

With this, I hope I have been able to change your mind to accept the real Goat.



Like for Messi and Share for Ronaldo

uchkochi:
If the table is refusing to turn to favour you. God is changing your seat tonight.

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms This is so sophisticated Ogbeni Dubai is very very good For enjoyment, flexing and relaxing
But if you are going to work or hustle there is a no no You don't make the money in Dubai But you spend the mulla in Dubai
If nah for hustle try Korea, Cyprus and co Unless you dey bomb steadily

Dproperties:
Hi there,
With a strong heart, I am typing this content.

I as of 5th May, applied for a loan from the instant loan App downloaded from the Playstore(Palmcredit) which is less than a [code][/code]20,000 but they didn't disbursed the said amount into my bank account linked to them despite waiting for 24hrs.

While waiting, their application on my phone had actually recorded that I am owing them which I didn't receive any money at all, they allegedly said that I owe them for I did not receive the sum as they claimed.

They have my contact details including Politicians, Landlords, Business Partners and lots more which is contained on my phone as their App did accessed my contacts listing over 800 phone numbers.

The case is, today I received a threat from them that they're going to inform all of my contacts of the accurance, (Screenshot attached) which I regarded as palmcredit "blackmailing" me because I didn't see the money.

These has made me to visit my bank branch and seriously nothing from them came into my account as of today being 1st June.

I'm Abuja base Junior Property Consultant and all of my contacts are very important to me and each contact is worth more than a Million Naira, so. With their threat and if they go ahead to take the action without them consulting their bank it's gonna cost me a lot.

The case is something like;
-I applied for a Loan
-They allegedly disbursed it(I didn't see it)
-They're now Blackmailing me (Threats)

As the case might be, they are spoiling my Credit Records with their incompetency in service delivery which might affect me when applying for a loan or travelling out.

And Two, should they send Messages to my over Eight hundred contacts spoiling my reputation, it's going to be a bad business for me as no one would like work with me.

Note: I have checked my bank statement and there's nothing from them.

Stated above is what I am going through.

What would you do when you find yourself in this kind of situation.

And should they send such messages to my contacts, what would you have me to do?

NwaChibuzor:
That woman is not serious at all. Instead of her to calculate her labour week and get admitted in a hospital shes there giving birth in a plaza. Also she is very foolish. During hard times like this, she is supposed to lock up and avoid pregnancy. Her mates are accumulating money shes there accumulating sp**m. Now I wonder what shes going to feed that poor child after weaning it. Maybe na stone she go give am chop.

NwaChibuzor:
That woman is not serious at all. Instead of her to calculate her labour week and get admitted in a hospital shes there giving birth in a plaza. Also she is very foolish. During hard times like this, she is supposed to lock up and avoid pregnancy. Her mates are accumulating money shes there accumulating sp**m. Now I wonder what shes going to feed that poor child after weaning it. Maybe na stone she go give am chop.

Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.

Odewaleadesoye:
Congratulations Inter.
But no one can beat my ManCity

xpressionx:
I have a friend who is a ship captain that was been disturbing me to come and join him in his ship,This one of the reasons I bluntly refused.
May there souls RIP.

Going by ur style, lets say every state in Nigeria has 59 tribes......59 × 37 = 2183......Meaning that Nigeria has 2183 tribes.

Wonderful.

lecturer50:
Please house I need an advice.

Ever since I got a federal government job,

my relatives have been disturbing me for money.

There must always be an issue that involves money which they want me to solve.

Recently, my mom become sick.

They are threatening me that I would be held responsible if my mom dies,if I don't make sure she is cured.

But I have taken her to hospitals, and she is trying to recover.

I do this whenever I visit home since I am working in a state far from home.

Her health challenge is due to old age.

But today my uncle called me that I should resign, get back to the village and personally take care of my mom,

failure of which,if she dies, the whole family would hold me responsible for choosing job over my mom.

Can you imagine resigning your federal job to get to the village and start staying?

The calls, the demands, the attacks are getting too much for me.

Please should I just switch off my phone so that no one can contact me?

I just need advice?

Ebuka78:
A river that forgets it source will surely runs dry. You have to help your mum, God gave you that job to support your family.


If it were your girlfriend, you would help her without thinking twice.

You can divide your salary into half, and give your sister to start a Saloon business/ become a hair stylist.

The next salary, you divide it and assist your brothers or brother to open a trade.

In 3 months time, there wouldn't be pressure on you to help the family. It is not good for one person to be rich in a family, let the rich one help others to get rich.

You should send 50% of your last month salary to sustain your mum.


You don't know what she passed through before birthing you. She would never tell you.

Switch of your cell phone and regret it for life.

Send her half of your salary for her health and remain blessed for life.

Nairalanders, I don't need your likes and shares. Just read and pass.

Righteousness2:
I will Have Mercy on who I will Have Mercy,
I will Have Compassion on who I will Have Compassion.
To GOD Be the Glory

Arewa1stSon:
No one should fault decision by our farmers and transporters who decide not to move food to the south.This is the most civilized response to sundry provocations.

Certainly better than retaliations against innocent people.Northerners feel the pinch too, but it is worth it.

Respect the Arewa!!

All you have done in the past one year is to burn down the Northern markets in the Southeast, slaughter the Cows and their herders, burn down Mosques and every Quran in it, chase the North away and take over their Properties.

You killed Northerners in Abia, did we retaliate? NO

You killed Northerners in Imo, Did we return the favour? NO

You attacked Northerners in Enugu, did we come back for return match? NO

You attacked the Notherners in Ondo, did twe attack your people living in the North? NO


You killed and slaughtered many Notherners in Oyo, did we retaliate? NO.

So why are you wailing and kicking because we have now reduced the velocity of our food supplies to the South?

We are NOrTh poor, but poorly managed.

Arewa shall rise again!!

Piboy:
I've always vowed not to ever get married and people think I'm stupid.

It happened last year that people where connecting a record that Kanye West broke to Kardashian struggle but I just dey observe. Now that they are about to break up and Kanye's life is probably about to be ruined, all these people encouraging others to get married by making use of this couple's life as an example are now mute.

Piboy:
I've always vowed not to ever get married and people think I'm stupid.

It happened last year that people where connecting a record that Kanye West broke to Kardashian struggle but I just dey observe. Now that they are about to break up and Kanye's life is probably about to be ruined, all these people encouraging others to get married by making use of this couple's life as an example are now mute.

Nicenancy:
What will u eat

CanadianNaija:
Is pregnancy not 9months? So you weren't saving money for an unexpected event like this all this time? I want to understand why you will get your wife pregnant and except other people to pay your hospital bills.

What will the child eat? Will you beg for that as well? How irresponsible are you?

blinking001:
SERAP should keep their mouths shut. They talk too much. They know nothing about good governance. If borrowing is what's going to make our country move forward then our President must borrow. I'm sure the president Buhari led administration is already working on modalities to pay back these loans. Enough of the wailing already....

donnie:
We just killed this beautifully colored snake moments ago. My staff saw the snake 2 says ago while attending to my dog and ran away shouting Jesus Jesus. Today again he saw it at my backyard and ran away saying it was looking at him. SMH.

This time, we will have none of it. I ran home from my farm and we killed the damned creature. PLEASE young men nor dey fear snake like that o, na falling of hand if you follow your momsie and sister japa.

All priases to YAH. And no, we don't eat snakes, it's an unclean animal.

@lalasticlala

Mokason288:
The Afonja above me is a mumu man ...
The NDLEA has arrested a Nigerian

It should bother you because our collective name is being soiled here ... Anu ofia

I HOPE I MADE SENSE